How to conduct a 3P sex act involving two men and one woman (Part 2)

(II) Women's attitudes towards threesomes
can be divided into two categories: unmarried and married.
Unmarried women engage in threesomes out of curiosity, playfulness, or a desire for excitement. They often do so with their boyfriend's friends, or out of a desire to be ahead of the curve, for money, or simply to have some fun with strangers. For married women
, while their motivations for threesomes also include many of the above, they need to consider more factors. Avant-garde women may ask their husbands to participate in threesomes, but due to social morality, marital constraints, and other factors, although they may secretly desire sexual intercourse with two men simultaneously for greater and more intense pleasure and orgasm, they find it difficult to express their desires to their husbands. Therefore, it is mostly the husbands who make the requests.
In fact, the vast majority of those who enjoy watching others have sex are men, and women are more or less jealous. Therefore, it is easier for a wife to accept a husband suggesting a threesome with another man than with another woman. This is another reason why threesomes with two men and one woman are relatively popular.
Of course, this is determined by our social environment, not by any individual's fault. Everyone knows that China has a 5,000-year-old tradition, so the national conditions and the quality of people's lives have determined that sexual activity in our country is not open. However, in recent years, there has been a great change. With the opening up of the economy and the development and progress of human society, coastal open cities and metropolises have become much more open to sex. Moreover, the higher the level of education, the greater the degree of sexual openness. Currently in China, Beijing is the most open to sex, followed by Shenzhen, and the Yangtze River Delta region is also very open. In almost all large and medium-sized cities in China, there are small-scale couples' dating groups that conduct sex and threesomes within a small group. A considerable number of couples also communicate online to exchange partners and engage in threesomes.
On the other hand, a threesome can involve three people who are not married, or it can be a couple finding another person to participate, but the meaning of these two sexual activities is very different. If all three people involved in a threesome are not married, then the excitement and stimulation will be greatly reduced for each of the three individuals. Because engaging in such a threesome merely involves completing intercourse, fully exposing each other's bodies, demonstrating their respective sexual abilities, and satisfying a certain curiosity. The only difference is the addition of one more person, but no one bears any responsibility, and there's no special excitement or stimulation—it's similar to regular intercourse.
However, if a married couple participates in a threesome, the situation is quite different. Besides the aforementioned aspects, this sexual behavior also includes elements of voyeurism, the husband's sexual experience and evaluation of his wife, and extramarital affairs and infidelity. It involves transgressions that challenge social, familial, and moral responsibilities, reflecting the couple's sexual attitudes and openness, the woman's experience of achieving extramarital orgasm, and the woman's feelings about her husband and sex. If the other participant is male, watching his wife have sex with another man allows the husband to better understand his wife's sexual experience and tests her feelings about him, sex, and achieving extramarital orgasm, greatly enhancing mutual excitement and stimulation. All of these factors contribute to the popularity of 3P sex among many married couples, including myself. It's also why many husbands enjoy it and why it's so popular with women. Therefore, this is the true form of 3P sex.
In reality, for couples married for many years, while the bond may strengthen over time, the passion may fade. Although they may still be very loving, the passion between them may not be what it used to be. Sexual activity may become merely a formality and a habit, lacking passion and pleasure. To rekindle their desire, couples often rely on new sexual activities—such as using sex toys—for a long time.
Some couples use sex toys to add novelty and enhance the quality of their sex life, but frequent use can still lead to boredom. Some people turn their attention elsewhere, leading to prostitution or extramarital affairs, which often affects the marital relationship and even the family. Some fantasize during sex, imagining their wives' breasts and buttocks being touched and kissed by other men, while wives imagine their husbands as their ideal men, often celebrities, colleagues, or familiar men. Some open-minded couples directly engage in role reversal, with the husband playing the role of the man his wife desires. A stranger's penis penetrates and ejaculates inside the wife's vagina, and the wife moans ecstatically beneath him, passionately enjoying the orgasm of a man other than her husband. While this experience can produce excitement and pleasure, many people feel a sense of emptiness and bitterness afterward. This is a common phenomenon among Chinese couples. Given so many troubles and frustrations, why not try something new—a threesome is an excellent option.
A special reminder to husbands considering a threesome: it's generally believed that men are more receptive to extramarital sexual activity. Since it's usually the husband who proposes a threesome, he should always obtain his wife's consent beforehand. Paying attention to her wishes demonstrates both your love and respect for her. Therefore, men should consult their wives and obtain their consent; this shows your love and respect, and your desire to give her more opportunities for happiness and love.
Convincing your wife to participate in a threesome requires some skill! But remember, never use overt deception or manipulation. Generally, you can subtly ask her if she's still unsatisfied after one or two sexual encounters, then express your love for her and your desire for her satisfaction. Depending on the situation, you can then suggest finding her a man, but only if you're also present, so the two of you can participate together. Reassure her your sincerity and that you won't be jealous. You can also find articles about threesome experiences and descriptions of exciting encounters; this will definitely influence her emotions, and there might be many valuable lessons to be learned. Most women, knowing their husbands are sincere and genuinely want to bring them happiness, and after you make various assurances that it's healthy, safe, and reliable, will generally agree and be willing to accept it.
Of course, convincing your wife to participate in a threesome may take some effort, because while every wife may yearn for such an opportunity, she will still have various doubts. Therefore, the key is to eliminate her concerns. However, since it was the man who proposed, and the wife knows you are sincere, her main concerns are likely safety and health. As long as these two points are met, most open-minded women will be moved and readily accept.
For men, it's not acceptable to allow men to have affairs while forbidding women from having affairs. Loving her means making her happy and joyful, which includes being forgiving of passionate experiences that don't affect the family. After experiencing these things, a woman can truly feel your love for her, and she will cherish her husband even more, as if she wants to repay you.
Before this, my wife was rather indifferent to sex. Sometimes when I asked her to have sex at night, she would get annoyed. But since we started threesomes, my wife has regained her passion for sex. No matter when, even in the middle of the night, she is very tender and shows great enthusiasm and responsiveness. Women actually crave to be appreciated by more men. Every woman secretly desires the love of other men and imagines sharing love and experiencing the pleasures of other men's sex. Almost every woman has had sexual fantasies about having sex with other men, or imagining having sex with other men while making love with her husband, enjoying their caresses, kisses, and the pleasure of intercourse in their arms. Being able to have the love of both a husband and a lover is a dream for many women, a desire that most women yearn for but cannot attain. However, five thousand years of traditional upbringing have prevented women from doing anything out of line.
With societal development and the progress and changes in people's thoughts and values, women's sense of agency will become stronger, their social status will rise, their sexual awareness will be awakened, and their inner desire for sexual happiness will become increasingly intense. At this point, when a husband initiates a threesome, although some women may have various concerns due to not knowing their husband's true intentions, most wives will readily accept it once they know their husband's sincerity. The most important first step is to jointly overcome psychological and mental pressure, choosing a relaxed, natural, and gradual approach, letting things flow naturally. At this time, women should let go of their burdens and boldly enjoy the sexual pleasure their husbands bring them with other men.
For a woman, her youthful years are only a short two or three decades; after fifty, she may no longer have the energy. If a man truly cherishes his wife, he will certainly feel this bittersweet feeling. A threesome is not only about personal pleasure but also about giving your wife more care and giving her more opportunities and rights to enjoy a fulfilling life. For couples planning a threesome, the husband must be uninhibited and not be afraid of having someone else with his wife. It's not just about getting yourself excited and stimulating, but also about satisfying the inviter and ensuring your wife enjoys the passion and pleasure of a threesome. However, besides the safety, health, and reliability mentioned above, it's crucial to avoid disrupting the family. Therefore, it's generally advisable for one couple to participate with a stranger, so that separation won't affect either partner's life or family. If the man is married, both wives can take turns experiencing the threesome. Furthermore, it's best not to maintain this relationship with the same person for more than six months. This helps maintain freshness and allows for exchanging experiences with more sexually experienced individuals; this should be discussed beforehand. Therefore, it's better to have a stranger for a threesome because separation won't disrupt life or family, the stranger is unfamiliar with you, and they can come whenever needed. However, it's essential to research the person beforehand, ideally through communication, preferably online—convenient and safe. You can start by getting to know each other online, chatting frequently to understand each other's personalities and interests, and increasing mutual attraction. Once you both feel you've found your soulmate, you can take things to a deeper level, such as using video calls to bridge the gap, exchanging sexual experiences, and preparing yourself psychologically before arranging a threesome.
If you're a couple new to this, having an experienced man guide you is ideal. Moreover, after one or two experiences of multiple orgasms in a threesome, your wife will enjoy intercourse even more. Many women who were previously sexually frigid have experienced orgasm after trying a threesome, gaining confidence in their sex life and starting to actively seek out threesomes with their husbands. Some husbands have also observed other women's techniques, improving their own sexual skills and making their wives more satisfied.
It's also important to consider your schedules and locations, and whether your wife's safe period coincides with yours. We must be aware that threesomes can be very passionate, and using condoms for contraception or disease prevention during the act is not always the safest method. In a complete threesome, each man may ejaculate two to three times. Under extreme excitement, the penis's transition from de-erection to re-erection, and the process of changing condoms, greatly increases the possibility of semen contaminating or leaking onto the new condom. There are also numerous cases where condoms break during play. Therefore, strictly selecting sexual partners and accurately calculating the wife's fertile window is more important than using condoms for disease prevention or contraception.
In fact, many couples, in the heat of the moment, after an "unintentional slip-up," allow their partner to freely thrust inside the wife's vagina with an exposed penis, even to ejaculate. Therefore, using the currently popular liquid condoms is recommended. They provide contraception, lubrication, and rapid killing of various sexually transmitted infections. Using them eliminates the need for a condom, creating a more realistic experience and increasing stimulation through direct contact between the genitals.
The frequency of threesomes can vary from person to person; personally, I recommend about once a month. In addition, it's best to maintain this relationship with only one partner at a time, because after experiencing a threesome once, you'll have a certain understanding of each other's bodies and sexual responses. This will make future threesomes smoother, allowing for better cooperation and providing both novelty and excitement. Having the same sexual partner for a period of time also helps avoid complications and helps prevent diseases.

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