To match one's own state of mind

Many people participate in dating forums, and I'm just one of many single men. Although I've been married for many years and my relationship with my wife is quite good, she's a bit old-fashioned, and dating is completely incomprehensible to her. I, however, want to try new things, so I remain single.
When I first joined the forum, I was envious and longing for the stories posted by those who had successfully found partners. Seeing the complaints of disappointed single men made me feel hopeless. I thought about myself—not handsome enough, not particularly charming, and while my height and appearance were acceptable, I certainly wasn't outstanding. Therefore, I didn't have high hopes at first. Every day, I filtered through numerous dating profiles, avoiding those with overly attractive or high-profile appearances. I only tried messaging couples who explicitly accepted single men and didn't have many requirements, briefly explaining my situation and thoughts. I searched and looked around for over ten days without any response. Just when I was about to give up, couples started adding me on QQ. Some were around my age, while others were ten years older. Luckily, the first few friends I met were very sincere, and many became old friends. My first "threesome" was with one of these couples. The initial conversations were quite nerve-wracking. I didn't know what to talk about. I wanted to introduce myself clearly, but I was worried about revealing too much personal information. I was too protective of myself, and I worried that the other person wouldn't understand. Fortunately, this was only temporary. Through repeated interactions, I gradually found my style of making friends: no exaggeration, no boasting, no hiding anything. Without affecting my family or normal life, I try to be as honest as possible. I speak about the good things in a normal way, and I address the bad things early on. I never make promises I can't keep, and I try to let others know the truth. I believe this is part of what people often call sincerity. Later, I added more couples to my contacts. Some became friends, while others I only chatted with a few times. I also encountered a few unpleasant situations. Some were arrogant and condescending, while others, after learning about my situation, were dismissive and sarcastic. I believe every single guy has encountered these, but they are rare. There's no need to get too angry if you do. Everyone has their own way of behaving; if it's not a good fit, just don't associate with them.
Through a period of communication, I also discovered that these couples I got along with were pretty much like me: they had ordinary jobs, conventional families, and lived mundane lives. They hoped to add some freshness and excitement to their lives, but without affecting their families. I guess that's what they mean by birds of a feather flocking together; only people with similar ideas come together. I also started talking to a couple who were a few years older than me and had dating experience. Since they both had to work and weren't always free, after several attempts, we finally managed to meet up on a weekend afternoon. Because of the limited time and the fact that we had already gotten to know each other well online, we didn't schedule any time for pre-meeting communication and just met at the hotel that evening. Although we had chatted online for a long time and seen each other's photos, I still felt a bit of unfamiliarity and nervousness when my brother and sister-in-law entered the room. Even though it wasn't their first time, I could tell that my sister-in-law was also very nervous. I chatted with my brother for a while, but my sister-in-law was too shy to speak. She had worked during the day and looked a bit tired, so I offered to give her a massage to help her relax. My sister-in-law was lying on the bed in her work clothes from the daytime. I massaged her head, shoulders, back, and limbs. Gradually, she relaxed and started chatting with me. I took the opportunity to suggest that it was difficult to massage her while she was wearing a coat, so I helped her take it off, leaving her only in her undershirt. As the massage continued, I gradually shifted my focus to her thighs and buttocks, then slowly moved to the inner thighs. During the back-and-forth pressure, I intentionally or unintentionally touched her sensitive areas. Even through her undershirt and underwear, I could feel her increasingly hot body. Finally, when I felt it was about right, I gently turned her over, and her hand reached towards my crotch... The rest of the experience was similar to most of my friends'. We showered together, had fun in bed together, and the older brother said he wanted his wife to enjoy herself, so he asked me to put in more effort. While we were having sex, he licked her nipples and caressed her body. When I rested, he continued. For over two hours, he basically didn't let his sister-in-law rest. Finally, the usually reserved sister-in-law's soft moans turned into loud cries; she was fully satisfied. Our first threesome ended very successfully.
A few months later, we met again. Besides having fun together, we also had a meal and talked a lot face-to-face. I gained a deeper understanding of them. They love life and family, work hard for a living, and also feel empty and lost, just like most of my ordinary relatives, friends, and colleagues. I feel very lucky to know them. Now I enjoy communicating with couples I know and love. From meeting to getting to know each other, from familiarity to acceptance, from spiritual connection to physical intimacy, the satisfaction from this process is no less than the final physical satisfaction. I've met quite a few couples this year; two have met in person, and two others are waiting for the right opportunity. I'm not as eager to meet as I used to be. Chatting with friends when we have free time and exchanging greetings feels wonderful.
I believe in fate in friendships; I let things happen naturally. When I meet new friends, I simply introduce myself and provide a photo. Those who like me will naturally get to know me better, and those who don't will express it indirectly. I won't pester them. More and more couples are now accepting friendships. As long as I'm sincere and patient, and treat people with honesty, kindred spirits will surely come to me.

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