Giving her freedom is true love

When you emphasize that you love her, that she belongs to you, that she can only belong to you, and that she can only have sex with you, this is not love; this is possession.
When you see the truth, you realize that this is attachment, and attachment is a shackle—a beautiful construct of shackles—attachment is not love… When you see the ugliness of attachment, it disappears, and then love arises. When the same energy that became attachment is released from attachment, it becomes a completely different energy; it becomes love.
And this must be "your" understanding. So, look closely, when you are attached to someone, or you think you are in love, look closely, are you possessing? If you are possessing, then you are killing that person, because no one can be possessed; only things can be possessed. People cannot be possessed. How can you possess a living person? You can possess a house, you can possess a car, but you cannot possess a person. How can you possess a child, a husband, a wife, or a lover? No, that effort to possess means you are killing that person; you are turning that person into a commodity, you are turning that person into an appendage or possession.
All lovers do this, and that's why there's so much conflict. So-called love is always a constant struggle between lovers, each trying to possess the other.
This possession breeds jealousy; lovers fear that their partner might love someone else, that their woman might not love them anymore, or that their man might start loving another woman. Jealousy is the shadow of possession; when jealousy arises, fear arises, and all the beauty of love is lost; the whole thing becomes pathological.
Love never possesses, because love knows that love is only possible in a state of complete freedom. Only when the other person is completely free can love be possible.
Love happens in a state of complete freedom, when the other person is not bound by any chains, but is free to give and free not to give—completely free. Only then is the giving beautiful.
When someone comes to you and gives you their love without asking for anything in return, it possesses a beauty that doesn't belong to this world; it possesses a noble quality; it is sacred.
That's why every love is beautiful at the beginning, because there's no expectation, no possession. How can you possess someone you meet online? How can you bind them to your side? How can you be clingy? How can you be jealous? If your connection with her is just a one-time thing, a single night, you'll
cherish every moment. At that moment, you'll love her from the bottom of your heart, wanting to take her to the pinnacle of happiness.
Life is always an unknown event, which is why it's so beautiful. The next moment is always an unknown surprise; don't try to make it predictable. Lovers are unpredictable; wives are. When a person becomes predictable, he is dead. When humanity becomes more aware, marriage will disappear. It's not that people won't be together; in fact, it's only through marriage that people stay together. Currently, they live together, but they're not truly together. They live in the same house, but they don't live in the same home. Their bodies are together, but their hearts are far apart.
So, it's better to let go and let her fly free.

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