Complete Guide to Oral Sex for Men

The Complete Guide to Oral
Sex for Men (Part 1)

Yesterday I posted an article titled "Would You Voluntarily Perform Oral Sex on a Woman?" The number of replies was decent, but it's clear that most people are unwilling to try, perhaps because they feel it's too much of a masculine hurdle. Actually, performing oral sex on a woman is a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology perspective, watching a woman struggle and moan in your mouth is incredibly enjoyable.

The following oral sex guide refers to men performing oral sex on women, based on my own experience. The descriptions of the woman's sensations are from my observations and feedback from my girlfriend, slightly edited. Since the moderator and site administrator have instructed me not to go into too much detail, I don't know if everyone will understand it this way. Sigh… these days, even the moderator and site administrator can't be relied upon.

I. Preparations Before Oral Sex:

Sex is a beautiful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere, such as at night, dimming the lights. Both of you should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genital area has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easier for dirt to accumulate. So, when showering, make sure to thoroughly clean the labia majora and minora. The man should turn on some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, the woman should get into the habit of applying a little perfume to her genital area, but don't use too much or too strong a perfume. When the man is giving you oral sex, his nose is closest to your genitals, and if the perfume is too strong, it can easily overwhelm him. Also, don't apply perfume to the labia, because the scent of your vaginal fluid isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to your pubic hair and inner thighs. It's also good to lightly apply a little to the anus. Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water by the bed so she can easily reach it if she's thirsty, avoiding interrupting her experience by having to go outside to get water.

II. Several Sensitive Areas for Women:

Guys, don't think that oral sex means you immediately pounce on a girl and kiss her clitoris the moment you get into bed. Don't be so hasty. Remember, a woman's body reacts slowly; give her time to adjust. The clitoris is an extremely sensitive area, and stimulating it right away will actually be less effective.

Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hold her close and say some sweet nothings, like "You're so beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on her breasts, as they are also a very important sensitive area (how to kiss them will be taught in another article).

At this point, the girl should feel a slight tingling sensation all over her body, and you can then begin to approach her genitals. Start by kissing her inner thighs, gently parting her legs. Usually, girls are shy at this point because they feel a bit "resistant" to exposing their genitals. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when parting her legs; do it gently, little by little. Begin by lightly licking her thighs with your tongue, starting from the outer labia majora and the cleft between her inner thighs, licking upwards towards her hip bones (on both sides of her lower abdomen). Repeat this about ten times. She'll feel a ticklish, tingling sensation, and a slight tingling or swelling near the vaginal opening.

Next, lightly lick down her thighs to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive point for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area more often. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip it and move back

to the inner thighs. Repeat the above steps. This tactic is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, you should treat the girl as an "enemy" or "opponent." First, distract the "enemy's" attention, take the initiative, and guide the "enemy's" senses to follow your tongue. Play guerrilla warfare on any of her body's mountains (breasts), hills (lower abdomen), valleys (inner thighs), and forests (pubic hair area). Gradually, you will feel the girl start to move, her legs will move involuntarily, and she will make more erotic moans. More sensitive girls will start to get wet around their vaginal opening.

After assisting (about ten minutes), start the main attack!

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The Complete Manual of Oral Sex for Men (Part Two)

Through assisting, you have basically overcome the girl's shyness and destroyed her psychological defenses. At this time, she will be in a state of wanting to resist but also welcoming. Men can then enter the main offensive position and start launching a frontal attack.

Attention, girls reading this! At this point, girls should take the initiative. Spread your legs wide, ideally arching them back to expose your entire genitals to the guy. There's nothing to be shy about; in fact, a little initiative at this moment can give the guy more motivation and engagement.

Guys, look here: After the girl raises and spreads her legs, focus on conquering a few key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is where the vagina and anus connect (the same for guys, though they don't have a vagina; it's where the testicles connect to the anus, haha). The skin in this area is taut but extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When you kiss the girl's inner thighs, she'll feel a tingling sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when you kiss the perineum, she'll experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing a woman's perineum, if you can overcome your psychological barrier, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement. If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the perineum to her labia.

At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid is usually clear and thin; if you like, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty. How should you kiss the labia? Don't touch them yet. Use your tongue to pry open the labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or when highly aroused, the labia may separate on their own). Take one labia into your mouth and sweep your tongue over it, paying attention to both the inside and outside. Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, and your lips and… Excuse me, I need to check my fax; I'll continue later.

Supplement: Slightly turn your body to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time and suck on them. Use your tongue to make a sweeping motion between the two labia. The woman will feel incredibly good.

The Complete Manual of Oral Sex for Men (Part 3)

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Okay, everyone, let's get back to the main text:

As mentioned above, how to kiss a woman's labia. Remember, when kissing the labia, you should suck the woman's labia as much as possible into your mouth and gently sweep and lick with your tongue. The woman will feel a bit itchy in the labia area. She wants you to kiss more places and more widely. Ignore them. Just kiss as you like. Because not many women will say, "Darling, kiss me here and there, and kiss me here and there..."

You can gently bite her labia while she's enjoying herself. The flesh is in your mouth, so whether you bite or how you bite is entirely up to you, hehe. But don't bite too hard; just the right amount. Enough to make her suddenly scream, basically ruining the sensation she's building up.

Seeing this, male netizens might think bangbang is a pervert—why ruin a woman's experience?

Well, that question should be answered by the moderator, numen, who's a doctor (sorry numen, I accidentally put you on this stage, but you said you'd fulfill your duties as moderator, so now it's your chance to shine, haha).

Okay, let me explain. Male sexual arousal is achieved through the friction between the eyes and genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically as a steep, vertical curve. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (sweet words) and the mind (imagination and feelings). Achieving orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. This can be represented graphically as a trapezoidal shape.

After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who's kissing her, haha, just kidding. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state. Accepting your continued stimulation in this semi-conscious state will make her next sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more.

This technique should be used repeatedly when giving a woman oral sex, but don't do it too frequently, or she might kick you off the bed, hey. Be careful when biting; the labia are very delicate.

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If you gently bite a girl's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her earlier "Ah" into a soft "Oh." This gives her a feeling of wanting to curse but not being able to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's so much fun. *_^

The Complete Guide to Oral Sex for Men (Part Four)

After you've "conquered" the girl's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In bedroom terminology, a girl's vagina is sometimes called a "clam (labia)," which is quite descriptive, and indeed, there are "pearls" (clitoris) inside the "clam."

The following scenes will have more detailed descriptions, so please stay tuned, moderators and site administrators!

As mentioned above, after gently biting a woman's labia, quickly block her vaginal opening with your lips. This will give her a warm and comfortable feeling. Now it's time to get started. You should gently separate her labia with your thumb to expose her vaginal opening. Use your tongue to circle around the vaginal opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes with your entire lips pressed against it. Remember not to blow air into the woman's vagina; it's not fun and can easily lead to problems.

At this point, the woman's attention will be entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris will begin to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying; try later). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she will only feel swelling and probably won't feel much sensation. At this point, you can pause briefly without kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from within the clitoris. The woman will let out a few soft moans, and then you can return to kissing her vaginal opening and labia.

At this point, the girl's clitoris has just been stimulated and she will be eager for you to kiss it again. Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this time. Keep her in that state of arousal. The man should begin by gently licking upwards from the girl's perineum towards the clitoris, slowly. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.

At this point, the girl should be telling herself, "I'm almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." No matter what she says or pulls at you, just don't kiss the clitoris. When you're almost there, gently, as lightly as possible, use the tip of your tongue to lightly brush and touch her clitoris (your tongue should have a little saliva on it), then immediately reverse the direction and lick towards the vaginal opening. This will drive the girl crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her. *_^

When kissing the vaginal opening, guys with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around. Stir however you like, as long as you can get it moving :) Women really enjoy this, but guys should be careful with the back of their tongues; sticking it out too far can hurt them. Guys with thick tongues (like me, so pitiful!) can only insert a small section, but they can curl their tongues up and insert them. Even though it's not much, it can make the woman feel very full. And the feeling of a thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something guys with thin tongues can't give a woman. Guys with thin tongues can lightly tease the cleft of the woman's labia with the tip of their tongue, which is also very comfortable. Each has its

own merits. :) Now you can start focusing on getting the "pearl" (clitoris). Move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many guys might think that just licking the woman's clitoris hard will bring her to orgasm, but that's a bit of a mistake. The woman's clitoris is very sensitive. If you lick too hard, her pain will outweigh her pleasure, and that won't be fun. When kissing the clitoris, keep a few things in mind: your tongue must be wet, light, and pointed, and it's essential to keep it moist (the water you prepared in Chapter 1 will come in handy now). When licking the clitoris, be gentle and use

only the tip of your tongue. Use the five-word technique of "point, flick, push, press, stir" to attack the clitoris. "Point" means lightly touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; "flick" means flicking the clitoris upwards from below; "push" means using your tongue to gently push the clitoris from side to side; "press" means pressing the clitoris slightly with your tongue from time to time; and "stir" means stirring

around the clitoris with your tongue while it's in your mouth. At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, as she will be very engaged and excited. You can feel a slight throbbing under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you're holding it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; maintain a steady pace, as sudden, rapid movements can easily bring her to orgasm.

Men often prefer longer sex and a later ejaculation for greater comfort. At this time, girls, like boys, hope that this unusually comfortable feeling will last longer, so you must be considerate of this feeling. Unless the other party strongly requests you to "give" her, or your tongue becomes numb from kissing for too long, you should not use a fast pace to bring her to orgasm.

Oh... my hands are so tired! This article is too long, I will post it in two parts.

The Complete Manual of Oral Sex for Men (Part 5)

There is a very useful technique. Don't imitate the way male protagonists in porn movies lick randomly, and don't always kiss the girl's clitoris in the above way. When you have done these actions well enough to bring the other party to orgasm, you should use your entire lips to hold the girl's clitoris. Press your upper lip against the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate the girl's labia, trying to get as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on how big your lips are, hehe). Hold the girl's clitoris in your mouth (leave some space), so that the girl feels that her clitoris is floating in your mouth; use the five-word technique to launch the attack.

This is the most meaningful moment for a guy to give a girl oral sex, because you can control her level of excitement and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick her for a while until she has a sudden spasm, and when she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in anger. Or, as soon as I release her clitoris, I immediately put it back in her mouth when she's about to scream, and she's so comfortable that she can't scream anymore. How proud you are when you see that you can control a girl's emotions! But don't go too far, or she'll kick you off the bed in no time. I've tried it once :(

While licking a girl's clitoris, you can also scratch her pubic hair with your hand, which feels very good; you can also gently tease her anus with your fingers; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir; you can also reach up and grab her breasts with both hands. These are all actions that can make a girl feel even better. In military terms, it's called "encircling the point and attacking the reinforcements" :)

At this time, whatever you ask of a girl, she will agree. If she doesn't agree, you stop these actions. She'll be anxious and will definitely agree, of course, depending on whether your request is excessive. I usually ask her to "go through the back door" for me, but she never agrees :(

You can make her beg you to give her an orgasm, hehe. Watching her plead with you to hurry up and give her one will give you a great sense of conquest. Then, while you're swaying your head, you'll be licking her rapidly with your tongue. The girl's thighs will clench tighter and tighter (girls, pay attention: if your boyfriend tells you his neck hurts the next day, it's because of you clenching it, hmph!), then a strong spasm, and then her body relaxes. If you're really into it, you can hold her clitoris in your mouth and don't move it, just hold it in your mouth and suck on her clitoris, but don't use your tongue to do anything or touch the clitoris, because at this time the girl's clitoris is very engorged and swollen, and extremely sensitive during an orgasm. If you touch it at this time, the girl will feel "pleasure" but also "pain". Unless you want to "punish" her severely, then you can continue licking and watch her happily dodge left and right for a while.

A female orgasm can last a long time, from ten to several tens of seconds. They will lie on the bed motionless or even have full-body spasms. At this point, just go do whatever you need to do, like wiping your sweat or drinking water. Because at this point, the girl is practically oblivious to orgasms; her mind is completely focused on extreme excitement, and there's no room for you.

By the time you come back, she'll have just recovered. After a girl's oral sex orgasm, she desperately craves something like an eggplant to be immediately inserted into her vagina. Guys, you don't need to explain that, right? *_^

These days, eggplants aren't reliable; you have to rely on yourself. If you've become "soft" because you were too focused on giving the girl oral sex, you can ask her to give you oral sex for a while, and once you've "regained your strength," you can move on to another area.

The Complete Guide to Oral Sex for Men (Postscript)

After a long day, I've finally finished compiling the "Complete Guide to Oral Sex for Men." If you feel like there's more to it than meets the eye, just ask the moderators; they didn't want me to describe it in too much detail, so feel free to criticize them. :)

This is just my personal experience, posted here to share with netizens. Those who haven't experienced this before can try it, but if you really can't get over the psychological barrier, then forget it (actually, the so-called psychological barrier is just male chauvinism).

Not every girl is suitable for oral sex, because some girls may have more secretions and a stronger body odor due to endocrine imbalances. Even if they are clean, their genitals will still have a strong smell, which is hard for guys to accept. If it were me, I wouldn't want to either, so girls with this characteristic should be more understanding.

Also, don't do oral sex a few days before a girl's period, because girls usually have more vaginal discharge during their period (what is vaginal discharge is for the moderator numen to answer), and if you do oral sex at this time, the vaginal fluid will be mixed with vaginal discharge, which is not very hygienic.

You can play some music while doing oral sex, kiss the girl in rhythm with the music, and imply to her that the rhythm of your oral sex comes from the music, so that she can feel your kisses while listening to music, which will make her feel very romantic and comfortable. Try some music with a strong rhythm to see which one suits your kissing frequency. Personally, I recommend the guzheng piece "Wild Geese Descending on the Sandbank," the pipa piece "Ambush from Ten Sides," and the guitar piece "Hotel California." Definitely avoid "Moon Reflected in the Second Spring"—that melancholic music will ruin the atmosphere.

For both men and women, oral sex requires practice; once you're inexperienced, twice you'll get used to it, and by the third time… you'll be out of words. All

you need is your emotional investment. Don't think that oral sex is shameful. After reading the previous articles, guys should know that oral sex can also provide a great sense of conquest.

On the other hand, guys need a sense of conquest, and so do girls. This makes them more engaged, proactive, and cooperative during sex. Don't men need a sense of conquest? Giving a woman oral sex shows a man's chivalry and gives her satisfaction and a sense of conquest. Why not?

The best principle of sex is: "fairness." Mutual active involvement leads to greater pleasure.

Okay, that concludes the full "

Complete Manual for Male Oral Sex ." Hopefully

, it contributes to Chinese sexual culture! :) ... If you want to show your girlfriend more love, respect, and equality, and you can overcome any chauvinistic tendencies, you can modify the positions taught in the "Complete Manual"—what we call the "enhanced version."

Start by having the woman lie on the bed and perform oral sex as instructed in the "Complete Manual." After stimulating various areas, the man lies on the bed with his head elevated using a pillow, allowing the woman to "ride" on his head (hehe, this is truly riding on the man's head and dominating him!). The man performs oral sex with his face upwards. This way, the woman can more actively adjust the stimulated areas, while the man gets more tired, often having to look up to kiss her, which can cause neck strain.

However, this method of oral sex is several times more stimulating and satisfying for the woman than lying on the bed. Imagine from the woman's perspective: a man she loves is lying beneath her—in a broader sense, a man is being ridden beneath her, performing oral sex on her—what a stimulating, satisfying, and conquering experience that is!

Guys will feel the vaginal fluid of an excited woman flowing all over their chin, even down their neck and around their mouth. During oral sex, you can try gently rubbing the woman with the tip of your nose or your beard (if you don't have one, grow one quickly!), which will provide a unique kind of stimulation.

Which guy would do this? Don't ask me, I've tried it several times, of course, with my girlfriend.

※Source: the unknown space bbs.mit.edu.

The Complete Guide to Oral Sex for Men (Part 1)

Yesterday I posted an article titled "Would You Voluntarily Perform Oral Sex on a Woman?" The number of replies was decent, but it's clear that most people are unwilling to try it, perhaps because they feel it's too much of a stigma for men. Actually, performing oral sex on a woman is a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology perspective, the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan between your tongue and mouth is very enjoyable.

The following oral sex manual refers to men performing oral sex on women. It's based on my personal experience, and the sensations experienced by women are from my observations and feedback from my girlfriend. I've slightly edited it out, but since the moderator and site administrator have instructed me not to go into too much detail, I don't know if everyone will understand it this way. Sigh... these days, even the moderator and site administrator can't be relied on.

I. Preparations before oral sex:

Sex is a wonderful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere for it, such as doing it at night and dimming the lights. Both of you should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genital area has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easier for dirt to accumulate. So, when showering, make sure to thoroughly clean the labia majora and minora. The man should turn on some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, the woman should get into the habit of applying a little perfume to her genital area, but don't use too much or too strong a perfume. When the man is giving you oral sex, his nose is closest to your genitals, and if the perfume is too strong, it can easily overwhelm him. Also, don't apply perfume to the labia, because the scent of your vaginal fluid isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to your pubic hair and inner thighs. It's also good to lightly apply a little to the anus. Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water by the bed so she can easily reach it if she's thirsty, avoiding interrupting her experience by having to go outside to get water.

Second, several sensitive areas for women:

Guys, don't think that oral sex means you just pounce on a girl and kiss her clitoris as soon as you get into bed. Don't be so aggressive. You should know that a woman's body reacts very slowly. Give them some time to adjust. The clitoris is an extremely sensitive part. Stimulating it right away will not be as effective.

Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hug her and say a few sweet nothings, like "You're so beautiful" or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on her breasts, as they are a very important erogenous zone for women (how to kiss them will be taught in another article).

At this point, the woman should feel a slight tingling sensation all over her body, and you should start approaching her genitals. Begin kissing from the inner thighs, gently separating her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their genitals to you. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when separating her legs; do it gently, little by little. Begin by gently licking her thighs with your tongue, starting from the outer labia majora and moving upwards along the cleft of her thighs towards her hip bones (on both sides of her lower abdomen). Repeat this about ten times. The woman will feel a ticklish, tingling sensation, and a slight soreness near the vaginal opening.

Next, gently lick down her thighs to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive spot for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area more often. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip this step and move back

to the inner thighs. Repeat the above steps. This tactic is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, you should treat the girl as an "enemy" or "opponent." First, distract the "enemy's" attention, take the initiative, and guide the "enemy's" senses to follow your tongue. Play guerrilla warfare on any of her body's mountains (breasts), hills (lower abdomen), valleys (inner thighs), and forests (pubic hair area). Gradually, you will feel the girl start to move, her legs will move involuntarily, and she will make more erotic moans. More sensitive girls will start to get wet around their vaginal opening.

After assisting (about ten minutes), start the main attack!

Everyone, watch it a few more times. I'm going to have some breakfast before I write more...

The Complete Manual of Oral Sex for Men (Part Two)

Through assisting, you have basically overcome the girl's shyness and destroyed her psychological defenses. At this time, she will be in a state of wanting to resist but also welcoming. Men can then enter the main offensive position and start launching a frontal attack.

Attention, girls reading this! At this point, girls should take the initiative. Spread your legs wide, ideally arching them back to expose your entire genitals to the guy. There's nothing to be shy about; in fact, a little initiative at this moment can give the guy more motivation and engagement.

Guys, look here: After the girl raises and spreads her legs, focus on conquering a few key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is where the vagina and anus connect (the same for guys, though they don't have a vagina; it's where the testicles connect to the anus, haha). The skin in this area is taut but extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When you kiss the girl's inner thighs, she'll feel a tingling sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when you kiss the perineum, she'll experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing a woman's perineum, if you can overcome your psychological barrier, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement. If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the perineum to her labia.

At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid is usually clear and thin; if you like, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty. How should you kiss the labia? Don't touch them yet. Use your tongue to pry open the labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or when highly aroused, the labia may separate on their own). Take one labia into your mouth and sweep your tongue over it, paying attention to both the inside and outside. Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, and your lips and… Excuse me, I need to check my fax; I'll continue later.

Supplement: Slightly turn your body to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time and suck on them. Use your tongue to make a sweeping motion between the two labia. The woman will feel incredibly good.

The Complete Manual of Oral Sex for Men (Part 3)

Sorry, this fax is urgent. I'm afraid that if I leave, my colleagues will come and use my computer and find out that I'm writing this. They will be unable to resist eating me. Sigh, it's terrible. These days, even computers are unreliable. I have to disconnect and log out.

Okay, everyone, let's get back to the main text:

As mentioned above, how to kiss a woman's labia. Remember, when kissing the labia, you should suck the woman's labia as much as possible into your mouth and gently sweep and lick with your tongue. The woman will feel a bit itchy in the labia area. She wants you to kiss more places and more widely. Ignore them. Just kiss as you like. Because not many women will say, "Darling, kiss me here and there, and kiss me here and there..."

You can gently bite her labia while she's enjoying herself. The flesh is in your mouth; whether you bite or how you bite is entirely up to you, right? Hehe. But don't bite too hard; just the right amount, enough to make her suddenly scream, basically ruining the sensation she's built up.

Seeing this, male netizens might think bangbang is perverted—why ruin a woman's experience?

Well, this question should be answered by the moderator, numen, who's a doctor (sorry, numen, I accidentally put you on the show, but you said you'd fulfill your duties as moderator, so now's your chance to shine, haha).

Okay, let me explain. Male sexual arousal is achieved through the friction between the eyes and genitals. This direct stimulation can quickly bring a man to orgasm, which can be represented graphically as a steep, continuous rise and fall. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (hearing your sweet words) and the mind (imagination and feeling). Achieving orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. If represented graphically, it would be like the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, shaped like a trapezoid.

After the previous round of kissing, the girl has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who's kissing her, haha, just kidding. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state, and accepting your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state will make her next sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more.

This technique should be used repeatedly when giving a girl oral sex, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed, hey. Be careful when biting, her labia are very delicate.

(I've decided to turn off the pager; so many messages are coming in, are you even letting me write anymore?)

When you lightly bite a girl's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her earlier "Ah" into a soft "Oh." This gives the girl a feeling of wanting to curse but not being able to, wanting to scream but not daring to, which is quite fun. *_^

The Complete Guide to Oral Sex for Men (Part 4)

After you have "conquered" the girl's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In bedroom terminology, the girl's vagina is sometimes called a "clam (labia)," which is quite descriptive, and indeed, there is a "pearl (clitoris)" inside the "clam."

The following scenes will have more detailed descriptions, so please stay tuned, moderators and site administrators!

As mentioned above, after gently biting a woman's labia, quickly block her vaginal opening with your lips. This will give her a warm and comfortable feeling. Now it's time to get started. You should gently separate her labia with your thumb to expose her vaginal opening. Use your tongue to circle around the vaginal opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes with your entire lips pressed against it. Remember not to blow air into the woman's vagina; it's not fun and can easily lead to problems.

At this point, the woman's attention will be entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris will begin to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying; try later). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she will only feel swelling and probably won't feel much sensation. At this point, you can pause briefly without kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from within the clitoris. The woman will let out a few soft moans, and then you can return to kissing her vaginal opening and labia.

At this point, the girl's clitoris has just been stimulated and she will be eager for you to kiss it again. Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this time. Keep her in that state of arousal. The man should begin by gently licking upwards from the girl's perineum towards the clitoris, slowly. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.

At this point, the girl should be telling herself, "I'm almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." No matter what she says or pulls at you, just don't kiss the clitoris. When you're almost there, gently, as lightly as possible, use the tip of your tongue to lightly brush and touch her clitoris (your tongue should have a little saliva on it), then immediately reverse the direction and lick towards the vaginal opening. This will drive the girl crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her. *_^

When kissing the vaginal opening, guys with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around. Stir however you like, as long as you can get it moving :) Women really enjoy this, but guys should be careful with the back of their tongues; sticking it out too far can hurt them. Guys with thick tongues (like me, so pitiful!) can only insert a small section, but they can curl their tongues up and insert them. Even though it's not much, it can make the woman feel very full. And the feeling of a thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something guys with thin tongues can't give a woman. Guys with thin tongues can lightly tease the cleft of the woman's labia with the tip of their tongue, which is also very comfortable. Each has its

own merits. :) Now you can start focusing on getting the "pearl" (clitoris). Move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many guys might think that just licking the woman's clitoris hard will bring her to orgasm, but that's a bit of a mistake. The woman's clitoris is very sensitive. If you lick too hard, her pain will outweigh her pleasure, and that won't be fun. When kissing the clitoris, keep a few things in mind: your tongue must be wet, light, and pointed, and it's essential to keep it moist (the water you prepared in Chapter 1 will come in handy now). When licking the clitoris, be gentle and use

only the tip of your tongue. Use the five-word technique of "point, flick, push, press, stir" to attack the clitoris. "Point" means lightly touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; "flick" means flicking the clitoris upwards from below; "push" means using your tongue to gently push the clitoris from side to side; "press" means pressing the clitoris slightly with your tongue from time to time; and "stir" means stirring

around the clitoris with your tongue while it's in your mouth. At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, as she will be very engaged and excited. You can feel a slight throbbing under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you're holding it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; maintain a steady pace, as sudden, rapid movements can easily bring her to orgasm.

Men often prefer longer sex and a later ejaculation for greater comfort. At this time, girls, like boys, hope that this unusually comfortable feeling will last longer, so you must be considerate of this feeling. Unless the other party strongly requests you to "give" her, or your tongue becomes numb from kissing for too long, you should not use a fast pace to bring her to orgasm.

Oh... my hands are so tired! This article is too long, I will post it in two parts.

The Complete Manual of Oral Sex for Men (Part 5)

There is a very useful technique. Don't imitate the way male protagonists in porn movies lick randomly, and don't always kiss the girl's clitoris in the above way. When you have done these actions well enough to bring the other party to orgasm, you should use your entire lips to hold the girl's clitoris. Press your upper lip against the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate the girl's labia, trying to get as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on how big your lips are, hehe). Hold the girl's clitoris in your mouth (leave some space), so that the girl feels that her clitoris is floating in your mouth; use the five-word technique to launch the attack.

This is the most meaningful moment for a guy to give a girl oral sex, because you can control her level of excitement and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick her for a while until she has a sudden spasm, and when she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in anger. Or, as soon as I release her clitoris, I immediately put it back in her mouth when she's about to scream, and she's so comfortable that she can't scream anymore. How proud you are when you see that you can control a girl's emotions! But don't go too far, or she'll kick you off the bed in no time. I've tried it once :(

While licking a girl's clitoris, you can also scratch her pubic hair with your hand, which feels very good; you can also gently tease her anus with your fingers; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir; you can also reach up and grab her breasts with both hands. These are all actions that can make a girl feel even better. In military terms, it's called "encircling the point and attacking the reinforcements" :)

At this time, whatever you ask of a girl, she will agree. If she doesn't agree, you stop these actions. She'll be anxious and will definitely agree, of course, depending on whether your request is excessive. I usually ask her to "go to the back door" for me, but she never agrees: (

You can make her beg you to give her an orgasm, hehe, watching her plead with you to hurry up and give it to her, you'll feel so conquered. Then you can lick her rapidly with your tongue while swaying your head, the girl's thighs will squeeze tighter and tighter (girls, pay attention, if your boyfriend tells you his neck hurts the next day, it's because of you squeezing, hmph), then a strong spasm, and then her body relaxes. If you're really interested, you can hold her clitoris in your mouth and not move, just... Suck on her clitoris, but don't use your tongue to do anything or touch it. At this time, the clitoris is very engorged and swollen, and extremely sensitive during orgasm. Touching it will make her feel "pleasurably" painful. Unless you want to "punish" her severely, then continue licking and watch her happily dodge and weave. A female

orgasm can last a long time, from ten to several tens of seconds. They will lie motionless on the bed or even have full-body convulsions. At this time, you can go do whatever you need to do, such as wiping away sweat. Drinking water or something similar is fine, because at this point, the girl is practically oblivious to the orgasm; her mind is completely absorbed in extreme excitement, leaving no room for you.

By the time you come back, she'll have just recovered. After a girl's oral sex orgasm, she desperately craves something like an eggplant to be immediately inserted into her vagina—guys, you know that, right? *_^

These days, eggplants aren't reliable; you have to rely on yourself. If you've become "soft" because you were too focused on giving her oral sex, you can ask her to give you oral sex for a while, and then... After "regaining my virility," I immediately moved on to another battleground.

The Complete Guide to Male Oral Sex (Postscript)

After a long day, I finally finished compiling the "Complete Guide to Male Oral Sex." If you feel it's not enough, just blame the moderators; they didn't want me to describe it too much, so scold them! :)

This is just some of my personal experience, posted here to share with netizens. Those who haven't experienced this can try it, but if you really can't overcome that psychological barrier, then forget it (actually, the so-called psychological barrier is just male chauvinism).

Not every girl is suitable for oral sex, because some girls may have more secretions and a stronger body odor due to hormonal imbalances. Even after cleaning, their genitals will still have a strong smell, which is difficult for men to accept. If it were me, I wouldn't want to either. Girls with this characteristic should be more understanding.

Also, avoid oral sex a few days before a woman's period, as vaginal discharge usually increases during menstruation (for what vaginal discharge is, please ask the moderator numen). Performing oral sex at this time, with the vaginal fluid mixed with discharge, is not hygienic.

You can play some music during oral sex and kiss her in rhythm with the music, subtly suggesting that the rhythm of your kisses is inspired by the music. Let her feel your kisses while listening to the music; it will make her feel romantic and comfortable. Try some music with a strong rhythm to see which one suits your kissing frequency. I personally recommend the guzheng piece "Wild Geese Descending on the Sandbank," the pipa piece "Ambush from Ten Sides," and the guitar piece "Hotel California." Definitely avoid playing "Moon Reflected in the Second Spring," as that melancholic music will ruin the atmosphere.

For both men and women, oral sex requires practice; the first time is awkward, the second time is easy, and the third time... well, I'm speechless. All

you need is your emotional investment. Don't think that oral sex is shameful. After reading the previous articles, guys should know that oral sex can also provide a great sense of conquest.

On the other hand, guys need a sense of conquest, and so do girls. This makes them more engaged, proactive, and cooperative during sex. Don't men need a sense of conquest? Giving a woman oral sex shows a man's chivalry and gives her satisfaction and a sense of conquest. Why not?

The best principle of sex is: "fairness." Mutual active involvement leads to greater pleasure.

Okay, that concludes the full "

Complete Manual for Male Oral Sex ." Hopefully

, it contributes to Chinese sexual culture! :) ... If you want to show your girlfriend more love, respect, and equality, and you can overcome any chauvinistic tendencies, you can modify the positions taught in the "Complete Manual"—what we call the "enhanced version."

Start by having the woman lie on the bed and perform oral sex as instructed in the "Complete Manual." After stimulating various areas, the man lies on the bed with his head elevated using a pillow, allowing the woman to "ride" on his head (hehe, this is truly riding on the man's head and dominating him!). The man performs oral sex with his face upwards. This way, the woman can more actively adjust the stimulated areas, while the man gets more tired, often having to look up to kiss her, which can cause neck strain.

However, this method of oral sex is several times more stimulating and satisfying for the woman than lying on the bed. Imagine from the woman's perspective: a man she loves is lying beneath her—in a broader sense, a man is being ridden beneath her, performing oral sex on her—what a stimulating, satisfying, and conquering experience that is!

Guys will feel the vaginal fluid of an excited girl flowing all over their chin, even down their neck and around their mouth. During oral sex, you can try gently rubbing the girl with the tip of your nose or your beard (if you don't have one, grow one quickly!), it will create a unique kind of stimulation.

Which guy would do this? Don't ask, I've tried it several times, of course, with my girlfriend.

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