[Repost] My experience before and after a 3P

A month ago, a man added me on QQ. I asked if he was married, and he said he was in a relationship. Later, he told me they were actually lovers, and both of them were married. He asked me to join them for a threesome. I said yes, but only if the woman was willing. He said the woman's wishes were his. So I talked to him about the situation. He said the woman's marriage was troubled and they argued a lot. He said she was very traditional and not a promiscuous woman. I told him about my past experiences, and we exchanged our real names and phone numbers. I also asked if they had ever had a threesome before. He said he had been with three different single men three times, but he wasn't satisfied with any of them. Later, I learned that he was a person with some social standing, a bit famous in a certain field, and someone who could arrange employment for me.
Later, he had the woman add me on QQ. During our first chat on QQ, she also said she had a bad relationship with her husband and hinted at meeting me. I had to wait for my child to come home for dinner, so I didn't agree (he said she was very traditional and not a promiscuous woman, so why did she want to meet me on our first chat?). Later, we didn't have any substantial conversation. She asked what I did for a living, and I said I worked in a shopping mall. Then she said she wanted to buy a coat for her husband (note that I will not comment on this part). Later, I forwarded all our chat history to him. I didn't want to hide anything from him; this is the rule for single men in a threesome.
For a while afterward, they weren't online often and rarely chatted. Until a few days ago, she asked me to meet her near her company after work. She said she'd go home to get something, visit a friend, and then we'd go out for dinner. But when she found out I didn't have a car, she immediately said, "Don't come if you don't have a car" (did she mean to look down on me?). However, she eventually agreed to meet, and she told me not to tell him about our meeting. So I left work early and arrived at the restaurant on time. We ordered a meal costing over 200 yuan, and ate for almost an hour, repeatedly telling her not to tell him about our meeting. Later, she said she had to leave, so I paid the bill and we left the restaurant. As soon as we left, she hurried away. I offered to see her off, but she wouldn't. I offered to take her to the station, but she still wouldn't. I figured she might have something she didn't want me to know, and I didn't need to know about other people's affairs, so we broke up.
After I got home, he asked me on QQ to have a threesome with them the next day. I asked her again if she was willing, and he said she would do as he said, so I agreed. The next morning, I was asking her out on QQ when she said she wasn't the kind of woman they could just play around with and do whatever they wanted, and that I should treat her well. I said it was only right to treat her well; friends should take care of each other, especially since she was a woman who had sex. She was only willing to go this far with him because he treated her well. Just then, he texted me saying they had already booked a hotel room and gave me the room number to come over. I said she hadn't agreed yet, and he said it was okay, she would do as he said, and that since it was our first meeting, I should buy her a small gift, which was perfectly reasonable and I would have done even if he hadn't asked. I thought this was a bit strange. Since they had booked a hotel room, they should be together, so why was one texting me to come over while the other was still trying to negotiate with me on QQ? Nevertheless, I decided to go. However, since things happened so suddenly, I hadn't prepared a gift, so I bought the most expensive lip balm I could find at Watsons on the way.
When I arrived at the hotel, he opened the door. She looked immediately unhappy when she saw me, complaining that he hadn't consulted her beforehand. He went to coax her and told me to shower. After I finished showering, I took out some lip balm and said, "I was in a rush when we first met (actually, it was the second time, but I was saying it to him), I didn't prepare a gift, so this is for you." As I spoke, I climbed onto the bed and lay down on her side. He covered me with part of the blanket, and that's when I saw she was already sleeping there completely naked. Seeing her displeasure, I felt awkward and didn't touch her. He pulled my hand to her breasts, and I began to touch them. When I kissed her face and earlobes, and when I tried to kiss her lips, she pulled away. I had no choice but to kiss her downwards, licking her breasts, navel, thighs, and finally her genitals, labia, clitoris, and sucking on her vaginal opening. She didn't react much. I tried to put my fingers inside her vagina, but she pushed my hand away as soon as I reached the entrance. Seeing that she wasn't willing and wasn't cooperating, I lost interest. He told me to have sex with her, but because I wasn't interested, my penis wasn't fully erect. I value foreplay; going straight to sex without foreplay is no different from animal mating. So I let him go first. He climbed on top of her and, while having sex, said to her, "Touch his penis." But she didn't move, as if she didn't hear me. He then put her hand on my penis, and she just left it there without moving her hand. After a while, he told me to take over, but seeing that she wasn't interested, I didn't. So after a while, he climbed on top of her again and had sex with her once more. After he got off, he told me to have sex with her again. I took over and had sex for about ten minutes, but because I was thinking that she wasn't willing, I wasn't very interested either, and my penis still wasn't fully erect, so I stopped. As soon as I stopped, she immediately got off the bed to wash up (did she mean she thought I was dirty?). After she finished showering, I showered too. When I came out, he said, "You can go first, we'll rest a bit more." Actually, I just wanted to shower and leave, but I was thinking of an excuse. Since he said that, I went along with it and said, "Okay, you guys rest, I'll go first." As soon as I left the room, I breathed a sigh of relief; I felt so uncomfortable and had no interest in sex.
But it wasn't over yet. Two days later, she left a message on QQ, saying very hurtful things, like giving me a cheap lip balm because she was nice to me, etc. I didn't want her to take it personally, so I immediately deleted their QQ accounts and phone numbers.
Here, I just want to say three things:
First, whether you're a married couple or a couple wanting to play threesomes, you both need to communicate beforehand, discuss it properly, and make sure you both agree. Let your partner be mentally prepared beforehand. Don't force it; otherwise, everyone involved will feel uncomfortable, including yourself.
Second, the purpose of playing threesomes is to seek sexual stimulation, not for any other reason. As a single man, it's natural to give a gift when participating in activities. Couples or lovers don't need to worry about the price of the gift; it's just a token of my appreciation.
Thirdly, as a single man, I'm merely a supporting character in the sexual game for couples or lovers—a functional sex tool. Even so, couples or lovers should cherish the single man. The woman shouldn't expect the single man to treat her like a husband or lover; that would be going beyond the rules. As a single man, I can only treat you and care for you as a friend.
The above is my experience and perspective on this activity. I've also had a threesome with another couple before, and we're still friends. The husband knows I can maintain boundaries and trusts me completely; he even had his wife come to my house alone overnight.
I welcome your feedback on the rights and wrongs of this matter. If there's anything I did wrong, I'll improve in future activities.

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