My principles for making friends (reposted), and I hope they are the same.

My Principles for Making Friends
Publication Date: 2013-10-25 Author: Happy and Elegant Popularity: 1350
If you or someone who is open to making friends, please carefully read the following requirements. If you believe you meet our requirements, we can try to communicate slowly and find common ground under the premise of honesty and friendliness. If you do not meet them, there is no need to contact each other anymore, because we do not want to engage in meaningless and fruitless idle chatter, so as not to waste each other's time. Everything has rules, and we hope everyone is sincere, friendly, and abides by the rules; only genuine and sincere people will make and abide by the rules; those who are not genuine and lack sincerity will trample on the rules; playing the game of couples making friends without following the rules will only lead to endless troubles.
If you are someone who hates rules or does not follow them, please go away. I never deal with people who trample on the rules. Please understand, and I wish you good luck in finding your own happiness soon!
1. Must have a college degree or above. Because I find it hard to imagine having good communication and exchange with a couple lacking cultural literacy.
2. Must be a white-collar worker or above with a formal job. I do not associate with unemployed people, petty criminals, or migrant workers. I do not discriminate against anyone, but I feel unsafe dating couples or single men from these three categories.
3. The male partner must not be balding, must be healthy in body and complexion, and have a decent appearance and temperament. I strongly dislike slovenly men and women who are unkempt and careless about their appearance.
4. The partner's age must be between 35 and 45 years old. The husband's height must be between 170cm and 180cm, and his weight between 120 and 165 jin (60-72.5 kg). The wife's height must be between 158cm and 170cm, and her weight between 90 and 125 jin (45-62.5 kg).
[Therefore, those gentlemen and ladies who are proud of being skinny will have to look elsewhere, because my husband and I do not agree that being skinny is beautiful, haha.] 5.
We are a couple seeking friendship, and we are not currently accepting single men or women.
6. There are all sorts of people online, and a friend of mine had a bad experience where a single man stole her bag, phone, and other valuables while she was showering. Therefore, for personal safety reasons, please refrain from asking new strangers who immediately request to meet in person. I do not accept invitations for one-on-one dates from men who have not had any real-life interactions with my spouse. However, I may consider accepting invitations from men who have already interacted with my spouse in real life, provided my husband is unavailable. This is our bottom line.
7. We do not want to associate with people who live too far away and are only looking for casual online chats for wishful thinking, as there is no real meaning to such interactions. We generally do not accept single men from the same city, as we are afraid of encountering people of low character who could cause harassment and future problems. Therefore, we prioritize couples from the Hangzhou area and the Shanghai-Suzhou-Wuxi-Changzhou region. We are looking for excellent couples with whom we can have long-term relationships and frequent meetings.
8. I require my partner to have excellent physical characteristics, refined skills, be rugged but not rude, wild but not thuggish; possess stamina, refinement, sincerity, honesty, and friendliness; be able to understand women's feelings, appreciate romance, and create an atmosphere. I strongly dislike men who are dull and taciturn, barely uttering a few words. Ideally, my partner should have experience with swapping and threesomes, as this facilitates communication. It's difficult to communicate with someone without experience, and I have no interest in answering their endless questions, nor any obligation to tell them what to do or not to do.
[Additionally, I declare: I do not engage in pornography or SM games; apart from these two points, any other sexual activity is acceptable.]
9. Men should be generous, not stingy. But if you can't even feed yourself and live a meager life, then you shouldn't be out socializing. I advise you to save your travel and hotel expenses for your livelihood. As the saying goes, "When people are well-fed and warm, they think of lustful desires," but I despise men who spend lavishly on women even more. These nouveau riche types are the least cultured and least secure. I'm not a prostitute, nor do I lack financial resources; there's no need for you to flaunt your wealth like a nouveau riche in front of me. I greatly admire and respect men who are generous without being extravagant, and frugal without being stingy. 10. We strongly dislike those who don't communicate beforehand, only contact others at the last minute, and impulsively leave messages to arrange meetings. These are the most tasteless men, and I have no respect for them. After all, humans aren't animals; people need feelings, especially in romantic relationships. Feelings come from frequent, honest, friendly, and humorous communication and exchange beforehand. If you can't even communicate well online, if you can't find the right feeling or reason to meet, and you only go through with the idea of forcing a meeting, what's the point? Many couples who try to find partners complain that they're never successful, saying they didn't feel good afterward—that's treating themselves like animals. Meeting someone without honest and friendly communication, without knowing their personality or habits, and without even seeing their photos or videos—not even knowing what they look like—is like mating with an animal. How can there be any feeling?! For me, let alone sex, even sitting together for tea would be incredibly awkward and uncomfortable. Therefore, we never accept invitations to meet without prior communication. We also don't do what some couples do: agree to meet, go to great lengths to invite each other over for dinner and tea, only to realize afterward that they have no feelings for each other and then make excuses like being on their period, standing each other up. Why didn't they communicate beforehand?! It makes the other person come all the way excited, only to leave disappointed. We usually avoid meeting in person; when we do, there's no awkwardness or unfamiliarity. We interact easily and happily, like old friends, with both of us eager to get closer and embrace each other. This ensures that the other person arrives with passion from afar, only to leave with reluctance. This is because we emphasize frequent, honest, friendly, and humorous communication and exchange between both parties beforehand. Therefore, our friendships are always very successful. We never engage in one-night stands or casual sex; we become close friends with those we've met, maintaining regular contact and meeting up often.
11. Couples who meet the above requirements, if sincere, please send a recent, clear full-body photo. As a reciprocal gesture, I will also send you a real photo. Then, both parties can arrange a time for video verification before deciding on further communication. [Video verification can only be done on weekends or evenings; other times are not suitable at work.] Once a relationship is established, especially for single men seeking friendship, please communicate more with my husband at appropriate times. I hope you men can become friends and buddies. Because I cannot imagine how awkward and unpleasant it would be for two men to be together if they don't communicate well or are even strangers. Only when men are harmonious can there be a good process and atmosphere. Because our friendships aren't primarily driven by sexual gratification, but rather by the passion and excitement they generate, seeing my beloved husband or wife intimately with someone else already evokes psychological and physiological feelings that surpass any sexual need. If it were merely about physical satisfaction, I wouldn't need an exchange; my husband can fully satisfy me. Although we've been married for 25 years, it doesn't prevent us from pursuing and yearning for a different kind of human connection. With stable jobs and growing children, many middle-aged couples today crave a higher quality of spiritual life. While affection grows, passion gradually fades. We know each other too well, losing the initial freshness and mystery. A sense of aesthetic fatigue has set in in our marriage and our relationship. Therefore, we chose to reflect on our relationship and address the signs of fatigue and boredom, to rediscover what we've lost… Our relationship is great! Couples with strained relationships only fight their own battles! They will never share the most beautiful things in life… What we need is a different kind of connection, a connection that can only be truly understood through personal experience.
12. We hope the other person will abide by the rules of the game, strictly distinguish between love and friendship, lovers and husbands, and sex and love, and not affect the other person's life and family. Although we haven't been dating for long, we've met and interacted with some excellent couples through communication. We never engage in one-night stands or casual sex; those we've actually dated have become good friends, and we keep in touch regularly. Therefore, we highly value the other person's character, sincerity, and friendliness, especially a positive attitude in the relationship.
Finally, I need to clarify that this article is not my original work, but the feelings expressed in it resonate very strongly with my spouse and me. I simply made appropriate modifications based on our requests. If the original author sees this, please accept my gratitude for expressing what we wanted to say. Furthermore, I hope you won't blame me for using your copyright without your permission.

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