How to lick a woman

How to perform oral sex on a woman? Performing oral sex on a woman is a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology perspective, the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan during oral sex is very enjoyable.
The following guide is for men performing oral sex on women, based on my personal experience. The sensations experienced by women are based on my observations and feedback from my girlfriend, which I have slightly edited.
I. Preparations before oral sex:
Sex is a wonderful thing. If you're not just looking for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere, such as doing it at night and dimming the lights.
Both partners should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genitalia have a more complex structure with many folds, making them prone to accumulating dirt. Therefore, when showering, make sure to thoroughly clean the labia majora and minora.
Men should play some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, women should get into the habit of applying perfume to their genitals, but avoid using too much or too strong a scent. When a man is licking your genitals, his nose is closest to your vulva, and a strong perfume can easily overwhelm him. Also, avoid applying perfume to the vulva itself, as the scent of your vaginal fluids isn't created with perfume. Spray perfume onto your palms and apply it to your pubic hair and inner thighs. A light application to the anus is also beneficial.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water nearby so she can easily reach it if thirsty, preventing her from interrupting her experience.
Secondly, regarding women's sensitive areas:
Men shouldn't assume that licking the genitals means immediately rushing to kiss her clitoris upon entering bed. Don't be so aggressive. A woman's body reacts slowly; give her time to adjust. The clitoris is extremely sensitive; stimulating it immediately will be less effective.
Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hug her and say a few sweet words, like "You're so beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on her breasts, as they are a very important erogenous zone.
At this point, she should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you should begin to approach her genitals. Start kissing from the inner thighs, gently separating her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their genitals to you. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when separating her legs; do it gently, little by little.
Begin to lightly touch and sweep her thighs with your tongue, from the outer side of her labia majora—the crease between her thighs—from bottom to top, gently licking towards her hip bones (the left and right sides of her lower abdomen), repeating this about ten times. She will feel a very itchy and tingling sensation, and a tingling or aching feeling near the vaginal opening. Gently sweep your tongue along the thigh down to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive spot for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area several times. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip it and kiss back down.
Return to the groin and repeat the above steps. This technique is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract the "enemy," take the initiative, and guide her senses to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare across any part of her body—the breasts, the lower abdomen, the groin, and the pubic area. Gradually, you'll notice the woman starting to move, her legs involuntarily swinging, and making moaning sounds. More sensitive women will experience vaginal lubrication.
After about ten minutes of this "assistance," begin your main attack!
By providing support, the man has essentially overcome the woman's shyness and dismantled her psychological defenses. At this point, she will be in a state of feigned resistance, allowing the man to launch his main offensive.
The woman should take the initiative, spreading her legs in a V-shape, ideally arching them backward to expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative will provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.
Once the woman has raised and spread her legs, the man should first target several key areas: the perineum, vulva, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the junction of the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the woman's inner thighs, she will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing a woman's perineum, if you can overcome your psychological barriers, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement.
If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the perineum to the vulva. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid will be clear and thin; if you like, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty.
How should you kiss the vulva? Don't use your hands yet. Use your tongue to pry the labia majora apart (some women have smaller labia majora, or when highly aroused, the labia may separate on their own). Take one labia in your mouth and sweep your tongue over it, paying attention to both the inside and outside. Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's vulva. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time, sucking them in. Use your tongue to make a sweeping motion between the labia, pulling out and out. The woman will feel incredibly good.
Remember, when kissing the vulva, try to suck as much of it as possible into your mouth, gently sweeping and licking with your tongue. The woman will feel a slight itch in the vulva area and want you to kiss more areas and wider. Ignore her; just keep kissing. Few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..."
You can gently bite her vulva while she's enjoying it. The flesh is in your mouth; whether to bite and how to bite is up to you. But don't bite too hard; just the right amount. Make her suddenly scream, basically ruining the sensation she's built up.
Why ruin a woman's pleasure for no reason? Male sexual arousal is achieved through eye contact and friction with the genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is accumulated through the ears (sweet words) and through imagination and sensation. Achieving orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. This can be represented graphically as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoid.
After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who is kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her next sexual arousal faster and more accumulated. This technique should be repeated when licking a woman's vulva, but not too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting; the vulva is very tender.
When you gently bite a woman's vulva, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah" into a soft "Oh." This creates a feeling of wanting to curse but being unable to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's quite fun.
After you've "conquered" her "outer strongholds" (perineum, vulva, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In sexual terminology, the vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam" (yinchun), which is quite descriptive, and indeed, there are "pearls" (yindi) inside.
As mentioned above, gently biting a woman's vulva and then quickly sealing her vaginal opening with your lips will give her a warm and comfortable sensation. Now it's time to get started. Gently use your thumb to separate her labia, exposing the vaginal opening. Use your tongue to circle around the opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes with your entire lips pressed against it. Remember, don't blow air into the vagina; it's not fun and can easily lead to problems.
At this point, the woman's attention is entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris will begin to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she'll only feel a swelling and probably won't feel much sensation. At this point, you can pause briefly from kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from within. The woman will let out a few soft moans. Then you can return to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this point, the woman's clitoris has just been stimulated and she will be eager for you to kiss it again.
Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this point. Keep her half-awake, half-asleep. The man should begin by gently licking upwards from the vulva towards the clitoris, slowly and carefully. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.
At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "I'm almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." Ignore her cries or pulls; just don't kiss the clitoris. When you're almost there, gently, as lightly as possible, lightly brush and touch her clitoris with the tip of your tongue (your tongue should have a little saliva on it). Then, immediately reverse the direction and lick towards the vaginal opening. This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her.
When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try to insert their tongues and stir them inside the woman's vagina—stir them however you like, as long as you can make a sound. Women really enjoy this technique, but men should be careful with their tongues; sticking them out too far can cause injury. Men with thick tongues (like me, poor thing!) can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues to create a sensation, even if it's not very deep, it can make a woman feel very aroused. The feeling of a thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something men with long, thin tongues can't provide. Men with long, thin tongues can use the tip to gently tease the vulva, which is also very pleasurable; each has its own merits.
Now you can focus on getting the "pearl" (clitoris). Move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many men might think that simply licking the clitoris vigorously is enough to bring a woman to orgasm, but this is a misconception. The clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick too hard, she will feel more pain than pleasure, which is pointless.
When kissing the clitoris, keep a few things in mind: your tongue must be wet, light, and pointed, and it's essential to keep it moist (the water prepared in Chapter 1 will come in handy now). When licking the clitoris, be gentle and use only the tip of your tongue. The key to attacking the clitoris is the five-word technique: "point, flick, push, press, stir." "Point" refers to lightly touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; "flick" means flicking the clitoris upwards from below; "push" means moving the clitoris left and right with your tongue; "press" means pressing down on the clitoris occasionally with your tongue; and "stir" means swirling your tongue around the clitoris when you have it in your mouth.
At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, as she will be very engaged and excited. You can feel a slight throbbing sensation under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you have it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; maintain a steady pace, as sudden, rapid movements can easily bring her to orgasm.
Men often want sex to last longer and ejaculate later for greater comfort. Women, like men, also crave this pleasurable sensation to last longer. Therefore, it's crucial to understand this. Only resort to a faster pace to help your partner reach orgasm if she strongly insists on giving in, or if your tongue becomes numb from prolonged kissing.
A very effective technique is to avoid the haphazard licking style seen in adult films, and don't always use the methods described above for kissing the clitoris. Once you feel you've mastered these techniques and are ready to bring her to orgasm, use your entire lip to enclose the clitoris. Place your upper lip on the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to part the labia, bringing it as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Hold the clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel as if it's floating in your mouth.
Using the five-word technique to launch an attack, this is the most meaningful moment for a man to lick a woman's clitoris. Because you can control her arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick her for a round, causing her to convulse violently. Just as she's about to climax, I gently release her, pulling away from her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, as soon as I pull away, just as she's about to scream, I immediately suck on her again, and she's too comfortable to scream. How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or she'll kick you off the bed.

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