Five compelling reasons for women to participate in couples' online dating.

Published Date: 2014-08-27 Author: Yan Chenai Popularity: 478
If you are a woman, if you believe you will spend your life in a forest of men and cannot wholeheartedly love only one tree, if you still cherish your family and do not want to break up your existing life, then you can really try couples dating.
This is not instigation, but personal experience. I have 5 reasons to support this.
1. The inner need for infidelity.
Marriage is too long, love is too short. No matter how passionate and deep the love was at the beginning, long-term married life will wear down the passion. You will fall into the habit of marriage. You can't live without that person, but with that person, you may not have a constantly exciting sex life, or even the restless excitement in your heart. Actually, you need other men, different men, like different bonfires, burning at different points in your life, giving you ample passion and warmth. You are a puddle of water beside that bonfire; you need the power to evaporate, the warmth of life… making you feel that life isn't a straight river flowing downstream, without even a bend in the road, just rushing straight to the end.
Who wants that kind of life? I don't. When I look back on my life, I feel it's a bountiful autumn, the heavy fruits making me truly feel their weight, feeling that the bottom is unfathomable. Like a story, it can never be finished, there are always different climaxes and ups and downs.
2. The inevitability of safe and secure infidelity.
Infidelity cannot pose a risk of destroying the marriage; otherwise, it's not worth it. Marriage is the most stable river in a woman's life. Don't try to jump out of this river in every relationship, because many men's fleeting warmth is not enough to support your body's depth and capacity. He might just be a small pond; if you bravely jump in, you might just end up crashing headfirst into hard concrete. Therefore, to cheat, one should cheat with peace of mind and without loss, like a brief pause in life's journey, picking a touch of spring's vibrancy and carrying a handful of autumn's brilliance. This "cheating" is just a small pause, a small detour, and then, filled with physical and mental pleasure, you return to your main path.
There is no other way to indulge in cheating while ensuring your peace of mind, safety, and safety, without risk. Only marital infidelity. Because your actions are permitted, even encouraged, and shared, not restricted, prohibited, or abandoned. Just like me, hiding under the umbrella of marriage, or anchored in the harbor of marriage, looking around, occasionally venturing out, always remembering the direction of home and the warm, unchanging light.
3. The inevitability of sharing happiness in infidelity.
Other types of extramarital affairs all harbor the danger of marital and family disintegration after exposure, making it impossible to control the future direction of life, with immeasurable costs. But women, if you're involved in marital affairs, then infidelity becomes a form of shared pleasure. From the moment you start looking for romantic encounters, whether you're with married couples or singles, you and your husband will have many more topics to discuss—guessing, planning, dreaming, even fantasizing… The pleasure is shared discreetly, not something you hide or try to conceal.

You'll feel that the love you receive is infinitely expanded. Your husband's love, which was originally 10 parts, now becomes 20 parts, because of his generosity, his indulgence, his encouragement, his trust, and his meticulous conversations with you. The bond between you has increased dramatically… And at this time, you also receive the care, concern, allure, and passion of another man. Your happiness will increase by another 20 parts. A
purely secret affair might offer 20 parts of pleasure and excitement, but the risk and pain of a broken marriage could wipe out all 20 parts, leaving a negative impact on your lifelong suffering. I don't want to take the risk, I don't want to lose, I don't want to bear the emotional debt. What about you?
4. The necessity of maintaining control.
The power of emotions is terrifying. An irrational person might destroy their existing life under the influence of a momentary emotional impulse. Especially the common stories of families being torn apart by covert infidelity—these are constantly playing out around us.
How can we risk losing our harmonious and peaceful family for a moment of pleasure? Therefore, covert and deceptive infidelity is not worth it. Women, if you want to enjoy life safely and without danger, within your own control, the only way is to participate in marital friendships. Perhaps women are too emotional, and their emotional self-control might be temporarily lost. But rest assured, your husband will keep things in check, and your partner will help you manage things from each other's perspectives, ensuring that while things may be exciting, they won't be chaotic. It allows you to immerse yourself in a sudden emotional experience, yet it also has enough pull to bring you back to your original life, and you'll still feel grateful for life, your husband, and the world, because you are being infected by a great love.
You enjoyed physical and mental pleasure without betraying love and family. You remain noble and unique, free from moral condemnation. Your emotional and physical freedom did not affect your sense of social responsibility; your attitude was one of returning to family, not turning away.
5. A path to self-awareness, improvement, and learning.
No life experience is without reason, nor is it without gain or reflection.
A woman who, with maximum understanding and support, reaps extramarital affection and sex, enriching her otherwise meager life, will not be a wooden woman, indifferent to these seemingly reckless acts. She will certainly reflect more, carefully learning from these experiences—learning from each man's choices when faced with the clash between emotion and reason, learning their trade-offs and considerations in life, learning their different ways of showing passion and love, learning their excellent and compassionate qualities.
Take me, for example. I have always been selfish. No matter how much I change each time, I have ultimately come to some realization. I would lie in my husband's arms, reflecting on my pettiness and greed, begging for his forgiveness, asking for more time to slowly correct myself, or perhaps even resorting to pleading and pleading for his tolerance of my flaws…
Perhaps due to my personality, I will never be perfect in this regard, but I will desperately try to make up for it in other ways. Love requires seeing and giving; sometimes, the word "reciprocation" isn't wrong. As long as you give, the other person will see and feel it, and will reciprocate in kind… In this way, everyone grows and strengthens within the marriage—how wonderful!

So, participating in an extramarital affair together, treating our spouses and loved ones with openness and honesty, is perfectly wonderful and incredibly blissful. I think so, don't you?

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