My personal experience with clitoral stimulation

Performing oral sex on a woman is a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology perspective,
the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan in your mouth is extremely pleasurable.
The following guide to oral sex is for men to perform oral sex on women. It is based on my personal experience, and the feelings of women are
based on my observations and feedback from my girlfriend, which I have slightly edited.
I. Preparations before oral sex:
Sex is a wonderful thing. If you are not just doing it for release, you should create
some conditions and atmosphere for it, such as at night and dimming the lights.
Both of you should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genitalia have a more complex structure with many folds,
making it easy for dirt to accumulate. Therefore, when showering, be sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.
The man should play some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, the woman should get into the habit of applying perfume to her genitals, but
never use too much or too strong a perfume, because when the man is licking her genitals, his nose is closest to
hers, and a strong perfume can easily choke him. Also, don't apply perfume to the labia, because
the scent of your vaginal fluids isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair area
and the inner thighs; a light application to the anus is also good.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away
sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water by the bedside so she can easily reach it if she's thirsty, avoiding
interrupting her pleasure by going outside to get water.
II. Several Sensitive Areas for Women:
Men shouldn't think that clitoral stimulation means immediately pouncing on a woman and kissing her clitoris upon entering bed. Don't be so
aggressive. Remember, a woman's body reacts slowly; give her time to adjust. The clitoris is
an extremely sensitive area, and stimulating it immediately will have a negative effect.
Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hold her close and say some sweet nothings, like "
You're so beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her
lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Spend more time on
her breasts, as they are a very important sensitive area.
At this point, the woman should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you can begin to approach her genitals. Start by kissing her
inner thighs, gently parting her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they
feel some resistance to exposing their genitals to you. So,
don't be too hasty or forceful when parting her legs; do it gently, little by little.
Begin by gently licking her thighs with your tongue, starting from the outer edge of her labia majora—the crease between her thighs—
and licking upwards towards her hip bones (on both sides of her lower abdomen). Repeat this about ten times. The woman will feel a ticklish
, tingling sensation, and a slight soreness near the vaginal opening. Next, gently lick down her thighs to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee
. Zusanli is also a sensitive point for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area more
often. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip this step and move back to the inner thigh. Repeat the above steps. This tactic is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, you should treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract the "enemy," take the initiative , and guide the "enemy's" senses to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare on any part of her body—the breasts, the lower abdomen, the groin, and the pubic area. Gradually, you 'll notice the woman starting to move, her legs involuntarily swaying, and she might moan. More sensitive women will experience vaginal lubrication. After the assist (about ten minutes), begin the main attack! Through the assist, you've essentially overcome the woman's shyness and destroyed her psychological defenses. At this point she'll be in a state of wanting to resist but also welcoming. The man can then enter the main offensive and begin the direct assault. The woman should take the initiative at this time, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them back to expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative will provide the man with greater motivation and engagement. When a woman raises and spreads her legs, the man should first target several key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the junction of the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the groin, the woman will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. If you can overcome your psychological barrier, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement . If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the perineum to the labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid is usually clear and thin; if you like , you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty. How should you kiss the labia? At this point, don't use your hands. Use your tongue to gently pry open the woman's labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or when they are more aroused, the labia may already be separating on their own). Take one labia into your mouth and use your tongue to sweep it around, paying attention to both the inside and outside of the labia . Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time and suck on them together. Use your tongue to make insertion, withdrawal, and sweeping motions between the labia. The woman will feel incredibly good. Remember, when kissing the labia, try to suck as much of the woman's labia as possible into your mouth, gently sweeping and licking with your tongue. The woman will feel a slight itch in the labia area and want you to kiss more areas and wider. Ignore her; just keep kissing. Few women will say, "Darling , kiss me there, kiss me there..." You can gently bite her labia while she's enjoying it; the flesh is in your mouth, you can bite...

Whether or not to bite, and how to bite, is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; it needs to be just right. A sudden
scream is enough to basically destroy the sensation she's been building up.
Why ruin a woman's feelings when they're perfectly fine? Male sexual arousal is
achieved through the friction between the eyes and genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically
as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (hearing your sweet words
) and the mind (imagination and feelings). Reaching orgasm requires multiple stimulations and accumulation
. Graphically, this can be represented as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoid.
After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed
isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who's kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A light bite
can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her next
sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more. This technique should be used repeatedly when licking a woman's vulva
, but not too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting, the labia are very delicate
.
If you gently bite a woman's labia, she will definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch.
Before can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make the woman
feel her entire vulva warm and comfortable all at once, and her "Ah!" will turn into
a soft . This will give the woman a feeling of wanting to curse but not being able to, wanting to scream but not daring to, which is quite fun.
After you have "conquered" the woman's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin
the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In bedroom terminology, the woman's vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam (labia)," which
is quite descriptive, and indeed, there is a "pearl" (clitoris) inside the "clam."

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