How I became a single man

Having written the previous story, I'm no longer sleepy, but I also lack the inclination to continue with another installment, so I went back to browse the community. After reading the replies, experiences, insights, and reflections of several couples, I can't help but share a few thoughts myself.
I started getting involved in this community about seven years ago, back when 69 probably didn't exist yet. The two websites that were famous back then have probably been shut down for a long time now. But they were incredibly popular at the time, and the initial regular memberships were all free. Contact information like QQ numbers was only visible after registration.
Before joining those websites, my understanding of this community came from a video chat software: eTalk. At that time, there was a demand from couples to play games together on video, but they didn't want hundreds of people to see them in a large room, so small rooms with 10 people online simultaneously were created. As a single man, I started to understand and try to meet the needs of my couple friends, so I spent money to create rooms, add different couples as friends, organize interactive games in my room, and also take on the roles of host and manager. Perhaps it was that experience that shaped my ability to organize couples' activities over the years, and also led to my understanding and awareness of the role and position of single men in these activities.
Many people have written about their experiences as single men, and their understanding of single men. I've been a single man for seven years, met dozens of couples, and participated in hundreds of events. My understanding of myself has become increasingly clear. As a single man, one should have the following roles:
First, a server. A single man must first and foremost be an excellent, all-around server. You must understand the various needs and desires of couples and try your best to meet them, whether physically or psychologically.
Second, a coordinator. Whether it's a threesome or a group activity, the single man should take the lead, coordinating and arranging all the details. Do everything you can think of and do to ensure the event doesn't fizzle out or leave any regrets. Third, a sincere friend.
The most important thing for a single man is sincerity. He should be able to confide in couples and be a sincere friend. In today's competitive society, many people have aspects that are difficult to express in daily life, and often need a familiar stranger to confide in.
Fourth, an outsider. Regarding a couple's emotional and family life, you should always remain an outsider and not actively interfere unless they need your sharing or help.
If we can fulfill these four roles in our interactions—understanding that we are always in a position to serve the couple, with the primary goal of the activity being their happiness, and only secondarily everyone's happiness—and respect the couple's hobbies and habits during activities, refraining from prying into their privacy and being a loyal listener; being easygoing, generous, and tactful, without being demanding or clingy, and possessing good manners and cultivation; and respecting couples and women, treating everyone we interact with sincerely—then it should be easy to become a popular single man!

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