Lin Huiyin (Eternal Beauty)

The greatest charm a person can possess is a sunny disposition. Youth fades quickly, beauty withers, and worldly glory is but fleeting smoke. Embrace a sunny disposition, and you'll be free from worry about gain or loss, accepting whatever comes and goes as it may. A heart without desires is unburdened by worldly affairs; a heart without burdens is at ease whether sitting or walking, thus exuding elegance. Physical beauty is innate, and worldly glamour is external; a heart full of sunshine is true, eternal beauty. Here, I don't want to repeat the remnants of others' writings about her life, her talent and beauty, or her past scandals. I only want to discuss a woman's perspective on choosing a partner, focusing on her attitude towards this matter. Attention to Lin Huiyin naturally stems from Xu Zhimo. Without Xu, Lin wouldn't have received such widespread and popular attention, and even half a century later, she still enjoys the adoration of a top movie star. I remember reading something that said a woman should experience three men in her life: one is a girlish idol she secretly admires; another is a servant-like figure who madly worships and is willing to do anything for her; and the third is a man who truly wins her over and makes her willingly change for him. However, looking at Lin Huiyin's life, it seems that more than three men appeared in her life, or perhaps she experienced more than one kind of emotion towards different individuals? Lin Huiyin, a Gemini, possessed the dual personality characteristic of women of this sign: an advantage in rational thinking beyond the average person, and the genuine, emotional side of a poet and writer. Her innate multifaceted talents and overly broad interests not only led to a lack of focus in her career but also created considerable trouble in her love life. Xu Zhimo first met Lin Huiyin in Europe. Lin was 16 years old and temporarily residing in London with her father, Lin Changmin, when she met Xu, who was studying in England at the time. They fell in love, leading to Xu's divorce from his first wife, Zhang Youyi. However, after returning to China, Lin Huiyin, following her parents' earlier arrangements, began a serious relationship with Liang Sicheng. Ultimately, they went abroad to study and married. Xu Zhimo and Liang Sicheng were two very different people. Xu was passionate and romantic, possessing the typical temperament of a literary figure. From his works, we can easily see that he was a person with exceptionally rich emotions who liked to freely express them. "I bare my honest heart, offering love to the stars of the day, regardless of whether life is illusion or reality..." "I am like a cloud, a pure white cloud, weightless, embraced by the sunlight, I am light, a light and agile ball, flying far away, flying even further; all burdens, all worries, kindness, pain, resentment, all are far away..." Turning the pages of Xu Zhimo's collected works, such verses abound, shining and leaping, always bringing a burning pain to the eyes as one reads them. What a man he was! Few women could resist the pursuit of a man like Liang Sicheng, and Lin Huiyin was no exception. Liang Sicheng, however, was a skilled draftsman and a methodical scholar, an architect who achieved remarkable success in the field and was the founder of the Tsinghua University Department of Architecture. His love for Lin Huiyin was primarily expressed through their shared academic interests and his tolerance and care for her in life. With compatible family backgrounds, mentors and friends in their careers, and a childhood sweetheart bond, it was no surprise that he ultimately won Lin Huiyin's heart. But was it possible for Lin Huiyin herself to love two men simultaneously? The answer lies in her relationship with a close male friend she met after her marriage—Jin Yuelin. A leading figure in physics and philosophy, Jin Yuelin remained single his entire life because of his love for Lin Huiyin. Such purely spiritual admiration would be impossible to sustain without even the slightest reciprocation. According to Liang Sicheng's second wife, Ms. Lin Zhu, Lin Huiyin once told Liang Sicheng that she had fallen in love with two people: him and Jin Yuelin. Ultimately, Liang wanted to set her free, while Jin, moved by Liang's sincerity and his love for Lin, chose to withdraw. Regardless of the outcome, this incident demonstrates that Lin Huiyin was entirely capable of loving two people simultaneously. Therefore, she must have also struggled and suffered from the dilemma of loving both Xu Zhimo and Liang Sicheng. Perhaps many women with dual personalities, outstanding appearances, and exceptional talent have encountered similar love dilemmas to Lin Huiyin's. On one hand, there is the pursuit of a passionate and romantic poet or chivalrous man; on the other hand, there is the stable, warm, and ordinary life. Which one should one choose as their life partner? At some point in life, each person makes their own decision. Every romance is romantic, and every woman, when truly in love, inevitably gets carried away. However, love is not the same as marriage. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and the choice of marriage will undoubtedly bring drastically different consequences to a woman's future. Women are naturally captives of emotion; few women remain unmoved by passionate, tumultuous love stories. Therefore, the life-and-death love tales in literature and film often resonate most deeply with women. Women who feel they lack the means to portray such love will simply watch, shed a few tears, and sigh briefly, without aspiring to be the heroine. But those who are self-assured, educated, and possess some beauty will inevitably feel envy. Given such an opportunity, how many wouldn't seize it and pursue it passionately? Yet, Lin Huiyin ultimately chose a peaceful life, abandoning that fiery love. Was it the rational side of her dual personality at play, or the result of her upbringing as a well-bred lady, instilled with traditional values and superhuman self-control? I cannot know. Let us now imagine the opposite scenario: Xu Zhimo, after Lin Huiyin, became a third party in Lu Xiaoman's marriage. Lu Xiaoman was clearly less rational than Lin Huiyin and was quickly won over by Xu. However, Xu and Lu's married life was not happy. They were like two fish stranded in a swamp, struggling more and more, unable to escape, until Xu Zhimo died in a plane crash. If Lin Huiyin had chosen Xu Zhimo, would she have truly been happy for life? Love is beautiful; there is nothing more beautiful in the world. However, even the most beautiful things require choices. While mutual destruction may possess a fleeting brilliance like fireworks, the ashes after it extinguishes are no different from dust… "You Are the April of This World" – Lin Huiyin I say you are the April of this world; laughter lights up the surrounding wind; lightness dances and changes in the radiance of spring. You are the clouds and mist of an early April day, the soft breeze of dusk, stars twinkling unintentionally, fine rain sprinkling before the flowers. That lightness, that grace, you are, the crown of a hundred blooming flowers you wear, you are innocence, solemnity, you are the full moon every night. The pale yellow after the snow melts, you are like that; the fresh green of newly sprouting buds, you are that; the tender, joyful shimmering water reflects your dreamlike white lotus. You are the blossoming of tree after tree, the murmuring of swallows between the beams—you are love, warmth, and hope, you are the April day of the human world! (Repost)

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