Even good couples need extramarital sex.

Many people condemn extramarital affairs as "immoral," but most do so to appear virtuous. In reality, every woman harbors extramarital sexual thoughts at some point; the difference lies in whether she acts on them or not. The extramarital affair discussed here is a pure, unadulterated enjoyment of body and soul, free from any ulterior motives—a feeling cleansed by water, a gentle breeze. Why do couples, even those with loving marriages, sweet relationships, and no major conflicts or signs of divorce, still engage in extramarital affairs, sometimes to such an extreme? The reason is—
first, desire. Humans cannot suppress the desire for novelty and excitement. In a sense, the pursuit of novelty is the driving force behind the development of the world; the desire for even more novelty arises, allowing humanity to progress. Even the best couples cannot achieve complete sexual harmony. Even with harmony, repetitive actions eventually become mechanical, as familiar as one's own hands. Sex itself is an exploration of unfamiliar territory by the nervous system; the more mysterious and novel it is, the more exciting it becomes.
This nature does not change because of a happy marriage. Therefore, don't be surprised when you hear about one spouse having an extramarital affair in a seemingly good marriage. This desire is innate. Those who haven't had affairs haven't done so because they lack the means, not because they don't want to. Once they have the means, it becomes inevitable.
The world is full of temptations; if you have the power to do so, someone will offer you something. Who can resist? This temptation isn't something a happy marriage can resist. Women are the same; when they have the means, it's easy for them to do it—this is a power-based affair. Some men, after becoming wealthy, develop lustful desires. With abundant wealth, their thinking changes, and the most significant characteristic of this change is hedonism, with sexual pleasure being the primary focus. There's a saying in behavioral science: what you can't get here and now, you want to get there and then, so you try to "compensate."

Thirdly, there's the desire to compensate. Even the most perfect marriage has its flaws, especially for men. They are always ready to use extramarital sex to "compensate" for unmet needs. As for women, some women with high libido, women who have recently lost their parents, women whose friends have had affairs, women whose parents have had affairs, and women whose spouses are often separated are also prone to using extramarital sex to comfort themselves and compensate for psychological and physiological deficiencies and needs. Moreover, human emotions are multifaceted; besides marital love, there is familial love such as that between parents, siblings, and children, friendship between classmates, colleagues, and friends, and of course, romantic relationships between opposite sexes.

Some extramarital affairs do not involve sexual intercourse, but are simply tacit relationships between men and women formed through mutual appreciation, care, and concern—an expansion of "emotion." Even if a couple shares similar interests, they cannot be completely aligned; they will always find someone of the opposite sex with whom they share more common interests, naturally leading to a closer relationship—a sharing of "interest."

Human beauty is multifaceted—appearance, temperament, personality, knowledge, etc.—no single spouse possesses all beauty; this mutual attraction, over time, inevitably develops into affection—an attraction of "beauty." All these expansions, sharing, and attraction compensate for marital discord and form the basis for extramarital sex.

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