What should I do if my wife won't give me oral sex?

We've been married for over four years, and our child is one and a half years old. My usual sexual needs are met about three times a week. Each time, I have to beg – literally beg – and she's only half willing. Every time, I have to painstakingly pull down her underwear; she never cooperates willingly. Honestly, it always feels like I'm forcing her. To be honest, sometimes forcing her is fun, but with this constant cycle, it feels like sex is her reward for me. If I upset her even slightly, I don't even want to think about sex that night! Day after day, year after year, it's always the missionary position, the man-on-top position. Don't you guys want to try something different? But my wife won't agree. She really won't agree, not half-heartedly. If you're forceful, she gets angry! And oral sex – almost every time, I lick her for a while first. Aren't women supposed to need foreplay? Licking her makes her feel good, and then penetration is naturally smooth. Otherwise, she always says I go in too fast and it hurts her. To be honest, I'm willing too. We're a couple! Oral sex is the best form of communication between husband and wife. Of course, I respect women. Statistics show that women give oral sex to men far more often than men give it to women. You'd think I'd done enough! But she's never given me oral sex, not even after showering. I'm so frustrated! She always says it's dirty and she can't stand it. I've told her countless times: a person's private parts, if healthy, are the cleanest place. Relatively speaking, the mouth and hands are much dirtier, so what's wrong with that? I'm a doctor, so I know better, and she believes me. But it's still not okay, just not okay. It hasn't happened even once. She won't even kiss me after I've licked her. Forget about anal sex, not even a mention of it, no discussion, absolutely not! I really don't understand! Men probably think similarly, but what about women? Do you think this is understandable? Is it normal? I'm really frustrated! If this continues, I really can't guarantee it won't affect our relationship. I've talked to her about the seriousness of the problem, but she always dismisses it, thinking it's not that serious. I've talked to her repeatedly, but she maintains the same attitude! What should I do? I've thought about it, and it's largely related to traditional social morality and her lower level of education—at least less than mine—meaning she needs time to accept these things. But how can I change this? We've been married for four years, and I've tried everything I can think of, but nothing works. How long can my patience last? Anyone who's been married knows: sex is indeed the core of maintaining love and marriage. Do I have to wait until I have an affair or sleep with a prostitute to make her realize the seriousness of the problem? I really don't want to go that far, at least not now! Do you all think this counts as a psychological problem? Am I the one with a psychological problem? Haha, I really don't understand! So, based on my own experience, I want to remind everyone who isn't married yet: premarital cohabitation is essential; sexual incompatibility is a serious problem!

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