From Zhou Guoping's Insights on Women

"The Eternal Feminine" by Zhou Guoping on Women and Love [Part 1]
... Nature's arrangement dictates that men and women depend on each other; neither can live without the other. From a man's perspective, a woman who is too dependent is pitiful, while a woman who is too independent is frightening; living with either is exhausting. Ideally, a woman should be both independent and dependent—independent in personality and dependent in emotion. Such a woman is lovable, and living with her is both easy and interesting...
...Thus Spoke Zarathustra, which made Nietzsche the most notorious woman-slayer in history... However, in the section "Old Woman and Young Woman" of the book, an old woman imparts to Nietzsche the secrets of dealing with young women.
Is it the envy of the elderly for youth, or the wisdom of someone who has been through it all? "Men are inherently bad, women are inherently cheap." But the so-called badness is wanting women, and the so-called cheapness is wanting to be wanted by men, which seems to fit the facts.
Nietzsche also said: A true man is both a warrior and a child; as a warrior, he craves adventure; as a child, he craves play. Therefore, he liked women as if they were "the most dangerous playthings."
Isn't treating women as playthings utter contempt? However, Nietzsche clearly wasn't just referring to lust, but more to the spiritual pleasure of being in love with women, from which men derive a dual satisfaction of adventure and playfulness.
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[Excerpt] Once, a few friends were discussing women. Tolstoy listened quietly for a long time, then suddenly said, "When I have one foot in the grave, I'll tell the truth about women's grace, and then immediately jump into the coffin and slam the lid shut. Come and get me!" According to Gorky, who was present, his gaze was both mischievous and terrifying, causing everyone to fall silent for a while.
Another time, a German was compiling a book of famous people's opinions on marriage and commissioned an article from George Bernard Shaw. Shaw replied, "No man can honestly express his opinion on marriage before his wife dies." This was a witty remark, but there was truth in the wit, including Shaw's own truth.
One wanted to speak before his death, the other after his wife's passing; clearly, what he said was not anything good.
However, there's a difference. What a person says on their deathbed is likely to be offensive and outrageous, offending all women. What they say after their wife's death is bound to be disrespectful and detrimental to her. Interestingly, Tolstoy was extremely dissolute in his youth, and a dissolute man shouldn't let women know his true opinions about women. So, for a man to maintain positive feelings towards women, should his life oscillate between dissoluteness and propriety—neither too dissolute nor too proper?

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