How to make a girl orgasm—! Written by a girl herself (repost)

Let me first talk about a few things guys do that I hate most. Some guys never give girls oral sex, but they expect girls to give them oral sex, or lick them—just a little wetness is enough, or even spit on their hands, smear it on their vulva, and then insert it. Please, that wetness is from saliva, not the girl's natural lubrication. It's so inconsiderate. Even if I thrust for a long time, I hardly feel anything. First, it's psychologically uncomfortable, and second, without even a little stimulation, the vagina isn't sensitive enough.

Many guys say their girlfriends don't like being licked or don't like stimulation. The first reason is that the girl thinks it's dirty, a psychological factor. This requires a lot of communication, or even a little coaxing. Many guys say that if a girl doesn't want to give you oral sex, but you really make her feel good, she'll reciprocate.

If you only use penis thrusting, a woman will never reach orgasm. The best method is to thrust while simultaneously rubbing her clitoris with your hand. Increase the speed as she approaches orgasm. After a while, she will no longer need your hand because she has already orgasmed. Stop rubbing her clitoris then, otherwise she will only experience pain. At this point, if you can further increase the speed of your thrusting during her orgasm (how to tell if she's orgasming is very simple: she'll moan loudly, and her body will move involuntarily), then she is orgasming. At this time, increase the speed of your clitoris rubbing, while maintaining a medium-high speed for your thrusting (to avoid ejaculating or running out of strength later). After she orgasms, don't worry, she will automatically remove your hand without you having to say anything. If you still haven't ejaculated, then increase the speed of your thrusting by 200%. She will definitely moan louder and louder. Therefore, simply using penis thrusting will never lead to orgasm.

The first method I mentioned was to bring a woman to orgasm, guaranteed to make him fall in love with you. Another method is to use your tongue to stick to his clitoris. The technique requires a bit of skill. The best way is to start from the vaginal opening and work your way up to the clitoris, as the vaginal opening also has sensation. However, to bring him to orgasm, you need to shift your tongue and focus on the clitoris (adjust the pressure as needed). Regarding licking the penis, don't lick directly down. If I pulled back the foreskin and licked the glans immediately, many men would cry out! It's too sensitive. So, lick the sides of the penis first, occasionally brushing it, being careful with your teeth, or use a little saliva to cover the penis with your lips, opening and closing them like a fish, or pressing down on the penis with your tongue, using the underside of your tongue instead of the tip (because I can only feel it; men with practical experience, please share). Regularly rub the sides of the penis up and down. Strangely, my right side is more sensitive than my left. When I masturbate, I constantly rub the right side of my penis with my hand instead of directly rubbing the penis.

You could ask your girlfriend to masturbate in front of you, and then you could masturbate together and watch. This way, you can understand what makes him feel good, because some things are hard to explain just by asking.

I'm certain that licking can lead to orgasm, but it's like a girl just using her mouth to make a guy ejaculate—it's quite tiring. But which feels better, a girl using her hand to make a guy ejaculate, or sucking him with her mouth?

I once met a really difficult guy who took 40 minutes to ejaculate. I swear, my masturbation skills aren't too bad. He was a very strange person; he could thrust for two hours straight without ejaculating. He said that in the three years he'd dated his girlfriends, he only ejaculated three times using penetration. He had a large penis, was on the basketball team, and had great stamina, but he just couldn't ejaculate. Having sex with him was an endurance race, going from initial pleasure to pain, to exhaustion, to numbness—it was incredibly unsatisfying, so it's not about how long it lasts. And it was very boring. Towards the end, he said he was hungry and asked me to cook instant noodles, which left me freezing cold.

If you have a free hand, caress the breasts, or use your two fingers to stimulate the vagina, but before inserting two fingers, use one finger first to allow the vagina to adjust. I love it when the guy licks while stirring his finger inside the vagina, like a whisk. Or, with your palm facing outwards, do a cycling motion to stimulate the G-spot. The sensitivity of the G-spot is beyond imagination, so the guy needs to adjust the pressure of his fingers.

When the vagina is aroused, the entire vaginal opening becomes sensitive. At this point, you can reduce the stimulation to avoid the girl being overwhelmed. Cover the vaginal opening with your palm and vibrate. This kind of stimulation can also bring me to

orgasm. Or, you can rub your penis against the opening, especially when the guy is about to ejaculate. You can do this after pulling out, so the girl won't feel like you're about to come, but it will still make her feel good.

Many people say that girls will ask you to stop. I've thought about many reasons, but I basically know that most girls feel like they need to urinate during orgasm, or after it's over. These girls may have the ability to orgasm, but the key point is that they can't handle that overly sensitive feeling, or they feel like they need to urinate and suppress it. This feeling is similar to a man needing to urinate but being unable to.

For those who can't handle it, it can be uncomfortable, just like how some men feel pain when touching their penis after sex, while others don't.

So, when a woman gets too stimulating, she might ask to stop. But when you stop, you can simply stop thrusting, but try the less stimulating method I mentioned earlier. Don't touch the vaginal opening anymore, as it will be uncomfortable, but that's fine. Also, the G-spot on the breasts (if you don't understand, read my "Squirting Woman's Self-Description"), areas that aren't normally major erogenous zones will become very sensitive.

And the worst experience I had was when a guy said, "Hey, you're not wet yet, lick me wet before I put it in." I remember that guy vividly. We were going to continue dating, but his behavior made me think he was incredibly selfish. If a woman isn't wet, it's because the guy didn't try hard enough; why should I be expected to provide such comprehensive service? So we broke up not long after. It wasn't that his bedroom skills were bad, although they really weren't great, but I think his rudeness was the main reason.

There's also the issue of ejaculation occurring without warning. Even if I haven't climaxed yet, and I know guys might not be able to hold back, saying it makes the girl feel more involved, rather than just being a vessel for release. I like it when guys say before they ejaculate, "I'm going to cum, you have to climax with me! I'm going to give you a lot of sperm!" This excites me immensely. It's the same as telling Maggie I love hearing men moan; I love hearing that too. But don't swear. (Remember, no matter how excited a girl is, if she says she can ejaculate inside, you shouldn't, unless she's in her safe period. Respect and equality are the foundation of a relationship and the key to a perfect next time.)

I've met guys who were 183cm tall, but their penises were only the length of a thumb—like using a small glue bottle. Do you understand? So height and penis size really have nothing to do with each other. Size is important, but I've met guys with large penises who didn't provide much pleasure. So technique is still the most important. Do you expect to still have superhuman stamina in your 30s and 40s?

Men's libido starts to decline after 25, but women's libido increases during this period. I hate it when some men emphasize their "gifted" nature but have terrible technique. I feel like these guys only know how to thrust, and they think they're naturally gifted and don't need to work hard.

The men who make me squirt aren't very big, but they don't rely solely on small penises to make me squirt. These two men are around 12-13 cm, with normal girth. One is a bit bigger, 15 cm. He can make me squirt just by thrusting, and our foreplay isn't long, but compared to that, the one with superior technique I'll mention later made me feel better.

One of them is incredibly skilled. His "gifted" nature is average; he lasts very short, and can't even thrust quickly, only for a few tens of seconds. I think if he didn't stop, he'd probably ejaculate in less than ten minutes. But his amazing thing is that he knows he's about to ejaculate and will pull out and rub my vagina. I don't know if other women do this, but when I'm being penetrated, my vagina keeps pushing outwards, like it's pushing the man out. He suddenly pulled out, and because the force pushing outwards suddenly lost its resistance, my fluid gushed out. After I squirted, my vagina became very, very tight. I've often heard people say that during sex, women become looser the more penetration occurs, or that too much fluid makes it slippery and reduces friction. I don't know if that's true, but mine didn't. The bed was already soaked with fluid. My boyfriend was once squeezed so tightly that he squirted out and went limp, I'm so sorry. So at this point, even a penis that wasn't particularly thick or large felt amazing to me.

I really like the rear-entry position, where the woman lowers her body and raises her buttocks, making it easier to hit the G-spot. The rear-entry position also allows for deep, forceful penetration and quick repetition. For the missionary position, try having the woman lie on her side with one leg on the man's shoulder and the other under his foot. This also allows for deep penetration and easy G-spot stimulation.

A woman's erogenous zones and sensitivity need to be developed. Many of my friends didn't experience orgasm when they first started, even in the first few years. This isn't necessarily due to the man's lack of skill or talent; it's just that the body needs time to adjust to certain sensations.

Next, let's talk about the 69 position. 69 is certainly great, but honestly, many women don't like it. Usually, in 69, the woman is on top, and when her vagina is stimulated, she's already exhausted. Maintaining a prone position is difficult enough, let alone performing oral sex. It's impossible to concentrate on enjoying the position. I prefer the man to perform oral sex on the woman first before switching sides. Before penetration, some girls might already be dry. This involves using your penis, moistened with the girl's saliva, to gently rub the vaginal

opening before starting thrusting. This improves the quality of the experience for both partners. It's true that sometimes the girl's scent is stronger, so if you don't like it, you can shower and start foreplay. Even though the man's genitals are exposed, they can still smell. So be empathetic! (But I did encounter one who smelled really bad—not his penis, but the pubic area smelled like body odor. I almost vomited, but I still blew on him. I didn't like the smell, but I couldn't be selfish and suppress it. I just blew on him less often afterward.)

Finally, please don't worry about size or duration. Treat your girlfriend well, be considerate and attentive to her feelings, and make her love you to death. This is much better than a skilled, naturally gifted womanizer who thinks he's a savior of women. Because love is the best aphrodisiac for women. When I give my beloved man a blowjob, just his satisfied sounds and his ecstatic expression make me incredibly wet. There was no kissing or caressing at all. Love alone can't bring a physical orgasm, but during sex, letting your partner feel your love can make them orgasm easily. Once, when I was menstruating, my partner wanted to lick me, but I told him I was on my period. He said it would hurt if I was dry, but he still licked my vulva and the surrounding area. I was stunned. Although the licking only lasted a few minutes, I orgasmed immediately when he penetrated. Many people might find this hard to accept, and even I find it strange. I'm not suggesting you do it this way, but this is a kind of thoughtfulness—thoughtful words and gentle actions—that makes people happy. Remember, there are limits to technique.

Girls remember the guys who brought them to orgasm, and they also remember the awful ones. Which one you choose depends on your own efforts.
Let me first talk about a few things I hate about guys. Some guys never give girls oral sex, but they expect girls to give them blowjobs, or lick them—just a little wetness, or even spit on their hands, smear it on their vulva, and then insert it. Please, that wetness is saliva, not the girl's natural lubrication. It's so inconsiderate. Even if I thrust for a long time, I hardly feel anything. First, it's psychologically uncomfortable, and second, without even a little stimulation, the vagina isn't sensitive enough.
Many guys say their girlfriends don't like being licked or don't like stimulation. The first reason is that the girl thinks it's dirty, a psychological factor. This requires a lot of communication, or a little coaxing. Many guys say that if a girl doesn't want to give you oral sex, but you really make her feel good, she'll reciprocate.
If you only use penis thrusting, a woman will never reach orgasm. The best method is to thrust while simultaneously rubbing her clitoris with your hand. Increase the speed as she approaches orgasm. After a while, she will no longer need your hand because she has already orgasmed. Stop rubbing her clitoris then, otherwise she will only experience pain. At this point, if you can further increase the speed of your thrusting during her orgasm (how to tell if she's orgasming is very simple: she'll moan loudly, and her body will move involuntarily), then she is orgasming. At this time, increase the speed of your clitoris rubbing, while maintaining a medium-high speed for your thrusting (to avoid ejaculating or running out of strength later). After she orgasms, don't worry, she will automatically remove your hand without you having to say anything. If you still haven't ejaculated, then increase the speed of your thrusting by 200%. She will definitely moan louder and louder. Therefore, simply using penis thrusting will never lead to orgasm.
The first method I mentioned was to bring a woman to orgasm, guaranteed to make him fall in love with you. Another method is to use your tongue to stick to his clitoris. The technique requires a bit of skill. The best way is to start from the vaginal opening and work your way up to the clitoris, as the vaginal opening also has sensation. However, to bring him to orgasm, you need to shift your tongue and focus on the clitoris (adjust the pressure as needed). Regarding licking the penis, don't lick directly down. If I pulled back the foreskin and licked the glans immediately, many men would cry out! It's too sensitive. So, lick the sides of the penis first, occasionally brushing it, being careful with your teeth, or use a little saliva to cover the penis with your lips, opening and closing them like a fish, or pressing down on the penis with your tongue, using the underside of your tongue instead of the tip (because I can only feel it; men with practical experience, please share). Regularly rub the sides of the penis up and down. Strangely, my right side is more sensitive than my left. When I masturbate, I constantly rub the right side of my penis with my hand instead of directly rubbing the penis.
You could ask your girlfriend to masturbate in front of you, and then you could masturbate together and watch. This way, you can understand what makes him feel good, because some things are hard to explain just by asking.
I'm certain that licking can lead to orgasm, but it's like a girl just using her mouth to make a guy ejaculate—it's quite tiring. But which feels better, a girl using her hand to make a guy ejaculate, or sucking him with her mouth?
I once met a really difficult guy who took 40 minutes to ejaculate. I swear, my masturbation skills aren't too bad. He was a very strange person; he could thrust for two hours straight without ejaculating. He said that in the three years he'd dated his girlfriends, he only ejaculated three times using penetration. He had a large penis, was on the basketball team, and had great stamina, but he just couldn't ejaculate. Having sex with him was an endurance race, going from initial pleasure to pain, to exhaustion, to numbness—it was incredibly unsatisfying, so it's not about how long it lasts. And it was very boring. Towards the end, he said he was hungry and asked me to cook instant noodles, which left me freezing cold.
If you have a free hand, caress the breasts, or use your two fingers to stimulate the vagina, but before inserting two fingers, use one finger first to allow the vagina to adjust. I love it when the guy licks while stirring his finger inside the vagina, like a whisk. Or, with your palm facing outwards, do a cycling motion to stimulate the G-spot. The sensitivity of the G-spot is beyond imagination, so the guy needs to adjust the pressure of his fingers.
When the vagina is aroused, the entire vaginal opening becomes sensitive. At this point, you can reduce the stimulation to avoid the girl being overwhelmed. Cover the vaginal opening with your palm and vibrate. This kind of stimulation can also bring me to
orgasm. Or, you can rub your penis against the opening, especially when the guy is about to ejaculate. You can do this after pulling out, so the girl won't feel like you're about to come, but it will still make her feel good.
Many people say that girls will ask you to stop. I've thought about many reasons, but I basically know that most girls feel like they need to urinate during orgasm, or after it's over. These girls may have the ability to orgasm, but the key point is that they can't handle that overly sensitive feeling, or they feel like they need to urinate and suppress it. This feeling is similar to a man needing to urinate but being unable to.
For those who can't handle it, it can be uncomfortable, just like how some men feel pain when touching their penis after sex, while others don't.
So, when a woman gets too stimulating, she might ask to stop. But when you stop, you can simply stop thrusting, but try the less stimulating method I mentioned earlier. Don't touch the vaginal opening anymore, as it will be uncomfortable, but that's fine. Also, the G-spot on the breasts (if you don't understand, read my "Squirting Woman's Self-Description"), areas that aren't normally major erogenous zones will become very sensitive.
And the worst experience I had was when a guy said, "Hey, you're not wet yet, lick me wet before I put it in." I remember that guy vividly. We were going to continue dating, but his behavior made me think he was incredibly selfish. If a woman isn't wet, it's because the guy didn't try hard enough; why should I be expected to provide such comprehensive service? So we broke up not long after. It wasn't that his bedroom skills were bad, although they really weren't great, but I think his rudeness was the main reason.
There's also the issue of ejaculation occurring without warning. Even if I haven't climaxed yet, and I know guys might not be able to hold back, saying it makes the girl feel more involved, rather than just being a vessel for release. I like it when guys say before they ejaculate, "I'm going to cum, you have to climax with me! I'm going to give you a lot of sperm!" This excites me immensely. It's the same as telling Maggie I love hearing men moan; I love hearing that too. But don't swear. (Remember, no matter how excited a girl is, if she says she can ejaculate inside, you shouldn't, unless she's in her safe period. Respect and equality are the foundation of a relationship and the key to a perfect next time.)
I've met guys who were 183cm tall, but their penises were only the length of a thumb—like using a small glue bottle. Do you understand? So height and penis size really have nothing to do with each other. Size is important, but I've met guys with large penises who didn't provide much pleasure. So technique is still the most important. Do you expect to still have superhuman stamina in your 30s and 40s?
Men's libido starts to decline after 25, but women's libido increases during this period. I hate it when some men emphasize their "gifted" nature but have terrible technique. I feel like these guys only know how to thrust, and they think they're naturally gifted and don't need to work hard.
The men who make me squirt aren't very big, but they don't rely solely on small penises to make me squirt. These two men are around 12-13 cm, with normal girth. One is a bit bigger, 15 cm. He can make me squirt just by thrusting, and our foreplay isn't long, but compared to that, the one with superior technique I'll mention later made me feel better.
One of them is incredibly skilled. His "gifted" nature is average; he lasts very short, and can't even thrust quickly, only for a few tens of seconds. I think if he didn't stop, he'd probably ejaculate in less than ten minutes. But his amazing thing is that he knows he's about to ejaculate and will pull out and rub my vagina. I don't know if other women do this, but when I'm being penetrated, my vagina keeps pushing outwards, like it's pushing the man out. He suddenly pulled out, and because the force pushing outwards suddenly lost its resistance, my fluid gushed out. After I squirted, my vagina became very tight. I often hear people say that during sex, women become looser the more penetration occurs, or that too much fluid makes it slippery and reduces friction. I don't know if that's true, but mine didn't. The bed was already covered in fluid. My boyfriend was once squeezed so tightly that he was forced out and went limp, I'm so sorry. So at this point, even a not-too-thick or-large penis feels amazing to me.
I really like the rear-entry position, where the woman lowers her body and raises her buttocks, making it easier to hit the G-spot. Also, the rear-entry position allows for deep penetration, strong thrusts, and quick movements. For the missionary position, try having the woman lie on her side, one leg on the man's shoulder, and the other under his foot. This also allows for deep penetration and easy G-spot stimulation.
A woman's erogenous zones and sensitivity need to be developed. Many of my friends didn't experience orgasm when they first started having sex, even in the first few years. It's not necessarily because the man's technique or talent is lacking; it's just that the body needs time to get used to certain sensations.
Next, let's talk about the 69 position. 69 is certainly great, but honestly, many women don't necessarily like it. This is because in 69, the woman is usually on top, and when her vagina is stimulated, she's already exhausted. Maintaining a prone position is difficult enough, let alone providing oral sex. It's impossible to concentrate on enjoying the position. I prefer the man to provide some oral sex first, then switch roles. Before penetration, some women may already be aroused, so I use my penis, moistened with the woman's saliva, to gently rub the vaginal opening before starting thrusting.
This improves the quality of sex for both partners. It's true that sometimes the woman's scent is stronger, so if you don't like it, you can shower and start foreplay. Even though the man's genitals are outside, they still have a scent. So, have empathy! (But I did encounter one who smelled really bad—not from his penis, but from his pubic hair, which smelled like body odor. I almost threw up, but I still blew on him. Although I didn't like the smell, I couldn't be too selfish and suppress it. I just blew on him less often after that.)
Finally, everyone, please don't worry about size or time. Treat your girlfriend well, be considerate and caring about her feelings, and make her love you to death. That's much better than a womanizer who's technically skilled, naturally gifted, and has one-night stands everywhere, thinking he's a savior for women. Because love is the best aphrodisiac for women. When I blew on my beloved man, just his satisfied sounds and his expression of wanting to die made me incredibly wet. There was no kissing or caressing though. Love alone can't bring a physical orgasm, but during sex, letting your partner feel your love can make them orgasm anytime. Once, when I was menstruating, my partner wanted to lick me before we made love. I told him I was menstruating, but he said it would hurt if I stayed dry, and he still licked my vulva and the surrounding area. I was stunned. Although the licking only lasted a few minutes, I immediately orgasmed when he penetrated me. Many people might find this hard to accept, and even I find it strange. I'm not suggesting you do it this way, but it's a kind of thoughtfulness—thoughtful words and gentle actions—that makes people happy. Remember, there are limits to technique.
Women will remember the guys who gave them orgasms, and they will also remember the bad ones. Which one you want to be depends on your own efforts.

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