From friends to lovers

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So, back then, I had just quit my job and was resting at home, so I spent my free time on QQ trying to pick up girls. However, I'm not particularly good-looking, not tall or handsome enough, so I didn't video chat with her; we just chatted gradually after getting to know each other. One day, I met Xiao C (pseudonym). When I look for girls on QQ, I like those with strong personalities, whose interests are evident in their profiles. Xiao C seemed quite outgoing and enjoyed chatting. We started chatting quickly. She was an office lady, but her job wasn't too demanding, though later it became quite busy, haha. So sometimes, if you're lucky, you can meet a girl when she's free; otherwise, it's hard to pick her up. During our chat, we casually mentioned meeting up. I wasn't working at the time, so I said I'd come over for lunch. It was effortless; she immediately agreed. Many friends say it's hard to ask girls out, and you have to find ways to make it feel natural, so the girl has no reason to avoid it. I asked her out for lunch because she wanted to eat, and I wasn't working, haha. We had already talked a lot and I knew she had a boyfriend. If I had directly asked her out for dinner that evening, it probably would have been a disaster.
Our first meeting... well, she wasn't particularly pretty, just average-looking, not disgusting, but that was enough. Every man dreams of having a sexual partner who isn't repulsive. Her lips were thick, but when she wasn't speaking, her mouth seemed small. Later, it turned out, just like the books said, that women like her have thick labia, but tight vaginas, making sex very pleasurable. However, I kept all of this to myself, remaining outwardly calm, like I was meeting a regular friend. For all you guys who can't get a girlfriend, remember this: don't show you're trying to pick her up. My standard was to remain calm and collected before sleeping with her. Now, my standard is that I won't try to please her until we've slept together three times.
The first meal together went smoothly. Then she went to work, and I went home. We ate lunch together two or three times a week. After a week, we were quite familiar with each other, and I felt I should do something. So one lunchtime, I asked to sit with her instead of sitting opposite her. At first, she refused, but after I insisted twice, she finally agreed. Later in the meal, I reached out to hold her hand. She was surprised and immediately pulled away, asking me what I was doing. I just laughed. Actually, that kind of behavior is not good; it's too aggressive. Don't follow my example; it's easy to cause trouble. I was fine because this girl had feelings for me. Later, I tried with other girls, and four out of five relationships ended badly, and I couldn't win over the last one either. Later, on the way down the stairs, I tried to touch her hand again. She pulled away again and got angry, threatening to slap me. She almost hit my eye, but she immediately apologized. This reaction showed she wasn't really angry, otherwise I wouldn't have had the confidence to continue pursuing her.
After a few days of this coldness, she suddenly asked if I would come over for lunch. Of course, I agreed and went over eagerly. She was very happy; perhaps she was unhappy at work. She said she liked chatting with me. That time, I casually sat next to her, and she didn't mind at all. So, it's all about luck. When a woman has needs, it's easy to approach her. Of course, it doesn't mean that just because she needs a man, you can sleep with him—those are two different things, you'll see later. After that day, I could hold her hand casually. On weekends, I started asking her to go to the movies. Movie theaters are great; you can do so many things, haha. I bought couple seats and watched the movie with her. After a while, I hugged her, and she didn't resist at all. So, women need an excuse and a suitable environment. If I hugged her like that on the street or in a restaurant, she would definitely scream. But the movie theater was quiet, full of couples, and we were sitting so close. She had already expected you to hug her. So, if you want to do something to a woman, you first need to find a reason and a suitable environment for her. If you get it right, it will go smoothly.
I was hugging her and I tried to kiss her, but she wouldn't let me. Later, all my sexual partners were like that; they wouldn't let me kiss them. It's probably because they have boyfriends. So, there are some things that women keep separate. They can have sex with you, but they can't kiss you because that's something they reserve for their boyfriends. If she wouldn't let me kiss her lips, I'd kiss her neck. Then, I started touching her breasts. She's an office lady; she usually wears formal attire, so I couldn't tell how big they were until I actually touched them. Then she started refusing to let me touch them, haha. I had to stop and watch a movie while caressing her. But my technique is so-so; I can't get a woman watching a movie aroused just by caressing her. Luckily, she's quite sensitive. Later I found out she actually enjoys sex, and she gradually became aroused, even using my hand to massage her breasts. Haha, I tried to reach inside her clothes to open her bra and touch her breasts, but she immediately got angry and pulled my hand away, only allowing me to touch them from outside her clothes. But that doesn't mean anything. Later I learned that women behave this way for many reasons: one, they're afraid I'll mess up their clothes and they won't look good when the lights are on; two, her bra is very supportive, and if I reach inside to touch her breasts, I'll tear it.
So our dates basically consisted of lunch and watching a movie on the weekend. I would touch her breasts while watching, and after a few times, she slowly started to be willing to kiss me. But for some reason, we didn't feel anything when we kissed. Strangely, I should say, I don't feel anything when I kiss many of my sexual partners, and they probably feel the same way. We rarely kiss except during sex. After watching a few movies, she started to cooperate. She would wear casual clothes to make it easier for me to penetrate, and she would wear a strapless elastic bra so I could easily pull down the straps and touch her breasts directly. Hehe, that's when I realized her breasts were really big, probably a C cup or larger. Hehe, some brothers might disagree, saying that a C cup is nothing. Forgive me, I've been calcium deficient since childhood and have never had many large breasts; I've always been around a B cup. Her nipples were average, but her areolas were very large. This proves that women like this are very horny and enjoy sex.
I then had the opportunity to nurse. It was summer, so it was very convenient. Every time we watched a movie, I would bury my head in my breast and nurse. She was very cooperative, taking off her bra strap so I could nurse freely. Sometimes, when she got really into it, she would moan softly and hold my head tightly, urging me to nurse harder. But even when she was enjoying it, she wouldn't let me touch her genitals. When I suggested going to a hotel, she refused. So, if you want to easily get a woman into bed, it's best to live alone. But we both live with our families, and since she refused, we couldn't get into bed. Many women enjoy sex and might be willing to have sex with you, but as mentioned before, the reasons and environment are crucial. Without these, it's hard to start. And even if a woman enjoys sex, she's not necessarily promiscuous. This girl, C, had sex with her boyfriend about once or twice a month, but her boyfriend was very busy, so she was lonely and asked me to keep her company, but she wouldn't have sex with me.
We went through this casual flinging for a few months, but things remained stagnant. I wasn't in a rush anymore; we were just playing around anyway, though we still chatted often and remained friends. Then one day, luck struck. She was incredibly busy at work, often working overtime, doing mentally taxing tasks. Her boyfriend was also busy and didn't have time for her, even going on a business trip. They ended up arguing and giving each other the silent treatment. For over a week, she ignored her boyfriend, and then he went away again. She was working overtime at home, practically dying from exhaustion, when her computer got a virus. She called me, needing my help, otherwise she wouldn't be able to finish her work. Luckily, no one was home; her parents had gone to the countryside for drinks and wouldn't be back until the next day. I went over immediately, but we'd been maintaining this "going to the movies" relationship for months, and I really wasn't thinking about sleeping with her. We didn't even bring a condom.
I went up to check and found it was a small wooden horse. I killed it with a tool, and then just waited. While waiting, we went to the living room to watch TV. Sitting on the sofa felt like being in a movie theater. I casually picked her up, and she naturally pulled me closer. That's when I realized how amazing it was. She was only wearing a thin nightgown, and her bra was loose. Usually, she wears thick jeans outside, but now I could feel her underwear, and touching her thigh through her pants felt amazing. She reacted immediately, so I pressed her down on the sofa and caressed her. After nursing for a while, she moaned and asked what I wanted. I said I'd go downstairs to buy condoms, but she said no. Seeing her refusal, I continued nursing, and she quickly became aroused, taking off her bra and holding my head so I could nurse. She said my belt was hard and hurt, so I took off my pants, wearing only my underwear, and rubbed my penis against her. After a while, she asked what I wanted again, and I said I'd go downstairs to buy condoms. She still said no. Later, I realized that she said no because she wanted me to keep holding her. I was completely confused and didn't know what to do. She hesitated for a moment and then said that she had just finished her period and was in her safe period, so she should be able to come directly.
Damn, don't say I'm bad, I'd never tried sex without a condom before, and this was my first time. It felt really good. Maybe it's because of the different skin sensation, but it felt like my penis was being sucked in by her vagina, very comfortably enveloped, and there was a warm feeling inside. Later, with more experience, I learned that the warmer that feeling was, the more excited the woman was. But it felt so good that I couldn't control myself. She likes sex hard and fast, and when she was on top, she was twisting and grinding, and I ejaculated after only a few positions. But ejaculating without a condom felt especially good, although she wasn't quite satisfied.
So we rested for a while, and then we did it a second time. Thankfully, I was much better this time. I wasn't as proactive with her, and I specifically looked for positions that were less stimulating for her penis, focusing on control. She was really wild; she moaned very loudly when she was high, and I was afraid the neighbors would hear. Later, with more experience, I realized that some beautiful women are pretty but difficult to get, and it's not fun. Some women are average-looking but very easy to get, and it's very pleasurable. Now I'd rather find women who are average-looking but have good figures and are easy to get with.
After that, we became sexual partners, but not often, about once a month. According to her, my sex skills weren't as good as her boyfriend's; he could last a long time, even until she orgasmed, and he could make her orgasm before he ejaculated—very impressive, and his penetration technique was excellent. So, a woman's infidelity isn't always due to just one reason; many factors play a role. I tried to imitate her boyfriend, but I could only last until she orgasmed, and then I'd ejaculate after a while. But guys, take care of your health, exercise more, and remember that stamina is important, and making a woman orgasm is crucial; otherwise, she won't enjoy sex with you.
Our relationship lasted less than a year. One day she told me that her boyfriend had proposed to her and that she didn't want to continue the relationship, so it ended.

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