How do you have sex?

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Ask a man, "Do you know how to make love?" He might laugh out loud: "Are you kidding me? Making love, isn't it just having sex? I've been with more women than you've eaten rice." He might also secretly chuckle to himself: "Pshaw! I learned how to make love in middle school, what's so difficult about that?"

Friend! Does an old woman who has cooked her whole life mean her cooking skills are better than a young professional chef?

You can only say her dishes have the flavor of home-style cooking.

China has the largest number of cyclists in the world, but unfortunately, with over a billion people, it doesn't have a single Olympic-level cyclist; nor has it ever manufactured an Olympic-level racing bicycle. The

same goes for sex. You may have marital relations every day, but that doesn't mean you know how to make love.

Making love is an art.

In China, from middle school to university, there are all kinds of subjects, but there isn't a single course that teaches how to make love.

Sexual life, while not your entire life, is a very important part.

How do people acquire knowledge about sex from childhood to adulthood?

Initially, it's gained from whispers among elementary school classmates; or from the hesitant "physiological hygiene common sense" taught by middle school teachers; later, it's learned from handwritten books and romance novels.

In reality, most people pretend not to discuss this beautiful art of sex until problems arise, at which point they seek help from psychologists, gynecologists, or urologists—some don't even bother.

You might acquire this knowledge after adulthood, after having sex with someone of the opposite sex, but it's often not systematic knowledge.

In Europe, America, and Japan, there are schools that specialize in teaching sex, where teachers are absolutely serious, teaching it as a natural science, not as something vulgar.

In China, things are more open now, and some late-night radio programs discuss sex, but most of the speakers are quack doctors with thick accents talking about "trichomoniasis" all day long!

Even if there are true experts, they will only teach you things like "foreplay," what a woman's "G-spot" is, and how a man "controls ejaculation" and "secondary ejaculation," etc. No one will openly teach how to actually have sex.

Although sex is primarily about communication of the heart and isn't bound by any particular method or formula,

learning basic sexual techniques and understanding them is always beneficial for both men and women.

We must understand the different characteristics of men and women: men are sexually impulsive, while women are sexually passive. Ideally,

sex should include: 1. Romantic interaction; 2. Sufficient foreplay; 3. Penetration with "heart"; 4. Sufficient afterplay; 5. Post-coital exploration.

First, interaction before sex.

A woman's foreplay begins the moment she thinks of seeing the man, or the moment she meets him.

--During sex, a woman incorporates the events of the day into her intimacy.

If the man isn't having an affair and is rushing to end the "battle," then give her flowers first!

If you can't afford a bouquet, buy a single flower! Give a woman a small gift when you meet her; take some time, like in many romance novels, to take her for a walk, chat, and give her a warm hug that any woman loves.

Women need these things; without them, they will feel resentful, unless her relationship with the man is essentially a "transaction."

Men, please take some time to spend romantically with women before sex, resonate with her sexual fantasies, and make her incorporate all of that into the sex you share.

Second, sufficient foreplay.

Sufficient foreplay must be very, very sufficient.

Many men rush into sex as soon as they get aroused, and before the woman is even aroused, they spit or something to replace her secretions. How can a woman not feel resentful?

Even if a man can bring her to orgasm, she still won't be satisfied; this kind of orgasm lacks quality.

Because it's only a physical, instinctive orgasm, it doesn't represent her psychological orgasm.

For a woman, her psychological orgasm is more important than her physical orgasm.

A woman's orgasm should be a "complete orgasm," encompassing both "hardware" and "software" aspects—a climax of both body and mind.

Novels often depict men kissing a woman's entire body during sex.

However, men don't need to kiss every part of a woman's body every time they make love; they can substitute by caressing her entire body or kissing her ears, especially sucking on the back of her ear.

The back of the ear is one of a woman's most sensitive areas, and she is easily aroused by words.

Praise her! Even if she's not conventionally beautiful, praise her.

Carefully search the "Chinese Dictionary" for all the most beautiful idioms, and bravely use any of the most cheesy words to praise her; but be careful with your tone of voice, making her feel as if she's in a hazy dream.

Men can crack jokes; don't be as tense as soldiers on drill, lighten the atmosphere!

How can water come out if the tap isn't turned off?

Then, give her a deep, passionate kiss.

Kissing is also an art. Why do many people enjoy a puppy licking their hand? Because its tongue is completely relaxed.

Some men kiss women with stiff, forceful tongues.

What force? It's not a life-or-death struggle.

Try relaxing your lips and tongue; a woman will surely accept a warm, soft, deep kiss.

A woman's neck is very sensitive; gently caress it, then lightly kiss it—don't make it too short or fleeting. However, if it's a clandestine kiss,

it's best to avoid the neck, as it's very dangerous and easily leaves a red hickey—commonly known as "curry chicken," which is very difficult to explain.

Then, kiss the woman's entire body as much as possible, assuming both partners maintain good personal hygiene.

At this point, men should pay attention to the woman's particularly sensitive areas, kissing each other's genitals, perineum, and clean anus.

Try sucking on your lover's toes like a baby nursing; the effect is very good.

In bed, it's best for both partners to avoid saying "no," and try to accommodate each other's new requests whenever possible.

Third, penetrate with your "heart."

Men might find it strange that during sex, the penis is used for penetration, so how can the heart be used?

-- That's right!Insertion is not simply a piston-like motion; it requires a man's "heart" to sense a woman's reaction, using different speeds, intensities, depths, and positions to match hers. Use your "heart" to feel her emotions, synchronizing your passion with hers. 　　Fourth, adequate aftercare. 　　Many men, after finishing, either collapse on top of the woman like a lump of mud and snore loudly, or they turn away, revealing their backside, and fall fast asleep.

Actually, at this point, the woman's feelings aren't over yet.

-- The duration of the afterglow is as long as the preceding ones.

Unless you're capable of putting her to sleep, you need to keep praising her, caressing her, and being gentle with her in every way.

Women are very receptive to sweet words, whether true or false.

Go praise her! Without this, even if a man is as valiant as Sylvester Stallone, and your "little brother" is as hard as an iron rod, no matter how strong or enduring, the woman won't achieve the aforementioned "full orgasm."

Women, besides physical needs, crave even more emotional satisfaction.

Fifth, post-coital research.

After sex, both partners should discuss their respective erogenous zones and methods.

Some men are particularly sensitive to the breasts; some women are particularly sensitive to the inner thighs, waist, or neck—these should be discussed.

Some women are exceptionally aroused by certain environments, such as dim lighting, a special fragrance, or a man's broad, sweaty chest.

Different women also experience different sensations when their genitals are stimulated.

Some women are most aroused by their clitoris; gently rubbing it and licking it at appropriate times is beneficial.

Most women prefer face-to-face positions, which allow for close physical contact, allowing the breasts to touch the man's chest, and maximizing the skin-to-skin contact between both partners.

Some men enjoy women moaning; some prefer certain positions or body parts; some enjoy either sadomasochism or being sadomasochized.

However, all of this must be done with the woman's consent.

Some men are fascinated by a woman's feet; in this case, the woman must ensure her feet are clean, trimmed, and well-maintained.

Men and women must understand each other's sexual preferences—whether they are unusual or perverse—if both are accepting, then go for it!

-- It's not a big deal. If

you don't do well the first time, discuss it and try again; no one can do it perfectly the first time.

Don't be afraid of being "perverted" when it comes to sex!

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