A woman's experience with casual sex (good article)

The first taboo is being too hasty. Recently, I suddenly discovered that QQ's "People Nearby" function has been enhanced, allowing me to find people dozens of kilometers away. As a result, more and more people are finding me through this function, their aim, naturally, is to hook up with girls for a few nights. Some of these conversations are pleasant, while others are extremely annoying. The biggest problem is being too hasty, and the common issues are as follows: 1. The first thing they ask is "Want to hook up?" I really don't know what people who say this are thinking. Even if I desperately need it, even if my sheets are soaked with my juices, I wouldn't just hook up with anyone. The reason is simple: how am I supposed to know who you are? Getting hit a few times is a minor issue compared to the potential danger to my personal safety. Asking this is like sentencing yourself to death. Besides, is this any different from asking a prostitute "How much?" Are you trying to hook up with a respectable woman or a prostitute? 2. Constantly asking for photos. Never ask for photos from people you don't know well, otherwise you'll either be blocked or they'll send you a fake one. The reason is simple: I'm not a hostess in a karaoke bar, there to be someone to look at and see if I'm pretty, then take me away? This kind of transactional behavior is very unpleasant. The correct approach, as mentioned in the first article, is to invite her out in person. If you're satisfied, continue; if not, treat her to some late-night snacks or juice. If you don't even have this much courtesy, you deserve to be a virgin at 40. 3. Sending video or voice messages. Sending video or voice messages without the other person's consent is unnecessary and disrespectful. It gives a similar impression to point two, and you deserve to be blocked. The second taboo is arrogance. Some guys have good qualities, such as a big penis, good financial conditions, and good looks, but they still have difficulty dating the women they like. This is because they commit the second taboo—arrogance. I've encountered this many times: someone adds you as a friend and says, "Beautiful lady, my penis is very big, do you want me to satisfy you?" "A friend like that, you'd definitely block, why? First, just because you have a big dick doesn't mean I have to let you fuck me! Second, you're not the only one with a big dick, do you think I can't live without you? I once heard a joke: a boy unzipped his pants and said to a girl, 'I have this, but you don't;' the girl smiled, unzipped her pants, and said, 'If I have this, you can have as many of those as you want.' I think you all understand what I mean?" In fact, these conditions don't really matter much when it comes to hooking up. Very few people will sleep with you just because you have a big penis. Of course, being handsome can be a plus, but it's not essential. Therefore, throughout the hookup process, you must remain low-key. Even if you don't get a hookup, don't lose your composure. You already have her contact information; opportunities will come. Actually, hooking up and dating have similar but opposite processes. Dating satisfies psychological needs, while hooking up satisfies physical needs. If you can make her like you and willingly strip naked, that's ideal; otherwise, there's no need for such efforts. I've heard men privately advising young men on how to pursue girls, many saying, "To win a girl's heart, you must first enter her body." I've been tricked by this many times before, and now I think it's true. Hooking up is exactly the opposite: to get her body, you must first enter her heart. Some might ask, does hooking up mean she has to like you first? That's too difficult! No, no, no! Entering her heart means letting her lower her guard and gain her trust. This takes time and requires your actions. When I make plans with someone, I never go to a hotel by myself. It's because I lack a sense of security. Who knows if there are other people in the hotel besides you? Are you a wanted criminal? Thirdly, don't give up easily. Girls have their limits. Only "fallen women" are truly open to sleeping with you. Don't give up easily after failing to get a date once or twice. You need to find out why she rejected you. If she clearly shows her dislike, she will naturally block you. If she can still talk to you, even about philosophy or the weather, you should be happy because you still have a chance. Fourthly, don't underestimate yourself. Many fans have asked me if it's impossible to date pretty girls if you're not good-looking. I think thinking that way is underestimating yourself. You can date pretty girls even if you're not good-looking! Here are a few reasons: 1. What attracts girls most isn't looks. While looks can certainly be a plus in a relationship—after all, everyone appreciates beauty—just like you hope to hook up with a beautiful woman, if I were with a handsome guy like wlh, I'd probably reach orgasm faster. But there's only one wlh, and so far, he hasn't been with me! So, don't think looks play a huge role in casual sex. Even in relationships, there are beauty-and-the-beast stories. 2. If I hook up with you and I'm satisfied, we can develop the relationship; if not, it's just for one night. It's not a long-term commitment. How important are your looks to me? 3. The most important thing in casual sex is security. You need to make me feel safe enough to strip naked; that's the most important thing, because safety is paramount. Therefore, being ugly isn't a big deal; the key is to be decent. And don't be ugly and pretentious, dressed like a stereotypical "street vendor," and smell bad from a kilometer away. 4. What attracts women most about men is their charisma. First, focus—focus on your career, on love, and on me. Your meticulousness is what earns my complete devotion. Second, confidence—a confident man has warm eyes, confident yet not arrogant; such a man is truly charming. Fifth, avoid asking too many detailed personal questions. Some men are filled with curiosity, not only wanting to have sex with her and have hundreds of millions of offspring, but also wanting to know why they got this woman into bed. So, they ask all the time: Which neighborhood do you live in? Which company do you work for? ... Damn it! (Please forgive my swearing), are you interrogating her? Don't you know "curiosity killed the cat"? Right now, you should be thinking about sleeping with her. Once you get to know her, she'll naturally tell you when she wants to. Why make things difficult for yourself? The sixth taboo is being too direct. First impressions are very important for hookups, for both men and women. Don't be too direct and ask her questions. How can you act like an idiot? You need to analyze her words to get the information you want. For example: Man: Are you still awake so late? Woman: Yes. (Either she's lonely or has something on her mind.) Man: Where's your husband? Woman: Not home. (Most likely she's lonely and lovesick.) Man: What are you doing now? Woman: I can't sleep in bed. (Is she just feeling restless or what?) Man: I can't sleep either. Want to go out for something to eat and drink? (Want to hook up? Let me fuck you good!) Woman: Sure, I heard the snacks in XX place are delicious. (That's what I was thinking too, let's check it out first.) This is a successful approach, and it's the most acceptable to women. Here's another example. Man: Still awake so late? Woman: Yes. (Either lonely or troubled.) Man: Where's your husband? Woman: Not home. (Most likely lonely, feeling restless.) Man: What are you doing now? Woman: I can't sleep in bed. (Isn't it just lust?) Man: I can't sleep either. Want to go out for something to eat and drink? (Want to hook up? Let me fuck you properly!) Woman: No, I don't want to eat. (I want you to fuck me, but I don't trust you.) Man: Okay, then I'll talk to you for a bit, and I'll sleep after you fall asleep. (I'll save my four hundred million offspring for you, and give you eight hundred million all at once next time.) In this example, the man's approach was better. He knew to take a step back at the crucial moment and leave himself a chance. The wrong approach was to ask too directly. For example, if the husband isn't home, and the man asks, "Are you lonely?" This is unnecessary and shows a lack of understanding of women's feelings. Even more tragically, some men, even after the woman has said she doesn't want to eat, forcefully ask: "Don't want to eat? Let's go to a hotel?" Is going to a hotel for "sitting"? It should be for "doing," right? I've already told you I don't trust you to fuck me today, and you still do this. Do you have some ulterior motive? That's all for today. Feel free to discuss any questions. I'll update this if I think of anything else. [The End]

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