A Brief Analysis of Women's Choice of Partners and Related Phenomena from an Economic Perspective

I've been studying for 18 years now, from the age of 7 to graduate school. During this time, for various reasons, I've had the opportunity to meet some women, and we keep in touch intermittently. Today, most of the women who studied with me are of marriageable age. However, information from various social media platforms suggests that most of them have been hurt in relationships. Of course, there may be various reasons for this, but some things are common: most women who have experienced heartbreak are quite devastated. This has led me to think about a question: why does this phenomenon occur?
Not long ago, a female high school classmate told me this: most women choose partners based on appearance. She herself was like that, but now, considering her partner's devotion, love, and care, it's a pity she's in a tragic situation, even though she is beautiful, gentle, and virtuous. Reflecting on the objective facts I've experienced along the way, and the inevitable phenomena that will follow, an economic analysis led me to a sudden realization: From a woman's perspective, if you hope your partner is devoted, loving, and considerate, but your criteria for choosing a partner (from an economic perspective, or utility) prioritize good looks and wealth, then I tell you, your hopes are wishful thinking, destined for tragedy, 100%. Below, I'll attempt a simple deduction and analysis.
First, it should be noted that every conclusion in economics requires certain assumptions. Therefore, I made some assumptions based on basic objective facts in the previous paragraph, but not everyone conforms to these assumptions. Therefore, my deductions and the conclusions derived from them only apply to certain aspects of real life.
Every man is imperfect. Why? Because every man has emotions and desires. This is a natural attribute given to men by God, something they are born with. A popular saying is: "Men think with their lower bodies." Therefore, based on this objective fact, from a man's perspective, the more of a partner he chooses, the higher his utility (the degree of satisfaction he feels with an item or other thing). Generally speaking, it's men who actively pursue women. Based on objective realities, and maximizing a woman's utility (the criteria for judging her choice of partner mentioned above), she would likely choose the most handsome and wealthiest among her many suitors (like the high school girl I mentioned earlier), and then readily fall into his arms. However, from a man's perspective, to maximize his own utility (a basic assumption of economics: every rational economic agent pursues the maximization of their own utility), he certainly wouldn't be satisfied with just one woman, so he would pursue more women he fancy. Here's the crucial point: why women who fit my assumptions are destined for tragedy? The key reason is that handsome and wealthy men are often prone to cheating is that in reality, there are countless women with similar utility (or the same criteria for choosing a partner). Therefore, I conclude that if you hope your partner will be devoted, loving, and considerate, but your criteria for choosing a partner are good looks and a good family background, then you are destined for tragedy.
Regardless of the validity of my reasoning, numerous real-life examples support my conclusion. For instance, the wives of many movie stars (I believe many people are familiar with numerous examples, so I won't list them all here), and the wives of some powerful and wealthy officials. Many of these women, who placed great importance on relationships, invariably met with tragic ends.
But why do some successful and outstanding men in real life not conform to these positive phenomena? It's because these men have a strong sense of responsibility. Some female classmates often mention that their boyfriends are fickle. Here, I think that normal men are all somewhat fickle. Don't make excuses about your boyfriend being fickle; that's not the case at all. It's simply that his sense of responsibility is relatively low (Yu Minhong is the object of desire for women all over China, but who says he wasn't tempted by beautiful women? He just has a strong sense of responsibility. Why? Because back then, he was poor and unattractive, yet his wife (who was also his first love) chose him).
Therefore, I believe that for women who hope their partners will be devoted to them and only show them love and care, their criteria for choosing a partner must be based on the following two points: 1. Does he/she have a strong sense of responsibility? 2. Does he/she have a strong drive for self-improvement? If not, I bet you'll be in trouble. In society, many women don't care much about relationships, and their priorities are based on two things: 1. Material needs, 2. Physiological needs. Men who are handsome and from wealthy families are often more tempted. If your partner doesn't have a strong sense of responsibility, can you guarantee he won't fall for another woman?
In real life, there are often some very interesting phenomena: like beautiful flowers stuck in cow dung, or cabbages being eaten by pigs. My reasoning can also explain these phenomena. Let me briefly discuss why these phenomena occur. In game theory in economics, there's a concept called adverse selection. Let me give an example to illustrate this concept. Suppose women are rated according to their appearance, figure, and temperament, and then ranked from highest to lowest into four levels: A, B, C, and D. Men are similarly categorized into four levels: A, B, C, and D. You'll often see situations in real life where a woman of level A is paired with a man of level D—a classic case of a beautiful flower stuck in cow dung. Generally, men of levels A, B, C, and D will pursue women of levels A, B, C, and D one by one, confessing their feelings. Beautiful women often test the sincerity of these suitors over time. We then observe an interesting phenomenon: men pursuing a beautiful woman (woman A) will sequentially withdraw from the list of men of levels A, B, and C. Why? Because when men of level A pursue women of levels A, B, C, and D, they are more likely to win the hearts of women of levels B, C, and D. Therefore, considering various factors, men of level A will choose women of level B, and vice versa. Men of level B will choose women of level C, and men of level C will choose women of level D. Because men of level D are unlikely to win the hearts of women of levels A, B, C, and D, they will waste their time pursuing women of level A. Thus, when a beautiful woman tests the sincerity of her suitors over time, men of level D often end up remaining. Finally, with no other choice, it becomes a case of a beautiful flower stuck in cow dung. Of course, there are other reasons as well, such as some women serving material needs, etc., and the reasons vary.

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