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I once saw a friend's question about masturbation and gave a brief reply. I didn't expect so many replies and questions, so today I'll talk about this issue based on my experience. I hope you like it. Also, if you want to repost this, please indicate the source, thank you.
Actually, I've always believed that masturbation isn't just a gay man's prerogative; it can also be a spice in regular sex. Although it may not be suitable for everyone, if you want to find something completely different from ordinary sexual pleasure, then you might as well give it a try.
We often admire those who are the first to try something new, but you should know that masturbation isn't anything new, so you don't need to be surprised. ^_^
Actually, there are many nerve endings distributed around the anus. It might be very painful the first time you try it, but as long as you learn to relax and enjoy it, you can gradually experience the pleasure. For men, the feeling of being enveloped by the sphincter muscles and the psychological sense of conquest that comes with sex is what fascinates them (maybe I'm not entirely accurate, feel free to criticize, ^_^).
I think a good mindset is very important for first-timers. Don't be impatient or eager for quick results. If you leave a bad impression on your partner on the first try, it will be much harder to persuade her later, ^_^. So, the first preparation is to relax. Both of you need to relax. You can take a hot bath, like a sitz bath, letting your anus soak in the hot water. Don't think it's based on thermal expansion and contraction, haha, just to relax the nerve endings in your anus. You also need to show your partner some care and make her feel relaxed too.
I always think enemas are necessary because I've always done them, and I don't like seeing dirty things. Some friends say that enemas are too complicated to do so many times, but if you want to experience real, pleasurable anal pleasure, this effort is worthwhile. Otherwise, you shouldn't do it; that would be irresponsible. Actually, enemas themselves are quite interesting; it all depends on whether you know how. For women, the pressure of the liquid on the rectum, which in turn compresses the cervix, and the feeling of being hollowed out the moment the water sprays out, is a unique experience—at least that's how it is for me.
I explained the enema method quite a bit when I replied to that friend last time. I don't know about China, but I think enema kits are sold in pharmacies. Anyway, they're plentiful in sex shops where I live. Actually, a large syringe will suffice. If that doesn't work, you can try your shower head. Shower heads usually have a hose attached, right? Take the shower head off, but don't rush to shove the hose in haphazardly. You still need to attach a hollow plastic nozzle with a fine tip, otherwise your girlfriend won't let you in, don't blame me! ^_^ Actually, I've seen those long jelly sticks for children to suck on in supermarkets, those are pretty good. After the jelly is finished, the plastic tube is perfect for use. ^_^ I tried it when I was in China; my boyfriend came up with the idea.
I won't go into too much detail about enemas. If you have any questions, just let me know. ^_^ As for the number of times, some people say 10 is too many, but I think it's more appropriate. It ultimately depends on you. I'm just sharing my experience.
After you've finished filling her up, it's time for the important part! As I said, don't rush in. You should start with a fully lubricated finger, slowly rotating it around her anus before gradually inserting it. Don't force it in. If your partner feels uncomfortable, stop immediately. Use more lubricant, because the stimulation from just one finger is already quite intense. Also, be communicative; don't just sit there silently. As I mentioned before, don't use oil-based lubricants; use water-based ones. These should be available at sex shops. Alternatively, Johnson & Johnson is a good option. Some people suggest using saliva, but can you produce that much saliva? You're not a hippopotamus, ^_^. Besides, saliva dries quickly, making it sticky and harder to penetrate—not ideal. It's only a temporary solution.
Also, please note that you shouldn't wear rings or similar items, and your nails should be filed down, as the rectum is very sensitive.
After inserting your fingers, I suggest you make circular motions or shake them gently to explore further. However, the movements should be very gentle. At this point, your partner may feel the urge to urinate, but because of the enema, this is just a feeling. This feeling can actually bring her shame and indignation, as if she can't control her urination. Every time I experience this feeling, I feel very... If she is comfortable, you can try inserting two fingers, but this requires more patience and more lubrication. Do not blindly insert more fingers. I think two fingers are enough, as they are roughly the same width as the penis. Don't let your other hand be idle either; you can touch other sensitive areas of your partner.
When she is comfortable with two fingers, you can proceed to the most important step. However, I still suggest that you use a condom if you are inexperienced.
When inserting, go in gradually and slowly, stopping after a little bit to see her reaction. If she is comfortable, continue. Don't just thrust around randomly. Start with small movements and gradually increase the intensity. As for what happens next, I don't need to tell you, right? ^_^ Actually, the pleasure that sex brings to women mainly comes from two aspects. One is the psychological feeling of being conquered, as if completely surrendering to the male partner, and the other is the psychological shock brought about by a perverse, unusual behavior. The other aspect is physiological, which is actually like what I just said, a pleasure similar to excretion (but different from normal excretion), completely different from the pleasure of ordinary sex (to put it bluntly, because some friends asked me what it feels like, I'll be honest, I feel very shy now).
In addition, I think an important point for women is the exercise of the sphincter muscles. Some friends worry that doing too much sex might have side effects on their anus. Actually, just doing sphincter exercises is fine. Basically, it's Kegel exercises. I practice for about half an hour every day. You don't need to set aside specific time; you can do it while watching TV, resting, or even working. This way, there won't be any problems. You don't need to worry about your anus getting bigger; in fact, it will become stronger. My boyfriend says that every time I tighten my sphincter, he feels like it's going to snap in two, and he can't stand it for long.

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