How to persuade my wife to accept couples dating?

Many of you have probably seen the recently popular TV series "My Chief and My Regiment." Commander Yu Xiaoqing, a tall and imposing figure, always looks incredibly powerful in his military uniform, earning him the nickname "Iron-Blooded Yu." This character is quite interesting; not only is he physically imposing, but his shouts are also incredibly powerful, surpassing even the strongest donkey in the world. He frequently proclaims: "I admire Qu Yuan the most... I idolize Yue Fei the most... I will shed my last drop of blood to save the country..." "Either you follow me and shed your last drop of blood, or go home, get married, and watch the whole country fall..." His slogans are impeccable; viewers can see he's all bark and no bite, but those around him don't see it that way. Commander Yu has no shortage of die-hard fans who firmly believe in the hollow nobility and tragic grandeur his beloved commander creates for them. In the end, Commander Yu tricks others into sacrificing their lives, while he himself remains standing, continuing to rise in rank and perform his nobility and tragic grandeur for new fans. So what's the point of all this? It boils down to two words: deception. On the battlefield, the best way for an officer to get his men to fight for him isn't with a reward, but with a lofty goal. For example, "For the sake of all the suffering masses, charge!" This tactic is incredibly effective. The guy who's fooled into charging will believe he's saving humanity until the very end, and even as a ghost, he'll thank the person who tricked him into giving him such a noble opportunity. This trick is still popular today. You've seen official documents, right? The introduction of most official documents is definitely filled with deception. For example, if you're asked to draft a document about building a public toilet, simply saying, "We want to build a public toilet," won't work. It seems undignified, immoral, unkind, and inconsiderate. The correct opening would be something like this: "In order to achieve the overall goal of building a harmonious society, in order to fundamentally address the people's suffering, in order to thoroughly improve the people's living environment, in order to… in order to… in order to…" and so on. Basically, if you want, you can link building a public toilet to world peace. The higher the hat, the better. It's like asking you why you study. The most standard answer is "for the rise of China"; the second-best answer is "for career and family"; never tell the truth, "for money and privacy." Even though earning more money and marrying a beautiful wife might be your real thought, don't say that, or your teachers and classmates will strongly despise you. I often see guys anxiously asking, "I'm so worried! How can I convince my wife to accept couples having sex? She's absolutely against it, what should I do?" I tell them, this guy doesn't understand art. Look at the artists I listed above, like Yu Xiaoqing. Look at his skill; he easily fooled hundreds, thousands, even tens of thousands of people, and they thought they died a worthy death. How can there be such a huge difference in people's character? —Some people have the ability to fool a living person to death; while others, even when they want someone to do something unrelated to life and death, are helpless. Don't deny that you don't understand art. Want to convince your wife? It's simple: flatter her. The commander's slogan for deceiving cannon fodder is "for all mankind." If you want to persuade your wife, you don't need to mention all mankind; just talk about family. Use excuses like: "Only in this way can we have a loving marriage; only in this way can we have a happy family; only in this way can we prove my love for you; only in this way can we prove your love for me..." etc. Take "Only in this way can we have a loving marriage" as an example. You need to make her believe that this is the only way for couples to have a loving marriage—or at least the best. Never let her think, "There are many ways for loving couples to be loving; it doesn't have to be this way." You must dispel this idea. You need to make her feel that if she disagrees with you or doesn't support you, she's going against the principles of "marital love." It's like building public toilets; the official document says it's for world peace. If you oppose building public toilets, it's as if you don't want world peace—a heinous crime. Let's talk about the "Only this way can prove I love you, only this way can prove you love me" argument: You need to make her feel that if she doesn't accept this approach, it means she doesn't want your love (how ungrateful!), and if she doesn't accept this approach, it means she doesn't want to prove she loves you (this woman has ulterior motives!). Such a powerful accusation would make anyone dizzy for at least two seconds. Maybe she'll be convinced in her confusion. Well, that's about it. I guarantee this tactic will work, but I must also state: due to individual differences, I can only guarantee that this tactic will convince your wife, but I cannot guarantee how long this convincing will last. Its effect could last for decades at most, and at least two seconds.

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