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First of all, I want to say that I love my wife very much, and I can feel that she loves me too. My wife is a very traditional person; her usual clothing reflects her personality—very conservative. We've been married for five years, and she has never had a relationship with another man besides me. She probably hasn't even seen another man's penis. Our sex life is generally harmonious, but the quality isn't very high.
I don't know if it's because we've been doing it too much or for some other reason, but I feel that my wife's interest is decreasing. Many times when I suggest having sex, she refuses, which makes me, a man with a strong sex drive, very unhappy. Because I love my wife, I won't force it. Plus, my wife's vagina is really small, and without lubrication, if she doesn't agree, it's difficult for me to penetrate her even if she lies still. I've tried to force it in a few times, but it hurt my penis, and she was also very uncomfortable. Sigh! The passion we once had is completely gone.
Once in bed, I half-jokingly said, "It seems you don't feel anything for me anymore. If a strange man were to have sex with you, you would definitely be as eager as we were at the beginning." Then I said, "If a strange man touches your breasts like this, kisses you like this, does this to you..." As I spoke, I touched her, and after a while, when I touched my wife's vulva, I was surprised to find it was wet. (Some might say, "Isn't it normal for a vulva to be wet?" But you should know that normally, before sex, no matter how much I touch or foreplay, my wife rarely gets wet; it takes a lot of effort to penetrate and for a while before it's all wet.) But this time was different. This was the easiest time I'd penetrated in years without external lubricant or saliva (most of the time I do oral sex first). We had a great time that night, and my wife even had two rare orgasms! After we finished, I continued, "It seems you need a strange man to rekindle your passion." She then said, "I really want to try with another man." I didn't know how to feel after hearing that, but then I thought, I've had so many girlfriends, while my wife only has me as her man, so it's actually quite normal for her to have such thoughts. So I asked again, "Do you really want to play with other men?" She immediately denied it, saying of course not, it was just a joke, and I'm already very content with having such a good husband like you. Actually, I was very conflicted when I asked her this, because I realized that when I was pretending to be a stranger and having sex with my wife, I also felt a strange excitement. From the fluids she released, I could tell she was also excited; there was no way I could fool her. But I didn't want my wife to actually be thinking about other men, yet I couldn't explain why I was excited.
Thinking back, could I really accept my wife sleeping with other men? If I couldn't, why was I so excited?
Just because I was simply pretending to be a stranger, my wife was so excited! Could it be that she's already thinking about other men?
I'm so conflicted. Please, experts, give me some advice!

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