The hardships of being a single man

Single men—I believe many couples dislike this term. Their impression of single men is that of someone who's carefree, whose mind is consumed by nothing but sex. Some add you as a friend and immediately bring up sex, spewing all sorts of vulgarities.
First of all, I admit that many single men are like that. (Based on experiences shared by couples in some groups.) I've never really understood this type of person, but when you hear so many single men around you are like this, I also questioned myself for a while:
"Did I do something wrong? Should being a single man mean being more open? Should I just go straight for sex so other couples will like it?"
I questioned myself, but I didn't try it; I just felt I couldn't be that rough. Normally, I always try to appear as a gentleman in front of women (I consider myself a handsome young man, the kind that young girls would glance at twice, not out of narcissism. Even when I was secretly passionate, I always maintained a gentlemanly demeanor. Later, a friend told me that because I was overly gentlemanly, several girls who liked me felt they weren't good enough for me and left. Ironically, I was also eager to pursue those girls, but my pride prevented me from doing so). Of course, my inner passion is undeniable, but I suppress it. Because I've always felt that only a gentleman earns genuine respect.
So, I still follow my habit: when couples add me, or when I add couples, I chat with them about life, this, that.
However, every couple who add me is always extremely guarded, asking about height, weight, health, work… There's no warmth left in their conversations. (I know this is common practice for couples dating single men, and I understand, but I can't get used to their methods.)
So, time and again, our conversations clashed, or felt awkward, and we ended them.
Later, I gradually left the dating forum and the topic of single men.
I realized that my stubborn, gentlemanly behavior really wasn't suited to this topic. Maybe the behavior of those single men I didn't understand was actually the right one.
After that, I talked to a few couples sporadically, but it just fizzled out!
(Sometimes I'm really frustrated. My looks are good, my character is good, my health, my personality, etc., are all much better than some people's, so why don't I encounter these kinds of situations?)
I feel like I'm becoming completely disconnected from these kinds of topics!!!

URL 1:https://www.sexlove5.com/htmlBlog/120293.html

URL 2:/Blog.aspx?id=120293&aspx=1

Previous Page : Want to have a 3P with a single man

Next Page : Precautions for single men

增加

comment Open a new window to view comments

Contact Information

The hardships of being a single man

comment Open a new window to view comments