Online reservation for the game "***"

In Guangzhou, some people are actually playing "sex" games! This isn't a fantasy, but a fact. A reporter recently discovered while visiting a website that a small number of men are indeed using the internet daily to find like-minded "partners" for "sex" (i.e., two couples exchanging partners solely for sexual purposes). Does this "sex" phenomenon reflect a conflict between individual moral values and social morality? How does society view this phenomenon? The reporter conducted an investigation.
New Express reporter Tang Menglinxi, intern Huang Zhenyi.
Undercover investigation: Some people book "sex" online.
In early September, a post on a website's "local dating" section caught the reporter's attention. In this "dating invitation" titled "Couples dating, no time limit," an "inviter" named "Da Ming" asked the reporter questions about height, marital harmony, and whether they wanted to try something new, before explicitly asking about "sex."
On September 15th, the reporter revisited the website and answered "Da Ming's" questions.
At 12:33 PM on September 16th, the reporter opened their email and received a message: "Congratulations! gz-baiyang invites you to a date called 'Couples Dating, No Time Limit...'! Please check your dating history and start this romantic date now!"
At 2:50 PM on September 17th, the reporter contacted Da Ming online, suggesting they meet first to get to know each other. Da Ming was cautious and chatted with the reporter online: Da Ming: "We can meet first. Can you introduce yourselves?"
Reporter: "I'm a choreographer in a dance troupe, and my wife is an actress. My online information is all true. Can you introduce yourselves?"
Da Ming: "I work at a bank, I'm 37 years old, 176 cm tall, and my wife works in real estate, she's 32 years old, 164 cm tall, and weighs 115 kg."
Reporter: "My wife is 27 years old, 160 cm tall, and weighs 102 kg..." September 19, 8:37 AM

Reporter: "I only saw your message yesterday at noon. My wife went to Shenzhen yesterday and won't be back until tomorrow morning. How about meeting tomorrow afternoon or evening?"
Da Ming: "Tomorrow morning!"
Reporter: "She won't be back until around 11 am. Is noon okay? How about we split the bill? You choose the place."
Da Ming: "Okay." On September 20, the reporter was too busy with work to contact Da Ming. On September 21, 11 am, the reporter contacted Da Ming by phone: Reporter: "I can't reach your wife. Is the afternoon okay?" Da Ming: "My wife has to work this afternoon. Real estate work mainly on holidays. I don't know if she can take time off. Let's reschedule. She has an appointment with a client at 3 pm."
Reporter: "Is evening or tomorrow okay? My wife usually rehearses quite hard. She's also a bit hesitant. Is your wife open-minded?"
Da Ming: "Let's talk tomorrow. She's open-minded." After more than 10 rounds of "psychological testing," Da Ming finally agreed to meet the reporter at a Western restaurant on Ersha Island at 4 pm on September 22.
The reporter met the "***" couple face-to-face
at a Western restaurant on Ersha Island
at 3:50 PM on September 21st. The reporter (a man and a woman) arrived early and sat at table number 4 on the right side of the first floor. At 4:00 PM, Da Ming appeared before the reporter with his wife. As Da Ming described online, he was nearly 1.78 meters tall, almost 40 years old, strong and handsome—a "mature and handsome man." His wife was about 1.64 meters tall, in her early 30s, with long, flowing hair, slightly plump, and very feminine.
During
the hour-long conversation, Da Ming described his two previous "***" encounters. One involved an employee of a bureau in Guangzhou; the four of them checked into a hotel, where they each had sex with the other's spouse. A little over a month later, they contacted each other again by phone and "swapped" wives.
The second "***" was with a private business owner. The owner brought his mistress, who was quite beautiful. They booked a hotel room with two beds, and afterwards, they split the bill and each took their wife home.
The wife expressed her approval
. According to Da Ming's self-introduction, he graduated from the economics department of a university in Guangzhou, is from Shantou, and currently works in a bank. He believes that sex is a new experience, more novel and exciting, and neither of them needs to pay. His wife is very open-minded, and they have a very good relationship.
Da Ming's wife sat somewhat shyly next to him, rarely speaking, mostly acting as an observer. She is from Shunde and works in real estate. When the reporter asked her if she was willing, she only nodded slightly in agreement. She also quietly told the reporter that they already have a little boy, currently in the fifth grade of elementary school.
Around 5 pm, Da Ming became somewhat impatient and demanded sex. The two reporters had to go to the side of the restaurant to discuss it and declined, citing the need to reschedule.
Interviewed citizens do not approve of sex
. The reporter randomly interviewed some citizens in Guangzhou, and although people had different opinions on this phenomenon, almost no one expressed approval.
● Mr. Lai (Taxi driver, 46 years old): I often hear about prostitution and keeping mistresses, which are infuriating. But to think someone would exchange their wife for someone else's is unbelievable! I don't know what these people are thinking; how could they do such a thing? It's utter chaos.
● Tang Jingqiu (University student, 21 years old): It's not surprising that this kind of thing happens to others. In today's diverse society, anything can happen, but "sexual assault" should never happen, and it would never happen to me. I cannot accept such a thing.
● Wang Min (Media worker, 32 years old): "Sex games"? I would never do it! It's understandable that modern people are busy and stressed, but there are many ways to vent. While "sexual assault" is a personal matter, such personal behavior cannot ignore its social impact.
● Mr. Huang (Engineer, 35 years old): Everyone has the freedom to choose their own lifestyle, but as a member of society, one must have a sense of responsibility towards society. This is a very foolish behavior and should be stopped.
Legal Perspective: Violating the Spirit of Legislation
(Deng Keping, Lawyer, Guangzhou Women's Federation) Since both parties in the "committee" (or spouses) act voluntarily and proactively, there is no issue of one party infringing on the other's rights. However, current Chinese law protects monogamy, and their behavior at least violates the spirit of the legislation. Although China's Marriage Law stipulates that spouses have an obligation to respect each other, it is difficult to establish a standard to define this phenomenon. However, it is clear that the "committee" phenomenon completely violates China's social morality. This phenomenon should be condemned primarily from a moral perspective. As
society develops towards diversification, the fast pace of life and immense work pressure have led to increasing emptiness in people's spiritual lives. People's mindsets have also become more diverse, and it is wrong for a small number of people to advocate the separation of sex and love in pursuit of sensory stimulation. The "committee" phenomenon may leave many long-term consequences for society and families.
Experts argue that such incidents
are isolated phenomena and will not be accepted by mainstream society.
Li Jun (PhD in Ethics, Department of Social Sciences, School of Education, Sun Yat-sen University): The phenomenon of "***" has existed in the West for a long time. However, under the current ethical concepts and moral background in China, although the occurrence of such events is not accidental, it is still an isolated phenomenon and cannot be accepted by mainstream society. It should be unequivocally opposed.
With social development, in some large cities and areas with a high proportion of migrant populations, some people lack corresponding family and social backgrounds, especially ethical and moral ones. In such cases, people's sense of responsibility weakens, and the constraints on them decrease. This is particularly true in cities with high immigrant populations, where the rate of sexual promiscuity is relatively high, even leading to phenomena like "water-based sex" (sex as casually and casually as drinking water, only when thirsty), which is related to the general weakening of family constraints. Furthermore, with the popularization of the internet and the rise of online culture, irresponsible practices in the virtual world have inappropriately extended into real life, creating absurd phenomena such as prostitution. These issues should attract our attention and prompt deep reflection.
In China, this situation is largely attributed to the influence of Western capitalist lifestyles and ideologies. However, even in Western societies, the "sexual liberation movement" since the 1970s, while widespread, has not affected the mainstream lifestyle of Christian societies. Recently, even a so-called "chastity movement" has emerged, reflecting to some extent a return to rationality in Western sexual attitudes.
This is an irresponsible act towards marriage, family, and society.
Lin Qi (Chairwoman of the Guangzhou Women's Federation): The emergence of promiscuity is a shock to traditional family, marriage, and moral values, and also to China's existing marriage system. Out of responsibility to family, marriage, and society, promiscuity should not be condoned.
Human society has evolved from the group marriage system of primitive society, to polygamy in feudal society, and finally to monogamy today. It has been proven that monogamy is a stable, reliable, and optimal marriage model, and it is legally established. The ultimate purpose of marriage is to pursue the physical and mental pleasure derived from the combination of sex and love.
From international experience, we can see that the cost of promiscuity and one-night stands is severe; it can lead to the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, illegitimate children, and social instability. Traditional and existing family, moral, and marriage values will inevitably be impacted, potentially leading to increased divorce rates and single-parent families.
Of course, the mentality of those involved in promiscuity is also complex. Why can this group, with generally high levels of education, disregard family, society, ethics, and morality? To some extent, this can be seen as a manifestation of psychological distortion or abnormality.
Improving the quality of marital sex life is key
. Zhu Jiaming (Executive Director of the Chinese Sexology Association, Vice President of the Guangdong Sexology Association): The phenomenon of "sexual assault" appears around us, and to some extent, it is influenced by the Western sexual revolution. However, in today's society, sexual assault is actually a form of sexual promiscuity. Because Chinese law protects monogamy, those who engage in sexual assault seek novelty and excitement, often without understanding the other person's identity or health status—a very blind sexual behavior. This phenomenon may lead to social problems such as the spread of diseases and individual psychological imbalances.
Besides social factors, disharmony in marital sex life is also a significant cause of this phenomenon. Many couples experience monotonous sex lives, leaving one or both partners unsatisfied and unable to express their passion. Due to historical reasons, China has historically had relatively little sex education, considering sexual practices something that cannot be discussed openly. In fact, both partners have an obligation to satisfy each other during sex. Therefore, improving the quality of marital sex life is crucial.
Sexual health encompasses a wide range of topics, including not only sexual activity itself, but also preventing the accidental transmission of diseases through sexual intercourse, and physical and mental well-being. The level of public awareness of healthy sexuality in my country is far from satisfactory; sex education should be aimed at the entire population.

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