Urban Romance - Chapter 996 Open-mindedness

In addition, in the long-term propaganda of Chinese culture, Japanese women have become a specific "sexually suggestive" context, often portrayed as submissive to men and possessing a gentle yet strong character, unlike Chinese women who share half the sky with men. This holds a special attraction for Chinese men. Moreover, judging from some online texts and pictures, Chinese people make no attempt to conceal this sexual fantasy about Japanese women.
The abundance of erotic films, nude photos, and even sexually deviant images and texts produced in Japan has led some netizens to believe that Japanese women are the most promiscuous and sexually adept among Asian women, as if almost every Japanese woman is sexually frustrated. This biased and misleading portrayal defines Japanese women as easily seduced sex objects. Furthermore, the tradition of extensive and unreserved sexual descriptions in many Japanese writers and the explicit sexual depictions in Japanese films further exacerbate sexual fantasies. This situation is similar to the sexual fantasies that existed in China before its opening up to the world regarding blonde, blue-eyed Western women, which have now been transferred to Japanese women.
Therefore, Taiwan has had "prostitution tours" to Japan for a long time. Mr. Lin, a broker who has travel agencies in both the United States and Taiwan, said that Taiwan started organizing so-called "tour groups" to Japan to buy sex in the 1970s. This is because Japanese prostitutes are more open, and Taiwanese people like Japanese prostitutes because they are "very dedicated." The prosperity of the Shinjuku area in Tokyo can be said to be closely related to the Taiwanese prostitution tours.
The number of Chinese tourists visiting Japan has increased dramatically in recent years, and so has the number of people seeking out Japanese sex shops. The earliest reported incident was in 1985 when the renowned novelist Zhou Erfu, then vice president of the Chinese People's Association for Friendship with Foreign Countries (a vice-ministerial level official in China), sought out prostitutes in Japan during a visit. After his official visit, he spent four days sightseeing in Tokyo without an invitation from the Japanese side. In his hotel, he watched pornographic programs on closed-circuit television and demanded that a female translator accompany him. He also purchased aphrodisiacs at a pharmacy. In February 1986, the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China decided to remove him from all his party and private posts and expel him from the Party.
Of course, no one can know for sure whether he did it or not, but in any case, Zhou Erfu's interest in Japanese women is evident in this report.
Li Weijie once met a Japanese female student named Reiko who, when talking about her impressions of China, said that her mother, a tour guide for a Tokyo travel agency, was raped by a man from Northeast China while leading a Chinese tour group.
Li Weijie initially thought her limited Chinese expression had caused her to mispronounce "molestation" (a euphemism for sexual harassment) as "rape." After repeated explanations, it was finally confirmed to be rape. According to her, most Japanese people have a negative impression of Chinese tour groups. Another Japanese tour guide, Oku, whom Ma Kai knew, said that it's now difficult for Chinese tourists to have relationships with pure Japanese prostitutes in Japan because those in the industry have an unspoken agreement not to serve Chinese tourists. To some extent, some Chinese tourists now travel to Thailand specifically to buy sex; typical ladyboy shows are no longer appealing. He's even heard of people going to Vietnam to buy sex. As long as this industry exists, in today's globalized world, seeking pleasure is becoming increasingly international.
Japan opened up to the world over a century earlier than China. During the Meiji Restoration in the mid-19th century, when Japan was still practicing foot binding and opium smoking, China was still largely a society where people bound their feet. At that time, Japan had already taken the lead in introducing Western ideas and lifestyles. As an island nation, Japan is densely populated with cramped living spaces—the equivalent of five Hubei provinces' populations living on land roughly the size of two Hubei provinces. Homes are small, and there was little cover-up for sexual activity. Regarding the Japanese awakening to sexuality, some argue that their situation is somewhat similar to the Ming Dynasty in China, a period of highly open urban and secular culture, the era of the urban culture depicted in the novel *Jin Ping Mei*. Therefore, the much-discussed Japanese traditions of mixed-gender bathing and men urinating without privacy are consequences of this close physical intimacy. Even today, Japanese children are educated about the structure of human reproductive organs from elementary school onwards, and their understanding of sexual matters is early. Sex is not a taboo topic in Japan. The combination of Confucian culture and sexual openness has created a peculiar culture of sexual perversion.
The Chinese people have followed a similar path in this regard. They have always been deeply secretive about sex, ashamed to discuss matters of the sexes. This wasn't due to a lack of openness, but rather a rigid adherence to the teachings and restrictions of Confucian culture. The doctrines of "Do not do what is improper, do not listen to what is improper, do not look at what is improper" kept the Chinese people constantly bound by sexual constraints. Even at the height of these Confucian constraints, the system of concubines had been practiced in China for over a thousand years. And when these suppressed emotions and psychological states of the lower classes are liberated to some extent, they become a form of catharsis, a distorted reaction. In recent years, with the opening of China's doors, Western sexual liberation has entered the country, causing the Chinese people to shed their veils of modesty at an unprecedented speed, suddenly becoming one of the most open countries in the world. In every city, one can find alluring brothels, KTVs, bars, and other establishments of prostitution. Even in a hotel in Shangri-La (Diqing), Yunnan, one of the most remote parts of China, I received calls from massage girls. Extramarital affairs, keeping mistresses, and college students working as nightclub hostesses are no longer news. According to reports, even near the walls of Beijing, the capital city, there are so-called "street streets" and similar red-light districts.
In fact, Li Weijie believed that China's level of sexual openness had surpassed that of the United States, and also that of Japan. However, he was too embarrassed to say it in front of Chen Fangfei. The mature and beautiful woman gave a soft snort and said, "You little rascal, did you bring a raincoat?"
Wearing a raincoat? Li Weijie was taken aback for a moment before realizing that Chen Fangfei was asking if he had used a condom. He broke out in a cold sweat. Seeing that the question had already been asked, he hesitated for a moment and honestly answered, "No."
The first time was because Zhao Xiuting was a virgin, and who would use a condom when having sex with a virgin? Wouldn't that be a waste? Today was because it was too rushed, and he wasn't prepared at all. He also reminded Zhao Xiuting to take the morning-after pill, so there was no need to worry about pregnancy.
"What if Xiuting gets pregnant? You two are adults, and as your parents, we won't interfere with your relationship, but you must be careful in that area! Otherwise, Xiuting will have to suffer in the hospital."
Chen Fangfei glared at Li Weijie and said, "I know you're all young, but there's no fun without safety. Everyone must take responsibility for their own safety and be wise about the risks every time. Although this is a serious topic, safety measures don't necessarily have to be a downer."
Even Li Weijie, who was usually thick-skinned, couldn't help but blush at this moment. He coughed and said somewhat awkwardly, "Auntie, I will definitely be careful in the future, but I have never used that thing before and I don't know where to buy it."
Li Weijie was a classic example of blatant lying. He knew his lies couldn't fool Chen Fangfei, this shrewd and beautiful woman, but he just liked talking to her like that.
Chen Fangfei said irritably, "Adult stores on the street sell them."
Li Weijie smiled wickedly to himself and deliberately said, "Auntie, but I'm too embarrassed to go there to buy... to buy this kind of thing. How can I possibly ask?"
"Keep pretending! You, you wait a minute..."
Chen Fangfei stood up and went to her bedroom. She returned shortly afterward, holding a box of beautifully made condoms. With a slight blush on her face, she went back to Li Weijie's side and handed him the box, saying, "You can use this first!"
"Auntie, this is..."
Li Weijie examined the condom in his hand. He was familiar with this product; it was the world's thinnest condom at 0.02cm, offering almost no tactile sensation after use. It was said to be the only condom in the world that didn't use latex, but rather the same material used in artificial brain valve surgery. Its thermal conductivity was six times that of ordinary condoms, and it would never cause allergies. Of course, it was also more expensive, costing 40 yuan each.
"None of your business! Why ask so many questions?"
Chen Fangfei blushed and said, "Xiuting has been in a bad mood these past few days. I've already registered her for university in Europe and made arrangements for her. She's going to Europe next week, so please take some time to spend with her."
Li Weijie said, "Auntie, I will definitely use up this whole box."
Chen Fangfei smacked her lips lightly and said, "You little pervert, you should know to care about Xiuting's life and studies in the future, and not just think about this one thing, or I won't let you off the hook."
Li Weijie said, "Auntie, I'll love Xiuting very much later, but..."
Li Weijie fiddled with the box in his hand and said, "Auntie, I've never used this before, and I'm too embarrassed to ask my friend. How do I use it? Could you teach me?"
"ah……"
Chen Fangfei looked at Li Weijie in surprise. She never expected him to ask such an embarrassing question. How was she supposed to answer it?
Li Weijie looked at Chen Fangfei dismissively and said, "Sister Fangfei, I've never used it before. My girlfriend takes long-term birth control pills, so... I really don't know how to use it."
There are several things to keep in mind when using condoms. Do not keep condoms in a pocket close to your body or near heat sources, as prolonged exposure to heat can cause the rubber to age. The best time to put on a condom is after the penis is erect, before it comes into contact with the vagina or anus. When using a condom, retract the foreskin to increase flexibility and reduce the risk of breakage during intercourse. If the penis stops erect during use or insertion, or if it is put on incorrectly, use a new condom. Use a special condom for anal sex; anal condoms are thicker and more likely to break during anal sex. Do not use expired condoms, as they are more likely to break during intercourse. After ejaculation, even if you are still erect, immediately withdraw the penis from the vagina or anus to avoid unnecessary risks. When withdrawing the penis, hold the base of the condom to prevent it from slipping off. Inexperienced users should practice using condoms in well-lit areas to ensure proper insertion before intercourse. A new condom must be used before each sexual encounter. Condoms come in different sizes; choose the appropriate size based on the size of the penis when erect. If it's too large, it may slip off inside the vagina; if it's too small, it may break, allowing semen to enter. Before use, check the production date and expiration date. Expired condoms have deteriorated and are prone to breakage; they should not be used. Condoms must be stored in a cool, dry environment away from acids, alkalis, and oils. If they become sticky or brittle after exposure to these conditions, they should not be used, even if they are within their expiration date. Carefully tear open the individually sealed packaging; avoid using sharp objects such as scissors.

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