My SM Experience

My writing is a bit wordy, so I'd love to hear your feedback and suggestions. I've encountered a lot about SM, and I'm familiar with different terminology and various ways to play. I've even tried some things myself, but I haven't studied it in depth. I think that when doing things, especially things you're interested in, if you like it, just do it; that's enough. There's no need to go into too much depth. Take SM for example: I enjoy it, I have this fetish, and as long as both parties can get great pleasure from it safely, that's fine. I'm not a professional, and I haven't done much research. I believe there aren't many people in this world who truly understand the psychology and methods of SM. Not everyone has that skill, not everyone is an expert. So whenever I see someone say, "If you don't know how to play, don't try to hook up..." Ultimately, we're just trying to make friends with shared interests. Of course, there are definitely a lot of scammers, many who cheat for money and sex. Now let's talk about people involved in SM. I've heard since childhood that the Japanese and Germans are meticulous, and that the entire nation and people have a strong sense of discipline over their citizens, which is why they are two powerful nations. However, it is precisely this restraint and constraint in daily social life that leads to the madness of individual personalities. We have all heard about the perversion and madness of the Japanese, and Germany's football hooligans are also world-renowned. In Japan, those who get drunk and cause trouble after get off work are usually well-dressed office workers. Germany has instigated two World Wars. This is just like a person who is usually mild-mannered and never loses their temper, but once they explode, the consequences are much more serious than when an ordinary person loses their temper. Regardless of the reason, people who spontaneously enjoy SM have all experienced some form of repression in their lives (by "spontaneously," I mean they suddenly feel a strong urge, not someone who develops an interest after hearing about or learning about SM). So why do ordinary people say that those who engage in SM are perverts? I don't think so. They're just ordinary sons, daughters, husbands, wives, fathers, and mothers from ordinary families. It's just that everyone's circumstances are different. Perhaps this husband is under immense work and life pressure every day; perhaps this wife does repetitive, boring tasks like laundry, cooking, and picking up children; perhaps this student is in puberty, full of curiosity about everything; perhaps this student rarely feels love from their family; perhaps this student is often bullied but has nowhere to confide in… You can't sum up a person's experiences over a decade or two with just one word: "pervert." I saw a post on a forum that said there are two types of submissive girls: those who lacked fatherly love from a young age, and those who simply enjoy excitement. Perhaps this is also the psychology of a submissive wanting to protect… Let me talk about my experiences. Actually, I haven't had that many experiences, but the types are quite diverse. Let me just mention a few that left a deep impression. In 2016, I met a young married woman. She was really young and capable back then. We met twice, each time from 8 pm to 11 pm, three hours, I ejaculated twice, it was non-stop sex! The only breaks were when I went to the bathroom or drank water. Looking back now, I find it hard to believe (as for the veracity of this, I can only say, I'm just telling the story, you listen, I can't prove it to anyone, and there's no need to. I'm just recounting my experience, believe it or not, it's up to you). That was also the first time I saw a woman climax to the point of pushing me away and hiding by the bed, trembling alone. It was a strong sensory stimulation. At the same time, I felt worried for her, and then I felt sexually happy for her. In 2017, I met a submissive. At the time, she was a student at a university in a county-level city near me. We met on a dating app (the app used to be very open, you could talk about anything and post anything, but now it has completely degenerated into a shopping platform). We met after about a month and a half, and we gave each other... So many firsts for her: her first oral sex, her first "Daddy," her first toy, her first lingerie, her first exhibitionism, her first time wearing a vibrator, her first orgasm. She was having sex with me from behind while talking on the phone with her mom, best friend, and boyfriend. She's bought over 5,000 toys and lingerie. There are too many experiences to list. I just remember once when we first met, I told her, "Daddy always takes the initiative to train you. Daddy's going out to buy toys now, hoping to come back to see a proactive daughter." I went out and bought a wolf-tooth sequin cover. When I knocked on the door, she was wearing a full-body mesh lingerie she'd bought herself—something I'd never seen before. She pulled me in with one hand and pushed me onto the bed, immediately taking off my pants and giving me oral sex. To be honest, she's actually quite horny, but in a master-slave relationship, she's always chosen to be passive. Although she's very cooperative, she's never shown any signs of being slutty or promiscuous. But this time was clearly different. We both felt a very different, exciting, and thrilling feeling because when... I was lying down, and she was on her stomach. We did oral sex for about ten minutes, and then I wanted to pull her up and play with her a bit more. But then I noticed she was already dripping wet, very thick and dripping very quickly. There was a large yellowish wetness around the spot where she had been lying and where her genitals had touched. At that moment, I knew her slutty, wanton side was coming out. I didn't hold back and took out my newly bought "wolf tooth" condom—the kind that's thicker, longer, and textured, with an extra glans. The moment it went in, it refreshed my senses. Her brows furrowed, her eyes closed, her mouth opened as wide as it could, her upper body arched, her lower body retracted, and her legs tensed. So this is what a truly satisfied woman looks like (actually, I didn't intend to write something like a pornographic novel, and I've never written one, but after writing this, I realized it's very similar, hahaha). After that, we contacted each other less, both busy with our own lives. Another time I want to talk about was with a couple. Actually, friends with memberships can search for posts using the keyword "Jiujiang Hot Springs," and you'll see one titled "Driving over 100 kilometers to take my wife to Jiujiang for a date with a single man at the hot springs." The post about "spa, shaving, and 3P" has been deleted, but the single man in it is indeed my brother. That time, we did indeed have sex and then checked into a hotel, had dinner, and I held my wife's hand outside the room while my husband walked beside her. He gave me many firsts: my first time giving a woman a spa, my first time shaving a woman, and my first 3P. I won't go into the daytime activities, but I'll just mention one thing: at night, my wife and I were in one room, and my husband was in another. I told my wife to doze off first, and then I video-chatted with my husband. Then I started penetrating my wife. At first, my wife resisted because she was sleepy. I asked her if she wanted to have sex or sleep. She said sleep. After penetration and stimulation for 1 minute, I asked her again if she wanted to sleep or have sex. She breathlessly said she wanted sex. My husband watched the whole process on video. After my wife said she wanted sex, my husband rushed into my wife's and my room to start having sex. I won't go into the rest. The purpose of this post is to sincerely connect with like-minded friends nearby, whether you're single or married. First and foremost, we're here to make friends, excluding those with low character or those who don't want to communicate, and of course, scammers. Secondly, if we share the same hobby and click, we can develop a deeper, more open, and long-term relationship. I view this hobby as a purely amateur interest and it doesn't represent a person's character or conduct in society (by the way, my values are quite sound). If we share a common interest, we'll come together; no one will force anyone, and it won't affect anyone else. Since we've started communicating, let's be open and discuss our preferences and tolerance levels, ensuring both of us have fun without safety issues. If one day one of us doesn't want to maintain the relationship, I think that's fine too. After all, we came together because of a shared hobby. If their interest in you or their hobby has faded, there's no need to force it to continue; it's likely to cause problems. Ultimately, it's just a hobby; if it's gone, it's gone. There's always the future; at least we'll have fond memories. [The End]

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