Things about couples making friends

We've been married for several years now. Perhaps due to work pressure, or perhaps it's the so-called aesthetic fatigue and monotonous married life, sometimes our sex life has become unsatisfactory. If my energy is low, I can't get an erection. Although our relationship is good, love without sex is dangerous.
When having sex with my wife, imagining it's with another woman (often a specific person) works very well. But if I realize it's just a fantasy, it loses its effect. Besides, I can't possibly go to a prostitute. So, my wife and I discussed having sex.
To have sex, you first need to convince yourself. My wife and I both had male friends and similar experiences before marriage, so after some internal struggle, I was able to accept it. Secondly, convincing my wife was more difficult because women are reserved and have many concerns, but ultimately, she agreed.
Society generally views "sexual intercourse" as something deliberate misleading, trying to portray this behavior as disrespectful to women. I won't elaborate here, but I just want to say that, in fact, the specific partner needs the mutual consent of both parties. In this activity, men and women are equal, but women usually have stricter requirements. Therefore, "swapping" is more in line with the true nature of the situation.
Choosing a swap partner is a very troublesome matter. There are many fake couples or people driven by curiosity online, and although it's relatively easy to distinguish them, it still takes a lot of effort. Among the remaining people, most are not suitable. After all, our desire for excitement is occasional; we need new experiences, but we don't want to get too deeply involved.
By chance, I chatted with a couple from another city. We both thought the other person was nice. Although their appearance was average, they were both decent-looking, and their speech was similar to ours. We neither hoped for nor were interested in finding handsome men and beautiful women, so we decided to try swapping with this couple.
We met in a small city in the middle, a place we had both traveled to for work before, so we were somewhat familiar with it. After agreeing on a time, we prepared to set off on the appointed day.
Upon arriving in this city, we each booked a standard room in a hotel and then met. The other person was quite different from their online image, but we were still able to accept it. After we had lunch together, we went to one of the rooms. The two men tried to chat for a while, but their conversations were strained. So I suggested we switch rooms, with the two men going to each other's rooms. After everyone agreed, I stayed in the room with the other man's wife.
To be honest, I was very nervous at that moment. I tried to talk to the wife to break the awkward atmosphere, but she was very quiet. Usually, I would say something, and she would give a simple reply. Although her expression was kind, it did nothing to ease my nervousness.
She sat on the edge of the bed watching TV, while I sat on the other side, trying to make small talk. So I said I would take a shower first. After showering, I returned to the bed in my shorts and said that I usually sit under the covers to watch TV. She nodded. I asked again, "Would you like to sit in?" She said, "Sure."
My thighs were touching her skin, and she didn't pull away from the sudden contact. When I confirmed that she was also waiting for this moment, I became bolder and hugged her. I heard her rapid breathing, and at the same time, I felt inexplicably excited. The beginning is always the hardest, but the rest was a familiar process, so it proceeded naturally. Out of safety concerns, we used condoms and didn't kiss.
After resting for a while, it was time for dinner. A phone call came from the other room, asking if we were awake. So we got up and went back to our respective rooms. My wife was also excited, sharing some details and feelings. Actually, I had been worried about something going wrong with her, but it seemed everything was normal. She said she felt a bit excited, since her partner and I had different ways of making love, adding a fresh thrill.
The four of us had dinner together, took a short walk around the small town, but didn't find much interest, so we went back to the hotel. That night, we slept separately after swapping partners again. My partner's wife and I had gotten to know each other a bit better, but the atmosphere was still a little awkward. We watched TV for a while, then did it again. There wasn't much conversation. The next morning, I woke up very early, and she woke up too. I coaxed her again, and we did it again.
After getting up, I spent some time alone with my wife, sharing our feelings, details, and even funny stories. Then we had breakfast together and said goodbye afterwards.
Back home, I rarely went online on QQ because I didn't want a recurring relationship so soon. But I could see she was frequently online, seemingly waiting for us. After a while, we went online again and chatted. Her husband said his work had been relatively relaxed lately, and he wanted to travel. I knew what he meant, so I said, "If you'd like, you're welcome to come over." She happily agreed.
When she came to our place, we arranged for them to stay at our home. This time, the atmosphere was very harmonious, and her wife was much more cheerful. That evening, when I was with her, we talked a lot, including many private things and even some slightly cheesy things. This wasn't intentional; I genuinely wanted to talk to her more. Putting aside the gradually fading awkwardness and unfamiliarity, she felt like a close female friend besides my wife. Moreover, I could be intimate with her like a lover, without any emotional guilt.
They stayed at my house for two days. They left in the morning; they had gotten up before dawn. When she got up, she gently touched my face. I was half-asleep, actually enjoying the feeling. I'm a person of principle. After they left, I didn't miss them. I cherish the feeling of being together; after separation, we each have our own world. However, my wife and I had more to talk about, fewer secrets, a more harmonious relationship, and a much better interest in our sex life.
After that, I didn't have any further contact with her, partly because of the distance, and partly because work gradually became busier. Also, we only considered our interactions as a spice in life; we treated each other as friends with whom we could have sexual relations, just friends, only lovers when we were together. But the other person might not have the same self-control.

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