Stepping out of the misconceptions about sex

Recently, I've frequently seen articles about sex on various websites and read some netizens' replies and discussions. Some are explicit descriptions, while others are purely imaginary, or even misinterpretations of true sex. Therefore, I'd like to discuss these viewpoints here to set the record straight. First, it's important to understand that sex is an art and a skill, a beautiful symphony played out naturally and closely in sync with the desires of both partners. Sex is an important part of everyone's life. Perfect sex can bring joy and vitality, allowing one to face and enjoy life positively. How to achieve perfect sex and experience the passion and climax it brings is something everyone desires to understand and possess. To fully enjoy sex, one must first understand several common misconceptions.
1. Physical Factors: Being tall, strong, and handsome seems to be a standard, but sexual ability has absolutely nothing to do with height. A muscular physique is sexy but has no connection to sexual ability; in fact, it can lead to what people often call being big but useless. Of course, a healthy body is a prerequisite for sexual ability. Being tall doesn't equate to health, let alone ability. Sexual ability depends on many factors, including race and genetics. Men of moderate and well-proportioned builds generally have better sexual ability than others, hence the saying "small but powerful." What truly matters to sexual ability are a person's psychological qualities, physical condition, energy, experience, lifestyle habits, diet, and many other factors, which cannot be detailed here.
2. Penis size is a point of focus and debate. The quality of sex is not determined by penis size, as long as it can achieve a normal erection and complete intercourse. Many people believe that a large penis can bring women pleasure and orgasm, and many women share this view. However, this is not the case; it's merely a result of primitive people's worship of reproduction and sex. A large penis only provides a psychological effect. The vagina has a gripping effect on the penis. During different stages of sex, the muscles in the pelvic cavity involuntarily contract, and the soft tissues and mucous membranes of the reproductive organs become congested and swollen, creating a gripping effect on the penis. Simultaneously, with the assistance of surrounding muscles, the vagina adjusts itself according to sensory needs, naturally adapting to the degree of gripping. An excessively large penis often cannot achieve a full erection, reducing stimulation of the female genitalia. Even when fully erect, it may not increase female pleasure but instead cause discomfort, affecting sexual pleasure and orgasm, and even potentially damaging the female genitalia. Conversely, an excessively short penis may not stimulate certain areas or provide weak stimulation during the plateau phase when the vagina deepens, also affecting pleasure and orgasm. What constitutes a normal standard? For people of East Asian descent, a fully erect penis length of 10-15 cm and a diameter of 3-5 cm are considered normal, with 12-15 cm and 4-5 cm being the most suitable.
3. The duration of sexual intercourse has two meanings: one refers to the entire process from foreplay to the end of intercourse; the other refers to the duration from penetration to intercourse. Most people refer to the second meaning. Almost everyone considers time the second most important factor in sex, believing that the longer the duration, the more pleasure and orgasm the woman will experience. This is a misconception. Sexual intercourse lasting at least 5 minutes is considered normal; less than 5 minutes is considered premature ejaculation. The duration is influenced by many factors, including mood, physical condition, environment, and alcohol. Insufficient time doesn't provide enough stimulation, causing the woman to experience pleasure only briefly before it ends, leading to feelings of disappointment. Over time, this can cause chronic pelvic congestion, resulting in lower back pain, lower abdominal distension, and emotional distress for the woman due to frequent lack of pleasure and satisfaction. Therefore, some men resort to various methods to prolong intercourse, even taking so-called aphrodisiacs, unaware that this is a short-sighted approach that may provide temporary pleasure but can lead to lifelong regret. Furthermore, the goal of sex is mutual satisfaction. After female orgasm, the woman enters a refractory period, requiring caresses and rest. Continuous thrusting can cause discomfort, diminishing the pleasure of the initial orgasm and leading to discomfort and boredom.
4. Sufficient foreplay: Do you know how to have sex? Then you need to understand the importance of foreplay. Sufficient foreplay can put both partners in a state of psychological and physiological excitement, especially the woman. When the body is in a highly excited state, penile penetration can quickly bring the woman to orgasm, experiencing unprecedented stimulation and pleasure. Foreplay can arouse the woman's emotions, allowing her to psychologically enjoy the man's endless tenderness and love, gradually leading her into a state of ecstasy, desiring penetration for more and stronger stimulation. When psychologically and physically highly excited, it is easy to reach orgasm and experience multiple orgasms. Therefore, a comfortable environment, tender words, affectionate embraces, sweet kisses, and gentle caresses are very important during sex.
5. Kissing and Oral Sex. Kissing—'Everyone can do this, has done it countless times, or kissed many people,' but do you really know what kissing is? Kissing the cheek and kissing the lips are gestures similar to shaking hands in some countries. The character for "kiss" (吻) in Chinese carries a restrictive meaning, referring only to special acts between people with a specific relationship. Kissing plays a crucial role in all aspects of sexual activity. Kissing sensitive areas such as the mouth, neck, shoulders, back, breasts, and lower abdomen can evoke different feelings and pleasures in women, leading to sexual arousal. The most direct stimulation comes from kissing the genitals – oral sex. Some people consider oral sex dirty and unhygienic, but this stems from a lack of understanding. Genital secretions have self-cleaning and antibacterial properties, and are not dirty after cleaning. The genitals are filled with sensory cells and are highly sensitive to touch. The lips and tongue are soft, moist, and warm, providing women with immense pleasure during kisses. A skillful tongue can further stimulate strong desires and even directly lead women to orgasm. Oral sex is an important and effective method of foreplay. This doesn't mean oral sex should be performed before every sexual encounter. The level of sexual arousal is related to psychological state and environmental factors. Everything done during sex is merely a process; the ultimate goal is pleasure, orgasm, and physical and mental satisfaction.
Regarding the issue of vibrators, while they have gained acceptance among some, they can serve as a small prop during sex to enhance pleasure and stimulation. However, they are not the primary means of intercourse, and excessive reliance can lead to future problems in sexual life. Furthermore, excessive mechanical stimulation can cause damage to female sexual organs and trigger gynecological diseases. Sexual intercourse also occurs between some couples and sexual partners, and is not abnormal if both parties agree. However, it's important not to prioritize novelty over the woman's feelings. Begin with gentle movements, and once the woman is comfortable, proceed according to her comfort level. Sexual intercourse can provide both partners with unique pleasures and may even lead to orgasm. Bestiality has also become a hot topic online; it has even been deliberately sensationalized. Zoological fetishism refers to those who frequently engage in sexual activity with animals and whose primary sexual object is only the animal. Occasional sexual activity with animals is not considered pathological. It occasionally occurs in remote areas, among single people living alone, and also in normal married couples. Both men and women participate, but women are more frequently involved. It is often due to prolonged singleness, unmet sexual desires, or couples seeking novelty and excitement. Sexual intercourse with dogs is most common.
The above are merely personal opinions on some issues circulating online, discussing my views from psychological and physiological perspectives. Of course, this is not unfounded; it draws on psychological, physiological, and social perspectives, as well as my personal work experience and insights. The purpose is to provide reference for everyone, and comments and criticisms are welcome. The intention is to encourage people to have normal sexual attitudes and concepts, enjoy a healthy and fulfilling sexual life, and add more joy and color to life.

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