How to hook up from a woman's perspective

Today I'm going to talk about the taboos in casual sex, and as a woman, I'll let you understand how women think. I'll also briefly explain some of the controversies surrounding the first article. Enough with the preamble,
let's get to the point. The first taboo is being too hasty. Recently, I suddenly discovered that QQ's "People Nearby" function has been enhanced; it can find people dozens of kilometers away. As a result, more and more people are finding me through this function, their purpose, naturally, to hook up with girls. Some of these conversations are pleasant, while others are extremely annoying. The biggest problem is
being too hasty. Common issues include: 1. The first question is "Want to hook up?" I really don't know what people who say this are thinking. Even if I desperately need it, even if my sheets are soaked with lust, I wouldn't just hook up with anyone. The reason is simple: how am I supposed to know who you are? Getting laid is a small matter; personal safety is a big deal. Asking this is like sentencing yourself to death! Besides, is this any different from asking a prostitute "How much?" Are you trying to hook up with a decent woman or a prostitute?
2. Constantly asking for photos. Never ask for photos of people you don't know well, otherwise you'll either get blocked or receive a fake one. The reason is simple: I'm not a prostitute in a karaoke bar, you can't just show me how pretty I am and then take me away. This kind of transactional behavior is very unpleasant. The correct approach, as mentioned in the first article, is to invite her out in person. If you're satisfied, continue; if not, treat her to some late-night snacks or juice. If you don't even have this much courtesy, you deserve to be a virgin at 40.
3. Sending video or voice messages. Sending video or voice messages without the other person's consent is unnecessary and disrespectful. It gives a similar impression to point two, and you deserve to be blocked. The
second taboo is arrogance. Some guys have good qualities, such as a big penis, good financial conditions, or good looks, but they still have difficulty hooking up with the women they like. This is because they've committed the second taboo—arrogance.
I've encountered this many times: someone adds you as a friend and immediately says, "Hey beautiful, my dick is huge, want me to satisfy you?" If you agree to meet this kind of friend, you'll be blocked. Why? First, just because your dick is big doesn't mean I have to let you have my way with me! Second, you're not the only one with a big dick, do you think I can't live without you? I once heard a joke: a boy unzips his pants and says to a girl, "I have this, but you don't"; the girl smiles, unzips her pants, and says, "If I have this, you can have as many as you want." Do you understand what I'm trying to say?
In reality, hooking up has little to do with your physical attributes. Very few people will sleep with you just because your dick is big. Of course, being handsome can be a plus, but it's not essential. Therefore, throughout the hookup process, you must remain low-key. Even if you don't get a hookup, don't lose your composure. You already have something; opportunities will come. In fact, casual sex and dating have similar but opposite processes. Dating satisfies psychological needs, while casual sex satisfies physical needs. If you can make her like you and willingly strip naked, that's ideal; otherwise, there's no need. I've heard men privately advising young boys on how to pursue girls, many saying, "To win a girl's heart, you must first enter her body." I've been tricked by this many times before, and now I think it's true. Casual sex is exactly the opposite: to get her body, you must first enter her heart. Some might ask, does casual sex mean she has to like you first? That's too difficult! No, no, no! Entering her heart means making her lower her guard and trust you; this takes time and action. When I meet someone, I never arrange to meet at a hotel and go alone. This is because I lack security. Who knows if there are other people in the hotel besides you? Are you a wanted criminal?
The third thing to avoid is giving up easily. Girls have their limits. Only "fallen women" are truly open to sleeping with you. Don't give up easily after failing to get a date once or twice. You need to find out why she rejected you. If she clearly shows her dislike, she'll naturally block you. If she can still talk to you, even about philosophy or the weather, you should be happy because you still have a chance.
Fourthly, avoid underestimating yourself. Many fans have asked me if it's impossible to date pretty girls if you're not good-looking. I think that's underestimating yourself. You can date pretty girls even if you're not good-looking! Here are a few reasons:
1. What attracts girls most isn't looks. Looks can certainly add points in a relationship, since everyone appreciates beauty. Just like you hope to date a beautiful woman, if I were with a handsome guy like wlh, I'd probably reach orgasm faster. But there's only one wlh, and so far, he hasn't touched me! Therefore, don't think that looks play a big role in casual sex. Even in relationships, there are beauty-and-beast stories.
2. If I'm satisfied with a casual sex session, we can develop the relationship; if not, it's just for one night. It's not about a long-term relationship. How important are your looks to me?
3. The most important thing in casual sex is security. You can make me feel safe enough to strip naked. That's the most important thing, because safety is paramount. Therefore, it doesn't matter if you're not good-looking, the key is that you're kind
. And don't be ugly and pretentious, dressed like a shady character, and smell bad from a kilometer away. 4. What attracts women most about men is their temperament. First, focus—focus on career, on love, on me. Your meticulousness is what makes me feel safe. Second, confidence. A confident man has warm eyes, confident but not arrogant. That's what makes a man charming.
Fifth, avoid asking too many detailed personal questions. Some men are filled with curiosity, not only wanting to have sex with her to produce eight hundred million offspring, but also wanting to know why this woman ended up in their bed. So, they immediately ask: Which neighborhood do you live in? Which company do you work for? ...Damn! (Please forgive my profanity), are you interrogating her? Don't you know "curiosity killed the cat"? Right now, you should be thinking about sleeping with her. Once you get to know her, she'll naturally tell you when she wants to. Why make things difficult for yourself?
Sixth, avoid being too direct. First impressions are crucial for casual sex, for both men and women. Don't be too direct with your questions; acting like an idiot won't work. You need to analyze her words to get the information you want. For example:
Man: Still awake so late?
Woman: Yes. (Either lonely or troubled)
Man: Where's your husband?
Woman: Not home. (Most likely lonely, lovesick.)
Man: What are you doing now?
Woman: I'm lying in bed unable to sleep. (Isn't this just being lovesick?)
Man: I can't sleep either. Want to go out for something to eat and drink? (Want to hook up? Let me fuck you good!)
Woman: Sure, I heard the snacks in XX place are delicious. (That's what I was thinking too, let me check it out first.)
This is a successful approach, and it's the most acceptable to women. Here's another example.
Man: Still awake so late?
Woman: Yes. (Either lonely or troubled.)
Man: Where's your husband?
Woman: Not home. (Most likely lonely, lovesick.)
Man: What are you doing now?
Woman: I'm lying in bed, can't sleep. (Isn't this just being lovesick?) Man
: I can't sleep either. Want to go out for something to eat and drink? (Want to hook up? Let me fuck you good!) Woman:
No, I don't want to eat. (I want you to fuck me, but I don't trust you.)
Man: Okay, then I'll talk to you, and I'll sleep after you fall asleep. (I'll save my four hundred million offspring for you, and give you eight hundred million all at once next time.)
In this example, the man's approach was better; he knew when to back down and give himself a chance. The mistake was asking too directly, like asking, "Are you lonely?" when her husband isn't home. This is unnecessary and shows a lack of understanding of women's feelings. Even more pathetic is when some men, after a woman has indicated she doesn't want to eat, forcefully ask, "If you don't want to eat, let's go to a hotel?" Is going to a hotel for "sitting"? It's for "doing," isn't it? I've already told you I don't trust you to have sex today, and you still do this? Do you have some ulterior motive?

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