Sharing my personal views on couples making friends (forwarded)

We hope to make friends with couples of good character. By "good character," we mean: presentable appearance, respectable profession, loving marriage, a certain level of education, civilized behavior, good health and hygiene, with men who care for women, and not overly selfish. We hope to build a trustworthy friendship with you. We can chat, sing together, dine at any of your homes, and travel together. Of course, things will fall into place naturally when the time is right. We have some business friends, and as you know, business friendships are based on mutual benefit. In today's competitive society, we hope to make friends without any financial ties, based solely on marital friendship, to relieve work pressure. We don't oppose getting to the point of sex, but we crave genuine friendship. Sex without communication only provides novelty, not happiness. Therefore, we hope to form friendly families with couples who share our values, which is also advocated for building a harmonious society and harmonious families. II. Background of Couples' Friendships In today's society, temptations abound, and no one can guarantee that either spouse will refrain from actions that could harm the other. Husbands engaging in prostitution outside the marriage and wives having affairs at home—just because it didn't happen today doesn't mean it won't happen in the future; just because it didn't happen during the honeymoon period doesn't mean it won't happen years later. We see and hear far too many examples of this. Whether it's the husband's or wife's behavior, it's a form of illicit activity, causing harm to each other and even jeopardizing family stability, thus endangering social stability. This is unacceptable. From a fairness perspective, Chinese society is still a patriarchal one. Men can have relationships with many women without consequence, but if a woman has a relationship with another man, the problem becomes serious—this is extremely unfair. From a physiological perspective, women's sexual needs far exceed those of men, but constrained by traditional values, women dare not pursue sexual happiness. This is a tragedy for society and for women themselves. To solve these problems, we believe that couples' friendships are an excellent way to address these issues and will be the mainstream approach to managing male-female relationships in the future. Third, we believe that any act of physical or emotional infidelity will harm the stability of the family. Therefore, we advocate that as long as the couple is loving, has a good relationship, talks about everything, and has no secrets between them, they can adopt the approach of "let's all have fun together" and adhere to the three principles of "adulthood," "voluntariness," and "privacy." With a positive attitude and progressive ideas, they should make friends with high-quality people, communicate fully, and build deep friendships. Then, when the time is right, what is meant to happen will happen naturally, and it will be a happy one. IV. Statements: 1. We oppose unilateral consensual sex between spouses; we only accept acts involving mutual participation. 2. We hope to engage in sexual activity with the other spouse only after thorough communication, understanding, and trust. 3. The other spouse must be healthy, and the man must know how to respect women. Only hygiene ensures safety. 4. There are no geographical restrictions. For couples far away, we are willing to form friendly travel assistance families, providing a friend as a tour guide when traveling to each other's locations. 5. When interacting with us, sincerity is paramount. Don't hesitate or be afraid to act. Exchanging photos first is essential to leave a good impression, as it involves four people, and mutual satisfaction is difficult. 6. Of course, we are not celebrities; we are just ordinary people. We should not demand celebrity standards from our partners. As long as they meet the following criteria: "decent appearance, legitimate occupation, loving marriage, some education, civilized behavior, good health and hygiene, the man is caring towards women, and not overly selfish," age is not an issue. 7. Our interactions are safe, and we hope you will adhere to the principle of privacy and conduct your friendships ethically. 8. We oppose situations where the couple's views are not aligned, they want to do something but are afraid to, or they violate decisions made unilaterally by one spouse. V. Regarding gatherings, we do not object to things naturally occurring during a gathering, based on thorough communication and mutual attraction. 1. Safety measures must be taken when there is no mutual understanding or familiarity. 2. Activities must be conducted within the male's sight without the female's consent. 3. We do not object to unconventional activities, but they must be voluntary and enjoyable for both parties. 4. If you wish to hold the event at the other's home, please make proper arrangements for children if there are any. 5. Both spouses must have aligned views; any pressure from one party will cause unhappiness and may even affect family stability. 6. We do not object to maintaining a long-term friendly relationship between spouses, and regular gatherings bring more joy and reduce the energy spent searching for suitable new partners. 7. We do not object to either spouse having homosexual tendencies, but these must be within manageable limits. 8. We hope that each other... Communication and interaction are encouraged, and feelings of attraction are not opposed. However, neither party may contact, spend time alone with, or secretly meet with the other privately or alone to prevent emotional escalation. 9. We do not object to the suggestion of inviting other couples to participate in the activities, but this must be done within our means and in a safe manner. Too many people may cause physical harm and defeat the purpose of making friends. 10. We do not object to the suggestion of adding "strength" to the activities by inviting outstanding single men, as this will benefit the women participating in the activities. 11. We do not object to mild SM activities or the use of sex toys in the activities, but we firmly oppose the use of drugs as stimulants.
12. Participants should approach every activity with a scientific attitude and a healthy mindset. We hope everyone will increase friendships and benefit their physical and mental well-being through the activities.

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