One-night stand experience summary and sharing

Published Date: 2012-03-12 Author: Pope Popularity: 456
I've been online for quite a few years now. At first, I visited some interesting websites, a beginner's level, and even went online with my girlfriend. Later, I started chatting, using QQ, playing video chat, swearing online, telling dirty jokes, and having phone sex with online friends. This year, I had an epiphany and started using Sina.com. Thus began my life of dating "good girls." Because I'm quite busy with work and often travel for business, I have relatively little time online. And sometimes I'm busy with real-life relationships and can't pay attention to the "good girls" online. The total time I've spent dating "good girls" online doesn't exceed a month. In this short period, I've had one-night stands or multiple-night stands with nearly ten online female friends, greatly enriching my personal sex life and private life. But there were also lessons learned. One (a Shandong girl studying in Beijing who saw me as a good Samaritan) didn't make things clear at the time, so it didn't work out. Another (an editor from CCTV who was very interested in me and kept harassing me) wasn't very pretty, and I wasn't interested in her, so it ended there. A third (a Beijing girl) had been dumped by her boyfriend, and out of conscience, I didn't take advantage of her. I've written down some of these experiences to share with everyone.
During this time, out of boredom, I also tested a prostitute (that famous, not-so-pretty Chongqing girl; I still have her phone number). Fortunately, I took the advice of some very grateful fellow enthusiasts and used condoms during sex and massage, which prevented any adverse consequences. (Thinking about it now, it's scary.) Since I figured out the pattern and started dating respectable women online with ease, I swore I would never hire prostitutes again:
1. Respectable women are more hygienic and safer; if you get hooked up with a prostitute, you'll regret it for life.
2. Respectable women won't fake orgasms or speed up your ejaculation; on the contrary, they'll delay it.
3. Respectable women offer intellectual exchange.
4. The whole process of dating a respectable woman will give you far more satisfaction and enjoyment than hiring a prostitute.
5. Respectable women will never bargain with you.
6. Respectable women won't affect your private life, nor will they arouse suspicion from security guards.
Some tips for dating respectable women:
1. Use "Couple123" (a dating website) + mobile phone, and you're guaranteed to get a respectable woman within half an hour. I've mentioned in some articles that there are tons of respectable, promiscuous women waiting to be slept with on public websites like "Couple123"! Don't use QQ, or other similar sites like Popo or MSN; those are mainly for young girls and conservative women without other ideas—basically no chance. Public websites are full of unmarried women and middle-aged women dissatisfied with reality and fantasizing about romance. No login or identity required, allowing for free entry and exit, making it a relatively ideal location. It's more difficult for those without cell phones, as people generally exchange cell phones rather than landlines. The advantage of a cell phone is real-time communication. Texting is also cheaper, adds an element of mystery, and provides privacy. It's very easy to win over a decent woman.
Second, clearly state your intentions online. Women don't refuse to meet, and you can usually sleep with her after meeting, unless her appearance doesn't appeal to you (I have an example of this, I'll write about it another day). Don't be vague; meeting in person will waste time and money. After all, we're not here to make friends or develop feelings.
Third, act decisively and leave quickly. You can have intellectual exchanges with decent women, but don't try to develop feelings for them. I once slept with a computer saleswoman; she was petite, but her vagina was tight and wet, and she moaned loudly. After we finished, she said she liked me and kept trying to cling to me. Luckily, I left quickly, giving her 100 yuan for transportation, and we never contacted each other again.
Fourthly, in terms of pure sex, mature women are much more enjoyable than younger women. There's a 34-year-old, unmarried mature woman I met on Sina Weibo. We didn't contact each other for a few months, but then reconnected via text message. I initially thought she'd be difficult, but unexpectedly, she was extremely horny. I slept with her the first time we met, four times in one night, and she still said it wasn't enough. Her vagina was hot, slippery, and tight—the most enjoyable of all the women I've ever been with, and the one who made me ejaculate the fastest. She's still clinging to me, frequently texting me saying she needs me and asking me to "bother" her. I once found her a guy online, but she stood him up, saying she only liked me "bothering" her. (A little self-indulgence here: I'm under 30, 182cm tall, 75kg, and fairly handsome. I'm also quite skilled. The Chongqing girl I met last time said, "Do you still need to find a prostitute?" I replied, "Yeah, I'll fuck you, and I'm already being generous by not asking you for money.") So, generally speaking, mature women aren't as innocent and cute as young girls, but they're still very enjoyable to have sex with. They're experienced, proactive, and caring, paying attention to your feelings.
Fifth, it's best to have your own place. This makes things very convenient, the girls are more willing to come, and it saves a lot of money. Besides, if you want a night out, just make a call, and the girls you've been with before will come over easily. You don't need to answer, and it avoids the security guard's suspicion. I've had this experience a few times. One night, I'd be horny, send a text saying I wanted to have sex with her, and she'd take a taxi over late at night to keep me entertained—it was so satisfying.
Sixth, arrange a late-night time. No need to invite her to dinner or entertainment; just come over and get into bed. I rarely invite people out for dinner or karaoke. Usually, we meet at my place. If they don't want to come, I'll pick them up at a designated location. Generally, they're very willing to come with me after we meet because I'm sincere, not forceful, and I'm not bad-looking. After they arrive, we shower, get into bed, and have sex. Don't be a fool who puts in both physical and financial effort. Otherwise, you might as well go find a prostitute.
Seven, have as many one-night stands as possible. Unless a respectable woman doesn't suit your taste, try to use the same woman multiple times. Winning over a respectable woman actually takes a lot of effort and persuasion. Each time you have to go through the whole process, it's exhausting, especially for someone like me who's very busy with work. So after you've won one over, try to have as many one-night stands as possible, because you don't need to put in much effort anymore. Just make a call or send a text, and the woman will come to you. Why wouldn't you take advantage of such a good thing? Until you're exhausted and have lost interest in her. Then move on to the next one. This also aligns with the economic principle of maximizing efficiency.
Eight, pay attention to personal protection. No matter what, check the woman's vagina before going to bed. Don't be shy; if you find any problems, stop immediately. I was initially too embarrassed, especially when a woman asked, "Do you suspect I have a disease?" But later I thought about it carefully: is face more important than your penis? Don't lose sight of the bigger picture, everyone. Once you get infected, you can never have sex again. Fortunately, I haven't encountered any respectable women with diseases yet. Whether or not to use a condom is up to you. But from a safety perspective, it's best to use one. Even if it's not for disease prevention, a dishonest woman might get you pregnant, lie about being pregnant, or even be pregnant with someone else's child, and then you'll be in trouble.
Nine, don't judge a dishonest woman by your girlfriend's standards. Most women you can sleep with aren't particularly pretty or cute. If she were both pretty and cute, would you even have a chance to sleep with her? So, you'll likely be disappointed when you first meet her. But that doesn't matter; your goal is to satisfy your needs. As long as she has a good figure and cute breasts, that's enough. Besides, many women aren't particularly attractive, but they have great figures and are very sexy, making sex with them very enjoyable.
Ten, be careful to keep your valuables safe. I usually lock up my valuables and put the key away before meeting a woman or bringing one with me. You can't see into someone's heart, so don't be careless. If you sleep with a woman and lose 5000 yuan, wouldn't that be a huge loss? You can't even report it to the police!
Tips for meeting up with online friends:
We modern people want to enjoy the thrill of fast-paced romance, and online chatting is a quick way to do that!
After a successful initial contact (usually getting her phone number), the next step is to arrange a meeting. Whether or not you can get a date depends on the girl's attitude.
She might be interested in you, but that doesn't necessarily mean she'll go out with you (she might have a boyfriend). She might not be interested, but she might still go out with you (just for a meal). Therefore, when arranging a meeting, you need to make certain arrangements to filter out those who aren't interested.
First, we filter by time and place.

The time and place of the date are key factors in whether or not you'll end up sleeping together, so these two aspects need careful planning.
For time, it's best not to arrange it too late. If it's dinner, try to arrange it around 5:30 or 6:00 PM. Arranging it too late might interfere with post-dinner activities.
For location, it's best to arrange it near a place suitable for casual sex (your home or a hotel). This makes it easier to find an excuse to take her home.
(I personally suggest having afternoon tea, then going home for sex, then having dinner at a restaurant, and then seeing her off. It shouldn't be later than 8:00 PM, and you can still go back to your wife or girlfriend.)
When arranging a meeting, the man must maintain control.
For example, you could ask her out by saying, "I'm free tomorrow afternoon around 3 or 4:00 PM, would you be interested in meeting up for a chat?"
Someone who's interested in you will be willing to accommodate your time and place; someone who's not interested won't go if they don't have time. You can try several times with the same girl. If she's still unwilling to cooperate, she might not be interested in you.
Don't be rigid about time and place; each girl's level of interest and conservative nature will influence this. I can only offer the most basic advice.
Secondly, use sexual flirting to filter potential partners after the date.
What is sexual flirting? Sexual flirting is physical contact before sexual intercourse. For example, touching hands, hair, or ears. Sexual flirting is essential during dates. This is a crucial factor in determining whether a girl is willing to sleep with you. Whether it's dinner or tea, you should engage in sexual flirting. If you're afraid of being seen as a pervert and don't dare to make a move, or if you want to play the gentleman, then don't even think about having sex. Since you're paying for a date, you should expect something in return. If she rejects your sexual flirting, it's not a bad thing; at least you know she's not interested and you don't need to spend more money or time asking her out. If you're always hesitant to take action when you ask a girl out, you're not only wasting money, but you'll also cause girls who were initially interested in you to lose interest.
Therefore, the earlier you start testing the waters, the better.
However, sexual teasing shouldn't be too direct or aggressive; it's best to use subtle, gentle methods, employing seemingly innocuous excuses. For example, say things like, "Oh, don't move, there's something in my hair," or "Your fingers are so long." A girl who's interested in you will cooperate. You can then test the waters with more exaggerated physical contact.
Never confess your feelings. Saying things like, "I really like you, I care about you, be my girlfriend," will scare her away.
(Again, this article is about picking up girls, not dating).
These two methods can basically filter out girls you won't have a chance to sleep with—I'm talking about those you won't have a chance to sleep with in the near future. Once
you've reached this stage, you can start thinking about how to take the girl to a place where you can have sex during the date. Some people have access to brothels, some don't, but whether you take her home or to a hotel, she needs a reason. The unspoken message is, "Let's have sex." However, saying this directly to a girl will scare her away. We can only persuade her with reasons that aren't really reasons. Every girl understands what you mean and is willing to have something going on with you; any reason will do. If she's not interested in you, nothing you say will work. Here are some examples of silly things for reference:
"I want to buy water." "I have plenty of water at home, come to my place to drink."
"My house is right next door, let's stop by for a bit, I'll take you home later." (The most common one)
"Let's go to my place to watch VCDs."
"I forgot something, come back with me to get it."
"I'm so tired, there's a hotel nearby, let's rest for a while."
"I heard XX Hotel is very beautiful, do you want to go see it?"
Sometimes, persuading a girl to go back is already persuading her to sleep with you.
Let's translate another example.
"Come upstairs for a bit" (Let's go to my place and have sex) "
It's too late, that's not a good idea" (Reserved)
"I'll go upstairs to get something and then take you home, it'll be quick" (Come on, let's have sex)
"Then I'll wait for you here" (Still hesitant)
"Just come upstairs, otherwise I'm worried about you waiting here alone" (What are you hesitating for? Let's have sex)

"What floor do you live on?" (A little wavering)
"Fifth floor, but not high" (Come on, what are you waiting for?)
"Then I'll wait for you at the door" (Convinced)
Note: Later, the girl still didn't wait at the door, and was only taken home after finger sex (two hours after the first date).
This is a very delicate skill, with many variables, and you have to judge for yourself.
If you can take the girl home, there's a 50% chance you can satisfy your needs, but there's still a 50% chance of variables. We still need to handle it carefully. Generally speaking, if she has already accepted your excessive sexual advances outside, we can be sure that we can get to the point quickly. If it's more average, then there will be some competition. Now let's talk about the more average situation. Sometimes you'll encounter overly naive girls who genuinely believe they're just going to your house to listen to music or watch TV. Whether they truly don't understand or are pretending, we need to convince them through our actions. So, what actions should we take?

I believe it's still sexual teasing, but a more advanced form, such as kissing or caressing.

We should still approach it gently, without strong aggression—otherwise, being accused of rape would be a serious matter. For example, when a girl is looking at your bookshelf, CD rack, or out the window, secretly kiss her from behind, perhaps on her hair, ear, or back of the neck. This approach from behind makes the girl less pressured. It often leaves her unaware that you're going to make this move, leaving her unsure how to react and silently accepting it.

If she doesn't object, you can then be bolder until your needs are met. One thing to note when using this approach is not to stick to the order of kissing, touching breasts, or genitals. Sometimes, a woman lacks confidence in a particular part of her body and will reject your touch there. At this point, you should take a detour and attack his areas of confidence. For example, if he has small breasts, you can directly attack his lower body; if he has large breasts, you should avoid kissing him.

Here's a point to note: a girl's willingness to accept your advances doesn't necessarily mean she's willing to have sex with you. We're exploiting her confusion to arouse her most primal desires. Sometimes, at crucial moments (sometimes during a passionate kiss, sometimes before taking off her underwear), they'll suddenly snap out of it and push you away. This might be because they're thinking about their boyfriends or their morals. In these situations, girls desperately need a reason to convince themselves. This reason might be completely unimportant to us or them, but they absolutely need it. Don't even think about taking off her underwear until you overcome this hurdle.
So what kind of reason does a girl need?
In my opinion, she needs the reason that you "respect her, like her, and love her." Sometimes a girl is afraid of being taken too easily and pretends to be reserved. Sometimes it's reluctance. Sometimes it's about morality. Whatever the reason, just express your affection sincerely. Girls usually ask:
"What are you thinking right now?"
"What do you take me for?"
"Don't you think it's too fast?"
"Do you like me?"
There's only one correct answer:
say what she wants to hear (pay attention to this sentence). If
she asks, "Do you love me?" you can only answer "I love you." A wrong answer will definitely get you dumped immediately.
Here are a few correct answers:
1. I don't know why, but I couldn't control myself when I saw you. I think I've fallen in love with you. Otherwise, I wouldn't do this. You know I'm a highly educated person; I'm not usually like this.
2. I know you're a very good girl, and I'm very serious. It's just that I like you so much that I did this.
3. Of course I like you, is that even a question? From the first moment I saw you, I felt you were special, unique, and maybe that's when I started having feelings for you.
Don't underestimate these few sentences; they're valuable experiences I've accumulated over the years from making many mistakes. In the clever answers to several questions about undressing her, one wrong answer might make her put her clothes back on and run away.
Once, a girl asked me, "Do you love me?"
I answered, "Maybe."
She said, "That won't do." Back
then, I was naive and thought I shouldn't deceive someone with my feelings, so I couldn't say those three words.
(At that time, she was willing to let me suckle and touch her breasts, but she wouldn't let me have sex.)

Later, I realized: "Don't you love her body?" "At least for that moment, it was love." I was filled with regret.
Another time, she took off her tight jeans, and we hugged on the bed. I slowly teased her and took off her underwear. Before penetration, while I was getting a condom, she suddenly pushed me away, started crying, and said I wanted to rape her. She immediately put her pants back on and left.
I was so stupid! She was the one who took off her tightly-fitting jeans, yet she accused me of rape. This was all because I didn't give the girl the reason she wanted. If you don't give her a reason to convince herself, and she's bound by morality, she'll definitely run away in the end. You have to understand, our enemy isn't the girl, but thousands of years of traditional Chinese culture. This huge shackle tightly binds everyone, and until they understand, you can only go along with their wishes and give them a reason to convince themselves. Sometimes, at crucial moments, you can't convince her and let her slip away. You'd better treat her with great care and consideration, and one day she'll come back to you when she understands.
You might be thinking, is it really that simple to take her to bed?
Theoretically, it is. In my own and my friends' experiences, having dinner with a girl is practically a guarantee of sleeping together. This is because we assume mutual attraction and aim to meet or uncover the girl's needs. It's a way of satisfying each other's desires, driven by modern societal expectations. This approach is similar to those who seek one-night stands at clubs and discos. The only difference is that those who go to clubs have already overcome their moral barriers. We, on the other hand, help them overcome these barriers, arousing their most primal desires. Then, naturally, it leads to sex. And after sex
? Of course, it's about getting out of bed. However, this topic is too broad, so it's necessary to limit the discussion. In a narrow sense, "getting out of bed" means leaving the woman. In a broader sense, it means maintaining a relationship with the girl that doesn't disrupt one's existing life.
Generally, male-female relationships can be categorized into three types, from short to long: one-night stands, short-term relationships, and long-term relationships. These three types of relationships stem from a man's feelings for a girl. For most people, the more they like a girl, the more they want to maintain a long-term relationship. Therefore, I believe that getting out of bed only happens with a girl who arouses your physical desire but isn't someone you truly like. If you meet someone you really like, you'd be too busy trying to maintain the relationship to even think about running away.
(Perhaps it might also happen when you get bored or meet a better girl?)
Of course, I believe a man only has a few opportunities in his life to sleep with his perfect woman.
If you do, don't run away. Such women are rare and hard to find. If you miss out, it'll be difficult to find another one. Whether you want to maintain a relationship that won't disrupt your existing life or want to dump her.
Published: 2012-03-12 Author: Holy Pope Popularity: I've been online for quite a few years now
. At first, I visited some interesting websites, a beginner's level, and even went online with my girlfriend. Later, it became about chatting, using QQ, video chatting, swearing online, telling dirty jokes, and having phone sex with online friends. This year, I had an epiphany and started using Sina.com. Thus began my life of chasing after "good girls." Because I'm quite busy with work and often travel for business, I don't have much time online. And sometimes I'm busy with real-life relationships and can't pay attention to the "good girls" online. In total, my online "good girl" chasing time doesn't exceed a month. In this short period, I've had one-night stands or multiple-night stands with nearly ten online girls, greatly enriching my sex life and private life. But there were lessons learned. One (a Shandong girl studying in Beijing who saw me as a good Samaritan) didn't make things clear at the beginning, so it didn't work out. Another (an editor from CCTV who was very interested in me and kept harassing me) wasn't very pretty. DD didn't reciprocate, so I gave up. One of the girls (a typical Beijing girl) had been dumped by her boyfriend, and out of conscience
, I didn't take advantage of her. I've written down some of my experiences to share with everyone. During this time, out of boredom, I also tested a prostitute (that famous, not-so-pretty Chongqing girl; I still have her phone number). Thankfully, I took the advice of some incredibly grateful fellow enthusiasts and used condoms during sex and massage, which prevented any adverse consequences. (Thinking back, it's scary). Since I figured out the pattern and started dating decent girls online with ease, I swore I would never hire a prostitute again:
First, decent girls are more hygienic and safer; if you get pregnant by a prostitute, you'll regret it for life.
Second, a respectable woman won't fake an orgasm, nor will she hasten your ejaculation; on the contrary, she'll delay it.
Third, respectable women offer opportunities for intellectual exchange.
Fourth, the entire process of finding a respectable woman will provide you with far greater satisfaction and enjoyment than hiring a prostitute.
Fifth, respectable women will never bargain with you.
Sixth, respectable women won't interfere with your private life, nor will they arouse suspicion from security guards about your character.
Some experiences in picking up respectable women are as follows:
First, use "Couple123" (a dating website) plus a mobile phone number, and you're guaranteed to find a respectable woman within half an hour. I've mentioned in some articles that there are tons of respectable, promiscuous women waiting to be slept with on public websites like "Couple123"! Don't use QQ, or other similar sites like Bubble or MSN; those are mainly for young girls and conservative women with no other intentions—basically, no chance. Public websites are full of unmarried women and middle-aged women dissatisfied with reality and fantasizing about romance. No login or identity required, allowing for free movement—it's a more ideal place. It's more difficult for those without mobile phones; people generally don't exchange landlines, they exchange mobile phones. The advantage of a mobile phone is that it allows for real-time communication. Texting is also cheaper, adds a sense of mystery, and provides privacy. It's very easy to win over a decent woman.
Second, clearly state your intentions online beforehand. Most women won't refuse to meet, and you can usually sleep with her after meeting, unless her appearance doesn't appeal to you (I have an example of this, I'll write about it another day). Don't be vague; meeting her will waste both time and money. After all, we're not here to make friends or develop feelings.
Third, be decisive and quick to leave. You can have intellectual exchanges with decent women, but don't try to develop feelings for them. I once slept with a computer saleswoman; she was petite, but her vagina was tight and wet, and she moaned loudly. After we finished, she said she liked me and insisted on being close to me. Luckily, I left quickly, giving her 100 yuan for transportation, and we never contacted each other again.
Fourth, purely for sex, mature women are much more enjoyable than younger women. There was a mature woman, 34 years old, unmarried. I met her on Sina Weibo, didn't contact her for a few months, and then reconnected via text message. I initially thought it would be difficult, but unexpectedly, she was extremely eager. I slept with her on our first meeting, four times in one night, and she still said it wasn't enough. Her vagina was hot, slippery, and tight; she was the most pleasurable woman I've ever been with, and the one who made me ejaculate the fastest. She's still clinging to me, frequently texting saying she needs me and asking me to "fuss" with her. I once found her a guy online, but she stood him up, saying she only liked me "fussing" her. (A little self-indulgence here: I'm under 30, 182cm tall, 75kg, and fairly handsome. I'm also quite skilled. The Chongqing girl I met last time said, "Do you still need to find a prostitute?" I replied, "Yeah, I'll fuck you, and I'm lucky if I don't charge you.") So, generally speaking, mature women aren't as innocent and cute as young girls, but they're still very pleasurable to have sex with. They're experienced, proactive, and caring, paying attention to your feelings.
Fifth, it's best to have your own house. This makes things very convenient, the girl is more willing to come, and it also saves a lot of money. Furthermore, if you want another one-night stand, just give a call, and your ex will come running without hesitation. No need to answer, and it avoids the security guard's suspicion. I've had this experience a few times. One night, I'd be horny, send a text saying I wanted to sleep with her, and she'd take a taxi over late at night to keep me entertained. It was so satisfying.
Sixth, arrange a late-night meeting. No need to invite her to dinner or entertainment; just come over and get into bed. I rarely invite people out for dinner or karaoke. Usually, they'll meet at my place. If they don't want to come, I'll pick them up at a designated location. Generally, they're very willing to come with me because I'm sincere, not forceful, and I'm not bad-looking. Once they arrive, shower, get into bed, and have sex. Don't be a fool who puts in both physical and financial effort. Otherwise, you might as well go find a prostitute.
Seventh, have as many one-night stands as possible. Unless a respectable woman doesn't suit your taste, try to use the same woman multiple times. Winning over a decent woman actually takes a lot of effort and persuasion. Each time you do it, you have to repeat the whole process, which is exhausting, especially for someone as busy as me. So, after winning one over, try to have multiple one-night stands. Because after that, you don't need to put in much effort; just a phone call or a text message, and the girl will come to you. Why wouldn't you take advantage of such a good thing? Continue until you're exhausted and have lost interest. Then move on to the next one. This also aligns with the economic principle of maximizing efficiency.
Eight, pay attention to personal protection. No matter what, check the girl's genitals before bed. Don't be shy; if you find any problems, stop immediately. I was initially too embarrassed, especially when girls asked, "Do you suspect I have a disease?" But later I thought about it carefully: is face more important than your penis? Don't risk everything, folks. Once you get infected, you can never have sex again. Fortunately, I haven't encountered any girls with diseases yet. As for whether to use a condom, that's up to you. From a safety perspective, always use condoms. Even if it's not for disease prevention, a dishonest woman might get you pregnant, lie about being pregnant, or even be pregnant with someone else's child, and then you'll be in trouble.
Nine, don't judge a dishonest woman by your girlfriend's standards. Most women you can sleep with aren't particularly pretty or cute. If she were both beautiful and cute, would you even have a chance with her? So, you'll likely be disappointed upon first meeting. But that doesn't matter; your goal is to satisfy your needs. As long as she has a good figure and cute breasts, that's enough. Besides, many women have average looks but great figures and are very sexy, making sex very enjoyable.
Ten, be careful with your valuables. I always lock up my valuables and put the key away before meeting a woman or bringing one. You can't see into someone's heart, so don't be careless. If you sleep with a woman and lose 5000 yuan, wouldn't that be a loss? You can't even report it to the police!
Tips for Meeting Online Friends:
We modern people want to enjoy the thrill of fast-paced romance, and online chatting is a quick way to do that!
After a successful initial contact (usually getting her phone number), the next step is to arrange a meeting. Whether she'll agree depends on the girl's mindset.
She might be interested in you but not necessarily go out (she might have a boyfriend). She might not be interested but still go out (just for a meal). Therefore, when arranging a meeting, you need to make certain arrangements to filter out those who aren't interested.
First, we filter by time and place.

The time and place of the date are key factors in whether you end up sleeping together, so these two aspects should be carefully planned. For
time, it's best not to arrange it too late. If it's dinner, try to arrange it around 5:30 or 6:00 PM. Arranging it too late might interfere with post-dinner activities.
For location, it's best to arrange it near a place suitable for casual sex (your home or a hotel). This makes it easier to find an excuse to take her home.
(My suggestion is to have afternoon tea, then go home for sex, have dinner at a restaurant, and see her off. It shouldn't be later than 8 pm, so you can still go home to deal with your wife or girlfriend.)
When asking a girl out, the man must maintain control.
For example, ask her out by saying, "I'm free tomorrow afternoon around 3 or 4 pm, are you interested in meeting up?"
If she's interested in you, she'll be willing to cooperate with your time and place; if she's not, she won't go along if she's not available. You can try the same girl a few times; if she's still unwilling to cooperate, she probably isn't interested.
Don't be too rigid about time and place; each girl's level of interest and conservative nature will influence the outcome. I can only use the most basic approach.
Secondly, after meeting up, use sexual flirting to filter potential partners.
What is sexual flirting? Sexual flirting is physical contact before sexual intercourse. Examples include touching hands, hair, or ears. Sexual flirting is essential during dates with girls. It's a crucial factor in determining whether a girl is willing to sleep with you. Whether it's dinner or tea, sexual flirting should be involved. If you're afraid of being seen as a pervert and hesitant to make a move, or if you want to play the gentleman, then you shouldn't even think about having sex. Since you're paying for a date, you should expect something in return. If she rejects your sexual flirting, it's not a bad thing; at least you know she's not interested and you don't need to spend more money or time asking her out. If you're always hesitant to make a move when you ask a girl out, you're not only wasting money, but you'll also make girls who were initially interested in you lose interest.
Therefore, the earlier you test the waters, the better.
However, sexual flirting shouldn't be too direct or aggressive. It's best to use subtle, gentle methods, employing seemingly innocuous excuses. For example, saying things like, "Oh, don't move, there's something in my hair," or "Your fingers are so long." A girl who's interested in you will cooperate with your actions. You can then test the waters with more exaggerated physical contact.
Never confess your feelings. Saying things like "I really like you, I care about you, be my girlfriend" will scare her away.
(Again, this article is about picking up girls, not dating).
These two methods can basically filter out girls you won't have a chance to sleep with—I'm talking about those you won't have a chance to sleep with in a certain timeframe. Once
you've reached this stage, you can start thinking about how to take the girl to a place where you can have sex during the date. Some people have brothels, some don't, but whether you take her home or to a hotel, she needs a reason. The unspoken meaning of this reason is "Let's have sex." However, saying this to a girl will scare her away. We can only persuade her with a reason that isn't a reason. Every girl understands what you mean and is willing to have something with you; any reason will do. If she's not interested in you, nothing you say will work. Here are some silly examples for reference:
"I want to buy water." "I have plenty of water at home, come to my place for a drink."
"My house is right next door, come sit down for a bit, I'll take you home later." (This is the most common approach.)
"Let's go to my place to watch VCDs."
"I forgot something, come back with me to get it."
"I'm so tired, there's a hotel nearby, let's rest for a while."
"I heard XX Hotel is very beautiful, do you want to go check it out?"
Sometimes, persuading a girl to go back is already the process of persuading her to sleep with you.
Let's translate another example.
"Come upstairs for a bit" (Let's go to my place and have sex) "
It's too late, that's not a good idea" (Reserved)
"I'll go upstairs to get something and then take you home, it'll be quick" (Come on, let's have sex)
"Then I'll wait for you here" (Still hesitant)
"Just come upstairs, otherwise I'm worried about you waiting here alone" (What are you hesitating for? Let's have sex)

"What floor do you live on?" (A little wavering)
"Fifth floor, but not high" (Come on, what are you waiting for?)
"Then I'll wait for you at the door" (Convinced)
Note: Later, the girl still didn't wait at the door, and was only taken home after finger sex (two hours after the first date).
This is a very delicate skill, with many variables, and you have to judge for yourself.
If you can take the girl home, there's a 50% chance you can satisfy your needs, but there's still a 50% chance of variables. We still need to handle it carefully. Generally speaking, if she has already accepted your excessive sexual advances outside, we can be sure that we can get to the point quickly. If it's more average, then there will be some competition. Now let's talk about the more average situation. Sometimes you'll encounter overly naive girls who genuinely believe they're just going to your house to listen to music or watch TV. Whether they truly don't understand or are pretending, we need to convince them through our actions. So, what actions should we take?

I believe it's still sexual teasing, but a more advanced form, such as kissing or caressing.

We should still approach it gently, without strong aggression—otherwise, being accused of rape would be a serious matter. For example, when a girl is looking at your bookshelf, CD rack, or out the window, secretly kiss her from behind, perhaps on her hair, ear, or back of the neck. This approach from behind makes the girl less pressured. It often leaves her unaware that you're going to make this move, leaving her unsure how to react and silently accepting it.

If she doesn't object, you can then be bolder until your needs are met. One thing to note when using this approach is not to stick to the order of kissing, touching breasts, or genitals. Sometimes, a woman lacks confidence in a particular part of her body and will reject your touch there. At this point, you should take a different approach and target her areas of confidence. For example, if she has small breasts, attack her lower body; if she has large breasts, avoid kissing.

It's important to note that a girl's willingness to accept your advances doesn't necessarily mean she's willing to have sex with you. We're exploiting her uncertainty to arouse her most primal desires. Sometimes, at crucial moments (sometimes during a passionate kiss, sometimes before taking off her underwear), she'll suddenly snap out of it and push you away. This might be because she's thinking about her boyfriend or about morality. In these situations, girls desperately need a reason to convince themselves. This reason might be completely unimportant to us or them, but they absolutely need it. Don't even think about taking off her underwear until you overcome this hurdle.
So what kind of reason does a girl need?
I believe she needs a reason that she wants you to "respect her, like her, and love her." Sometimes a girl is afraid of being taken too quickly and pretends to be reserved. Sometimes it's reluctance. Sometimes it's about morality. Whatever the situation, just express your affection sincerely. A girl will usually ask:
"What are you really thinking right now?" "
What do you take me for?"
"Don't you think it's too fast?"
"Do you like me?"
There's only one correct answer:
say what she wants to hear (pay attention to this sentence).
She asks, "Do you love me?" You can only answer "I love you." A wrong answer, and she'll definitely kick you out immediately.
Here are a few correct answers:
1. I don't know why, but I can't control myself when I see you. I think I've fallen in love with you. Otherwise, I wouldn't do this. You know I'm a highly educated person; I'm not usually like this.
2. I know you're a great girl, and I'm very serious. It's just that I like you so much that I did this.
3. Of course I like you, is that even a question? From the first moment I saw you, I felt you were special, unique, and maybe that's when I started having feelings for you.
Don't underestimate these few words, everyone; they're valuable lessons I've learned from years of making mistakes. In the numerous clever answers I gave when trying to undress her, one wrong answer and she might put her clothes back on and run away.
Once, a girl asked me, "Do you love me?"
I answered, "Maybe."
She said, "Then it won't work."
At that time, I was naive and thought I shouldn't deceive her with my feelings, so I couldn't say those three words.
(At that time, she was willing to let me suckle and touch her breasts, but wouldn't let me have sex.)

Later, I realized: "Don't you love her body? At least in that moment, you loved her." I regretted it deeply.
Another time, she took off her tight jeans, and we hugged on the bed. I slowly teased her and took off her underwear. Before penetration, while I was taking out the condom, she suddenly pushed me away, started crying, and said I wanted to rape her. She immediately pulled up her pants and left.
I was so stupid! She was the one who took off her tightly-fitting jeans, yet she accused me of rape. This is all because I didn't give the girl a reason she wanted. If you don't give her a reason to convince herself, and she's bound by morality, she'll definitely run away in the end. You must understand, our enemy isn't the girl, but thousands of years of traditional Chinese culture. This huge shackle tightly binds everyone, and until they understand, you can only go along with their wishes and give them a reason to convince themselves. Sometimes, at crucial moments, you can't convince her, and she slips away. You'd better treat her with great care and consideration; one day she'll come back to you when she understands.
You might be thinking, "Is it really that simple to take her to bed?"
Theoretically, it is. In my own experience and that of my friends, having dinner with a girl is equivalent to going to bed with her. Because we're based on mutual attraction, providing for the girl's needs, or uncovering her needs. This approach to picking up girls is based on the modern pursuit of sexual desire, aiming to satisfy mutual needs. This is similar to the psychology of some people seeking one-night stands at clubs and discos. The only difference is that those who go to clubs have already overcome their moral barriers. We, on the other hand, help them overcome these barriers, arousing their most primal desires. Then, naturally, they end up in bed. And after
that? Of course, they have to get out of bed. However, this topic is too broad, so it's necessary to limit the discussion. In a narrow sense, "getting out of bed" means leaving the woman. In a broader sense, it means maintaining a relationship with the girl that doesn't disrupt one's existing life.
Generally, male-female relationships can be divided into three types, from short to long: one-night stands, short-term relationships, and long-term relationships. These three types of relationships are derived from a man's feelings towards a girl. For most people, the more they like a girl, the more they want to maintain a long-term relationship. Therefore, I believe that "getting out of bed" only happens with girls who arouse your physical desire but aren't someone you truly like. If you meet someone you truly like, you'll be too busy trying to maintain the relationship to even think about running away.
(Perhaps this might also happen when you get tired of her, or when you meet a better girl?)
Of course, I personally believe that a man only has a few opportunities in his lifetime to be with his perfect woman.
If you do meet her, don't run away. This kind of woman is rare and hard to find. If you miss her, it'll be hard to find her again. Whether you want to maintain a relationship with a girl that won't disrupt your existing life, or you want to get rid of her...

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