The choice of truly loving one's wife - 3P

Besides casual sex between spouses or boyfriends/girlfriends, various other exciting sexual activities exist in society today, such as voyeurism, swapping, and group sex. Of course, everyone's preferences are different, so let's talk about group sex! Among these group sex activities, threesomes are a favorite among many men, and wives are also more likely to accept them, because threesomes often bring greater pleasure to women. Below, let's explore the various characteristics of threesomes from different perspectives. The
threesome sexual activities discussed in this article do not include those involving prostitutes or gigolos, or any monetary transactions. We are not prejudiced against prostitutes, nor do we look down on this sexual behavior. In fact, prostitution is also a service industry; prostitutes use their advantageous conditions to seek personal gain, but they also provide a certain degree of protection and buffer for the personal safety of women. Without their contributions, there would likely be far more rape cases in society.
Firstly, regarding the classification of threesomes, we can naturally categorize them by the gender of the participants into one man and two women, and two men and one woman. However, in the one-man-two-woman scenario, the man is more likely to ejaculate due to excessive stimulation. Generally, men need time to recover after ejaculation, but by then the women's arousal has already begun, and they may not have reached orgasm yet, which is unfair to the wife. Medical research shows that the most pleasurable sexual experience requires both partners to reach orgasm. Therefore, whether it's a threesome or group sex, most people consider combinations with more men than women. The
two-man-one-woman scenario is therefore more stimulating than the previous one. In fact, the two-man-one-woman scenario avoids many of the drawbacks mentioned above. The wife's orgasm can be continuous, and the man, after ejaculating, watching another live performance of sex, especially the husband seeing another man's semen flowing from his wife's vagina, will quickly regain his arousal and be able to resume sexual activity. Furthermore, men who have experienced orgasm and ejaculation can last longer due to decreased sensitivity. Numerous studies have shown that the average woman needs at least three to five orgasms during a single sexual encounter to achieve satisfaction, and even after achieving satisfaction, she can continue sexual activity.
Generally healthy women can tolerate dozens of rounds of passionate sex in a single day and maintain orgasms throughout. Women also have the significant advantage of being able to engage in multiple sexual acts simultaneously with several men. Furthermore, women have far more erogenous zones than men, often leading to a lack of focus when only one man is involved. The presence of a third party can enhance a woman's satisfaction. For example, while one man is penetrating his wife, another can caress her breasts or kiss her. If sensitivity decreases during the second round, the wife can then engage in intercourse to maintain arousal.
Ideally, all three should participate fully in a threesome, ensuring no one is left out. However, is having more men always better? Research reports indicate that, with very few exceptional cases, having sex with two to three men is actually the limit of what women can accept; any more than that might feel like gang rape to most women.
Regarding women's attitudes towards threesomes, we can divide them into two categories: unmarried and married. Unmarried women engage in threesomes out of curiosity, playfulness, or a desire for excitement; they often do so with their boyfriend's friends, or perhaps to be ahead of the curve, for money, or simply to have some fun with strangers.
For married women, while their motivations also include many of the above, they need to consider more factors. More progressive women might ask their husbands to participate in threesomes, but due to societal constraints, it's mostly the men who make the requests. In fact, the vast majority of those who enjoy watching others have sex are men, and given that everyone experiences jealousy to some extent, it's easier for a wife to accept a husband suggesting a threesome with another man than with another woman. This is another reason why threesomes with two men and one woman are relatively popular. On the other hand, a threesome can involve three people who are not married, or it can be a married couple with one other person participating. However, the significance of these two types of sexual activity is very different. If all three are not married, the excitement and stimulation will be greatly reduced for each person. This is because such a threesome is merely about achieving sexual intercourse, fully exposing each other's bodies, demonstrating their sexual abilities, and satisfying a certain curiosity. The only difference is the addition of one person, and no one bears any responsibility. There is no special excitement or stimulation, and it is similar to regular sex.
If a married couple participates in a threesome, the situation is very different. In addition to the above, this sexual behavior also includes elements of voyeurism, extramarital sex, and infidelity. It is a transgression that challenges social and familial moral responsibilities and reflects the sexual attitudes and sexual openness of the couple. If the other participant is male, watching his wife have sex with another man allows the husband to better understand his wife's sexual experiences and also tests her feelings towards him, sex, and achieving extramarital orgasms. All of these factors make it appealing to many married couples, including myself. Therefore, this is the true form of 3P sex. In fact, for couples married for many years, while the bond may strengthen over time, the passion may fade. Although they may still be very loving, the passion between them may not be what it used to be. If they want to rekindle their desire, they might try something new – a 3P is an excellent choice.
A special reminder to husbands considering threesomes: always pay attention to your wife's wishes and obtain her consent. This is an opportunity to show your love and respect for her. Convincing your wife to participate in a threesome requires some finesse, but remember not to use overt deception or manipulation. Generally, you can subtly ask her if she's still unsatisfied after one or two encounters, expressing your love and desire for her satisfaction. You could then suggest finding her another man, provided you're present, while assuring her you're open and won't be jealous. You can also find articles about threesomes; descriptions of sexual sensations and exciting moments can influence her emotions. While convincing your wife to participate in a threesome may take some effort, since it's the husband's suggestion, her main concerns will likely be safety and health. If these two points are addressed, most open-minded women will be interested. The most important first step is to jointly relieve psychological and mental stress, choosing a relaxed, natural, and gradual approach, letting things flow naturally. Moreover, once your wife has experienced one or two threesomes with multiple orgasms, she will enjoy sex even more. Many women who were previously frigid have experienced orgasm for the first time after engaging in threesomes, gaining confidence in their sex life and starting to actively seek out their husbands for sex. Some husbands have even observed other women's techniques, leading to greater satisfaction for their wives. In addition to safety and health considerations mentioned above, it's important to ensure that threesomes don't disrupt the family. Therefore, it's generally advisable for one couple to participate with a stranger, so that separation won't affect either partner's life or family. If the man is married, you can consider having both wives take turns experiencing the pleasure of a threesome. Furthermore, it's best not to maintain this relationship with the same person for more than six months. This helps maintain freshness and allows for exchanging experiences with more sexually experienced individuals; this should be discussed before choosing a partner. If you are a couple new to threesomes, having an experienced man guide you is ideal. You should also pay attention to your schedules and locations, and whether you can coordinate with your wife's safe period. It's important to note that threesomes can be very passionate. During the act, using condoms for contraception or disease prevention is not a very safe method. In a complete threesome, each man may ejaculate two to three times. In a state of extreme excitement, the possibility of semen getting on or off the condom during the process of losing and regaining an erection, and the need to change condoms, is high. There are also many cases where condoms break during threesomes. Therefore, carefully selecting sexual partners and accurately calculating your wife's fertile period is more important than using condoms for disease prevention or contraception. In fact, many couples, in the heat of the moment, may unintentionally allow their partners to thrust freely inside their wives' vaginas, even ejaculating, while their partners are naked. Therefore, I recommend using the currently popular liquid condoms. They provide contraception, lubrication, and quickly kill various sexually transmitted infections. Using them eliminates the need for a condom, creating a more realistic experience and increasing genital stimulation. The frequency of threesomes can vary from person to person; personally, I recommend about once a month. Additionally, try to maintain this relationship with only one partner at a time to avoid complications and prevent diseases.
After you've decided on your partners... going straight to a hotel for your first time? How awkward! Playing some games or engaging in some interactive activities will make you more comfortable. Go shopping together and sit in a coffee shop chatting, finding topics to relax with while subtly anticipating the adventure to come. The three of you could share a meal, chat, play a fun sport, or go on an outdoor trip to get to know each other better. Husbands should encourage their wives to share with their partners, allowing them to feel comfortable and happy. If possible, subtly suggest playful banter between your wife and your partner. You'll be delighted to see your wife blushing as she holds hands with a man you don't know well. More importantly, you can subtly convey your wife's desires and preferences to the stranger. If the interaction goes well, you'll sense a subtle, unspoken connection developing. Since you've decided to travel together, don't be stingy with your partner; let others share.
Alcohol can enhance the experience. Even if you're a teetotaler, choose a light, smooth champagne or red wine. A slight blush on your cheeks is fine, but don't get drunk. While drinking, play flirtatious games, such as drinking games or stripping. A good atmosphere is key to enhancing the fun of a threesome.
After drinking and chatting for an hour or two, the effects of the alcohol begin to wear off. When a woman feels a slight flush on her cheeks, she's at her most sensual. At this moment, she can embrace her wife and let her partner caress her body from behind through her clothes. This reduces potential awkwardness later. Her partner should get up and leave, ideally taking a shower alone. The key to this preparation lies in the husband's ability and performance. Creating this atmosphere isn't easy. It's best for the couple to shower together, naturally setting the stage for lovemaking. When showering, the wife must wash her hair, but not completely dry it; leaving it about 70% dry is more attractive. She should use a plant-scented shampoo instead of regular shampoo. She should also use a special body wash with a natural fragrance to wash her body, leaving her skin clean and smooth. Before showering, she must urinate and defecate, and ideally, use a special vaginal wash to thoroughly cleanse the vagina and eliminate any possible odors. Many women neglect to clean their anus; a simple method is to apply soap to your ring finger and repeatedly rotate and thrust it inside the anus to clean it (or you can use a smooth, clean thin cotton pad soaked in soap). (Wrap soap around your fingers and insert them as far as possible until your fingers are odorless. Then apply a lubricating, milky product like facial cleanser or skin cream to the inside of the anus. This will not only clean and lubricate but also leave a pleasant fragrance. Do not spray too much perfume on the vulva, and never spray perfume inside the vagina, as some men are particularly sensitive to the smell of perfume, and some may even vomit from inhaling strong perfume. Furthermore, the strong perfume scent mixed with the smell of vaginal fluid will create an even more unpleasant odor. Therefore, when applying perfume, use your fingers to dab a small amount onto the vulva and perineum.) First, arouse your wife's desire. This is best done with just the two of you. When your wife is fresh from her bath, like a lotus emerging from water, and wearing sexy, revealing lingerie, coupled with the caresses and teasing between you and your husband in the bathroom, the moment you return to a three-person setting, she is incredibly alluring. Both of you should continue this intimate behavior; it's a signal and a way of publicly arousing passion. By this time, your partner should be at their wit's end, and it's time to take over. When a woman's desire is aroused, her psychological defenses are at their most vulnerable. When embracing and kissing each other, besides deep kisses where tongues penetrate each other's mouths, most women enjoy men licking and kissing their necks, earlobes, and breasts. Several areas on a woman's upper body are also highly sensitive and best suited for caressing during a threesome: the ears, armpits, collarbone area, inner thighs, toes, and lower abdomen. Threesomes always begin with the wife's upper body. The wife lies on the bed with her upper body exposed and relaxed, eyes closed. The husband lies face down on her upper body, gently licking her lips. The wife's beautiful lower body is then fully exposed to a stranger. The partner then uses his lips to slowly move upwards from the wife's calves. The men placed their wives' arms flat above their heads, each grasping one arm. This created a sense of control and aggression, while the wives felt controlled and violated. The two men then began licking and kissing her armpits, their tongues sliding from the armpits down to her arms and ribs. This rough posture was imbued with tenderness, and the intent of rape was filled with warmth. The two men continued to caress and kiss her breasts from either side. Directly sucking on the nipples was foolish; she needed to be teased slowly to arouse a stronger desire. A simple method was to use their fingers to gently slide along the edges of her breasts while their tongues licked from her cleavage. When she began to stroke the men's heads with one hand on each side, it was precisely at this moment that she desperately needed to kiss her nipples. At this instant, the woman felt a surge of desire to conquer the men. Watching the two men, like children, kneeling on the floor and licking her nipples, this visual impact was far more ecstatic than simply enjoying the breast stimulation with her eyes closed. The above-mentioned double tongue and lip technique can also be applied to the wife's inner thighs and legs; unlike licking and kissing her upper body, this time you can use a different method, that is, two men's mouths simultaneously licking and kissing one of her legs. Most women who have had this experience find it more stimulating than simply stroking and kissing their thighs. Remove her underwear, spread her legs, and attack her clitoris; first, let her mysterious vulva naturally appear before the strange man to arouse her desire; this step should be done by her husband. After calmly completing this step, then let the strange man do the rest of the wife's work. To eliminate the wife's shyness and tension, the husband should ideally lie on top of her, holding her tightly in his arms, stroking her hair with one hand and her breasts with the other, while kissing her lips. This will give her a sense of security, and her body will naturally relax, opening the door for the strange man's attack. Licking the vulva is the most stimulating and arousing part of a threesome. It involves not only licking with the tongue but also sucking with the mouth, sucking the wife's clitoris and vaginal opening. This provides women with immense pleasure and stimulation. The best position for men: One man is below the woman in a 69 position, with pillows or blankets placed under his head and buttocks to elevate them. This position is common and won't be elaborated on here. The other man should lie flat in front of the first man, with his legs spread and resting on top of the first man's legs, his penis pressed tightly against the second man's penis. The closer the two penises are, the better. This creates a strong visual impact on the wife, and she will instinctively grasp them. It's worth noting that the husband should ideally be positioned below the wife, with the other man lying on his back facing her. Since the wife's back is to the husband, he cannot see her face, reducing psychological pressure for both men. The wife's body also blocks the view, minimizing awkwardness of them facing each other. When a wife is having sex with two men, she should avoid focusing on one penis for too long and neglecting the other. Men have strong self-esteem during sex, but can also be quite vulnerable. It's important to share fairly and treat both men equally. Even when kissing one penis, don't forget to use your other hand to caress the other man's penis. The wife can use one hand to caress and compare the two penises, or press both erect penises together and lick them simultaneously with her tongue. She can also press both glans together and hold them in her mouth, rotating her tongue around them. She can also massage both penises while sliding her tongue between them. Men don't like it when a woman intentionally spits out saliva. Even if she doesn't like the taste of a man's vaginal fluid, she can let her saliva flow naturally onto the man's penis. Because the wife is above the two penises, her mouth only needs to be slightly open for the saliva to flow naturally down to the lower part of the penis. This is both elegant and pleasing to both.
In threesomes, it's common for one man to penetrate the vagina while another penetrates the mouth. For true threesome enthusiasts, the husband can find immense satisfaction in embracing his wife, stroking her hair, watching her excited expression as another man penetrates her, and listening to her moans and groans. If she's a woman who dislikes the taste of semen and never accepts her husband ejaculating in her mouth, this is the perfect opportunity. He can ride on her chest, masturbating with his penis in her mouth. As she approaches orgasm, he can command her to open her mouth and stick out her tongue, ejaculating freely into her mouth. Rest assured, at this moment, she will be exceptionally cooperative. Even the gentlest, most virtuous, and conservative woman loses her willpower and becomes mentally confused once her vagina is penetrated and stimulated. Her mind goes blank. Normally, when a wife is performing oral sex on her husband, her mind is clearer and more rational because her vagina doesn't receive strong stimulation, allowing her to exercise self-control. Unless she also strongly enjoys sex and doesn't mind the taste of semen, it's very difficult for a wife to accept ejaculation in her mouth. If you enjoy watching strange men ejaculate into her mouth, simply switch roles. If two men ejaculate into her mouth separately, remember that they should coordinate well. Regardless of who ejaculates first, the wife's vagina should ideally be under intense impact. Two penises on one vagina is one of the most popular positions for women in threesomes. The position involves one man lying on his back, the wife on top of him, inserting his penis into her vagina, and another man inserting from behind. Alternatively, the wife can lie on her side, with the men attacking from different directions, but both penises are thrusting into the same spot. This position often allows the wife to reach multiple orgasms. There are several methods, one of which is alternating insertion. The wife takes the initiative; a slight lift of her buttocks will cause the penis beneath her to naturally withdraw, allowing the man behind her to insert from behind. A slight downward movement allows the penis to be withdrawn again, and then the man below can take over. Each thrust should ideally last less than half a minute; longer thrusting will cause one man to ejaculate, which is not ideal. However, this shouldn't be done mechanically. If a sudden, intense thrust is felt, it's a sign of impending orgasm; the thrust should be stopped, and the penis should be withdrawn to allow the other man to take over. This allows the wife to be continuously penetrated, extending the duration of intercourse and giving the man time to rest and prevent premature ejaculation, creating multiple orgasms for the wife. If your wife is also clitoral orgasm-oriented, try having one penis stimulate her clitoris while the other penis is penetrating her vagina. Stimulating the clitoris with the glans penis is often more pleasurable than manual stimulation, and might even lead to another clitoral orgasm. While the lower penis is penetrating, the upper penis can rub against her buttocks, and simultaneously stimulate her anus or playfully slap her buttocks – this can also provide intense pleasure. Your wife should cooperate closely, adjusting her position to make penetration easier. Don't flinch or pull away at the slightest pain; this is a once-in-a-lifetime experience! When her moans turn into screams, you're cheering her on. When both penises are vying to ejaculate onto her cervix, wife, ascend to heaven!
For the husband, seeing his wife's breasts and thighs caressed and kissed by other men, hearing her moaning and screaming with ecstasy beneath other men's bodies, allowing her to ecstatically enjoy the orgasms bestowed upon her by strangers; for the wife, gazing longingly at her husband nestled beside her as a strange penis thrusts and pumps wildly into her vagina until it ejaculates its wild, pungent semen deep within her, or until it withdraws, still dripping with semen, leaving her trembling vagina unsatisfied, giving her husband another round of orgasms—that… It's a feeling that's both stimulating and exciting, with a touch of bittersweetness... After two or three rounds, the wife, experiencing multiple orgasms, won't care or even be able to distinguish whether she's having sex with her husband or with a stranger. Meanwhile, for the other sexual partner, besides enjoying a series of genuine and passionate encounters, they can also experience and share the most sincere and passionate sex between you and your husband. Furthermore, a woman, completely captivated by your performance, longs for you to continue to excite her and give her more orgasms. At this point, the husband must be open-minded and allow the other man to take good care of his wife. Don't just focus on your own excitement and stimulation; ensure your invited partner feels satisfied and happy, and most importantly, make your wife joyful. The wife should also let go of her inhibitions and boldly enjoy the orgasms brought to her by her husband and the other man. After the battle, the wife should lie between the two men, placing her hands on their genitals—this is the greatest encouragement for them. If you want to continue for a few more days, then the second day will be your most exciting. Having laid the groundwork on the first day, you'll be able to talk about anything and everything on the second day, making the games even more thrilling. For example, during dinner, have your wife take off her underwear under the table. You've probably never experienced sitting with a woman who isn't wearing underwear before, have you? You can also pretend to pick something up from the floor and secretly peek under your wife's skirt. Alternatively, you can choose to have a threesome in a movie theater or a secluded place. In that case, it can only be one person at a time, and if you're worried about being seen, the two men can take turns keeping watch. You can also choose to have it in a karaoke bar. Your wife will feel like she's a prostitute, and at this time, she should let go of all inhibitions and be a real prostitute—it's a unique kind of thrill. For a woman, youth lasts only two or three decades; after forty, she loses her vitality. A man who truly cherishes a woman, whether as a husband or partner, must understand this pain. Remember, the protagonist of a threesome is the woman; it's about her enjoying life as the leading lady, not just the man's satisfaction! More importantly, both partners and the partner should view the threesome as a sexual relationship involving three people. While this relationship may not, and is not recommended to, last too long, the goal is for all three to experience pleasure, not just the release of sexual desire. A word of caution to couples trying threesomes for the first time: many things can happen, so don't expect great pleasure on your first try. If your first time was successful, congratulations! If it wasn't as good as you imagined, think back to your first sexual experience—it probably wasn't smooth sailing either. Since you've already had a first time, you should have the mindset that next time will be better and look forward to improvement.
We've discussed threesomes from various perspectives and offered our personal insights on things to keep in mind. Do you find these points acceptable? We welcome your comments and discussion.

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