Tips for booking a hotel room with an online friend

We modern young people want to fully enjoy the thrill of fast-paced romance, and online chatting is a quick way to do that!
After a successful initial contact (usually getting her phone number), the next step is to arrange a meeting. Whether she'll agree depends on the girl's mindset.
She might be interested in you but not necessarily go out (she might have a boyfriend). She might not be interested but still go out (just for a meal). Therefore, when arranging a meeting, you must make certain arrangements to filter out those who aren't interested.
First, we filter by time and place.
The time and place of the date are key factors in whether or not you'll end up sleeping together, so these two aspects must be carefully planned.
For time, it's best not to arrange it too late. If it's dinner, try to arrange it around 5:30 or 6:00 PM. Arranging it too late might interfere with post-dinner activities.
For location, it's best to arrange it near a casual encounter place (home or a hotel). This makes it easier to find an excuse to take her home.
(I personally suggest having afternoon tea, then going home for sex, then having dinner at a restaurant, and then seeing her off. It shouldn't be later than 8:00 PM, so you can still go back to your wife or girlfriend.)
During the process of arranging a meeting, the man must maintain control.
For example, you could ask someone out by saying, "I'm free tomorrow afternoon around 3 or 4 pm, would you like to chat?"
If she's interested in you, she'll be willing to go with your time and place; if she's not, she won't bother. You can try asking the same girl a few times. If she's still unwilling to go, she probably isn't interested.
Don't be too rigid about time and place; each girl's level of interest and conservative nature will influence the outcome. I can only use the most basic approach.
Secondly, use sexual flirting to filter potential partners after the date.
What is sexual flirting? Sexual flirting is physical contact before sexual intercourse. For example, touching hands, hair, or ears. Sexual flirting is essential during a date. This is a crucial factor in determining whether a girl is willing to sleep with you. Whether it's dinner or tea, you should engage in sexual flirting. If you're afraid of being seen as a pervert and don't dare to make a move, or if you want to be a gentleman, then don't even think about having sex. Since you're paying for a date, you should expect something in return. If he rejects your sexual advances, that's not a bad thing. At least you know he's not interested, and you don't need to spend money or time asking him out. If you're always hesitant to make a move when you ask a girl out, you're not only wasting money, but you'll also make girls who were initially interested in you lose interest.
So, the earlier you test the waters, the better.
However, sexual advances shouldn't be too direct or aggressive. It's best to use subtle, gentle methods, using seemingly innocuous excuses. For example, say things like, "Oh, don't move, there's something in my hair," or "Your fingers are so long." A girl who's interested in you will cooperate. You can then test the waters with more exaggerated physical contact.
Never use a confession-style approach. Saying things like, "I really like you, I care about you, be my girlfriend," will scare her away.
(Again, this article is about picking up girls, not dating).
These two methods can basically filter out girls you won't have a chance to sleep with—I'm talking about those you won't have a chance to sleep with in the near future.
Once you've reached this stage, you can start thinking about how to take the girl to a place where you can have sex during the date. Some people have sex parlors, some don't, but whether you take her home or to a hotel, the girl needs a reason. The unspoken meaning of this reason is "Let's have sex." However, saying this directly to a girl will scare her away. We can only persuade her with a reason that isn't a reason. Every girl understands what you mean and is willing to have something with you, so any reason will do. If she's not interested in you, nothing you say will work. Here are some silly examples for reference:
"I want to buy water." "I have plenty of water at home, come to my house to drink."
"My house is right next door, let's stop by for a bit, I'll take you home later." (The most common one)
"Let's go to my house to watch VCDs."
"I forgot something, come back with me to get it."
"I'm so tired, there's a hotel nearby, let's rest for a while."
"I heard that ** Hotel is very beautiful, do you want to go see it?"
Sometimes, persuading a girl to go back is already the process of persuading her to sleep with you.
Let's take another example for translation.
"Come upstairs for a bit" (Let's go to my place for some sex).
"It's too late, that's not a good idea." (Reserved)
"I'll go upstairs to get something and then take you home, it'll be quick." (Come on, let's have sex).
"Then I'll wait for you here." (Still hesitant).
"Just come upstairs, otherwise I'm worried about you waiting alone here." (What are you hesitating for? Let's have sex!)
"What floor do you live on?" (A little wavering).
"Fifth floor, but not high." (Come on, what are you waiting for?)
"Then I'll wait for you at the door." (Convinced).
Note: Later, the girl didn't wait at the door; she was only taken home after finger sex (two hours after the first date).
This is a very subtle skill; many situations can change, and you have to judge for yourself.
If you can take the girl home, there's a 50% chance you'll satisfy your needs, but there's still a 50% chance of uncertainty. We still need to handle it carefully. Generally speaking, if she has already accepted your excessive sexual advances outside, we can be sure we can get to the point quickly. If it's more average, then some more effort is needed. Now let's talk about a more general situation. Sometimes you'll encounter girls who are too naive; they genuinely believe they're going to your house to listen to music or watch TV. Whether they truly don't understand or are pretending, we need to convince them through actions. So what actions should we take?
I believe it's still sexual teasing, but a more advanced form, such as kissing or caressing. We should still approach it gently, without strong aggression—otherwise, being accused of rape would be a serious problem. For example, when a girl is looking at your bookshelf, CD rack, or out the window, secretly kiss her from behind, perhaps on her hair, ear, or back of the neck. This approach from behind makes the girl feel less pressured. Often, she won't realize you're going to make this move, leaving her unsure how to react and silently accepting it. If she doesn't refuse, you can be bolder until you satisfy your needs. One thing to note when using this approach is not to stick to the order of kissing, touching breasts, or genitals. Sometimes, a woman lacks confidence in a certain part of her body and will reject your touch there. At this point, you should take a different approach and target her areas of confidence. For example, if she has small breasts, attack her lower body; if she has large breasts, avoid kissing. It's important to note that a girl's willingness to accept your advances doesn't necessarily mean she's willing to have sex with you. We're exploiting her uncertainty to arouse her most primal desires. Sometimes, at crucial moments (sometimes during a passionate kiss, sometimes before taking off her underwear), she'll suddenly snap out of it and push you away. This might be because she's thinking about her boyfriend or about morality. In such situations, girls desperately need a reason to convince themselves. This reason might be completely unimportant to us or them, but they absolutely need it. Don't even think about taking off her underwear until you overcome this hurdle. So what kind of reason does a girl need?
I believe she needs a reason that you "respect her, like her, and love her." Sometimes a girl is afraid of being taken too quickly and acts coy. Sometimes it's reluctance. Sometimes it's about morality. Whatever the situation, just express your affection sincerely. Girls usually ask:
"What are you thinking right now?"
"What do you take me for?"
"Don't you think it's too fast?"
"Do you like me?"
There's only one correct answer:
say what she wants to hear (pay attention to this sentence).
She asks, "Do you love me?" You can only answer "I love you." A wrong answer, and she'll definitely kick you out immediately.
Here are a few correct answers:
1. I don't know why? I couldn't control myself the moment I saw you. I think I've fallen in love with you. Otherwise, I wouldn't have done this. You know I'm a highly educated person; I'm not usually like this.
2. I know you're a very good girl, and I'm very serious. It's just that I like you so much that I did this.
3. Of course I like you, is that even a question? From the first moment I saw you, I felt you were special, unique, and maybe that's when I started having feelings for you.
Don't underestimate these few sentences; these are valuable experiences I've accumulated over the years from making many mistakes. In the clever answers to the question of undressing her, answering one wrong question might make her put her clothes back on and run away.
Once, a girl asked me, "Do you love me?"
I answered, "Maybe."
She said, "Then it won't work."
Back then, I was naive and thought I shouldn't deceive someone with my feelings, so I couldn't say those three words.
(At that time, she was willing to let me suckle and touch her breasts, but she wouldn't let me have sex.)
Later, I realized: Don't you love her body? "At least for that moment, it was love." I was filled with regret.
Another time, she took off her tight jeans, and we hugged on the bed. I slowly teased her and took off her underwear. Before penetration, while I was getting a condom, she suddenly pushed me away, started crying, and said I wanted to rape her.
She immediately put her pants back on and left. Damn it! She was the one who took off her tightly-fitting jeans, yet she accused me of rape. This was all because I didn't give the girl the reason she wanted. If you don't give her a reason to convince herself, and she's bound by morality, she'll definitely run away in the end. You have to understand, our enemy isn't the girl, but thousands of years of traditional Chinese culture. This huge shackle tightly binds everyone, and until they understand, you can only go along with their wishes and give them a reason to convince themselves. Sometimes, at crucial moments, you can't convince her and let her slip away. You'd better treat her with great care and consideration; one day she'll understand and come back to you.
You're probably thinking, is it really that simple to take her to bed?
Theoretically, it is. In my own and my friends' experiences, having dinner with a girl is practically a guarantee of sleeping together. This is because we assume mutual attraction and aim to meet or uncover the girl's needs. It's a way of satisfying each other's desires, driven by modern societal expectations. This approach is similar to those who seek one-night stands at clubs and discos. The only difference is that those who go to clubs have already overcome their moral barriers. We, on the other hand, help them overcome these barriers, arousing their most primal desires. Then, naturally, it leads to sex. And after sex
? Of course, it's about getting out of bed. However, this topic is too broad, so it's necessary to limit the discussion. In a narrow sense, "getting out of bed" means leaving the woman. In a broader sense, it means maintaining a relationship with the girl that doesn't disrupt one's existing life.
Generally, male-female relationships can be categorized into three types, from short to long: one-night stands, short-term relationships, and long-term relationships. These three types of relationships stem from a man's feelings for a girl. For most people, the more they like a girl, the more they want to maintain a long-term relationship. Therefore, I believe that getting out of bed only happens with a girl who arouses your physical desire but isn't someone you truly like. If you meet someone you really like, you'd be too busy trying to maintain the relationship to even think about running away.
(Perhaps it might also happen when you get tired of her or meet a better girl?)
Of course, I believe that a man only has a few opportunities in his life to sleep with his perfect woman.
If you do, don't run away. This kind of woman is rare and hard to find. If you miss her, it'll be hard to find her again. Whether you want to maintain a relationship with a girl that won't disrupt your existing life or you want to dump her,
it's best to establish a few principles before getting into bed.

1. Take control, 2. Don't give any hope, 3. Explain your situation, 4. Never say goodbye.
If you can do these things, getting out of bed will be easier.

Below, I will explain these four points.

1. Take control.
I have already discussed the steps of dating above.
When dating a girl, the man must take control. Don't underestimate this point, because taking the lead is closely linked to getting out of bed. If the man can take the lead in the early stages of dating, he can control the time and place of future dates. If the girl asks to meet, even if you are free, you should deliberately refuse and ask the girl to accommodate your schedule. When this pattern becomes a habit between you, the girl will not be able to disrupt your original routine. If she can accommodate, you will not feel the urgency to break up immediately; if she cannot accommodate, but you are firm in your attitude and show that you are sincerely asking her to accommodate, she will have no choice but to leave.

2. Do not give any hope.
In the process of dating, sweet words are inevitable. But remember to never give the girl any expectations for the future. Whether the girl's initial purpose in dating you is affection or sex, after spending a long time together, the girl will inevitably have expectations for the future. Even if she does not need you to give her a future, in order to prove her charm or out of insecurity, she will unconsciously talk about what will happen between you in the future. At this time, you must resolutely cut off the girl's thoughts. Admittedly, this will definitely make the girl unhappy for a while. But to avoid causing her even greater pain when she's dumped, you absolutely must do this. If you're married, you especially shouldn't offer the girl the hope that she'll get a divorce in the future. This will only hurt yourself.

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