Can we be lovers forever?

There is a kind of couple: they each have their own families, their relationship is that of lovers. They have gone through many separations and reunions, but in the end, they still can't bear to part. Neither of them wants to break up their own families, and each only feels a faint familial affection for their spouse. What they miss most are their children. They haven't reached the point where they can't live together, but they met, fell in love, and got to know each other, making it even harder to let go. Yet, they can't give each other their whole world. This heavy contradiction makes them silent. What is love in this world? Why must it make people pledge their lives to each other, must they possess each other, must it last forever?
Is it because they can't possess each other that such an unbreakable bond arises? (Whether it's forever or just a past relationship, it's all in their hearts. Being together for life is one kind of forever, but being apart yet thinking of each other is another kind of forever.) In the end, this is their shared thought: they will bury this feeling deep in their hearts, and as long as they don't get tired, abandon, or tire of each other, let this feeling accompany them forever, and continue on their journey together.
From then on, they resolved their inner conflicts and lived a life of mutual longing and concern, feeling at peace and fulfilled.
I was stunned and bewildered; it felt like a fairy tale. I wondered if such eternal lovers could exist? If such a beautiful relationship could exist without disrupting their respective families, then I wish them a long and beautiful journey together, forever.
Do you have a lover? You might say, finding a lover is too easy. Actually, you're wrong. A lover isn't just someone you have mutual attraction to and have slept with, as many people imagine. "Lover" is a beautiful word; it's pure, graceful, elegant, and enduring. It's a feeling that walks the line between friend, confidante, and lover—more romantic than a lover, more intimate than a friend, and more physically intimate than a confidante.
Friendships are based on mutual trust, lovers on mutual tolerance, confidantes on mutual appreciation, and a lover is the natural result of all these factors combined. It may stem from the trust of a friend, then the appreciation of a confidante, and finally, an irresistible attraction born of deep affection. This can be called a lover, but not yet a lover in the true sense. A true lover is the beauty created by distance, the longing that comes with being close yet distant, the secret joy shared with no one else, the only one besides one's spouse, the ultimate embellishment. A lover will never disrupt each other's lives, nor will they stray halfway; a vow is enough to wait a lifetime.
The beauty of a lover lies in the fact that it is an extramarital affair. A lover is not yours alone; they have their own life and work, their own friends, their own places to go. You cannot expect them to be by your side every day. One rendezvous is enough to savor for a long time. Another rendezvous is just an indefinite wait. Isn't there a saying about the "three-year itch" and the "seven-year itch" in marriage? Emotionally sensitive people feel that once marriage has passed its "freshness," it's like touching your left hand with your right. Even the freshest lychee, no matter how delicious, will lose its flavor if you eat it every day. As the saying goes, "One who lives in a room full of orchids no longer notices their fragrance." A lover, on the other hand, is like a peach blossom in full bloom in April—it only blooms for a season. Whether you appreciate it or not, it will wither on schedule, and you'll have to wait until next year to see it again.
Love is a natural consequence of marriage; the feelings between lovers cannot be called love. To call it love would be to desecrate marriage. The feelings between lovers are like fireworks—beautiful because they are fleeting.
Lover; what a beautiful word! A life with such a lover would surely be fulfilling.
But if one does have one: how long can one remain a lover?

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