The Wife's Transformation (Reprinted)

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I don't know where to begin, but I still have to say it, because I'm afraid I'll forget it if I wait too long. Because of my wife's personality, I've been trying to change her for the past five years, to make her more confident, but the effect hasn't been great. I think there's a method I can try, but it's very risky: let my wife try having an extramarital affair. Because if a woman overcomes the biggest hurdle, she will undergo a big change.
One reason is that my wife didn't marry me because she liked me, but because she was moved by me and had a soft heart. I was her first love, and although it was our first time, I had dated several people and had physical contact with others. My wife always said it wasn't fair, so I wanted her to try another kind of love.
Another reason, and the most important one, is that my penis is relatively small, less than 8 centimeters long, probably because I've been masturbating since I was a child! Although we already have a child, and my wife says I can satisfy her, I still feel that my penis is too small. I have an obligation to satisfy her, and she'll only know what satisfaction is after she experiences something bigger.
I'd been advising her to have sex with other people for a long time, but she always disagreed, neither agreeing nor objecting, sometimes even getting angry.
But I know my wife is the repressed type; she seems very proper on the surface, but is actually quite promiscuous and wanton inside. In the five years of our marriage, I've turned her into a woman who's proper during the day but very seductive in bed at night. My wife is a very accommodating woman; as long as my requests aren't too unreasonable, she'll accept them. She also hopes I can find satisfaction with her, so under my tutelage, she's mastered all the tricks to make men enjoy themselves.
I know it won't be easy for my wife to take this step, so I'll take it slowly! One of the most common methods is to teach her to use the internet and chat with online friends on QQ. I initially registered her QQ account and added her online friends. My wife gradually became addicted to online chatting.
She first met someone online, a few years younger than her, and they started an online romance. Seeing her become more and more beautiful, her face glowing, I'm convinced it's the power of love. People say that women nourished by love are the most beautiful, and now I truly believe it. Later, because we lived far apart, nothing substantial developed, and things eventually faded, though we stayed in touch. Then, some men brought up sensitive topics with her. At first, she was resistant and embarrassed, but with my support, she gradually opened up.
Later, my wife video-chatted with several people, and eventually, someone asked her to undress in front of the camera. She was too scared, but after my encouragement, she finally took that first step. I can sense that she will become more open in the future because I know she's not a completely settled person.
Finally, an online friend asked her to meet up, but she was too afraid to go. I know it's difficult to take that step, but for the sake of her more outgoing personality, I really hope she can take it. I told her, "It's normal for online friends to meet these days, it's no big deal. Besides, I allow it, it's not like you're hiding it from me. If you're not satisfied after the meeting, we can just leave, it won't cost you anything. Even if we end up in a hotel room and have sex, I can accept it, as long as you don't get pregnant. As long as our feelings are there, it won't ruin our family. Even if someone else uses your body, as long as you're comfortable, it's fine. You'll still be my wife after you come back and clean up." But there was one thing I wanted her to promise: she had to inform me before going out with someone else, because as long as she didn't hide it, there would be no barrier in our relationship, and it wouldn't ruin our family.
Finally, the day arrived. On the evening of February 20, 2010, after my persuasion, she finally agreed to meet the online friend the next day. We prepared until 3 a.m. that night, and I didn't sleep much either, because this was a big event for my wife. She took a shower and put on her prettiest clothes; I knew she was looking forward to this meeting. After we got into bed, I wanted to have sex with her, but she wouldn't let me touch her. I didn't sleep much that night.
The next day, the exciting moment finally arrived. My wife was leaving around 8 a.m. Before she left, I made her take five condoms, thinking that should be enough. She finally left, while I was restless at work, wondering how she was doing, whether she had already... had become another man's sex object... The thought made me feel uneasy, yet I also hoped this time would be better for her; I longed for her to change.
The plan was that she would start work at 3 p.m., meet him for the morning, and then go straight to work. But before 11 a.m., she called, saying she'd be back soon. I didn't know what was going on, so I waited anxiously. I knew this meeting wouldn't be as successful as I'd hoped. My wife
returned very upset and told me what had happened. They agreed to meet at the subway station. The man, because he hadn't seen my wife, had a very rude tone on the phone, leaving a bad impression even before they met. When they finally met, she was disappointed again; he seemed like he'd just come from the countryside, very unsophisticated.
He said he'd found a room, so my wife went with him. When they arrived, my wife was utterly disappointed. It turned out he'd found a basement hotel; the conditions were terrible, and the room he chose was next to the manager's. Plus, the man had bad breath. Once inside, the man eagerly started undressing my wife. My wife figured since she was already there, she might as well fulfill her obligation, even if she didn't like it, but worried he'd tear her clothes, she took them off herself.
The man had no foreplay skills, no kissing technique, and didn't even know how to play with her breasts. He ejaculated as soon as he put on the condom, before even penetrating her. My wife said his body felt like it was on fire, but she assumed he was just nervous and didn't think much of it. They dressed and chatted for a while, then the man wanted more. My wife, who was bad at refusing, and feeling the first time hadn't worked out, agreed to give him another try.
After they were naked, the man ravaged my wife for a while, but again, he ejaculated before even penetrating her. My wife said, "This time I've done everything I could; you just didn't seize the opportunity."
At my wife's insistence, they checked out of the room and parted ways afterward. This incident brought great disappointment to my wife, and I was also very disappointed; I truly felt like a useless man. My wife noticed my disappointment and said, "Don't be angry, there will be other opportunities."
Life returned to normal, but our hearts were far from at peace. On the evening of February 25, 2010, I went home to see my son. As usual, my wife and I chatted on QQ until after midnight before going to sleep. But what I never expected was that on this seemingly ordinary night, my wife was sexually assaulted by a man from Hunan, a year younger than her, and they went at it very aggressively.
The next afternoon, when I returned home, my wife kept urging me to hurry home, saying she had something to tell me. I never imagined it would be like this, but I remained calm; after all, this was what I had hoped for. My wife's body no longer belonged to me alone; I couldn't describe the feeling in my heart.
My wife said they had arranged to meet outside our place, and the man said he didn't have any condoms, so he asked my wife to bring five. My wife said they got along very well after meeting, without any awkwardness. They took a taxi to a hotel around 1:30 AM. It seems my wife, who seems timid, is actually quite bold.
They started having sex as soon as they got to the hotel, even kissing. She gave him oral sex after he took off his pants, and he ejaculated directly into her mouth the first time. The second time, she didn't use a condom and just penetrated him, only putting one on when she was about to ejaculate. She's such a silly woman. My wife said his penis was very thick and pointed upwards, and they did it four times that night. The last two times the man wanted to, but couldn't get an erection, my wife gave him oral sex until he was hard, then they continued. My wife said his penis was very big.
Later, I chatted with that man using a different online name, and he said he brought my wife to orgasm and made her climax twice, screaming loudly and barely sleeping all night. I felt really bad hearing this; my wife was serving another man like that, letting him enjoy himself for a whole night and release his pent-up desire four times.
Actually, I was a bit upset. While I said she could have other men with her, she had to inform me beforehand. This time, she let another man have sex with her all night behind my back. Although she told me when she got back, the nature of the situation is different. I consider this hiding something from me, and I don't tolerate deception. Later, I made my point clear, and my wife said she would be more careful next time. Two
days later, my wife agreed to meet another online friend. He had just arrived in Beijing and his company had rented a very nice hotel for him. His wife had no sex drive, so he often had to abstain, which my wife felt sorry for.
I knew about this meeting; my wife arrived around 9 am. They agreed to meet somewhere to chat, and if things felt right, they would have sex. I still made my wife bring several condoms. After their meeting, my wife went straight to work, her shift ending at 3 pm. Before she left, I told her to call me beforehand if they wanted to have sex.
I couldn't concentrate on work that morning, spending the whole morning checking their locations—they were in the same place. By 2 pm, my wife still hadn't called. I called her; she was almost at work. I questioned her about why she hadn't called, and she said she didn't have a chance. I was very angry all afternoon.
I went to pick up my wife that evening, and we had a big argument on the way. I was furious that she had broken the rules of the game again. Later, my wife told me that after they met, they went straight to the guy's place. As soon as they entered, he tried to hug her, but my wife refused. After they both showered, they started having sex
, trying every position imaginable. My wife said his penis was bigger than the previous guy she met online, and he was very skilled at it, lasting a long time—three times in two hours. The last time, my wife gave him oral sex and ejaculated into his mouth. Although I was unhappy, there was nothing I could do; it had already happened. I warned my wife that she must listen to me from now on, or else it would be a big deal. Two
days later, my wife wanted to go out and have some fun, so I let her go, but I said I would listen to her this time, and she agreed. That night, my wife went, and when she was almost there, I called her, and as we had agreed beforehand, I didn't hang up. When she met the guy, they chatted for a while and then showered, but I couldn't hear clearly because the TV was on.
A moment later, I heard my wife moaning. I knew the man had started having sex with her. Although I knew her voice well, I had never heard her moan so loudly or so wantonly. I knew the man was fucking her hard and enjoying it very much. Because the sound was too soft, I wanted to hang up and call again. My wife held the phone next to the pillow so I could hear it clearly, but she had put it on vibrate. They were so intense that I couldn't hear anything. I really regretted hanging up; it was my own fault.
When I called again, my wife answered. I could clearly hear her breathing, which meant she had just finished and it was still intense. I wanted my wife to stay and let me hear it again, but she just hung up. I called several times, and finally, my wife said she would be back soon. The man had brought her back, but I didn't let him into the house.
When my wife came back, she asked me how it went. I said the call had dropped by itself, and I hadn't heard anything. I asked her, "Did you do it?" My wife said I called before it even started. I felt endless disappointment. My wife had learned to lie. I asked again, "Really not?" My wife said no, and I said, "I heard you! You're lying to me!" I was really angry because she lies so convincingly.
Later, my wife explained that she was embarrassed, but I can't let her get away with it, or she'll lie to me again. I can let her be with other men, but I won't allow deception or betrayal, because that's a spiritual matter. If there's spiritual betrayal or deception, it will affect the family.
Later, when I got home, they spent another night together. My wife said they only did it once. I didn't believe her, but what could I do? That's how it is. My wife said she's starting to dislike that guy. He doesn't know how to please people, acting like it's his duty to sleep with her, and he even wants my wife to do his laundry.
By the way, my wife said he's from Henan. I hate people from Henan; they're all bad. But in the end, even my own wife got fucked by a man from Henan. Sigh!
Since then, my wife hasn't gone out again. She doesn't seem to like this game anymore. Days go by, life goes on, and I know more will happen in the future. I'm looking forward to it and waiting.
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My wife has been inactive for a while because she's afraid I'll get upset and doesn't want to affect our relationship and marriage. Recently, she's met two new online friends, both married with children, and their marriages aren't going well, but neither is her type.
The first one lives not far from my hometown, works in Shandong, and is very witty, often making my wife laugh. He originally wanted her to come visit him in Shandong, and since my wife recently quit her job, she's tempted, but after thinking about it for a long time, she still hasn't made up her mind and asked for my opinion.
I mean, because my wife hasn't traveled much, I'm mainly worried about her safety. After all, it's not Beijing, and if something bad happens, I can't get there in time. Also, we don't really know much about the place; things online are different from reality, and nobody knows what's true or false. What if that person isn't a good person and gets a few guys to gang rape her at night? Hearing
this, my wife got scared and became even more hesitant, but she said that intuitively she still trusts him. I know my wife is really tempted, mainly because she wants to go out and have fun, but aside from the safety concerns, I still support her going out. Let's see. Maybe after some time I'll think it through and encourage her to go. Nothing bad should happen.
Another netizen video-chatted with my wife. She said that although he wasn't ugly, he didn't seem like a good person and wasn't very good at chatting. Later, he got my wife's phone number, and they've been calling each other every day since. My wife said he's very talkative and articulate, a different feeling from on QQ. He also texts frequently now. On the phone, he expressed his admiration for my wife and said he wanted a long-term relationship. My wife thought he was alright, so she met him. They
met around 8 pm, chatted, had dinner, and even held hands. My wife said that he wasn't good at flirting with girls in person, and didn't express his needs or thoughts. They drank together, and he did have some ideas (which man wouldn't have ideas at that moment), but he just couldn't express them. After dinner, he asked my wife if she wanted to go home or what to do.
My wife is a very shy person, so of course she said home, but he was reluctant to leave and kept asking the same question. My wife knew what he meant, but he just couldn't express it. My wife said, "I can't just ask him to go to a hotel, can I?" Besides, he's not really her type.
Around midnight, my wife came home. I was working the night shift. When she got home, she texted me, "Honey, I'm home safely. Nothing happened."
The next day when I got home from work, my wife told me what had happened. She said she had drunk two beers and was a little tipsy (my wife never drinks in front of me; even if I offer her a drink, she only has a sip or two. It seems she's more open with other men than I thought). She said if he had been more proactive in asking her to go to a hotel or kissing her, she wouldn't have refused.
We chatted for a while, and then she said she wanted to discuss something with me, mentioning that he was meeting her again that day. I said okay. She said her workplace was close to the Bird's Nest and Water Cube and she wanted to go see them; nothing would happen, so I let her go.
She came back around 2 PM, saying it was boring, too hot, and they didn't go anywhere. The guy didn't seem interested in taking her inside, so she asked to come home. Actually, I know it's mainly because I'm at home; my wife doesn't want to leave me alone at home.
When my wife got back, she said that he had brought her home and was very reluctant to let her go. He was still at the bus station near our house. My wife texted him, urging him to come back quickly, but he said he wouldn't leave until he saw her. Later, I suggested that my wife go out with him, but she said it wasn't worth it. I told her to text him again, asking if he wanted to book a hotel room. He said he was interested but wouldn't force it, and would listen to my wife.
My wife told him to book a room nearby and give her the room number so she could come find him. But he searched for a long time and couldn't find him. He then said he'd give up and wanted to go back, asking my wife to see him off, but she didn't go out.
This went on for two days, with them texting and calling each other. One day, my wife's phone ran out of credit and was disconnected. She only realized this after work, and it was too late; there was nowhere to top up her phone where we lived. I laughed and said, "Now you can't chat with your little lover, can you?" So we chatted online at home. A little while later,
her phone rang. We were both stunned. Wasn't her phone disconnected? How could she get through? I only found out after answering the phone that he had topped up my wife's phone credit, and he kept explaining that it wasn't intentional, he just happened to pass by a top-up shop and did it. What a silly man! Actually, it would be more accurate to say he specifically went to that shop to top up, just so he could talk to my wife and make her happy! But my wife was still touched. I also think he's not such a bad person.
The next night, I was working the night shift (August 1, 2010), and they met again. My wife decided to give him a try. They ate and drank at the same restaurant again. My wife said she hadn't even picked up any food herself; he had to put it in her bowl. My wife said that was very comfortable.
After the meal, he was still the same. My wife asked him what he wanted, and he said he would listen to my wife. If she wanted to go home, he would take her home and would never force her. My wife said, "Go get a hotel room, I'll stay with you tonight." On the way, she had him buy condoms. When they got to the room, the man wasn't very proactive, and my wife said they would each sleep in a separate bed.
At this point, my wife told him she wanted to send me a message, because this happened every day, and she was afraid I would worry about her. My wife texted me, saying, "Honey, don't worry, we're near home, it's safe." I asked her if she'd done it, and she said she'd talk about it later. I told her to have fun and not to reply. I was worried she was texting behind his back, and that it wouldn't be good in the long run, so I hung up.
But he's a man after all; a little while later, he came over and kissed my wife, and they had sex passionately. My wife said his was very big and long, and he could penetrate her in any position (mine doesn't work, not even the difficult ones, looks like mine is small, sigh). They did it for about half an hour.
After they finished, my wife wanted to sleep in a separate bed, but he disagreed and fell asleep holding her. After he fell asleep, my wife went to sleep in another bed because she wasn't used to sleeping in another man's arms, and she didn't sleep well all night. Around 4 a.m., the man got excited again, woke my wife up, and they did it again.
In the morning, the man wanted it again, but my wife didn't let him, and he didn't force her. He had taken a day off and wanted his wife to stay with him for another day, so he wouldn't leave the hotel and would stay there all day. But his wife knew I was home from my night shift, so she insisted on coming back. They had breakfast together in the morning and then I took my wife home.
When I got home in the morning, my wife had just come in and told me everything that happened last night. We lay in bed, and my wife said that she felt most at ease only in my arms. She fell asleep in less than two minutes.
Looking at my wife, I sighed softly, not knowing what I felt. I was a little excited, a little sour, and a little disappointed. But things have already come to this, and I wanted it to be this way from the beginning, so who can I blame? What I can't give her, I hope she can enjoy while she's young. I hope she's happy every day because I love her very much!
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On the evening of August 13, I was on the night shift, and my wife went on a date with her lover. My wife said she wanted to drink porridge, so they went to drink porridge. It was the same restaurant. My wife said that the dishes at that restaurant were very good and of good quality, so they had been going there ever since they met. If you have time, you can try it. According to my wife's description, it should be outside Jinxingyuan near Sanyuanqiao.
After dinner, he said, "Shall I take you home?" My wife didn't answer. Actually, he wanted her to stay, but she said he always asked in this way, never directly, and never forced her. So she was quite relieved about this; before, he would directly ask, which made her feel that he had a strong ulterior motive and she resented it. My wife said that such methods made her feel like a man's outlet, and that she felt worthless. Although this person also had the same purpose, he gave the impression that he cared about her.
When it was almost time to part, my wife thought that since she was already out, she would be alone at home anyway, so she said to him, "Let's walk around a bit more. If we find a suitable place, we won't go back; if not, we'll go home."
After walking for a while, they found a suitable place. When they got inside, they saw two single beds. My wife said, "Since they're single beds, let's sleep separately!" He didn't say anything, and my wife went to take a shower first. When my wife came out, she found that he had pushed the two beds together to make a double bed, which amused her, and they slept like that. After everything was tidied up, it was time for "that thing"
(sexual intercourse). The first time, it lasted for over half an hour. After resting for about twenty minutes, he got aroused again. His wife didn't refuse, but this time, at his request, she agreed to let him have sex without a condom, of course, withdrawing. Perhaps he'd been holding back for too long, because he wanted a third time, but his wife wouldn't let him, and they went to sleep.
Around 7 a.m., they did it again, again without a condom, and I doubt they'll ever use one again. As any man knows, morning erections are natural due to physiological responses, making sex more effective, and they were no exception.
His wife said that this time she truly observed his penis; it was really big, the glans like an egg, twice the size and length of mine. Hearing this made me feel really inferior. His wife said his penis was very hard, and they went at it for almost an hour before she begged him to stop. Because they'd been at it until 3 a.m. the night before, and then had such a vigorous encounter in the morning, they went to sleep quickly.
I got home around 9 PM, but my wife wasn't home yet. She usually texts me around midnight to let me know she's safe, and she texted me before I got home in the morning, urging me to come home. Apparently, they were having a very intense time together; my wife told me this after she got home.
I waited until after 11 PM, but she still hadn't returned or texted, so I was worried about her safety and called her. She was clearly just waking up. After confirming she was safe, I felt relieved and told her she could continue outings; I was just worried about her safety. She said she'd be home soon and asked me to wait for her.
They hadn't gone back to sleep after my call. My wife got up and said she had to leave, but he said he didn't want her to leave and asked her to let him hug her a little longer, which she didn't refuse. When he hugged her, his hand kept touching her breasts, and even when she pushed him away, he would touch them back. She said, "You touch me, I'll touch you too," and then she touched his penis.
He got aroused after only a few touches and kept pestering his wife to have sex again. His wife said, "My husband is waiting at home!"
and refused. However, seeing how much he was pent up, she gave him oral sex for a while, but didn't let him ejaculate. After they got up, they went out for breakfast; it was already noon. Then she dropped his wife off near my house before leaving.
I called home and waited for another hour, but my wife still hadn't returned. A colleague invited me out for lunch, so we went out. A little while later, my wife called to say she was home and asked where I had been. I said I went out for lunch. My wife, afraid I would be angry, said no and told her to wait for me at home. My
wife told me all of this after I got home. Afterwards, she was very worried about being pregnant, and I was worried too. However, she got her period that day, which relieved us.
When I got home, my wife was already asleep in bed. I woke her up as soon as I walked in. The first thing I saw was a large number of hickeys and bruises on her neck and face, a clear indication of how intense their encounter had been.
My wife said she didn't know at the time; the man told her that morning. He said he hadn't noticed and it wasn't intentional.
I was a little upset because, based on my experience, I felt a man could usually tell whether a kiss left marks. If it wasn't intentional, I wouldn't mind too much; my wife had already been slept with, why would I care about this? But if it was intentional, then I felt he was being irresponsible towards my wife, failing to protect her.
He assumed she was cheating on me, that she hadn't told him. If I truly didn't know, seeing this would leave her with no way to explain—in fact, there was no need for explanation; it would definitely lead to conflict. On the other hand, I felt he was provoking me, clearly telling me: he slept with my wife.
If my guess was right, I would make my wife break up with him, but I had no way to verify it.
My wife disagreed with my assessment, so I didn't say anything more. I'd appreciate any advice or opinions from you all.
Today is August 21st, it's raining heavily. My wife said she was bored at home, and since I'm working the night shift, I asked him out. My wife went out around 2 PM, and a little while later she called me, saying they had just checked into a hotel and he went to buy water, so he called to let me know. I said I wanted to eavesdrop for a bit, but my wife wouldn't agree.
It's 6:30 PM now, so I guess they've already done it once or twice, or maybe they're still doing it. Anyway, they'll be together all night. I have to go to work soon, I'll wait for my wife to tell me when I get back tomorrow!

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