Summary of experience

Back in the early 2000s, I secretly downloaded a private copy of "Cleopatra" at home and was completely mesmerized by the scenes. For over a decade afterward, I found it incredibly alluring, and I have many such films on my computer.
At the end of last year, I mentioned this idea to my wife. Initially, she was shocked and resistant, but I gradually persuaded her. This afternoon, after almost a year, I finally fulfilled my long-held wish.
Today, I'd like to share a few insights for fellow enthusiasts:
1. You must truly love your wife. This has two meanings: first, you must make her willing to do it; second, you must ensure she experiences pleasure. I believe many married men understand this: a deep marital bond allows for the unlocking of many positions. Moreover, the position itself is secondary; the main thing is whether both partners experience pleasure during the activity. For example, my wife said today that before, when she used anal plugs to dilate my anus, she only felt pain, tightness, and distension. She never expected to actually experience pleasure today. I believe that if this activity involved me forcibly inserting myself without considering her feelings, she would only feel pain, and might even get injured.
2. Regarding anal dilation. Actually, I only reminded her to dilate it when I remembered. In the past year, the actual time spent on anal dilation has been very limited, probably less than half a month. If she wears a properly sized anal plug 24 hours a day, I estimate it should take a week or two. Of course, wearing it 24 hours a day is impossible; she needs to defecate throughout the day, and after defecating, should she put it back in? Especially for women, expecting them to insert it themselves without assistance is something I estimate most people couldn't do, and it's also inconvenient to carry lubricant around. So, it depends on individual circumstances.
3. Regarding anal plugs. We bought our anal plugs on Taobao. Objectively speaking, the anal plugs on Taobao are not beginner-friendly. The sizes are either too small, falling out easily with slight movement (like some of the smallest sizes with tails), or too large to be inserted at all. Choosing the right size is more appropriate. Furthermore, the shape of the anal plug is also very important. Those with an inverted heart shape on top and a narrow pillar at the bottom don't actually achieve the desired anal dilation effect (because the clamping area is too narrow to expand properly), and the diameter of the heart shape being too large (otherwise it would fall out) increases the difficulty and pain of insertion. The anal plug we finally bought was somewhat similar in shape to those used for male prostate stimulation; the thickness was just right, and the material was soft.
4. Regarding pre-operative preparation. Today, we both thought it was bound to fail because my wife always felt my penis was too thick, even insertion felt strained, let alone anal penetration. But unexpectedly, we succeeded. Looking back, it might be because I used a lot of lubricant (probably 2 ml). Sufficient lubrication, thorough communication, and complete relaxation are essential.
After today, my wife said her anus didn't hurt, so it was perfect.

Oh, and a very important point: because we both thought it wouldn't succeed and it was just a practice run, we didn't clean our bowels, and in the end, I still failed. For those who want to try, I suggest doing proper pre-operative cleaning.

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