Four essential aspects of sex you should know

The experience of sexual intercourse brings satisfaction, pleasure, and happiness, prompting further development of sexual love. Throughout the entire process of intercourse, corresponding psychological changes occur along with physiological changes. Each sexual partner experiences these physiological changes differently, resulting in varying degrees of psychological experience; some may find it uneventful, while others experience intense, ecstatic pleasure. This is largely related to sexual ability, experience, and sensation.

Different stages of intercourse bring different psychological experiences.

**Excitement Phase:** Both partners, psychologically prepared for intercourse, experience uncontrollable sexual desire through various stimuli. They feel burning with desire, filled with tension, and their movements become involuntary. Both have a strong desire for genital contact, leading to natural and spontaneous intercourse.

**Plateau Phase:** With the friction of the penis within the vagina, the physical union brings psychological euphoria. Both partners feel incredibly close and dependent, wishing to become one. The psychological experience intensifies alongside the physiological changes. To enhance and prolong this psychological experience, many experienced sexual partners employ various techniques. As the psychological experience intensifies, intercourse becomes involuntary, foreshadowing the approaching orgasm. Couples with excellent chemistry will use various methods to indicate that climax is approaching, infecting each other and achieving orgasm together, sharing the most wonderful moment and feeling in life.

Climax: After continuous struggle, sexual desire accumulates until a strong urge to release arises. At the moment of release, both partners experience an unprecedented pleasure. This feeling varies from person to person, time to time, and place to place. The experience of both partners achieving orgasm together is particularly intense, enough to be soul-stirring, making one feel like they are in heaven. In a sense, this feeling is a manifestation of the death instinct, making one feel that they are willing to die for the moment, and some have paid a heavy price for this. The beginning of a female orgasm is often accompanied by a momentary feeling of suspension and ethereal transcendence. Next, a warm current is strongly felt in the clitoris, gradually spreading throughout the body via the pelvis, finally causing spasms and convulsions of the vaginal muscles, pelvic tremors, reaching the peak of orgasm. During orgasm, a person's perception and consciousness decrease, sometimes resulting in dizziness, and sometimes even fainting due to the intensity of sexual pleasure. Therefore, the sudden cessation of physical tension and complete limpness in women is a sign of orgasm. For men, the onset of ejaculation marks the arrival of orgasm. Approaching ejaculation, an uncontrollable impulse arises, and with the release of semen, one experiences extreme pleasure and satisfaction from the release of sexual desire. For each sexual encounter, the man must reach this state for the union to be considered complete.

Resolution phase: After experiencing orgasm, both partners fully appreciate the joy of intercourse, their sexual feelings are further enhanced, and mutual gratitude arises. They fully understand that love is about giving; the more love you give, the more love you receive. Love is reciprocal, and tenderness is unspoken. Due to differences in physiological responses between men and women, the duration of the resolution phase differs. For men, rest is paramount during the resolution phase after orgasm, or they can immediately engage in other activities. Women, however, are different. After orgasm, the afterglow lingers, requiring further physical and psychological stimulation to achieve sexual fulfillment and genuine satisfaction. Continued caressing during the resolution phase is essential for women; otherwise, they may perceive men as selfish and only seeking their own pleasure. Feelings of abandonment and neglect can diminish a woman's sexual interest.

These are the general psychological manifestations of each stage of successful intercourse. Sexual sensations differ in different situations. For newlyweds, despite premarital sex education and numerous attempts at premarital sex, the wedding night and even the honeymoon remain exciting and alluring for most. Entering marriage for the first time, a long-cherished dream suddenly becomes a reality, leaving one both eager and bewildered. On the wedding night, the groom's nervousness is palpable. The bride awaits his advances, while the groom is anxious about his success. Therefore, on their first night together, the excitement and eagerness of both partners, fueled by the anticipation of that blissful moment, often prevent them from achieving or simultaneously entering the blissful state of love. Generally, even if the first night isn't perfect, as long as there aren't major deviations, both partners will feel satisfied and content with their sexual union, not demanding perfection—a reflection of their love.

In the early stages of marriage, men's sexual desire is greater than women's, but this pattern reverses in middle age, with many women only showing increasing enthusiasm and urgency for sex after many years of marriage. If the marriage is built on love, both partners' sexual desires gradually grow through learning, with regular intercourse leading to physical intimacy and accumulating successful sexual experience, causing women's sexual desire to mature. Women aged 30 to 40 are at their most sexually mature; they feel they have accumulated too much unexpressed passion, thus bursting forth with unprecedented sensuality and desire.

The reason women reach maturity between 30 and 40 is partly because they shed their shyness and dare to express themselves. Most women initially feel guilty about sex, lacking enthusiasm and initiative, and are hesitant to openly express their sexual desires. However, as they reach middle age and youth fades, a sense of urgency arises. They cherish their fleeting youth with renewed passion, becoming more attentive to sex than ever before, boldly seeking previously unsatisfying pleasures. Therefore, women typically overcome all taboos around age 35, reaching a peak in their libido and desire for sexual satisfaction. Secondly, there's the accumulation of sexual experience. With increased sexual activity, they gradually adapt to sexual sensations and experience pleasure and enjoyment. While a harmonious marital relationship may not always lead to intense passion and ecstasy, the initial experiences are often less profound. Thirdly, the relief of many physical and psychological burdens and improved living conditions allow them to dedicate more energy to pursuing sex. Fourthly, a willingness to provide sexual satisfaction to their husbands reduces their tendency to seek emotional fulfillment elsewhere. They are extremely sensitive to whether their husbands' affections have shifted. Entering middle age, women often boldly stimulate their husbands' sexual desire to increase cohesion, a key means of maintaining a happy marriage.

Sexual intercourse is the most direct and effective way to satisfy sexual desire. During intercourse, both partners experience indescribable psychological sensations. These experiences are subtle and magical; the first experience breeds anticipation, making sexual intercourse eternally alluring and ensuring a long and ever-renewing sex life.

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