Located in Shanghai, our requirements for making friends

Our requirements for making friends:

If you or someone accepting this request, please carefully read the following requirements. If you believe you meet our requirements, we can try to communicate slowly and honestly to find common ground. If you don't meet them, there's no need to continue contacting each other, as we don't want meaningless and fruitless idle chatter, which would only waste everyone's time. Everything has rules, and we hope everyone is sincere, friendly, and abides by them. Only genuine and sincere people create and follow rules; those who are dishonest and lack sincerity trample on them. Playing the dating game without following the rules will only lead to endless trouble. If you dislike rules or don't follow them, please look elsewhere. I never deal with people who trample on rules. Please understand, and I wish you good luck in finding your own happiness!
1. Must have a college degree or above. Because I find it hard to imagine having good communication with a couple or single man lacking cultural literacy.
2. Must be a white-collar worker or above with a formal job. I don't associate with unemployed people, petty criminals, or migrant workers. I don't discriminate against anyone, but I feel insecure dating these three types of couples or single men.
3. I require the man to be bald, have a healthy physique and complexion, and a decent appearance and demeanor. I strongly dislike slovenly men and women who are unkempt and don't care about their appearance.
4. I require the woman to be between 25 and 40 years old. The man's height should be between 170cm and 185cm, and his weight between 120 and 165 kg. The woman's height should be between 158cm and 170cm, and her weight between 90 and 125 kg. The same requirements apply to single men. [Therefore, those gentlemen and ladies who pride themselves on being skinny will have to look elsewhere, because my husband and I don't agree that being skinny is beautiful, haha.] 5.
Although we are a couple seeking online friends, we do not exclude excellent single men who meet our principles. [In principle, we do not accept married single men because we are worried that their wives might come online and cause a scene, crying, making a scene, or threatening suicide. Our friends have experienced this kind of pointless farce, so we are afraid of getting involved in marital discord.]
6. I am not seeking single women. There are all sorts of undesirable people online. A friend of mine once had her bag, phone, and other valuables stolen by a single man while she was showering. Therefore, from a personal safety perspective, please refrain from asking new strangers who constantly request to meet in person. I do not accept invitations for one-on-one dates from men who have not had any real-life interactions with my spouse. However, I will consider accepting one-on-one invitations from men who have already interacted with my spouse in real life; this is also a bottom line agreed upon between my spouse and me.
7. We do not want to associate with people who live too far away and are only looking for casual online chats for wishful thinking, because there is no real meaning to such interactions, and we do not want to engage in meaningless and fruitless chats. However, we generally don't accept single men from the same city, because we're afraid of encountering someone of low character who could cause harassment and future problems. We're looking for excellent couples and excellent single men with whom we can have long-term relationships and frequent meetings.
8. We require our partners to have excellent physical characteristics, refined skills, be rugged but not rude, wild but not thuggish; have endurance, be cultured, sincere, honest, and friendly; be able to understand women's feelings, appreciate romance, and create a romantic atmosphere. I strongly dislike men who are dull and rarely speak. Ideally, our partners should have experience with swapping or threesomes, as this facilitates communication. It's difficult to communicate with someone without experience, and I have no interest in answering their endless questions, nor am I obligated to tell them what to do or not to do. [Additionally, I want to state: I don't engage in pornography or SM games. To prevent accidents and to be responsible for both parties, condoms must be used during sex, and no photos can be taken. Other than that, any other form of sex is fine.] 9.
A man should be generous, not a miser. If you can't even feed yourself and live a meager life, then you shouldn't be out socializing. I advise you to save your travel and hotel expenses for a better life. As the saying goes, "When people are well-fed and warm, they think of lust," but I despise men who spend lavishly on women. These nouveau riche types are the least cultured and insecure. I greatly admire and respect men who are generous without being extravagant, and frugal without being stingy.
10. We strongly dislike those who don't communicate beforehand, only contact others at the last minute, and impulsively message them to arrange meetings. These are the most tasteless men, and I have no respect for them. After all, humans aren't animals; people need feelings, especially in romantic relationships. Feelings come from frequent, honest, friendly, and humorous communication and interaction beforehand. If you have difficulty communicating even online, and can't find the right feeling or reason to meet, what's the point of meeting in person? Many couples who try to meet online complain that they're never successful, saying they didn't feel good afterward. That's because they're treating themselves like animals. Meeting someone without honest and friendly communication, without understanding their personality or habits, not even having seen their picture or video—they don't even know what they look like. Going to meet someone is like mating with an animal; how can there be any feeling?! If it were me, let alone having sex, I'd feel incredibly awkward and uncomfortable just sitting together having tea. Therefore, we never accept invitations to meet without prior communication. We also don't do what some couples do: agree to meet, go to great lengths to invite the other person over for a meal or tea, only to realize afterward that they don't feel anything and then make excuses like they're on their period, standing them up. Why didn't they communicate beforehand?! They make the other person come all the way excitedly, only to leave disappointed. We usually avoid meeting in person, but when we do meet, there's no awkwardness or estrangement. We interact easily and pleasantly, like old friends, with both sides eager to get closer and embrace. This makes the other person come from afar with passion and leave with reluctance to part. This is because we emphasize frequent, honest, friendly, and humorous communication and exchange beforehand. Therefore, our friendships are always very successful. We never engage in one-night stands or casual sex; we become close friends with those we've met, maintaining regular contact and meeting up often.
11. Couples and single men who meet the above requirements, if sincere, please send a recent, clear full-body photo. As a reciprocal gesture, I will also send you a real photo. Then, we can arrange a time for video verification before deciding on further communication. If you or someone accepting this friendship request, please carefully read the following requirements. If you believe you meet our requirements, we can try to communicate slowly and develop feelings for each other under the premise of honesty and friendliness. If you don't meet them, there's no need to contact us further, as we don't want meaningless and fruitless idle chatter. To avoid wasting each other's time. Everything has rules, and I hope everyone is sincere, friendly, and abides by them. Only genuine and sincere people create and follow rules; those who are dishonest and lack sincerity trample on them. Playing the game of dating without following the rules will only lead to endless trouble. If you hate rules or don't follow them, please go elsewhere; I never deal with people who trample on rules. Please understand, and I wish you good luck in finding your own happiness soon!

Although we have been married for over 10 years, it doesn't prevent us from pursuing and yearning for a different kind of human connection. With stable jobs and growing children, young and middle-aged couples today crave a higher quality of spiritual life. Although affection is constantly increasing, passion is gradually fading. We know each other too well, losing the freshness and mystery of the past. Our sex life and marriage have experienced aesthetic fatigue. Therefore, we chose to reflect in time and eliminate the symptoms of fatigue and boredom between us, to find what we have gradually lost… Our relationship is very good! Couples with poor relationships will only fight their own battles! We will never share the most beautiful things in the world... What we need is a different realm, and this realm can only be understood through personal experience.
12. We hope our partner will abide by the rules of the game, strictly distinguish between love and friendship, lovers and husbands, and sex and love, and not affect their life and family. Although we haven't been dating for long, through communication, we've met and interacted with excellent couples and single men. We never engage in one-night stands or casual sex; those we've actually dated have become good friends, and we keep in touch regularly. Therefore, we highly value the other person's character, integrity, and genuine friendliness, especially a positive attitude. Finally, I need to clarify that this article is not my original work, but the feelings expressed are very similar to ours; I've only made appropriate modifications based on our requests. If the original author sees this, please accept my gratitude for expressing what we wanted to say, and I hope you won't blame me for using your copyright without your permission.

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