Forwarding "The Various Connections at No. 69 Middle School" for mutual encouragement

Don't laugh at the authenticity of couples, nor at the quality of single men and women. Anyone who has the courage to "hang out" in 69, anyone who has made up their mind to play this game, is someone who is open-minded and magnanimous in life, and likely has a unique and profound understanding of marital affection and romantic love. Because not everyone has the courage to play this game. While some may fantasize, the majority genuinely want to play. Regarding the selection of partners, I advise everyone not to be too picky. Don't focus too much on appearance. Of course, handsome men and beautiful women are pleasing to the eye, but they might just be all show and no substance! The most important thing in making friends is a person's character and qualities. Don't care too much about whether someone is ordinary or beautiful, don't care about height or weight. If you want someone tall, Little Giant isn't in 69; if you want someone short, Wu Zhi is long gone. Ye Giant might not be your type, and Wu Dasao is the infamous Jinlian. Even if Jinlian were alive today, aside from Ximen Qing, you and I might not have the chance to get close to her. These are not unrealistic fantasies.
Couples making friends should primarily focus on intellectual exchange and daring to try new things. When minds are aligned, both partners have a common starting point, can talk about things together, and can achieve the same goals. Ultimately, it all comes down to "fate"! True lovers will eventually become "couples," even without physical intimacy; those not destined to be together will never meet. As Uncle Benshan famously said, "Love is the foundation of a lifetime!" So, what kind of fate should couples have in their friendships?
First, there's the fate of meeting. In this vast sea of people, among 1.36 billion individuals, for us to meet on this platform is a tremendous stroke of luck. If we can get to know each other and become "ultimate friends," then it's truly the best opportunity bestowed by heaven!
Second, there's the attraction of first impressions and compatibility. Fate brings us together, and after meeting, we exchange photos or meet in person to confirm our acquaintance. This comes down to first impressions. Don't expect men to be incredibly handsome or women to be stunning. As long as they're healthy, neatly dressed, and speak appropriately, that's fine. There's no Andy Lau or Liu Yifei here. Just find someone pleasing to the eye, someone who doesn't annoy or dislike you. This is a game, not a dating show. Once you have first impressions, the next step is to see if you click. For example, can you talk to each other, find common ground, and be genuine with one another? Compatibility is the best test of fate. Even if you meet by chance, whether you can
develop a lasting relationship depends mainly on compatibility. Thirdly, there's popularity. Having both first impressions and compatibility, the next step is building relationships. In a large social circle, cultivating good relationships is crucial for success. Actually, in 69, good relationships are easy to achieve: be genuine, interact sincerely, and act consistently. Before meeting, everyone's image and qualities are a blank slate to the other person. Only through genuine identity and sincere interactions can you prove your popularity. As the saying goes, bad news travels fast, but good news doesn't. If you do something bad, it will spread like wildfire overnight, and you won't be able to make friends in the entertainment industry anymore. What will the chickens think of you? What will the ducks think of you? What will the geese think of you? How will you survive in the "arts and culture world" after that?
Fourth is romantic affinity. You need opportunity, attraction, compatibility, and popularity, but you still need romantic affinity. To put it bluntly, spouses and friends need to see if they have this romantic affinity for each other. Perhaps both are satisfied with each other, but they don't have that primal desire for the opposite sex. They can become close friends who can talk about anything, intimate confidants, but there's no desire—that's a typical sign of no romantic affinity.
Fifth is simply lack of affinity! You finally meet someone you both like, but due to distance or time constraints, there are always many unfortunate events that prevent you from being together. Over time, if even one person wavers, all opportunities, initial attraction, compatibility, and good relationships vanish. Frankly speaking, a crucial factor determining success or failure in a relationship between spouses is distance! Examples like this abound in 69, it's truly regrettable. Don't deny it, distance is indeed a significant obstacle!

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