Experiences in picking up girls

I've written a few articles about my personal experiences before, and the response was quite good, but I've always been very busy and it's hard to find the time to sit down and write.
Today, I'll briefly share my experiences of meeting women, hoping to offer some inspiration to those new to this field (experienced people can just
laugh off).

Women are human too; they are just as lustful as we men, and some women are even more lustful than men. Even women who
appear are not immune to worldly desires—that's a fact. Lust, the desire for money, the desire for power—all sorts of desires
entangle us every moment. To put it bluntly, if a person has no desires, they are just a corpse.

I'm 37 years old this year, so you could say I've entered a stable period. I've been in contact with women since I was 14, and in nearly 23 years,
I've experienced all kinds of women: fat, thin, tall, short, rich, poor, beautiful, ugly… Last year, out of boredom, I
reminisced about those women; I honestly can't say exactly how many. Unless I have a social engagement, I won't hire a prostitute. It feels very
uncomfortable , and women that can be bought with money are not worth talking about. I'll try to write down and share with you all the women I can remember
(interested readers can search for "Old Gun Memoirs").

To be honest, these days, even when I meet the sexiest and most beautiful women, I don't feel much. It's not that I'm impotent
or anything; the more women I've been with, the more numb I become in that area. I imagine many of you feel the same way. Also,
normal sex doesn't arouse much interest; it always has to involve some mild BDSM. Of course, I don't do pure BDSM; I just
enjoy simple games like hand-binding, blindfolding, and using gadgets. I want to say that if someone becomes obsessed with BDSM, they've
reached their limit. It's like drug addiction; you start by taking puffs, then you keep taking them, and eventually it's intravenous injection. There's only one path waiting for you,
so I always keep my condition under control.

Okay, enough chit-chat, let's talk about how to deal with women.

Let's start with appearance.

When you meet a woman, you must pay attention to your appearance. First, ensure you're neat and tidy. No woman likes a man with sleepy eyes,
nasal hairs, food stuck in his teeth, or dirty fingernails. You can be slightly unkempt, as many women appreciate
a slightly rugged, weathered look. However, don't overdo it.

Women usually notice a man's hair first, so make sure it's clean and neat. It doesn't need to
be fancy, just presentable. She doesn't want dandruff.

Next, shoes. If you're wearing dress shoes, polish them to a shine; if you're wearing sneakers, wash them thoroughly.
Dull shoes will easily remind them of athlete's foot, understand?

As for clothes, casual or formal, just make sure they're clean and neat, ideally reflecting your taste.

On the first date, you can't know what kind of man the other person likes, so practice your observation skills. You've
mastered the art of judging a woman's preferences through her words, actions, and eyes. Of course, Rome wasn't built in a day; it
takes long-term practice. Picking up girls requires strategy; try to understand women's minds.

What? You can't do this? No problem. As you meet more women, you'll gradually become more adept and at
control . Then you can mold yourself into whatever kind of man you want.

"The bold get rich, the timid starve"—this saying is absolutely true.

Why can't many people win over their partners? The reason is simple: cowardice. For example, if you successfully get a date with a woman,
you're halfway there. If you both like each other and get along well, you're just one step away from success. But if you still don't go to a hotel
, it's because you're not bold enough. Being afraid of rejection is a major taboo in picking up girls. Appropriate boldness can greatly increase your chances of success. So what if
you get rejected ? Just find another target. Of course, I'm not telling you to pounce like a hungry wolf, even if you're already mentally
eager to strip her naked.

You can start with simple physical contact. For example, you could stroke her hair and say, "Your hair is so bouncy and looks so
healthy." Usually, women will respond modestly, "Really? No? It's all split ends," etc. Then you can casually stroke
her hand and say, "You really know how to take care of your skin." These things might sound cliché, but they often work. If you use them correctly,
even the most cheesy flattery and praise won't go out of style. However, flattery needs to be done correctly, targeting her strengths. What? She doesn't have
any strengths ? Then what's the point of chatting

? Just leave. If she doesn't mind these gestures, you can take further steps, such as putting your arm around her waist, smelling her hair, or even lightly kissing her ear
to test her reaction. If the date is in a more private setting, you can try more intimate actions, but it's best to proceed gradually
and not be too hasty.

Hints are a good method.

Why are hints a good method? Because women crave respect, and your hints represent respect for her choices. For
example, "Let's find a quiet place to rest?" is better than "Let's go to a hotel." A woman of normal intelligence will immediately understand the
implication. On the surface, "rest" masks "sex." She's simply choosing to rest with you, not to have sex,
thus respecting her reserved nature and achieving a win-win situation. In short, consider the woman's feelings; this is the key to your ultimate success.

Look her in the eye when you speak.

Many people, especially beginners, fail to do this. Shyness often prevents them from looking directly at the other person, which is a major taboo!
As the saying goes , the eyes are the windows to the soul. You can convey your meaning through your eyes, and you can also read the other person's
heart through their eyes—this is an essential skill!

Experienced people know what kind of gaze to use; a deep, affectionate look is worth more than countless sweet words. What if you
can't it? Practice! If deep affection doesn't work, be sincere; if sincerity doesn't work, be reverent. In short, find the gaze that suits you and
further refine it. However, I must warn you, your gaze is a double-edged sword. If you don't handle it well, it can come across as lewd and make you seem like
a pervert. You must control it.

What if you're not as handsome or rich as someone else?

Looks are innate; you can't change them unless you get plastic surgery in South Korea. Handsome guys are certainly more popular, but it's not absolute. Money
is optional; having money is better, but not having it isn't a big deal either. After all, the goal is each other's bodies, so it all depends on how you handle it.

I have a friend whose looks can only be described with one word: clumsy. But he's an absolute expert at picking up girls. He doesn't have much
money, but the girls he gets are all top-tier beauties. Why? Because this guy is incredibly talkative, able to leave girls
speechless , and he has a wide range of knowledge. He can discuss anything from ancient times to the present, from national affairs to women's underwear—
he can talk about anything with great enthusiasm. Therefore, he has a place in our circle of handsome guys, and he's even a core member. So,
you need to discover your strengths and develop your advantages.

Sincerity is a good start.

Although our goal is to sleep with them, we must treat them sincerely. Never show frivolity or unreliability
on your face. Even the most promiscuous woman wants to be treated sincerely. Your sincerity is the foundation for winning her over.

How to tell if someone is interested in you?

This is a point of confusion for beginners, and one they desperately want to know. I've already mentioned looking into the other person's eyes while speaking,
which lays the foundation for this part.

Judging by eyes is indeed difficult, because women are good at disguising themselves and often keep you guessing. If you want to be a successful
hunter, you must learn to catch subtle changes in their eyes. When strangers meet, it usually starts with communication and probing,
until they are gradually attracted to each other, and only then will they have sex. Unless you fall in love at first sight, or have already discussed going straight to a hotel room after meeting online.

If she looks at you intently while you're talking, it means she's at least interested in you. Looking around and
constantly checking her watch is generally not a good sign; you can end it early to avoid wasting too much time. We don't need to
expend so much energy on a prey.

But sometimes a woman who seems indifferent to you will end up going to a hotel room with you. Sometimes a woman who seems very interested in you will
stand you up. Everything changes in an instant, and you have to judge based on experience. It's hard to summarize in a few words; I really don't know how to
explain this.

Everyone's psychological world is different, and it's impossible to list them all here. You need to constantly ponder them. You must believe that as long as
you carefully observe the other person's eyes, you will have unexpected gains. Also, you need to continuously improve your overall level
so that the other person goes from unintentional to intentional.

How to choose topics?

Many friends, when chatting with online friends, start asking about sex-related things after only a few sentences, and boast about
how big their penis is, how strong their sexual ability is, etc. In fact, not all women are interested in these things, and I believe more often than not you will be blocked.
Women like to feel cared for, and only when they feel touched will they take the initiative to get closer to each other. Chatting should also follow a gradual
approach, starting from the edge and slowly approaching, don't rush things.

How to choose the time of day to make your move?

The best time is between 8 pm and 10 pm, which is when hormone secretion is more active, and people are usually more attracted to the opposite sex. The worst
time is 2 or 3 pm, and the success rate is much lower than at night.

What kind of woman is easiest to get?

Women around 30 years old are the easiest to seduce, especially those whose husbands are often away or who are experiencing emotional distress. They usually don't require much
persuasion because they desperately need a man, both physically and emotionally. However, don't think of them as sex addicts; you need to
be friends first, then casual sex partners.

Secondly, there are young girls just beginning to experience sexual awakening. They are still in a stage of curiosity about sex, but you can't be too aggressive with them.
Approach them like an older brother, and then slowly guide them. If you rush things at the beginning, you'll scare them away. Also, you can try using small
gifts to win them over; you might get unexpected results. A few years ago, I mailed a box of chocolates worth 160 yuan to a 19-year-old girl. She was very
touched and asked me out. We went to a hotel that same day, and I only found out later that she was a virgin. I'm not bragging, just stating the facts.
I don't recommend you touch virgins; it's immoral. Even lust has its boundaries; we should try to avoid such irresponsible things.

I strongly advise against getting involved with women around 23 years old. Women in this age group are usually considering marriage, and you could easily get yourself into trouble.
I've had several troublesome experiences with women in this age group. Once, I brought a woman home, and after a couple of nights,
she became obsessed with marrying me, guarding my door and keeping me from going home for days… Anyway, if you're going to have sex, do it in a hotel, and ideally ,
only communicate via WeChat or QQ, don't exchange phone numbers. It's been a long time since I've written anything, and I feel disorganized. Writing during work hours, away from colleagues, is also tiring, so please bear with me. Whether you throw eggs or flowers is up to you. If I have time, I'll write down the women I can remember one by one, so please stay tuned.

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