How high can a woman's orgasm go?

A young woman said she and her husband had been married for over five years and their sex life was relatively harmonious. Because they lived in a relatively isolated mountain town, their knowledge of sex was limited, so they had no idea whether other couples experienced the same desire, pleasure, and satisfaction. However, recently, while reading a book on sex, she learned that intercourse could also involve a blissful, almost ethereal feeling, something she had never experienced before.

Since then, she had always hoped to fully experience the orgasm described in the book during intercourse with her husband. Unfortunately, despite her best efforts, she never achieved the orgasm she desired. Eventually, even the intense pleasure she once felt vanished, leaving her feeling distressed and confused. How intense is an orgasm? What exactly is it?

This is indeed a question that confuses many couples and has no definitive answer. To understand it, we need to start from the beginning.

Regarding

the physiological mechanism of orgasm, classic books describe it as follows: Orgasm is the shortest phase of the sexual response, lasting only a few seconds. It releases the energy of sexual desire through involuntary muscle spasms, resulting in wave-like pleasure. The most alluring erogenous zone

for women is the clitoral glans, followed by the clitoral body, labia minora, and the outer third of the vagina. The renowned sexologist Heidelberg described the female orgasm in her sex report as follows: "My body felt suspended, full of power, a surging, gushing flame, intensely engulfing everything, an exquisite, almost unbearable, extreme ecstasy." "I felt extremely excited—my breathing quickened—while my head became light, as if in a dream world, sounds were distant, time seemed to stand still."

Indeed, a woman's orgasm begins with a sensation called "suspension," a moment when she seems to be suspended in mid-air, usually lasting 1-3 seconds. This "suspension" is equivalent to the "inevitability" experienced by men before orgasm (a feeling men experience when they cannot control ejaculation). As the clitoris receives continuous, rhythmic stimulation, highly sensitive nerves send impulses to the spinal cord, which then immediately redirects them back to the orgasmic muscles in the pelvic region. The feeling of "suspension" emanates from the clitoris and spreads into the pelvis. During this process, a woman gradually forgets her surroundings, even her location—like a light bulb dimming due to insufficient power. Her nervous system directs most of its impulses to initiate a series of massive muscle contractions, squeezing out stagnant blood from the dilated blood vessels surrounding the vaginal walls.

This loss of consciousness gives her a sense of loss of control. It is because of this feeling that female orgasm has a more dramatic name—"brief death." For some women, especially those experiencing orgasm for the first time, this loss of consciousness can be terrifying. If they fear being looked down upon by their partner for losing control, this perfectly normal orgasmic response can be psychologically inhibited, preventing the orgasm from reaching its maximum intensity.

No two women react exactly alike during this stage of orgasm, despite experiencing similar physiological changes. Some women remain calm; some moan or scream; some arch their backs or bite nearby objects such as their arms or pillows. As sensation returns—within seconds—almost all women feel warmth, first in the pelvis, then throughout the body.

Is multiple orgasms abnormal?

A newlywed woman, frowning, said her husband is a very gentle and romantic man, and they are always successful in bed. However, lately she has been troubled by her unusual behavior. After each time her husband "fulfills his duty," he breathes heavily beside her with boundless pleasure and joy, while she wants him to stay inside her, on top of her. She feels a surging, roaring current within her, hoping her husband will continue. Because of this, she suspects she has hypersexuality and feels like a shameless, wanton woman.

During sexual intercourse, after a woman's final contraction, her body quickly loses sexual tension; Masters and Johnson call this phase "resolution." If they don't immediately resolve but return to the plateau phase, and can repeatedly stimulate themselves from the plateau phase back to orgasm, this phenomenon is called "multiple orgasms," and every woman has this potential.

Experiencing multiple orgasms during intercourse is not a sign of sexual perversion, nor does it indicate "excessive libido," "animalistic behavior," or "unfemininity." Surveys have revealed that some women admit to feeling guilty, fearing that such feelings might taint the purity and sanctity of marriage. The experience of orgasm is a matter of a couple's temperament, sexual maturity, preferences, choices, and sexual relations.

A woman's ability to experience multiple orgasms stems from the complex network of blood vessels in her pelvis; the contractions of a single orgasm rarely expel all the stagnant blood. In other words, after the first orgasm, a woman remains sexually aroused and can continue to contract, requiring minimal stimulation to repeatedly bring herself back to orgasm. In fact, the intensity of any orgasm she experiences depends on the amount of blood flow to her pelvic veins. Sometimes less blood flow results in a lower orgasm; sometimes more blood flow leads to a peak orgasm.

It is in these situations that a woman is very likely to experience multiple orgasms. Sometimes, due to anatomical differences, such as incomplete development of the venous network in some women, it is difficult for them to achieve orgasm. This problem seems to disappear after they give birth to their first child. Indeed, for many women who experienced orgasm before pregnancy, orgasm is easier to achieve after childbirth, sometimes even multiple orgasms during the first sexual encounter. This is known as the "pregnancy effect." This may be related to increased energy and number of pelvic veins during pregnancy.

If the venous congestion that gradually builds up during the excitement and plateau phases is not released by orgasm, women may experience irritability, difficulty consummating intercourse, and even severe back pain. For example, many women experience back pain during menstruation due to heightened sexual desire but inability to have intercourse. Women who experience multiple orgasms often need 3-6 orgasms to achieve complete relaxation.

People are diverse, and it's sometimes impossible to measure a situation with a fixed standard. How intense should an orgasm be? Actually, this is a question that doesn't need an answer. As long as you are fully engaged in your sexual life and both partners feel pleasure, that's enough. Why pursue some kind of transcendent feeling? Don't you think so?

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