Reprinted: Some thoughts on ***

I first saw this term online. It didn't seem to have any meaning; I understood what it meant immediately. I found some related content and, wow, some people actually do it, and some people actually write about it! Thinking about it, a family that can achieve this must be at a very high level! Firstly, the couple must have reached a consensus; otherwise, it wouldn't be called "exchanging partners," it would be "stealing." Secondly, they must genuinely care about each other's sexual well-being, finding their own happiness in the other's; otherwise, they wouldn't do it openly but secretly. Thirdly, they must want to maintain the family's existence to discuss and resolve sexual issues; otherwise, they would be indifferent and unmoved by sexual problems. From these perspectives, sex is a good thing, definitely not a poison in family life. The main difference between humans and animals is that humans are shy and hide what they consider shameful. As a result, the body is often covered by clothing, with the reproductive system being the most crucial part of this covering. Consequently, the function of the reproductive system gradually transformed from a simple reproductive function into a private act, and later became associated with love and affection. This act of love was termed sexual intercourse, and it was believed to exist only between lovers. Because sex can result in death, to control population growth, sex was linked to marriage and family, leading to the common belief that sex is the exclusive domain of married couples. The family is a cell of social life, essential for stability. Maintaining harmony within a family involves multiple aspects: love, obligations, and responsibilities. Thus, the state has laws and regulations to protect marriage and maintain the family. But is sex truly confined to the family? Sex is a need! Like hunger and thirst, it's a physiological need. But eating and drinking tea don't seem to be the sole domain of the family, and it seems impossible for sex to exist only within the family and marriage! Therefore, extramarital and premarital sex are rampant in today's society, often disguised as love, attempting to elicit sympathy and understanding. In reality, physiologically speaking, sex is unrelated to love or family; it's something you do when you want, simple and clear. Emotionally, sex and love are indeed inseparable; humans are emotional beings, and having sex with someone you have no feelings for should be a terrible thing! But not all relationships necessarily involve sex, because sex is indeed higher than ordinary emotions. A truly loving family is one where couples consider each other's perspectives, rather than simply seeking personal pleasure. Moreover, this love is of a very high level; they agree to accept sexual relations only if the other person's happiness is their own. Imagine if a wife likes to get her hair done, and a male hairdresser skillfully strokes her hair—would the husband object? If a wife likes beauty treatments, and a male beautician massages and caresses her face and forehead with smooth fingers—would the husband object? If a husband likes to drink and play drinking games with several women, would the wife object? If a husband is tired and likes a massage or foot reflexology, and a female masseuse does it for him, would his wife object? Most families would accept these things. So why not give him an opportunity when he enjoys sex but you can't provide it? Why confine sex to the home and marriage? Some say sexual disharmony is the root of all crime, perhaps not, but the inability to fulfill desires is certainly the root of all disharmony. There's a culture of eating, a variety of drinking, and different kinds of sex. Therefore, prostitution might indeed be a way to solve the bland, passionless lives of many families. In families with prostitution, the man is tolerant, the woman is tolerant, and families where prostitution is possible are likely stable. I think they don't want to destroy anything but simply want to give each other a fresher, more exciting experience; love governs their lives! I see nothing dirty or shameful in these families. Perhaps I also have some incestuous or perverse thoughts? I'm not advocating anything; I'm just scratching the surface, saying whatever comes to mind without considering the reaction. Maybe I've read too much pornography and become more open-minded; or maybe I'm just a vulgar person pursuing lowbrow tastes. But I feel that as people's understanding of sex deepens, more and more families will be able to accept pornography.

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