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Here are some experiences and advice for couples considering dating
. First, let's talk about motivation. Some husbands explicitly told me they just wanted excitement, to satisfy their senses and curiosity. But when I asked if they had considered their wives' feelings, they couldn't say for sure; some just said they agreed, while others were still trying to persuade them. I believe the motivation for couples dating shouldn't be for the man, but for the woman. In modern society, men can find pleasure by spending money, but women can't. Therefore, our motivation and starting point should be to let our wives experience and enjoy the pleasure and excitement of group sex. Because we love them deeply, we want them to experience pleasure that other women can't have. We are arranging a fun game for our wives; the participants are playmates or toys that we husbands have found for them. Therefore, the starting point must be for the wife, not for ourselves. -
Once the motivation is clear, let's talk about finding a partner. A significant number of netizens emphasize that the other person should have good character and good looks, and I completely agree. However, one point should be clear: the choice regarding appearance should rest with the wife. In other words, the wife should be the first to choose the husband, not the other person who immediately demands to see a picture of the wife, as some netizens do. Only after the wife has chosen the husband can the husband consider whether he can accept the wife. Generally, if the wife is satisfied with the husband, the husband should, in principle, satisfy his wife's wishes, even if he is not entirely satisfied with the wife, to cater to her preferences. This is because women are relatively picky and finding a suitable partner is not easy, while men are relatively easier to find. -
Next is the communication process. Some couples only have communication between the husbands, which is far from sufficient. The wife should be encouraged to communicate with the husband. Because for a woman to accept a man, appearance alone is not enough, especially in the case of a first encounter. It's crucial that she is psychologically ready. Online communication is a process of heart-to-heart communication. Only when the wife is psychologically prepared can she truly experience physical release. Moreover, online communication truly reflects one's character. This point is very important! - Next,
let's talk about persuading the wife. Many husbands have asked me to help persuade their wives, and I've agreed. Indeed, almost all of them have been convinced. What's the secret? It's not mysterious at all. The prerequisite is that you must be a truly loving couple. You need to assure your wife that you love her, that you want to try this game for her sake, and that it won't affect your relationship; on the contrary, it will deepen your bond. -
Finally, let's talk about how to try it for the first time. First, it's not advisable to participate in group activities, because there are many situations you can't control. Plus, it's your first time, so you'll naturally feel uneasy, making it impossible to fully enjoy the experience. If your wife has a bad experience, she shouldn't play again. The first time is usually two couples, ideally with one man your wife likes participating in a threesome. Some readers might not understand why a threesome is recommended for couples seeking companionship. There's a reason for this. A wife's psychology will be more complex for the first time. The key to success is to immerse her fully in the atmosphere of desire, so it's important to let her focus on enjoying the pleasure. However, if two couples play together, it might objectively make her concerned about how her husband performs with other women, especially when she sees the other woman experiencing multiple orgasms under her husband. This would naturally arouse jealousy, causing her own sexual desire to vanish completely. That would be disastrous; such a failure would be devastating. Not only would she be unable to play again, but it could also leave a psychological scar. Threesomes objectively prevent this from happening. Once she experiences pleasure from such a game, even if she plays foursomes next time, she will look forward to experiencing that physical pleasure again and won't pay too much attention to her husband's performance. Choosing a partner for a threesome is also important. Never choose a boy who is too young, because young boys don't have much experience with foreplay and don't know how to be considerate of the woman and gently guide her to orgasm. Because of their good stamina, they might be eager to penetrate directly, which won't allow the woman to experience physical and psychological pleasure. Therefore, when choosing partners for a three-person game, it's best to select male friends of similar or even slightly older age. This will likely make the wife feel more secure and comfortable. As for a four-person game, I must remind you that the first time you play, it's best to avoid the swapping and separating format, as this will make the wife feel insecure. It should be two couples playing together, and at the beginning, the husband should hold his wife's hand tightly, kiss her frequently, and encourage her with encouraging eye contact, showing her that he loves her. This will give her the courage to continue playing. -
The above is based on my experience and is only for couples who are interested in trying it. Wishing everyone happiness and fulfillment! -
How to find like-minded friends. If you are fortunate enough to find such friends, you should prepare to meet them. However, because it's the first meeting, many friends are often nervous and at a loss. So, here are my simple thoughts.
First, what kind of mindset should you have?
I think those friends who are used to fast food might place too much hope on a first meeting, thinking that no matter what, they have to go through the whole process today, they have to experience it, otherwise their excitement and anticipation will be hard to dispel... In fact, the more they think like this, the less they get to the point, and in the end, they may bring themselves a lot of psychological burden, leading to mood swings, restlessness and unease. For example, one person might feel that they are not really looking forward to it, while the other person is too enthusiastic about it, and feel a little unbalanced; or both people might start to worry about many things for no reason and back out together; or the two people might be in sync, but one wants to go and the other doesn't... There are also those who cancel halfway through... Even worse, they only realize that it is really not suitable after meeting, but they have no excuse or reason to leave... Should they blindly go through the process and make themselves feel wronged? Or should they make up a false reason to leave and leave the hurt to the other person? ... These things, sometimes, don't mean that you are not sincere, but that you have too many concerns, you scare yourself away, or you make yourself look bad.
The first meeting is actually quite simple. I think it's just about getting acquainted, having a meal, a cup of tea, and chatting casually—that's good enough. Don't assume that a meal or tea with the intention of making friends is bland. In fact, it's a preliminary, subtle exploration, a build-up of emotions before formally becoming friends. Because everyone's implicit purpose is the same, the topics can be open and free. If the conversation goes well, it will ferment like a fermenting process, making later interactions more flavorful and passionate.
If, unfortunately, the two sides don't get along, or the other person isn't your type, the meal or tea becomes a gentle buffer, allowing everyone to politely say goodbye without seeming abrupt, leaving room for each other.
Secondly, what kind of preparation should be made?
Psychologically speaking, once you've decided to meet, be firm. Don't waver, don't worry excessively. Just imagine you're meeting an old friend you haven't seen in years—naturally and generously have a meal and a cup of tea. Once the belief is firm, the couple can share some anticipation and excitement for the meeting, making it a little secret and a source of joy to share. It's essential to have a thorough understanding and trust in each other's psychology before the meeting, so that you are an inseparable whole from the start.
Next, some external preparation is necessary. Simply put, make sure you look your best, clean and refreshed. Women can be as charming and radiant as possible; in short, equip yourself according to your own aesthetic sense and your partner's, so that you make a captivating first impression. For example, women should wear light makeup, perfume, and beautiful clothes… and, just in case, prepare some sexy lingerie, etc. Men should, of course, have clean fingernails, shave, and get enough sleep to be refreshed.
Finally, it's important to have a clear direction for the conversation during the meeting, such as each other's interests, the weather, current events, and even casual topics. Know how to transition naturally, make appropriate jokes, and respect and defer to each other in conversation, ensuring a pleasant and lively discussion. If permissible, even a little vanity is beneficial.
Some thoughtful friends will prepare small gifts for their first meeting. I personally approve of this; it shows respect and affection, and if the gift is appropriate, it will leave a very good impression. For example, for women, flowers, small accessories (hair clips, brooches, lipstick, perfume, etc.), scarves, chocolates, underwear, books, CDs, etc., and for men, tie clips, books, CDs, or a movie from their computer. In short, such a meeting is warm and touching, truly giving one the feeling of a friendship gained from heaven. Of
course, we also need to consider the possibility of four people falling in love at first sight, so those staying overnight should bring their own toiletries, pajamas, razors, and condoms. If staying at someone's home, the host should ideally prepare clean pajamas, a toothbrush, and disposable underwear. These small details can deepen the friendship and make the interaction more warm. You have to admit, people are often moved by small things.
If you're not careful enough, or if you haven't prepared thoroughly enough, be sure to communicate with the other party and express your apologies appropriately. This will leave a good impression.
A brief discussion of the wife in the game... I hope this will be helpful for those making friends for the first time! Actually, the wife's role is particularly important in a three-person game. She is the catalyst that smooths out the conflict between the husband and the single man, and the key role that guides the game to its peak! The entry point to the game isn't as difficult as some players have described; perhaps the author used exaggerated language to highlight the inner struggle! I'll briefly introduce some perfect anecdotes, hehe, all based on my experiences interviewing several couples after strenuous physical labor, including my painstaking work on how to successfully become a supporting character! I hope this will be helpful to everyone. Below, I will refer to the passionate intimacy between you, me, and her as the game; I hope you'll forgive me! As long as you put yourself in each other's shoes, this game will elevate both parties to an unprecedented level of true spiritual and physical possession. (Note: One sentence uses exaggeration; this is for illustrative purposes only!) First, let's discuss the roles of husband and wife. The wife plays a crucial role in the game, determining whether it ends perfectly or poorly. Why? Because she is the female protagonist, caught between the love and responsibility of her husband and the tantalizing anticipation of passion. Typically, the female protagonist is concerned with subtle changes in the male lead, leading to anxieties about the future and potential pitfalls that could cause the game to fail. An exclusive interview with one of the female protagonists revealed her true feelings beforehand. Before the act even began, she struggled with the choice between morality and love, as whispered words in bed evoked her emotions. Experiencing three couples, their reasons for entering the game were largely similar: initial curiosity and compliance, followed by repeated acceptance and rejection, ultimately leading to a silent sacrifice for love amidst worry. Through constant trials, their helplessness transformed into anticipation. I wonder if all the wives who experienced this followed this predictable path? However, all of this is thanks to the male protagonists who were willing to sacrifice their lives for the revolution. Hehe, I'm fortunate to have played a supporting role three times and the lead role twice. I hope my experience as a single man can be helpful to single men and couples in the village!
Firstly, before a couple has found a suitable second male lead, they can start preparing and experimenting with the game. Couples can create some virtual game scripts in bed, such as blindfolding the wife and letting her follow an original story written by the husband into a space of fantasy. The husband can change some of his habitual actions and even his pronunciation. As the plot unfolds, the husband can directly observe his wife's arousal points, and also outline the qualities your second male lead needs to possess. Actually, women tend to be reserved in front of their husbands, keeping their true sexual fantasies private. Hehe, some have a slight father complex, some have a slight sense of being {-blocked-|-|-|-}… Of course, I won't tell you these things, I hope the husband… If you can appreciate a side of your wife that she hasn't shown before, you've already succeeded halfway. Anyway, getting back to the point, the appearance of the second male lead and his seduction of your wife depends entirely on her character. This also lays the groundwork for the second male lead's successful entry into the game later… Once the husband has figured out his wife's preferences, he can expand the scope of the game, going to bars, hallways, etc., to experience different scenarios where the second male lead enters. I believe that at this point, the husband's perception of his wife will have changed significantly, and mutual trust will increase, laying the necessary foundation and guarantee for the perfect ending of the game.
The husband will also have a general idea of the type of second male lead his wife desires, thus preventing his wife from constantly rejecting or hiding his choices when choosing a single man. After communicating online, you must have found someone your wife likes. At this point, the husband shouldn't be impatient. He needs to wait until his wife is charming and alluring to the second male lead before he can have any real contact with him. Of course, you should tell the second male lead about your wife's preferences and what contributions you hope he will make in the game. The second male lead also needs to make some requests of you as a couple. This will make the single man cherish and care for his wife. Ideal venues for the first game are hotel suites, villas in scenic areas, or private rooms (overnight) in small bars. Many small bars are happy to do business with these. Hehe.
Once inside, it's not recommended for the single man to be alone with his wife, as it doesn't necessarily help with safety or atmosphere. It's suggested that the husband spend time with his wife to ease her tension. If she agrees, they can also use some stimulant drugs. Hehe. This is entirely up to both of them, but they must communicate beforehand. It's suggested that the male lead, under the guise of tender whispers, use a blindfold or similar device to cover the female lead's eyes, slowly guiding her into the game she usually imagines... Once the wife is fully immersed in the role, have the second male lead silently admire her from the sidelines, switching roles between the male lead and the second male lead on her sensitive areas... Hehe, a successful switch will be so seamless that even the wife won't realize her privacy has been transferred to a stranger of the opposite sex. The appearance of the second male lead in the story is also the moment of his debut in the game. This transition must be as if the male leads agreed upon beforehand, with the timing and intensity perfectly synchronized. If well-prepared, even the female lead won't realize when the role of caressing her has changed (successfully with both couples!)... The male lead silently endures the most agonizing moment... Watching the transfer of power unfold, the second male lead is now the key to your fate! I strongly suggest you read this carefully, I strongly suggest it!!! The second male lead's possessiveness will swell, adjusting his psychological and physical excitement!!! Be careful that your yearning for passion might be misinterpreted by the male lead as selfish and aggressive. Hehe, then you'll be the dawn before darkness. If bad luck strikes, you might be completely oblivious to the fact that under the eaves of your suite, there's a dazzling Big Dipper. If you sweep past incense sticks on your way out, you'll hear Ge You's magnetic deep voice: "The boss is very angry, the situation is very serious..." Haha, the above is purely fictional. If there are any resemblances, please immediately stand up! Attention! Salute! Shout out firmly: "Serve the people...!" Goodbye!! Go back quickly! You must treat the female lead like a beloved woman, fully presenting yourself within the male lead's sight. Show him through your actions that the one he loves is being cared for and loved, thus giving him some inner balance. Your gentleness will be richly rewarded. Believe me, it's true!! Looking around, it's likely that while the female protagonist completely entrusts her privacy to her husband, she also harbors a subtle, anxious anticipation of being swallowed up by strangers. If she knew she was completely exposed to her desired man, she would undoubtedly display a hesitant and conflicted demeanor. If the second male lead were to fully unleash his aphrodisiac provocations, the female protagonist would likely willingly succumb to the familiar, once-familiar, intimacy of their marital bedroom games. Meanwhile, the male lead, hidden in the darkness, would, with the female protagonist's slow, rhythmic responses and yearning moans… obtain his… The true essence of this lingering game lies in the female protagonist's familiar desire to touch the opposite sex's body and her babbling, dreamlike praises. I believe the male protagonist will quickly drift into the past, excited fantasies. I believe he will also be happy to emulate the female protagonist in the original work that brought them to climax, searching for that most beautiful moment from countless fantasies. During this time, the female protagonist will experience her first unrestrained physical and psychological release under the wanton teasing of the two male protagonists... In fact, at this point, the game has only just entered the eve of battle.
After the female protagonist experiences her first blissful sexual encounter amidst the whispered teasing of the male protagonists, it's hoped that the second male lead will quietly retreat to another room to savor the moment. Many viewers might wonder why he doesn't strike while the iron is hot. Well, consider this: men might experience a temporary aversion to sex after their first encounter, and women might have similar feelings, it's just a matter of whether they express them or not! Furthermore, because the female protagonist might experience anxiety before the real-life game after her first sexual experience, it's hoped that the second male lead will fully respect the nature of the game and understand the meaning of marriage, consciously avoiding further contact and waiting for the couple's second call, or ending the encounter altogether (if the second male lead has played his role well, there's an 80% chance he'll get his way; otherwise, it means the female protagonist wasn't prepared beforehand, and he'll be their next choice, haha, after all, he's an individual to the couple)...
At this point, the male lead in the master bedroom should considerately acknowledge his wife's performance and appreciate and recognize the care shown by the second male lead, thus dispelling any remaining concerns (a husband who truly loves his wife will never hesitate to reconsider later). (Permanent shadows remain in his life)... He expresses his understanding and approval of the game to his wife, appropriately adding details of her perfect performance and his own mindset at the time (don't forget to acknowledge the second male lead's efforts, so that his wife can accept him and affirm his dedication). After a brief exchange, his wife decides whether to continue...
The game's prelude truly begins. The first male lead can refer to the previous scenes as a script to rekindle his wife's desire. The second male lead, like before, enters the role... He can only enter the female lead's body after receiving the first male lead's eye permission. After the second male lead is successfully seated, it is hoped that the men will adhere to the spirit of: less talk, more action! Directly feel the female lead's released passion and compliance. During these two trials, the second male lead should avoid verbal teasing and disrupting the game's rhythm... He should follow the couple's pace and use physical teasing as the driving force of the game. Don't ask the female protagonist to do things you like. This is to lay the foundation for you to fully appreciate the crazy experiences she brings you later...
This article only expresses my own experience and feelings after reading it with three sincere couples. I hope that more couples and single men can enjoy the true meaning and passion of the game! The above describes a method that I believe can prevent couples and single men from losing the game due to their wives. This is only my personal opinion, and I hope those who disagree will understand... I advise again: Single men, put yourselves in the shoes of the couples and don't contact your wives privately. Hehe, this is a sign of arrogance and an inevitable reason for your elimination from the game... To reiterate: you have to give to receive; there is no free lunch... I hope couples and single men can achieve a qualitative leap in both physiology and psychology!

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