Reposted for friends who are experiencing their first time ***

A letter to those experiencing swapping for the first time! Having gone through the process and talked to many experienced friends, I've gradually discovered some tricks of the trade. This time, I won't talk about single men, but about swapping.
I've also seen many couples who haven't succeeded even once on 69 (a swapping platform). Of course, there are many reasons. Some might be insincere, some might feel their qualities don't match yours, some might not meet your requirements in terms of physical attributes or age, etc. But there's one crucial point, I don't know if you've noticed.
Before discussing this, let me tell you a little story about our first time (not explicit, but very real, hehe). We registered in November, and almost a month later, we found our first couple (of course, they were experienced). We had dinner, drank some wine to ease the tension, and then went to a hotel... Heh, let's pause here. Do you know how much effort I put in before getting to this point? My wife agreed to swapping, but we were stuck in the same place, repeating the same thing: I'd talk to one, she'd say it was good, she wanted to go, but needed to know more, then I'd talk to another, and so on. ...Ha, this time, I told her in a commanding tone, "This is the one. They're nice, and they meet all our criteria. Why chat anymore? Let's meet in person." That's how we got to the point where we sat down together.
Of course, it's impossible for a woman not to feel awkward when we got to the hotel. The couple told us to take a shower first. After we finished, my wife absolutely refused to come out. I had to drag her out, and we all laughed.
After we were done, we sat down with the couple to talk about it. They said they'd learned a lot about unsuccessful swapping, and the most important thing was—they wouldn't take the first step. They always stayed stuck in the same place, just chatting. You can't say they weren't sincere; some even dared to give you their photos and workplaces. You can't say they didn't want to, but they always took the initiative to contact you. The most important role here was the problem: the man in the couple. I also noticed that in successful swapping couples, the man was usually more assertive, which allowed him to push the woman forward. Otherwise, well...
Finally, and this is based on experience, if both partners meet each other's standards, arrange a meeting as soon as possible. Don't worry about what you'll learn or how much you'll discuss right away. Haven't you considered this? This is a four-person game. If even one person's feelings change, can the game continue? So please reciprocate each other's enthusiasm with your own. If you delay, and the feelings cool down, the other person won't play anymore. Just
my humble opinion!
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