Incest Healing

Since her divorce, Lin Yulan has lived with her son alone.

One summer night, Lin Yulan dried her wet hair in the bathroom, put on a light blue bra, and her full breasts created a deep cleavage. She couldn't help but twist her body twice in front of the mirror, her rounded buttocks firm and shapely. In the living room, Lin Yulan's son, Li Xiaojian, lay lazily on the sofa watching TV, shirtless and wearing shorts.

Ten days earlier, Li Xiaojian had been detained for harassing a girl at a bar with his friends. When Lin Yulan brought him home, he was dejected. Lin Yulan was filled with self-reproach. He was only 17 years old, still a child.

Lin Yulan talked with Sister Li, a good friend of hers, until late. Sister Li listened to Lin Yulan's tearful complaints. She said, "I heard about someone a few years ago whose son used to be just like yours, always fighting and causing trouble, which worried her terribly. Apparently, she found a female doctor at the provincial medical college for psychological counseling for a while, and suddenly her son became more sensible, his grades improved, he got into a good university, and now he's married and settled abroad." Yulan said, "Whether he goes to university or not doesn't matter anymore, as long as he doesn't cause trouble, I'll be thankful." Sister Li said, "Yes, you can hand over your shop to him in the future; as long as he can manage it well, that's fine." After much effort, Lin Yulan learned that the professor was Associate Professor Shao Qin from the provincial medical college. Sister Li suggested that Lin Yulan consult her online first, and if she felt it was helpful, then she could make an appointment at her clinic. Early Sunday morning, Lin Yulan sent an email to Dr. Shao Qin, detailing her family and child's situation, hoping she could provide a solution.

It wasn't until 9 pm that Lin Yulan finally received a reply. Dr. Shao asked Lin Yulan to add her on WeChat, meaning she was very interested in Lin Yulan's son's situation and wanted to learn more about it.

Lin Yulan was naturally delighted and immediately sent a friend request. She accepted instantly and sent Lin Yulan a message: "Hello, Ms. Lin Yulan."

Lin Yulan replied: "Hello, Dr. Shao."

Dr. Shao: "I've looked at the materials you provided. You're forty-two years old this year, two years older than me, so I'll call you Sister Lin."

Lin Yulan: "You're too kind."

Dr. Shao: "I've looked at your materials. The situation is quite serious. From a sociological perspective, it's already at the starting point of a dangerous phase. We must take measures to reverse it now, otherwise it will be too late."

Lin Yulan: "Yes, I know. I'm very worried. So please, you must find a way.

" Dr. Shao: "Since you're so determined, I'll provide you with a detailed treatment plan."

Lin Yulan: "I feel much more at ease knowing that."

Dr. Shao: "Let's work together. Of course, you can't be overly optimistic; changing a person is very difficult. Children's psychological changes fluctuate greatly, so you must be prepared to overcome difficulties. Also, the treatment may sometimes be effective and sometimes not, with relapses; you must understand this."

Lin Yulan: I'll listen to you. As long as I can correct my child's behavior, I can overcome any difficulties.

Dr. Shao: That's the right way to think, Sister Lin. Let's stop here for today. When you have time, send me detailed information about your child and yourself, including photos, videos, and other materials. The more detailed the better, so I can assess your child's personality and habits, and the treatment can be more targeted.

Lin Yulan: Okay, I'll send it to you as soon as possible.

Dr. Shao: Okay, goodbye! I'll contact you as soon as possible. After talking with Dr. Shao, Lin Yulan felt a glimmer of hope, and her mood improved instantly.

The next day, Lin Yulan called her son out and talked to him for a long time. Lin Yulan cried. He seemed very regretful. He said he was too impulsive and couldn't control himself at all; his emotions were either excited or suppressed. He didn't know what was wrong with him. Lin Yulan told him about her consultation with the doctor, and he agreed to undergo psychological treatment. Lin Yulan asked him to prepare photos and materials of his life and studies according to the doctor's requirements and send them to Dr. Shao.

At 2 PM, Dr. Shao sent a message saying that he had received the information and had reviewed it carefully. The direction was basically decided. The child could come to the hospital to see her tomorrow morning; she needed to meet with the child first. Lin Yulan drove the child to the back of the hospital's outpatient building at the agreed time. The child sat on a bench behind the lawn.

The weather was nice today, the sun warm and inviting. Lin Yulan, however, was filled with anxiety. Lin Yulan's phone rang; Dr. Shao asked where she was. Lin Yulan told her she was on the lawn behind the building.

A moment later, a woman in a white coat came out of the back door of the outpatient building. Lin Yulan quickly pulled her son to greet her. "Hello, Dr. Shao."

Dr. Shao looked at Lin Yulan and smiled, saying, "Hello, Sister Lin, you look young, not like you're forty." Lin Yulan said, "Don't flatter me. This child is making my life unbearable; I don't even have time for my business.

Everything's a mess."

Dr. Shao looked Lin Yulan's child up and down and said, "He's only 16 and already so tall, almost 1.8 meters, right?" Lin Yulan's son said he was 1.79 meters. Dr. Shao said "Oh," and turned to Lin Yulan, saying, "Okay, Sister Lin, you go home first. I'll talk to him alone; it's inconvenient for you. You don't want to wait anyway. Let him take a taxi home when he's done." Lin Yulan was anxious and restless at home, constantly checking her phone for messages. She wondered what Dr. Shao and her child had talked about. What if the child threw a tantrum and offended the doctor? What if the conversation didn't go well and Dr. Shao stopped caring? Lin Yulan's anxiety grew. She really should have stayed at the hospital; at least there would be some room for maneuver.

Finally, at 12:30, Lin Yulan received a message from Dr. Shao: the conversation was over, and her child had gotten into the car and gone home.

Five minutes later, Lin Yulan saw her son open the hospital gate through the window.

Her son looked relaxed. Lin Yulan greeted him, "How are you, son?" He said, "I'm fine. I need to pee; I'm bursting." While eating lunch, her son recounted his conversation with Dr. Shao that morning. He said Dr. Shao just chatted with him about everything under the sun, asking him anything, and he answered her questions. She said his situation was normal and not serious. His excessive behavior was a typical adolescent reaction, and he shouldn't feel burdened. There was no need for specialized psychological treatment. She said she would contact me and give some advice.

Hearing her son's words, Lin Yulan felt a heavy weight in her heart. Her optimistic mood from the morning vanished instantly, replaced by a sudden heaviness in her chest. Yesterday, Dr. Shao said the situation was serious, but today she said it was normal—what was going on?

Lin Yulan frantically texted Dr. Shao, "Dr. Shao, have you finished talking with my child? What treatment do you think is needed? Cost isn't a problem; as long as the problem is solved, money is negotiable."

An hour passed without a reply. Lin Yulan tried calling his cell phone, but it was "unreachable." Lin Yulan's spirits plummeted. How had this brat offended the doctor? Even the doctor didn't want to help anymore.

At 6:30, Dr. Shao replied with a message, apologizing for only seeing it now, as the gathering was too noisy. She couldn't contact me now, but would contact me later that evening. The child was taking a bath in the bathroom, singing as he did so. This heartless child, I must have owed him something in my past life.

At 9:30, Dr. Shao sent a message, saying to chat on WeChat.

Dr. Shao: I had a very relaxed and thorough conversation with Xiao Jian this morning. He's very straightforward and answers every question. After meeting your son, I feel he's a very promising and intelligent child. He has a very bright future. However, currently, I think Xiao Jian has a major problem.

Lin Yulan: What do you think the main problem is?

Dr. Shao: Children nowadays are well-nourished, their bodies develop quickly, and they mature sexually earlier. Adolescents have a strong curiosity about sex. Especially for developing and psychologically immature teenagers, excessive sexual repression can lead to anxiety, depression, violence, and other abnormal behaviors. You need to communicate effectively with your child and fully alleviate his pressure. Only you can guide him more reasonably. Lin Yulan

: But what exactly do I need to do?

Dr. Shao: Judging from the current situation, your son's sexual development is quite mature. You need to address his sexual repression through proper means, otherwise, serious problems will arise. He clearly has violent tendencies. This violent tendency is an outward manifestation of his unexpressed inner sexual urges.

Lin Yulan: What are some good ways to address this?

Dr. Shao: On the surface, it seems like there are many ways, but they all have drawbacks and are not feasible. First, education. This is basically useless. It doesn't solve the pressure. Second, masturbation. It can relieve sexual pressure, but children without restraint can easily overdo it, causing harm to their bodies, which is counterproductive. Third, sexual intercourse. This is a relatively effective method. However, the sexual partner is a big problem. Underage girls of similar age are not suitable. Older girls are even more unsuitable because your child is a minor, and having sex with a minor is illegal. Hiring prostitutes is also not allowed; it will corrupt the child and make him susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases.

Lin Yulan: Is there no other way?

Dr. Shao: There is, but it's hard to say. You might not be able to accept it. If I say it, it might offend you. Lin Yulan: We're good sisters, what's there to hide? As long as we can guide the child onto the right path and prevent him from going astray, anything is fine. Dr. Shao: Since your son can't find sexual satisfaction outside the family, we can only seek a solution within the family.

Lin Yulan: How?

Dr. Shao: You.

Lin Yulan: Me?

Dr. Shao: Yes, only you can solve it. My view is that the mother should help with the sexual life of adolescents. The mother understands her child best. The mother has sexual experience and will consider the child's health when managing his sexual life.

Lin Yulan: Ah, what you said is shocking. I can't accept this, isn't this incest?

Dr. Shao: This is indeed hard to accept. This is just a suggestion. You can try other methods. Our goal is to solve the problem, and we can discuss what methods to use. I hope my words haven't offended you or made you unhappy.

Lin Yulan: Not at all. I think I need some time to think about it.

Dr. Shao: You just mentioned ethical issues. As a scholar, I'd like to explain this to you.

First, from a sociological perspective, incest was not taboo in primitive societies. It was only with the development of human society that the concept of incest gradually formed as people recognized the harm of close-kin reproduction. Now, contraception is easy, preventing close-kin reproduction. It can be said that the concept of incest didn't exist in the past, and it may disappear in the future.

Second, sexual behavior within the family is very private; if it's not publicized, it won't harm the individual or society.

Third, for adolescents in puberty, regular sexual activity is beneficial to their physical and mental health. However, mishandling their sexual needs can harm them physically and mentally; currently, there is no better solution.

Fourth, men's libido is strongest between 16 and 22 years old, while women's is strongest between 30 and 45 years old. There is a significant age difference in sexual needs between men and women. Only teenagers and middle-aged women have similar physiological needs. Therefore, physiologically speaking, this complementary relationship based on mother-child affection can actually achieve good results.

Lin Yulan: But won't this have a negative impact on the child? For example, on their future marriage?

Dr. Shao: Currently, sexual contact between mother and child is not permitted by social ethics and morality. Both mother and child will have many psychological concerns. Sexual contact without any psychological preparation will inevitably produce negative effects and may even lead to the complete failure of sexual cooperation.

Lin Yulan: What you said makes sense. But I still find it hard to accept. I need time to think about it.

Dr. Shao: Okay, if you need my help, you can contact me on WeChat at any time.

Two weeks later, Li Xiaojian collided with someone while crossing a pedestrian crossing. Li Xiaojian pushed the person down, causing them to be run over by a car and suffer a broken arm. Li Xiaojian was detained for 7 days.

A week later, Lin Yulan messaged Dr. Shao, wanting to meet with her in person. Dr. Shao quickly replied to Lin Yulan, saying that was fine. The two arranged to meet at the Meng Jiangnan Club. After they sat down, Dr. Shao took out a report and handed it to Lin Yulan. Dr. Shao said, "I am currently working on a research project. The title is 'On Sexual Issues in Adolescents' Puberty.'

I am currently conducting a questionnaire survey."

Lin Yulan looked through the report. Before leaving, Dr. Shao handed Lin Yulan a printed document. She said it was an article she had written, but because of its sensitive content, it shouldn't be published publicly, and she should destroy it after reading it.

Back home, Lin Yulan went to take a shower. She was exhausted after a long day. After coming out of the shower, she remembered the article Dr. Shao had given her. She had tossed it on the sofa under her bag when she came in. The bag was still there, but the printed document was upside down.

Lin Yulan was a very observant person; this didn't escape her notice. She saw light coming from her son's room. She wondered what he was doing.

She knocked on the door, and Li Xiaojian said it wasn't locked. Lin Yulan pushed the door open and saw him lying on the bed, holding his phone.

Lin Yulan sat down beside his bed and looked at him carefully. The child had grown up, but he was still childlike. His slightly immature face contrasted sharply with his tall stature. It seemed Dr. Shao was right. This child was precocious; the contrast between his physical and psychological development was too great. It seemed she had to make a firm decision and take action.

That night, Lin Yulan lay in bed and carefully read Dr. Shao's article. The content was basically what we talked about in a chat.

At 10 o'clock, Dr. Shao sent a message. Dr. Shao: Have you read the report? What do you think?

Lin Yulan: I read it and I basically accept your point of view. Of course, I haven't made up my mind to do what you said yet.

I still have a lot of concerns. I want to know, are there many people in my situation?

Dr. Shao: Almost every child will encounter sexual problems. Of course, some develop earlier and have bigger problems, and some develop later and have smaller problems. I can tell you that you are not the first. I have helped some children solve their problems. So far, it should be considered positive. Of course, I can't tell you the specific people. Because I must keep the parties absolutely confidential. At the same time, I only put forward suggestions for solving the problems and specific action plans. Whether the parties have followed my plan, I don't know. I don't need to know. This is better for everyone. So it is difficult for me to answer your question.

Lin Yulan: Your report mainly talks about some explanations of ethical issues. What do you mean by the temptation period, the contact preparation period, and the contact period mentioned later?

Dr. Shao: This is the action plan I mentioned. After solving the mother's ethical obstacles, we can enter the implementation stage. The first is the temptation period.

Before sexual contact, mother and child should first ease tension through heart-to-heart talks; this is a long-term process.

The child can touch the mother's body. Secondly, there is a preparation period. During this period, avoid rushing into genital contact; other parts of the body can be used for contact. Thirdly, the contact period. Mother and child should have regular sexual intercourse.

Lin Yulan: I understand, you've thought it through very thoroughly. But I have another question: how do I know if

my child is also willing to have sexual relations? Dr. Shao: Haha, it seems you lack confidence in yourself. I can tell you, I asked Xiao Jian if he had any sexual fantasies about his mother, and he clearly told me yes, and he even masturbated with your underwear. So now the only problem is you.

Lin Yulan: ...I didn't even realize this bad boy would do such a thing. It's so surprising!

Dr. Shao: Sister Lin, you must keep this a secret. I promised Xiao Jian I wouldn't tell. It also proves how charming you are.

Lin Yulan: No matter how charming I am, I'm still his mother. You can rest assured. I'll pretend nothing happened and won't betray you.

Dr. Shao: That puts my mind at ease. It's getting late, I'm going to rest now. I'll send you the detailed plan now. If you decide to use my method, please strictly follow my action plan and don't deviate from it. Otherwise, I won't be responsible for any adverse effects. If you think there's a better way, then follow that method. Our goal is for the child to grow up healthy. You agree, right?

Lin Yulan: Thank you, Dr. Shao. You've gone to so much trouble no matter what. Lin Yulan saved the document sent by Dr. Shao and then logged out.

[The End]

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