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We dated for eight years before getting married. Before that, we were in a long-distance relationship and broke up for two years! Because we live in different cities, my wife would go back to her parents' house every three or four months after we got married, sometimes for twenty days and sometimes for two months. Every time she stayed for three or four months without coming home, she would find various reasons to argue! Then, in a fit of anger, she would go back to her parents' house. A month after we got married, I found ambiguous messages from a male friend on my wife's phone. When I asked her what was going on, she replied in front of me ("I'm already married, what you're doing is interfering with my married life"). After that, I didn't find anything else! Before we had children, I thought it might be because she wasn't used to it, but now that we have children, it's still the same! I feel like my wife has no passion for our sex life, and her heart isn't in this family! In the last few days, during an argument, my wife said she wanted me to compensate her for the expenses of giving birth to our child and raising the child for the past three years, and then she would divorce me. The longer I dragged it out, the more she would demand... Then, the next morning, she went straight back to her parents' house!
Now I'm starting to wonder if my wife was just saying that in the heat of the moment, or if she really meant it? Actually, after we got married, I told my wife that as long as she loves me! I don't mind, but don't lie to me. My wife always says she's only slept with me, but sometimes she says, "You men are all so lustful..."
After doing 69, I wanted to "develop" my wife, make her sexually happy, and rekindle the passion of our first love! As long as my wife loves me, I really don't mind being cheated on! But I feel like my wife's heart isn't in this family, I feel like she doesn't love our little family! We wanted to get married after an eight-year relationship. Before marriage, we broke up for two years because of our long-distance relationship! Because we live in different cities, after marriage, my wife would go back to her parents' house every three or four months, sometimes for twenty days, sometimes for two months. Every time she came back and stayed for three or four months without coming home, she would find all sorts of reasons to argue! Then, in a fit of anger, she would go back to her parents' house. A month after the wedding, I found ambiguous messages from male friends on my wife's phone. When I asked her what was going on, she replied in front of me ("I'm already married, what you're doing is interfering with my married life"). After that, I didn't find anything else! Before we had children, I thought maybe she wasn't used to it, but now that we have children, it's still the same! I feel like my wife has no passion for our sex life, and her heart isn't in this family! Recently, during an argument, my wife said she wanted me to compensate her for the costs of giving birth to our child and raising the child for the past three years, and then she would divorce me. She said the longer I dragged it out, the more she would demand…
Now I'm starting to doubt if she was just saying that in the heat of the moment, or if she really meant it? Actually, after we started having sex, I told my wife that as long as she loves me, I don't mind being cheated on, but she shouldn't lie to me. My wife always says she's only slept with me, but sometimes she says, "You men are all so lustful…"
After having sex, I wanted to "develop" my wife's sexual desires, to make her sexually happy, to rekindle the passion of our first love! As long as my wife loves me, I really don't mind being cheated on! But I feel like my wife's heart isn't in this family, I feel like she doesn't love our little family!
Experienced people, please help analyze this:
1. With such a traditional and conservative wife, am I cheating on her?
2. My wife's behavior of going back to her parents' house every three months is affecting our marital relationship! Should I let go?
3. How should I love her?

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