How can I find a suitable spouse?

I've been involved in online dating for couples for a year now, without any success. Having read many articles about couples, I've summarized my own thoughts: Many people may feel that finding a suitable online partner is difficult, especially online. I want to share my thoughts: start by being friends. Actually, being friends is simple:
First, be honest and frank. Honesty is the most basic principle of being a person. The internet is a virtual space where everyone can present a facade. This is also true in online dating. Before knowing each other, everyone is careful to protect their own information and wants to know as much as possible about the other person. This mentality is normal, but it's precisely this mindset that makes understanding each other relatively difficult and gives a feeling of dishonesty, making it hard to trust. Therefore, you must overcome this mentality and be honest with each other. When you want to know about the other person, you might as well proactively introduce your own situation first. Some couples don't even dare to show their faces in video chat; you have to show some sincerity and courage. Normal video chat between two couples is fine; it allows them to get to know each other quickly and determine if they are suitable. If they are, they can continue to get to know each other better.
Secondly, respect and tolerance are key. Personal interests determine the type of friends one makes. Everyone has different interests and therefore different types of friends. Don't belittle others because of differing interests. Treat every friend with an open mind, whether familiar or unfamiliar, whether they agree with you or disagree with you. Be mindful of your words and actions, and understand the simple principle that respecting others is respecting yourself. It's particularly important to emphasize that many people know to respect women in a couple's friendships, but often neglect the other person—the husband. Women are the center, and men are the leaders. While respecting women, it's equally important to respect the husband's partner; this is crucial. Also, not all men can be handsome; after all, there aren't that many in reality.
Thirdly, understanding and forgiveness are essential. Sometimes, things might happen where plans are made with your spouse, but they change their minds and can't go on. Don't always blame your partner. Remember, plans can never keep up with changes. Everyone wants to avoid disrupting their original arrangements, but it's often out of necessity. True friendship between spouses isn't fleeting; it's about building long-term, stable, and trustworthy relationships. There will be many more opportunities in the future. :)
Fourth, abide by rules and regulations. Without rules, there's no order. There are principles to being friends. Understand and follow these principles: don't interfere with each other's families or work, don't casually exchange information online, and don't publicize your friendships. Be a low-key, reliable, and trustworthy partner. Safety and health are also important
considerations. That's all for now. If there's anything I've missed, feel free to bring it up for discussion.

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