My Eight-Year Sexual History (Bonus Chapter)

I. Tips for using chat apps

App hookups are the mainstream method for hooking up nowadays. It saves you the embarrassment of asking girls for their numbers in person and provides

you with a virtual platform to showcase yourself. If you want to hook up, apps are your biggest helper. There is no

such thing as an app with the highest success rate for hookups. The functions of social software are similar now, such as people around,

shake, and message in a bottle. However, you need to know which app has

the most , such as WeChat, Momo, or Meet. I usually use WeChat and Momo, so I will use these two apps

as examples in this article. There was an anonymous poll of females, and 2/3 of the females were looking for one-night stands and sexual partners. (See Figure 1)

This gives us the opportunity to hook up. And most of these females have social software, so you need to make good

use of your mobile phone.

(I) Location and timing of using social software

Hookups do not mean that you have to carry your mobile phone around all day to search for targets. This is too tiring and has

little . We all know that WeChat and Momo have a "People Nearby" feature, which is a great tool

for hooking up. After all, proximity makes it easier to find someone nearby. If you're in

a big city , the chances of finding a "Message in a Bottle" in the local chat are also high; try to find one every 5 minutes around midnight – you're guaranteed to find

a hot girl.

It's worth noting that Momo is superior to WeChat in that as long as you activate Momo,

your phone's location services are always on, regardless of whether you're looking at nearby people (unless you manually turn them off). This means that people nearby

can see you. WeChat is different; you have to check the "People Nearby" feature for the location system to activate. This

means that with Momo, you can actively search for targets or wait for girls to automatically find you. With WeChat,

your profile picture only appears in someone's nearby list after you search for them.

Therefore, if you genuinely want a hookup and are using WeChat,

you need to regularly check "People Nearby" to create opportunities for yourself and for proactive girls.

So, where should you check "People Nearby"? Of course, in places with lots of girls, such as shopping streets, food

streets, cinemas, and near schools. Every time I go to these places, I check the surrounding area so that nearby girls

can also approach me. This can become a habit. There are also many girls at KTVs and nightclubs, so you might ask,

why not search in these places? Think about it: firstly, she's drinking beer, singing, and dancing, so she

doesn't have much time to look at her phone. Secondly, if you want to pick up girls at nightclubs, it's best to be there in person; chatting over drinks is much more real than chatting

over a phone. Meeting girls face-to-face isn't the focus of this article, so we'll skip that.

So when is the best time? The best time is late at night. These days, young people tend to

use their phones before bed. And late at night, when everyone is quiet, is precisely when single women feel lonely and empty. There are also

many women slightly tipsy late at night. At this time, women's defenses are weaker, and the fatigue of a day's work also reduces their vigilance and thoroughness of

thought . This is the easiest time to exploit. Of course, it's rare to get

a girl to agree to go to a hotel room on the first night; it takes time, which I will explain in detail below.

Of course, if you have plenty of time besides at night, you can also try during the day to expand your resources. However,

during the day, girls may be busy with their own private matters or work and be too lazy to pay attention to you. Also, people's energy is at its

peak during the day, and their thinking is also sharp. Many girls are tomboyish during the day, making it difficult to succeed

. Don't waste opportunities and resources; save them for when you're feeling lonely at night.

(II) How to make your app profile attractive to girls:

First, give yourself a unique name. Don't use cartoon characters like Luffy or Kakashi, as this

will make girls think you're immature. Also, don't use your name with things like "brother," "uncle," or "grandpa

." Girls like mature and stable men, but they definitely don't like fake profundity. It's best to choose a name with an artistic

feel so that girls immediately know you're a cultured person. After all, nobody wants

to sleep with a vulgar and reckless man. Or simply choose a name made up of unusual words; this will pique a girl's

curiosity. My WeChat name is like that, and I'm not afraid to tell you, my name is Zaojuren (早举人). Girls

often ask me why I have this name. Of course, I wouldn't just tell her, "Early riser means I'm someone who gets

an erection ." We need to learn to be suspenseful and pique her curiosity. I'll explain in more detail later.

Second, choose a cool profile picture. Don't use pictures of cats or dogs, don't use South Korean oppas, don't use punk

-style photos , and don't use a silly street photo of a Lamborghini as your profile picture. Think it through, this is your

first impression on the girl, so take it seriously. It's best to use your own photo as your profile picture. If you wake up in a particularly good mood and feel

energetic, take a selfie. Girls like energetic men;

don't let them see you looking sickly, smoking, or decadent. Every girl looking for a casual hookup wants a strong, capable man who can

satisfy her, so remember, your profile picture should show your confidence and vitality. Of course, don't go overboard

and post a picture showing off your muscles. Not every girl likes muscular men; she might even think you're gay.

There are many selfie tips for men online; go and learn them yourself.

What if you don't think you're that handsome? First, take several photos and choose the one you think looks best

. If you're not satisfied with your front view, take a side profile or a close-up. Second, learn to use

photo editing apps like Meitu Xiu Xiu and Photoshop. If you feel your skin is bad, use a skin smoothing tool; if you feel you have too many pimples, remove them;

if all else fails, take a black and white photo. But remember, don't let the photo look too different from your real

self

. Otherwise, a girl might come to dinner with you excitedly, only to find you look drastically different in person, losing her appetite, let alone any sexual desire.

Third, how do you fill in the occupation section? Momo has occupation options, so don't be too honest. If you're a construction worker

, write "migrant worker"; if you're unemployed, write "homebody." Let me teach you: if you're a construction worker, write "construction industry"; if you work at a gas station,

write "energy industry"; if you're a laborer, write "early-stage entrepreneur"; if you're unemployed, write "self-employed." You get my point?

There's nothing wrong with skirting the line like this. You're not going to marry her and have children, so why be so serious? Besides,

girls don't really care what you do for a living when they look at this section; frankly, they just want to know your financial situation.

So as long as you don't exaggerate too much, try to say things in a positive direction and just hold your tongue.

Fourth, what should you post on your WeChat Moments? First, remember, don't post about getting 10 kills and 0 deaths in League of Legends today; girls

don't like introverted guys. Don't post inspirational quotes or melodramatic complaints. Don't post about where you went drinking with friends

today or having barbecue with your buddies tomorrow. Besides food and drinks, there are many beautiful things in life; you should

showcase . It's not that you can't post about being with friends, but you need to post appropriately. You can post about traveling with friends, showing

photos of yourself with the scenery along the way, letting girls think you're well-traveled and knowledgeable. Or you can post about

cycling or playing sports with friends, letting girls think you're healthy and sunny. Or you can showcase your talents; if you can

draw , take pictures of your artwork and post them; if you sing well, sing on a karaoke app and share it. Try to show your

sunny, healthy, optimistic, and strong side. I've posted a lot of my own renditions of Jacky Cheung songs, and girls who hear them

want to ask me out to karaoke.

These are the preparations; if you do these well, you've successfully taken the first step on the road to hooking up

.

II. How to Choose Girls

You might ask, "I'm just a loser, I'm lucky if any girl is willing to go out with me. I don't refuse anyone, so

what's there to choose?" You're wrong. There are several types of girls you should absolutely never go

out with. Let me explain.

(I) Don't go out with friends.

If you have a very good female friend, someone you can talk to about anything, then you absolutely must not sleep with her. Doing so

will absolutely ruin that friendship. Even if you have excellent social skills, you won't be able to handle the

awkward . Even if you remain outwardly friendly, she will harbor resentment and won't be able

to confide in you anymore. Sacrificing a friendship for a one-night stand is not worth it. Don't ask me how I know; I don't want to say. -_-#

(II) Don't go out with friends of friends.

This is a broad category, including your friend's sister or older sister. Unless you genuinely like her and want

to establish a relationship, you will not only lose a casual sex partner, but you may also lose

the friend who introduced you to her, or even three or four friends at once. In severe cases, you may be permanently excluded from that circle of friends.

(III) Do not hook up

with married colleagues. You can flirt with unmarried colleagues, as long as you keep things within limits. If you

make a move on a married colleague, her husband may block you from leaving work with a kitchen knife. I

personally witnessed a friend of mine getting his colleague pregnant with an ectopic pregnancy, and her husband's murderous look. If you do the same, you will

lose both the woman and your job.

The above three types of women should not be hooked up with. You should have principles, and the same applies to casual sex. Casual sex is just

a little , not worth risking friendship and your job. Of course, there are other types of women you should not hook up with: those who are sick, psychologically

abnormal, the women of gang leaders, etc. You know what I mean, I won't go into details.

III. Initial pickup techniques and personality analysis

(I) Initial pickup

. We just talked about preparation and the principles of casual sex. Now let's get down to business. At the time and place mentioned above

, we need to check out the girls nearby. Don't think that adding one or two is enough; remember to cast

a wide net and focus on catching the right fish. Add any girls you find attractive as soon as possible—the more the merrier.

You need to establish a rating system to determine your target range. I usually rate myself; I give myself a 7 out of 10 for looks

, and I look for girls between 6 and 8. I don't like girls below 6, and they wouldn't like

me if I gave them 9 or 10. Be realistic when rating and adding friends; don't be overly ambitious. Everyone loves a supermodel, but don't

be unrealistic. For basic hookups, just find someone you like.

If the girl has verified her profile, then we need to initiate the conversation. Verification messages are usually under 20 characters,

so make good use of them. Don't just send a simple "hello" and be done with it; unless your profile picture is exceptionally handsome,

most girls won't respond. Don't send

insincere messages like "You're so pretty," "Let's be friends," or "Let's chat." A pretty girl gets 50 compliments every day wanting to add her, but she

knows nothing about you. You're at a disadvantage among 50 competitors. So, your approach needs to be novel and

unique .

I usually choose phrases like, "You look familiar, haven't we met somewhere before?" or "You

look special, I think I've seen you on TV." Like choosing a name, make the girl curious and

feel you're different. Of course, this requires using different approach techniques for girls with different personalities.

Of course, everyone may have more advanced techniques; we can exchange ideas.

(II) Personality Analysis

WeChat and Momo have a great feature: strangers can see 8 out of 10 photos of a girl. Use this

feature to get a preliminary understanding and analysis of her personality.

If you encounter a girl who likes to post selfies, she's generally good-looking, at least indicating she's

confident in her appearance. Then you can use the "I've seen you on TV" trick. Out of confidence and pride, 80% of these girls will

add you. When you encounter a girl who likes to post photos of celebrities, you can say, "I also like [celebrity's name], and I love [her work's

name ." This is just an example to show you that you need to find common interests with her. Birds of a feather flock together,

and if you share common interests, there's a 70% chance she'll add you. If you can't find any personality traits in her few photos

, then use the "you're unique" tactic. However, the success rate might only be 50%. You might ask,

what about the remaining 20%, 30%, and 50%? Don't forget what I taught you before about how to make your profile

attractive to girls. When you greet her, she can see your profile picture and 10 photos. If your profile picture and photos

are attractive to her, then the likelihood of her adding you increases significantly. But if you encounter a girl who has set her profile to not let

strangers see her photos, then it's a last resort. Don't have too high hopes.

Here's a crucial detail: If several girls on your contact list are 300 meters away and have a similar

vibe or feel, then never use the same phrase to strike up a conversation. It's best to write down their accounts

and add them at different times. Because they're likely friends and together right now. Imagine you text

three , "I think I've seen you on TV before," and they happen to be having bubble tea together, sharing their phones...

If you show it to them, you're done for. Not only will you be blocked, but they might also use it as a joke to

screenshot and post it on their Moments. At that point, you'll feel like dying. Don't ask me how I know; I still don't want to

say. -_-#

IV. Categorizing Your Prey

If you followed my previous steps, you should now have quite a few resources on your phone. But with so

many resources, how do you get started? This is where categorizing your prey comes in. This isn't about categorizing by looks

; there's a different approach, which I'll explain later.

(I) Further Analyzing the Girl's Personality

Once you've added her as a friend, you can browse all her photos. Don't rush to

talk . First, look at all her photos and, as mentioned above, understand her personality and find

common ground. This time, with ample information from photos and posts, you can carefully analyze her personality. Of course, it's best to

read more psychology books. A girl's post not only reflects her personality but also

tells you her current emotional state. You can easily tell whether she's currently feeling elated or heartbroken

. It's best to understand their personalities, interests, and feelings before chatting with them.

Be outgoing and cheerful with enthusiastic girls, and

polite . Make them feel like you're one of them. This is crucial; humans are naturally wary,

and this wariness only disappears when they feel another person is like them.

Men, don't forget humor; it's a powerful weapon. Humor doesn't mean telling

jokes or telling dirty jokes. Humor is a quality, a lifestyle, and can't be explained in a few words;

it requires daily cultivation. The right approach to humor is incredibly effective and can easily build rapport with a girl.

Therefore, it's essential to cultivate it. Also, girls love to be praised. Praise her for whatever she excels at;

it always beneficial. However, be careful not to overdo it. Too much praise will backfire.

Praise her every time she displays a unique quality. For example, if she posts about animals on social media, praise her for being kind; if she posts about food, praise her for enjoying it so

much while maintaining a good figure. Got it?

Regarding yourself, be good at concealing your true self. Don't reveal yourself completely to a girl all at once; that would

be boring. You know your own worth best. Revealing your strengths and advantages periodically

will make girls feel that you are mysterious and unassuming.

(II) Categorizing Your Prey

Now comes the important part. We need to categorize the girls we have, which is a very important

step . Different categories of girls require different approaches. This will allow you to quickly find the clues. My

personal categorization is as follows:

First category: Goddess level These girls are very beautiful, heavily made up. The kind that makes you

aroused them. Their characteristics are that their social media is full of beautiful selfies, selfies with other beautiful girls, going to various

high-end places, and showing off various designer bags and shoes. However, I generally don't add this type of girl directly. Why?

What kind of seen? She doesn't care if you invite her to a Western restaurant to drink the red wine you scrimped and saved to buy for 200 yuan.

You'd need to spend a lot of money and effort to win her over; goddesses are typically rich, handsome, and successful, which doesn't fit our topic today.

Unless you're a supermodel, give up on this type early. While a goddess might occasionally

spend , the chances are extremely low. Besides, a goddess could also be a manipulative woman.

The second type: "Loser Girls." These girls are the opposite of goddesses. It's not that there aren't beautiful "loser girls."

I can confidently tell you: there are! Maybe those so-called goddesses aren't even as attractive without makeup. Besides, if

she's not pretty and you have no sexual interest, you wouldn't add her as a friend. I'm referring to "loser girls" who don't know how to

do makeup and look plain or even unsophisticated. They mostly have little or no dating experience

. They have stable but average-paying jobs. They don't have many friends and rarely go out for meals or drinks. They're mostly

single, posting artsy, inspirational quotes on social media. They crave passionate love but have no

men pursuing them. They crave friends but feel misunderstood by those around them. If you

get to know better, you'll discover that her inner desires might be incredibly wild. Moreover, these girls have a major advantage,

one that everyone appreciates: you might encounter one

or two . When it comes to sex, virgins are much rarer than goddesses. Therefore, this type of girl is our primary target.

The third type: the ordinary girl. This type of girl is quite broad. They might be artistic or bourgeois, somewhere in between

. They come from upper-middle-class families, have upper-middle-class educations, and might wear light makeup, but are mostly without makeup. They might have

a boyfriend and a few close friends. Their social media is full of pictures of food, movies, spontaneous trips, shared

songs, occasional selfies, occasional complaints about work, and occasional erratic mood swings.

There's : an unstable romantic life. This requires you to constantly monitor her social media and

observe her emotional changes. Long-distance relationships, being betrayed by a boyfriend, and breakups are all good opportunities for you to strike up a conversation.

For single, ordinary women, you can try to become friends with them first and slowly find their

emotional vulnerabilities. These women are our secondary targets.

Fifth, build rapport and make requests

. Having completed the classification and gained a general analysis of the target's personality traits, the next step is to build rapport

and make requests for sex.

Hooking up isn't instantaneous; very few people succeed with just "Hi" and "Want to hook up?". We need

a process , we need opportunities. The women I hook up with take anywhere from a week to a month. It all requires patience.

First, after successfully adding her as a friend, don't ignore her. Take the initiative to communicate with her, showcasing your strengths,

charm, and humor. Simply put, let her know you exist as a WeChat or Momo friend, and then

further gain her favor. Here, we need to tailor our approach. This time, we can not only

learn about her through her Moments, but also because you're chatting with a real person. You can gradually learn about her life, relationships, and

work through conversation. In short, you need to have a preliminary understanding of each target and leave a good impression on each

one . To ensure she thinks of you even when her phone is off, then...

Even if you've successfully completed the first step of a hookup. Case analysis: Look at picture two. This is a message I received from a potential target

, someone I'd only met once before. This is the point I mentioned earlier where she had feelings for me. This

girl later became my possession. Of course, this process might be lengthy, so I've repeatedly emphasized the importance of patience.

Speaking of which, I must mention how to enhance your charm. If you're over 24

, I suggest you definitely study philosophy. Not the Marxist philosophy in textbooks, but the mainstream European philosophical schools.

Find a school you like and develop your own set of viewpoints. This

will greatly enhance your personal charm and overall cultivation. Secondly, stay informed about fashion and trends. You should be able to

respond to whatever a girl talks about, ideally with your own unique perspective. If you don't understand something, don't answer her right away; first, Google it

to find out what she's talking about.

The second step is to constantly observe changes in her social media feed. You need to know immediately who's sad, who's heartbroken, who's broken up

. At this time, she's definitely your primary target. This is when a woman is most vulnerable. 60% of

one-night stands occur when a woman is in this psychological state. You need to immediately offer care, comfort, and show that you're willing

to listen. Once you get past this hurdle, your standing in her heart will immediately rise.

For girls who don't often post pictures or express their feelings, you need to spend more time talking to them.

Because you can only understand her personality through her words. Case analysis: I once encountered a girl who ignored

me. I didn't consider her my primary target, but I didn't relax. When the weather changed, I would send a

message reminding her to dress warmly

. Or in the morning, I would send, "I know we're not very close yet, but I sincerely hope you have a happy and fulfilling day." I just wanted her to remember that I existed and that I was paying attention to her. Suddenly one day, she messaged me, "I'm in a bad mood, come out for a drink with me." The rest is history; you know what I mean. 　　The third step is to chat with your target frequently. She starts to initiate conversations or chats with you every day. Then you can steer the conversation towards sex. You can send a slightly suggestive joke, but not too explicit, just the mildest kind, and see her reaction. Figure 3 shows an example where I asked a single woman about her sex life with her ex-boyfriend. She said it wasn't great; her ex-boyfriend couldn't arouse her sexual interest. Later, she offered to let me help. So, if she boldly engages in conversation and discusses sex with you, congratulations, you're almost there. All you need is the right timing and a couple of glasses of wine. If she changes the subject after a few offhand jokes or sex-related topics, it means the timing isn't right yet, so repeat the previous steps. 　　Finally, what about girls who seem hopeless? If they won't talk to you or confide in you, and you feel it's really not working out, then give up decisively and move on to another target. Giving up doesn't mean wasting resources. Before giving up, you can directly ask for a hookup, but make it clear beforehand that it won't disturb each other's lives. You might even have an unexpected reward. I've encountered a cold beauty who ignored me completely. I was about to delete her, but I took the risk and asked, and it actually worked out. Of course, some girls might overreact to your request, insult you, block you, or report you. What's there to be afraid of? Hookups require thick skin. If you get reported, you just can't greet strangers for a day. Another day passes, and you're good to go. 　　Case Analysis: I once texted a girl while drunk: "Let's go on a date and have sex." She immediately berated me. "What do you take me for? How can you be so disrespectful? I'm not a prostitute!" Seeing this, I thought I had angered her, and being too drunk, I went to sleep. The next day, when I checked my phone, she had finished her rant and then sent a message a while later: "Have you been drinking?" Because I was asleep, I didn't reply. A little while later, she texted again: "Are you angry ?" Half an hour later, she texted again: "Where are you? Can you come out now?" The last message, sent at 2 AM: "Book a hotel, I'll come find you." So, sometimes don't be timid; being bold can bring unexpected rewards. Girls aren't unwilling; they just can't overcome their psychological and moral barriers. 　　　　　　　　　　　　VI. Preparations Before the Date: 　　If she agrees to meet you for dinner, and you don't look too different in person than in our chats, and your appearance isn't too different, then you have a chance. Don't be too excited before the date; be prepared. Bring extra money to pay for the meal and the hotel room. Take a shower, tidy your hair and clothes. Don't masturbate for a few days before the hookup, and bring a few condoms. Using some cologne is also a good option. 　　When you meet your target, no matter what happens after dinner, try to remain calm. Show your humor and charm , and don't forget to compliment her. If things are going well, promise to keep it a secret and not interfere with her life when making your request, giving her 200% security. Success or failure depends on your performance. Don't worry if you ; I only got my target on the second try. Leave her with a good impression, and try again next time. 　　Some advice for hookups: 1. Use a condom. Even if it's a repeat session. 　　2. Don't give your name, and don't ask for it. 　　3. Don't talk about money, and don't borrow money. This means don't lend her money or ask her for money. (Someone still owes me 1000. ) 　　4. Don't stay overnight. Leave after you're done. 　　5. Don't develop real feelings, and don't mention love. (This is the reason for point four) 　　6. Respect her sexual habits. If she doesn't like doggy style, don't doggy style. If you perform well, you might get a second chance. 　　7. Don't take her home or go to her house. You book the hotel. Reduce unnecessary trouble and potential problems. 　　8. Before penetration, check her genitals for yellow discharge or an unusual odor. If so, leave immediately. 　　9. Don't take photos secretly, otherwise the consequences will be serious. 　　10. Don't disturb her daily life. 　　11. If you only want to have fun with her, don't leave your phone number. 　　12. Keep her secret. Give her a sense of security. 　　　　　　　　　　VII. How to handle your relationship after a casual hookup 　　There are two possible situations after a casual hookup. 　　First, if you feel dissatisfied with the girl, or she wants to pester you, and you don't want to continue the casual hookup relationship, then don't be too harsh. Don't delete her immediately; just be a little cold towards her . A normal person will understand what you mean. 　　Second, if the girl is skilled in bed and knows what's good for her, and you want to continue the casual hookup relationship, then you should also...

Be mindful of boundaries. Sleeping with her once doesn't mean she's yours. Don't constantly pester her

or bring up sex. Since you promised not to interfere with her daily life, you should still

treat her as a friend. Unless she brings up your sexual experiences, it's best

not . If she has a husband or boyfriend and sees your explicit messages, you'll

be in trouble.

Of course, if you want to go back to her, it's not entirely up to you. She might not want it either. To keep

her interested, you need to be careful. First, you need to demonstrate sufficient sexual

skill on the first date. If she feels you can't satisfy her, she won't give you a second chance. So, I emphasize again,

don't masturbate for a few days before the date; conserve your energy. Second, after the date,

maintain sex. This will make her feel that the date didn't disrupt

her normal life or compromise her privacy, giving her a sense of security. Then she'll see you

differently and might even actively seek out another date. Please see Figure 4. Figure 4 is an example of my successful return to sex. Once she

accepts you, she will treat you as a reliable man and will give you wonderful sexual experiences again.

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