The Cost of Marriage and the Cost of Being Single (Reprinted)

I've been browsing 69 for a year now, and I've read many posts from people who have successfully or unsuccessfully made friends. Today, I'd like to share my thoughts.
First and foremost, it's undeniable that the cost of dating between married couples is higher than for single men (I'm only discussing the majority of married couples and single men here; oddballs are excluded). Furthermore, there are far more single men than married couples, making it a buyer's market. So, even some excellent single men shouldn't be arrogant (if you don't like someone, you can refuse, but don't let married couples doubt the single man's character). What exactly creates this buyer's market? Let's analyze it.
The cost for married couples:
Giving your beloved wife to another man requires overcoming certain psychological barriers. Because most men can't do this, the total number of married couples is small, and scarcity drives up the price, thus creating the current situation.
Compared to single men, married couples generally have more stable lives. When they bring a stranger into their lives, they inevitably have more concerns (e.g., will the single man have ulterior motives? Will it damage our marital relationship? Does he have health problems? What will people think if they find out I'm having sex with a single man for my wife? etc.).
3. After the husband overcomes his psychological issues, he still needs to consider how to overcome his wife's. If not handled well, it can strain the marital relationship. This crucial step seems natural, but it's very risky.
Couples need to put in much more effort than single men to take this step, so overall, the cost is higher for couples. These reasons serve as a reminder to single men: a respectable couple engaging in threesomes is hard to come by; don't think others are being overly cautious.
However, being a good single man also comes at a price.
The cost for single men:
Single men need to pay for accommodation and other related expenses (this is obvious and can be ignored).
Generally speaking, couples are more likely to change their minds at the last minute than single men (because they haven't mentally prepared themselves, while single men don't need to overcome any psychological issues). Therefore, single men bear a greater risk of being stood up.
A single man goes to a meeting alone, while a couple goes together, and usually, it's the single man who goes to the couple's location. So, in making friends, the risk at the last minute is actually greater.
A good single man needs to overcome the psychological gap (for example, being an excellent man in life, but here he needs to be doubted, judged, and treated like a commodity to be chosen, etc.). It's
easier for a single man to be good than for a couple, but he still needs to be sincere. These conditions also remind couples that a good single man isn't easy to find. A single man respects you, and you must reciprocate with respect.
To summarize, this kind of thing requires more empathy and mutual understanding than other things. It's really unnecessary to fail in making friends over something that isn't a matter of principle. Think about the other person's difficulties, and the success rate of making friends will definitely be higher. {For example, during the meeting, the single man (or the couple) might hide first to observe the other person's situation. If the other person finds out, they'll definitely be unhappy because they not only waited a long time but also became the target of suspicion. However, upon reflection, if the other person wasn't concerned for their safety, why would they hide? In other words, if the other person wasn't truly a good person, why would they be so worried? This shows they've found the
right person.} Finally, thank you to all the couples who added me on WeChat.
(A side note: I contacted customer service, and they said they support overseas top-ups, but my Visa still can't be used for payments, so I'm currently only a mid-level member, which makes me uneasy. I'm explaining this here; if anyone has successfully paid with Visa, please leave a comment below.)

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