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Female masturbation techniques 

Masturbation is a normal human behavior and an effective way for people to relieve sexual tension. Moderate masturbation does not harm health. Almost every man masturbates, regardless of age, marital status, or social position.
Masturbation is not gender-specific; it is by no means a male prerogative. Women also have the need for sexual masturbation. Women, like men, can achieve sexual satisfaction and even orgasm through masturbation. Women understand their own physiology best, knowing where their bodies are most sensitive to touch. Following their mood, they can control when they reach orgasm and how to enjoy the pleasurable sensation.
First, you don't have to abandon your right to enjoy sexual pleasure to cater to a man's ego, or even become like a coy, affected woman in a pornographic film. The feeling of orgasm itself is only temporary, while the stimulation received by the genitals can last for tens of minutes or even hours with very low energy expenditure. Premarital masturbation is a good remedy for sexual frustration and a rehearsal for married sex life.
Second, the benefit of masturbation is that you can do it as you please. You can do it anywhere, of course, while avoiding being discovered.
Another benefit of masturbation is that you can fully control the process and enjoy the pleasure alone. Don't worry about your partner transmitting terrifying sexually transmitted diseases during sex, especially since men always have a bunch of reasons for not using condoms: saying it's not stimulating enough... and women, due to their natural constitution, have a much higher chance of contracting STIs than men. I strongly advocate for women's masturbation, but due to a host of moral and ethical norms, many women are hesitant about it, even foolishly believing it's a male prerogative. Premarital masturbation is a good remedy for sexual frustration and a rehearsal for married sex life.
Masturbation requires a fantasy. Masturbation is satisfying, but it cannot replace a man's care and love. Masturbation is better than bad sex with an incompatible partner. Some people experience stronger orgasms during masturbation than during intercourse. During masturbation, you know which areas are sensitive, which areas to stimulate, and how much pressure to apply. Masturbation is done alone, without the influence of a partner, allowing for greater freedom and fullness in sexual fantasies.
When prolonged intercourse fails to bring about orgasm, masturbation is a positive way to release sexual energy. Use erotic images for extended periods to cultivate your mood. Alternatively, find two or three erotic images and carefully appreciate them, or read erotic or pornographic novels before masturbating. Remember to lock the door while masturbating so no one can see you. When masturbating with your fingers, use your middle finger. You can also use rubber instruments for masturbation, as they are suitable for stimulating the clitoris.
First, hand techniques:
Begin by gently stroking the entire genital area with one finger, multiple fingers, or even your whole hand, then gradually move to more specific areas, such as the inner and outer labia, the inside of the vagina, and the clitoris. The clitoris is particularly sensitive; stimulating it too quickly or roughly will only cause discomfort. If discomfort has occurred, leave the area and return to stimulate the clitoris again after achieving sexual arousal. However, always remember to start with very gentle movements and gradually increase the intensity. Don't stick to one movement; move up and down, or circle to experience what the best stimulation method, speed, and pressure are.
Many women find touching their anal area very pleasurable. If inserting a finger or other safe object such as a vibrator into the anus, remember to thoroughly clean your finger and the object afterward before inserting it into the vagina. Otherwise, bacteria can be introduced into the vagina, easily leading to infection.
Breasts and nipples are also very sensitive to touch and can provide a lot of pleasure. Try different ways of stroking, squeezing, or kneading. You can also stroke your breasts with one hand while using the other to stroke your genitals.
Try different positions: standing, supine, prone, side-lying, sitting, and let your imagination run wild. You can incorporate visual stimulation, such as looking at your naked image in a large mirror while observing your partner's reaction, or watching explicit sexual images or videos.
Don't forget the role of pubic hair; stroking, rubbing, or gently pulling it can produce arousing sensations. A trick to enhance sensation with manual stimulation is to use lubricant or massage cream. However, never use substances with added chemical pigments or perfumes, as these are often irritating. The best lubricant should be composed of odorless, colorless, and chemically inert materials.
Usually, lie on your back with your thighs apart, possibly bent with your knees pointing upwards. Gently stroke your body, especially the inner thighs, and then begin to directly stimulate the clitoris with the middle finger of your right hand. Begin with slow, gentle movements around the clitoris, stimulating the area around the glans, then gradually shift the focus towards the head of the clitoris. Use saliva or soap to moisten the clitoris. Remember to start with very gentle movements and gradually increase the intensity. Don't be static; move up and down, or in circles to find the optimal stimulation method, speed, and pressure. Move back and forth as quickly as possible. As your libido increases, increase the speed of your finger rubbing the clitoris. When you are close to orgasm, stop and feel the sensation of approaching climax. The rubbing and stroking is almost a form of vibration; use this method to make your whole body 'tremble'. Rubbing the clitoris up and down can further stimulate your sexual desire, allowing you to fully enjoy the pleasure of arousal. When you reach orgasm, twist your body rapidly, or lie still, moving only your hands. Imagine someone who wants to have sex with you, and keep thinking about it until you reach orgasm. Remember that female orgasms are continuous; don't stop, continue.
II. Other Techniques
Besides using your hands, you can use other objects to aid in self-pleasure. Here are a few typical examples:
-- When lying face down, place a pillow between your legs and squeeze them tightly together, using the pillow to press on the clitoris. You can also use a hot water bottle, but the temperature should be comfortable.
-- The water pressure from a shower can directly impact the genital area.
-- Use a vibrator to stimulate the breasts and genital area, or lean against a vibrating object, such as a washing machine.
-- Some women achieve sexual pleasure by squeezing their legs together or repeatedly contracting and relaxing their pelvic floor muscles.
Vibrators have become an increasingly fashionable sex tool, with 40% of American women having used them, providing users with an additional dimension of sexual pleasure. Some women who cannot achieve orgasm through masturbation or intercourse have successfully achieved orgasm with the help of vibrators. Vibrators can provide women with the strong and sustained sexual stimulation they need for arousal and orgasm. Their advantages are that they can work continuously while still being controllable by the user. While stimulating one part of the body with one hand, the other hand can still freely stimulate other parts of the body. Just like using one's own fingers, direct stimulation of the clitoris with a vibrator can easily cause discomfort; stimulation through pants or clothing may feel better. Covering the vibrator with soft materials can sometimes bring additional pleasure. Vibrators are not very expensive, so get one for yourself.
Some women are hesitant or negative about using vibrators at first: "It's just a machine; having sex with a machine is too unbelievable." Some women also worry that once they become addicted to it, they won't be able to live without it, so what's the point of having a man? In reality, a vibrator is simply another way to bring pleasure; it won't replace a person's sex life or sexual partner, nor will it interfere with future sexual relationships. The change it brings is simply enhanced ability to achieve self-satisfaction, opening up a new, safe, and effective path to sexual enjoyment. It can also be used as an auxiliary tool during intercourse with a partner.
Here's the simplest method: find a condom, then a cucumber—what, you say that's too thick? Then find a carrot, and put the condom on it. That's the simplest tool. Using a tool can achieve vaginal orgasms that can't be achieved with fingers.
If you don't enjoy yourself or your body, it's difficult to give yourself sexual or other forms of pleasure. Self-pleasure depends on your positive feelings and complete relaxation. If you feel unworthy of pleasure or can only receive pleasure from others, then stop and take steps to relax psychologically, seek help from friends, establish correct sexual attitudes, and strive to overcome this psychological barrier as soon as possible. Improving self-confidence and overcoming feelings of inferiority are the main goals of adjusting your mental state. Only in this way can masturbation training progress and bring real benefits and help.

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